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Patience alone can help us
Simran
If he shows anger on me, according to him, I should behave like a matured wife. I should behave same as in normal condition, in a polite way.
He loves me through my politeness. These are his expectations.
Can I change myself through this way, because if he becomes angry I can’t handle him politely?
At that time, I feel bad why he should get angry on me. And I don’t like his bad behavior either.
However, if by changing my behavior, my relationship takes a good way, then I am ready to become polite.
Naran
When he gets angry, be in the SAFE and SECURE MUDRA and chant “CHERRY PLUM, IMPATIENS”.
Our endurance and patience only can help us.
Related Posts
Patience is the key: http://joboneoone.wordpress.com/2013/11/26/patience-is-the-key/
Your spouse is possessive: http://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2014/01/28/your-spouse-is-possessive/
Treat your husband like a friend
Client
No matter what I do, I am not able to tolerate my husband at all. I don’t know what to do.
Naran
You are able to treat your friends or for that matter your siblings and parents, well irrespective of their failings isn’t it?
Release the expectations on role of a husband as well as feelings you have about your husband.
Affirm, “I accept and treat him as a friend instead of a husband”.
You will be able to tolerate him better
Related Posts
Why my husband felt hurt: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2013/10/02/why-my-husband-felt-hurt/
Forgiving mind: http://divineshakthi.wordpress.com/2013/12/24/forgiving-mind/
The Accused: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2013/09/19/the-accused/