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Getting the Right Deal

Naran

You want to sell something. You always come across people who bargain with you.

If you take AGRIMONY, whatever price you ask for, they will pay it.

You expect a quarrel during property distribution in the family. You do not want any quarrel or face conflicts.

If you don’t want any fights, then take AGRIMONY with you as Agrimony is a peacemaker.

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People around us are mirrors to our personality

R

http://healbyreiki.wordpress.com/2013/09/06/well-being-of-everybody-concerned/

Kindly explain that all of them are our projections means what?

Naran

The unfinished and unresolved parts of me e.g. my anger or my judgment about others are coming out in the form of other persons.

When you see them you get angry you dislike them you start criticizing them as if they were not yours.

In other words, your own anger takes the human form reminding you about the past unresolved conflicts.

Instead of repeating what we did in the past, giving Reiki is breaking the pattern.

One drop of love will change him

A patient of Naran remarked about her spouse. He gave the following reply to her. These exercises however can be done anybody who wants to live harmoniously and be happy with them.

Naran

Look at oneself first

This is Drama of Life and if one understands, we will come to know, realize and understand that we have to bring in change in ourselves only.

We have to direct the mind towards oneself and then towards others. This is the basis of all healing modalities.

The nature always expects us to move towards perfection.

In this process, one understands not only the DIVINE ORDER, but also realizes that one has to rise above the mind and its tantrums, and become spiritual.

All healing methods help a person to understand his/her own potentials.

Others are mirrors of yourself

Before trying to change the other person do this exercise on you first.

Take a piece of paper and write about him first. Whatever you wanted to say about him write it.

  • Insert the word ‘I’ wherever you have put ‘He’.

For example, “He never takes the treatment properly and he escapes”, should be rewritten as “I never take the treatment properly. I escape.”

Change what all you have written about him Into I.

  • Now affirm, “I never take the treatment properly. I escape. In spite of this, I accept myself totally”.

Do three rounds of tapping for each sentence.

  • Do the forgiving exercise for them. “I forgive you …. (Name) you please forgive me and release me”.
  • Send Reiki to him daily.

Problem is the source of solution

Whoever is causing problem to you, can only give you solution.

Whoever irritates or angers you, can only give you peace. 

You cannot change your husband. You want him for your status and security. Then you have to heal yourself. Forgive.

  • You only have to make your life peaceful. For getting peace with such a person, you have to shed your ego and heal yourself.

Heal your controlling tendencies

Heal your anger and controlling tendency.

We always like people who comply or who just listen to us or obey us implicitly. That is why we want all the people to do this and that as well as agree with us, whatever we say.

When there is slight disagreement, dissent or difference of opinion, we may not like the person.

This dislike of the person who disagrees and the like of the person who agrees create conflicts in life.

  • Both are born from our controlling tendency – desire to control or change.  Release your desire to control and change others.

You have the power to heal him

What your husband needs attention, love and tolerance. Understand that he is mentally deranged, unlike we who are sane. The sane people are supposed to protect and understand such people.

When you ignore, chide, or send your husband away, who will take care of him?

The God has sent him to you, because you know Reiki.

God has sent him to you, because you know forgiving exercise and you know how to release your karma.

God has sent him to you because you know how to change yourself through flower remedies.

Heal him. This is how god has made him. One drop of love will change him. One iota of kindness can change.

Heal him from the heart. Sympathize with him. If he is the cause of your mental agony, how much he is suffering within mentally. Just help a man who needs help. Pray for him.

He is not a curse to you. He has not become your husband because of your bad karma.

He has come to you for healing. He is a grace for you.

Through him you spiritual journey starts! I hope you will start the Journey!!

Things Improve in Life

Client

As describing a flower is never the flower itself, some of the most subtle blessings and experiences lie beyond the reach of expression.

All the good that has come into my life since discovering the various methods offered in this blog are one of those. At a broad level many things have improved.

  • I smoothly did my Lasik and took off my glasses after 27 years
  • Broke my fear of driving and started moving on the roads
  • Joined a fitness regimen
  • Finished a novel
  • My business is picking up
  • Conflicts have reduced
  • Most importantly I have stumbled on many more sources of spiritual knowledge and got into a meditation routine

Of course, I have had my share of deep angst through the year, but I have been able to deal with it much better.

Every time I have been in pain, I either read his blog or have confided in Naran and have found much relief.

Almost every life situation has been dealt with in the blog.  They are practical and can even be done on behalf of others.

What moves me the most is the non-judgmental generosity, devoid of greed in the responses to those who seek help.

Life is so infinitely complex, so limitless is our sadness and there really is so little we can do. When we really, really need help, how comforting it is to know there is an individual and a great wave of compassion that we can turn to.  

There is no way one can come upon spiritual knowledge except by an act of generosity. Therefore with the deepest gratitude not just for myself as a beneficiary but on behalf of all the million views on the blog I will sign off.

Please, please give these methods a chance. Some work, some don’t but keep at it, things will improve. What do we actually have to lose except our disbelief?

Thank you dear Naran!! LOVE THANKS DIVINE!!!

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