Together Relationship
How to stop people from lying to us
Sonia Gupta
Can LEMON DROP be also used before talking with a relative/friend, who has a habit of often lying?
Naran
Yes.
Janaki
When you want someone to speak the truth?
Naran
Yes, when one does not want to be cheated.
Janaki
Can we co-relate it with ROCK WATER and CHESTNUT BUD combination?
Naran
Wonderful! Do it.
My family problems is affecting me
Isha
I am in a very bad shape. I have a brilliant future ahead of me. I’m married and my husband loves me a lot. I’m pursuing my studies and I am happy in my marriage life.
The problem is that I am very sad about my family situation. I took the problems of my brother, mom and dad, everyone and put on my shoulder.
My family problems affected me a lot. I keep thinking about them and this stress me a lot. Due to such stress, I am getting pimples on my face, lots of dandruff and I am becoming very thin like anorexic people.
I love my family, if I keep worrying about their situation, this can cause problems to my health. I am not strong at all am very sensible. Please suggest some remedy.
Naran
Take the flower remedies RED CHESTNUT, RESCUE REMEDY, WHITE CHESTNUT and WALNUT.
Put 6 pills of each in 200 ml water and have that water in small sips throughout the day, every two hours -maximum 6 times.
When you take remedies for two different problems
Isha
Actually, I am taking flowers remedies of OAK, HORNBEAM and MUSTARD that you suggested me to take for my studies (poor memory and difficult to adjust in French studies).
Can I mix all these remedies in 200 ml of water?
Naran
Take on alternate days – the first combination on the first day and the second one on the second day and on the third day first one and so on.
How to stop reacting negatively
Naran S Balakumar
When someone is angry or doing something against us either we get angry or become upset, because it is very difficult for us to detach from what is happening outside.
Therefore, we also participate by being emotional becoming Non-Divine. How to help our self in detaching from all that is not divine?
Sri Aurobindo: “Bring in Mother’s force to eliminate (your reaction)”.
There is a flower “IPOMEA CAIRICA”, which is light rose purple in colour, identified by the Divine Mother, for detachment from all that is not divine.
Daily, Meditate on the flower praying, “Let DIVINE LOVE, DIVINE LIFE possess me, conquer me and keep me in lasting eternal immortal LIGHT”.
Looking at the picture of the flower, one can chant the lines within. Become the flower while chanting; let the pink purple fill up all the chakras.
The common name of the flower is “Morning Glory”. It is a glory for the consciousness; morning symbolically means waking consciousness.
When you meet an egoistic person
Naran S Balakumar
We usually refer a person with ego and pride as big-headed. Which is the bigger/longer finger in our hands?
Middle finger – it represents ego.
When you come across such a person be in Ego Mudra – touch your middle finger in the base of the thumb on both hands.
Why we need to be in that Mudra? Then your confidence level is increased, which indirectly reduces his ego and pride.
End loneliness
Naran S Balakumar
Polar Bear
To end loneliness; to make the person understand that he or she is the part of the world.
How to use the Animal Spirit Guide POLAR BEAR?
Keep the picture in between ring finger and little finger and tie with the rubber band for 10 minutes.
The person will come out of loneliness.
Keep the picture at the distance.
Visualise polar bear and violet energy/ colour coming out of it and enters the body through your heart. Circulate it throughout the body.
Chant, “I am protected on all sides”
Somebody is bothering you
Naran S Balakumar
You don’t want to interact with a person while travelling in a bus or a train. There is congestion and somebody is disturbing you. It means they are coming into your energy field occupying your energy space.
Be in Akash Mudra (middle finger touching the tip of the thumb, on both the hands) and chant “OM HAM NAMAHA”. Immediately space is created, and he will not disturb you.
Sometimes you don’t want to talk to a person. However, they will come and disturb you.
When you want to avoid phone calls from somebody think about that person and chant “OM HAM NAMAHA”. He cannot come in to your space
Unwanted Attractions
Client
I get attraction towards a female in office and so lot of thoughts keeps coming about her. This happened to me in college and school also.
Sometime, I do not feel like to going to the office also as I get so tensed and frustrated. With my spouse also I get angry. And I do not feel good connection even though it’s a peaceful relation.
Even with friends, after some time, I get fed up, angry and irritated with them.
Also, I get thoughts that I want to marry again with someone else – may be someone from office, even though I am already married.
So always I am looking. I do not know what to do.
Naran
Chant “OM YAM HAM NAMAHA, OM HAM YAM NAMAHA” when negative thoughts come. Chant while being in Chin Mudra.
Explanation
The chanting is for keeping away negative sexual thoughts; and also for keeping negative persons away.
For women to keep away bad elements
Naran S Balakumar
In life sometimes, you may want to get out of some situation by avoiding somebody, but you cannot. Some people are disturbing you and someone else is avoiding you.
You cannot do that, yet you are simply cursing them in your mind.
At that time, to keep away from any bad person, chant the Bija Mantras, “RAM HAM, HAM RAM” as many times as you can.
Somebody is approaching you. You do not want to be with them. At the same time you cannot tell them to keep away also.
This problem is always is there for women. Chant then, “RAM HAM, HAM RAM”.