Rule Your Mind

Make it Happen

Client

I went through your website and found the following things useful in my life.

Studies well

Whenever my son doesn’t study well, I simply chant “FIND WHY Akil studies better these days”.

Invariably, he finds excuses to study, yes excuses. I don’t care as long he studies, with or without complaints.

Being happy

After consulting you, I chant “FIND WHY <my spouse name> is happy”.

Somehow, things turn out to be well between us.

Either, I do something that makes him happy or he does something which is a happy thing for him. In the end, both of us are happy.

I also say the same thing, “FIND WHY <my name> is happy”.

I start doing things that makes me happy – simple things like going to a movie, somehow finding time to read and finish a novel, and so on.

Healthy by all means

I worry about my health a lot.

I chant “FIND WHY <my name> is hale and healthy”.

I realize that I have started doing things healthy and avoiding things that are not good for me.

Naran

How does this work?

One part of us knows how to be happy and how to make things happen. We activate that part by these chants and affirmation.

How to create the affirmation?

Start it with the words “FIND WHY” and then fill it up with anything you want – as though it has happened, which can be in English or any language of your choice.

For example, when you want your servant to come regularly for work, you can do any of the following two:

Chant “FIND WHY my servant comes for work regularly”

Or say “FIND WHY <in your language why she comes for work regularly>”

You Will Be Greeted With Love

Naran

Visualize all are talking with you in love and kindness.

Visualize everyone you meet and greet you with love.

Before attending a wedding (or any function), visualize all the people in the marriage hall greeting you with love and talking to you with loving words.

Affirm, “Divine Love Manifests in My Life” – from ‘I love myself’ CD

Related Posts

Love follows without fail: https://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/2012/12/10/love-follows-without-fail/

Relationship with Your Parents = Relationship with Others: https://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/07/30/relationship-with-your-parents-relationship-with-others/

Create Good Fortune and Luck

Naran

Preparation Steps

Think what fortune means for you.

Let us first find out the meaning of fortune. Now close your eyes and give a command to your mind like, “What is color of fortune?”

Whichever color strikes your mind then that is the color of your fortune.

Now draw a circle in a paper. Color it with whatever color you have found out to be your color of fortune.

Paste that paper on the wall in line with your eyes.

Mentally visualize the following steps

  1. Your Hara Centre (chakra) creates all your luck, fortune etc. Visualize a tube of your fortune color from your Hara Centre and touching the paper pasted on the wall.
  2. From the paper, the same color tube extends itself to touch your Heart Centre.
  3. From the Heart Centre to the Hara Centre another tube is present.
  4. By this you are forming a triangle.
  5. Meditate on this triangle for some time.

If you do this regularly, you will get good fortune and luck. Whatever luck comes from the Divine, let it come.

Affirm regularly, “Divine Love Creates Good Fortune” – from ‘I Love Myself’ CD

Related Posts

Change your misfortune: https://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2009/07/25/change-your-misfortune/

Debts, many thanks to you: https://abundancein.wordpress.com/2013/09/14/debts-many-thanks-for-leaving-me-alone/

Release the Enemy Within

R Mohan

Whenever I find any overwhelming emotions in the form of anger or hurt, I find saying the switch words, “TOGETHER BOW CONCEDE ADJUST FORGIVE PRAISE THANKS” very useful.

If I simply look at the feeling and say those words, the emotions simply vanish away.

Naran

Look at the emotions and say, “I release that part of my mind that is angry. I activate that part of mind that forgives”.

Another example is, “I release that part of me that vomits. I activate that part of mind that stops vomiting”.

You can also do this with whomever you are having problems.

For example, “I release the part which is resisting being harmonious with. I activate the part that brings in harmony, peace and love with so and so”.

This way you can do for any aspect of life. The reason it works is, we have several parts operating– each part taking us in a different direction.

The moment we become aware of it, the healing happens faster.

R Mohan

After employing the technique for a while, one thing I notice however is a sense of fear.

Naran

When one skin (emotion) is peeled off, another skin (another emotion) appears. Affirm, “I align the fearing mind with my fearless consciousness”.

Post-Script (R Mohan)

While I was getting help from Naran (for my anger), during the same time, I provided the same suggestions to M (for her hurt): http://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/2013/07/28/entwined-in-love/#comment-2057

Naran says that we come across people with the same problems as we are facing then.

So, we should not worry whether we are providing right solutions to them or not as our solutions apply to them as well.

Why and How to Release Emotions and Expectations

Based on discussion with Naran

Financial worries and other such stuff takes up our mind. So we become a 24/7 worrier. Our energy stuck up in our heads and faces.

The Switch Word CANCEL removes this thought pattern, just like the Bach Flower Remedy WHITE CHESTNUT or better WWC (WHITE CHESTNUT, WALNUT and CRAB APPLE).

When you RELEASE or CANCEL the thought pattern associated with our goal and desires, then the desire manifests for the good of everybody concerned in the manner you require.

We need to RELEASE our past – the unwanted luggage that we are carrying.

We had to RELEASE our anger against others and the associated expectations about them.

Let us say you are about to leave for an opportunity abroad. Immediately your mind starts dreaming, expecting things and making lots of plans. Thus, you go into a CLEMATIS state.

This interferes with the flow of things, stopping them happening in the right way, and sometimes disrupting the situation.

Therefore, we have to RELEASE our dreams and expectations.

If we take (Bach Flower Remedy) CLEMATIS, we stay in here and now, enjoying the present. This helps us to handle the future better.

Related Posts

Double Bubble: http://marriagemantri.wordpress.com/2013/10/31/double-bubble/

Faith can RELEASE Mountains: http://healyourpastlife.wordpress.com/2013/08/03/faith-can-release-mountains/

Do you know why she doesn’t appreciate?

Patient: My wife loves me a lot. She is a very considerate person. At the same time, when it comes to my way of doing, she is highly intolerant. Surprisingly, she tolerates others’ mistakes to a greater extent – this includes my parent’s actions too.

Naran

One part of her is tolerant, while the other part of her is intolerant – especially to you. It shows, somehow you trigger the other – unwanted part in her.

Do you have a similar behavior in yourself?

Patient: Yeah! In general, I always tend to correct the way of others and not just one person. I believe everything has to be done correctly, with the right people, and at the right time.

Naran

I will teach you a simple method here.  

Affirm as many times as possible:

 “I RELEASE the PART of ME that is criticized by me”. 

“I OPEN ALIGN WITH the PART of ME that evokes her tolerance to PRAISE me”.

You can write them too.

The letters in UPPER CASE is fixed. The rest of the statement, you can fill with whatever you want. This way, you are releasing the behavior you don’t want and activating the behavior you want in others.

Stop your negative reactions

Client

Is there is a simple way to react negatively to others?

Naran

If somebody is dead, will you react to them negatively?

In the same way, if you feel somebody is irritating or provoking you, think that you are dead, becoming non-reactive.

Related Posts

Put a stop to your angry reactions: http://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2014/01/06/put-a-stop-to-your-angry-reactions/

Recreate the life you want: http://reachnaran.com/recreate-the-life-you-want/

Seek the Help of the Universe – Your Friend

I am jobless and I don’t know who will call me for an interview

  • When you send your CV to a company, imagine the Universe as the postman, who delivers your CV to the concerned person. “Universe I am sending this CV to you. Please deliver to ……(name of the company)
  • Wait for five minutes.
  • You don’t know who will be handling your CV. Imagine yourself as that person. Say within the mind, “I have received this application. I am happy about the qualification of this person. He is the right guy for me” and so on.  He sends a reply back to you through the Universe – the postman, saying, “I would like to meet …….. (Insert your name) on ……. (mention the date)
  • Wait for five minutes. Now switch roles. You become yourself. Imagine that you are receiving letter requesting you to attend the interview. Send a reply back that you will attend the interview. Follow the first step.
  • Wait for five minutes. Now switch roles. Become the person who is going to do the interview. Whatever the next step that will happen in a typical interview, imagine as though that is happening.
  • Do all the necessary steps that will culminate in you getting a job.
  • Go back to your normal day-to-day life, leaving it (your job) to the Universe to make it happen.
  • Till manifestation of what you want, chant “QUIET MIND OPEN HEART RELAX.”

 I am jobless, I was interviewed and waiting for the result

  • You (Ravi) have attended an interview in a company XYX. You were interviewed by let us say by person named James
  • Ask the Universe to convince James that you are the right person for the job.
  • Wait for five minutes. Now switch roles. Take the role of James. Imagine, “Ravi is the right guy for the job. I am going to call him to come tomorrow to give the offer to him”. He passes the message to the Universe to deliver it to you.
  • Wait for five minutes. Now switch roles. You become yourself. Accept the meeting and pass the message through the Universe.
  • Continue the steps needed until it ends in getting you the job, with the salary and the position desired by you.

I am looking for an investor

You have a great business case, but lack money to start the business. Ask the universe to pass your business proposal to the person – who can invest and who is looking for a good business idea. Universe helps you to meet him. Again, use your imagination, figure out the steps and using the Universe, execute one step at a time, by switching to the required role.

How does this work?

Every thought and every word goes to the universe. The Universe is a meeting place of desires, intentions and fulfillment. It is the Main Post Office, where everything is sorted out and delivered to the right person.  It decides what we get, how we get it and when we get it.

That is why one has to quite the mind, open the heart and be relaxed.

Treat Universe as your friend, who helps you to get your desires fulfilled. You don’t need elaborate rules to talk to a friend. Try this simple technique, with your imagination set free, and you are sure to fulfill your dreams.

Some example from ancient Indian literature

In the story of Nalan and Damayandhi, Nalan will ask the Swan to deliver a message to Damayandhi, when they were living in different countries.

In Nutshell

Here, we are asking the Universal mind to reach the concerned person and deliver the required message. In the first case, we don’t know who is going to give us the job, but the universal mind knows. In the second case, we know the person, but we don’t know how to get across the person, for it might be considered as an intrusion.

So, seek the help of the Universe to work for you, be it a job, business or relationship.

Exercises for Program Your Life

Read the 1st part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/program-your-life-part-i/

Read the 2nd part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/program-your-life-part-ii/

Naran

For the following imaginary life situations do the releasing techniques mentioned in the articles referred above:

  1. Power cut, when you are having your dinner.
  2. When you leave the house to drive to Airport, you realize your car key is missing.
  3. You are a branch manager of a bank; gave a loan believing that the client would submit the document the next day. For the next three days, he didn’t.
  4. You are invited to lecture on a topic. You prepared well and delivered it. After the event, many in the audience said that they knew the stuff already.
  5. Feelings and thoughts about an unreasonable spouse/co-worker/servant
  6. When a cop demands the driving license, you proudly showed it. The cop retorted, “What is this! You are showing an expired license!”
  7. You have ordered for a takeaway. Friends have arrived, but not the dinner. The caterer phone switched off.

Program Your Life Part II

Read the first part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/program-your-life-part-i/

Be with your feelings

Naran

Focus on the feeling, with Adi Mudra.

Say, “Yes, there is … (mention the feeling here, for example, a feeling of sadness)”

“I welcome this … (feeling)”. But, can I let go this feeling?

If you get the answer “yes”, then just say, “I let go of this … (feeling)”

Is the feeling is still there? Ask the mind, “Can I let go just 10% of the feeling?” If the answer is yes, then proceed further and let go another 10%.

Still you are unable to come out of stagnation.

Now, observe your thoughts.

Can I release this thought?

If the answer is yes then say, “I release … (thought)”

If the answer is “no”, then ask another question, “Is this thought useful to me?”

“No.” means you need to let go of the thoughts. Release all the thoughts one by one.

Find out which desire is behind the emotions.

Is it the desire to control or change the person or event, or the desire for approval or the desire to feel more secure? Ask the mind again.

If there is desire to control or change ask, “Can I release the desire to control?”

Yes means, “I accept my desire to control but I let go this desire to control”.

Is there any desire for approval? (Desiring for praise, recognition)

If yes means, “I just release this desire for approval.”

Is there any desire to feel more secure? or is there is any fear?

If yes means, “I release this desire to feel more secure; or i release my lack of trust ”

After some time, there will not be any feeling or thought. Peace dawns. Now take the required action. 

Read the final part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/exercises-for-program-your-life/

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