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How to handle people who are angry?
Naran
If someone is angry against you, the FIRE element is more inside you.
To pacify it, you have to react in a different way. If you activate WATER and EARTH elements, then you will become patient and relaxed.
The PRAN MUDRA – little and ring fingers touching the tip on both the hands, will activate your earth and water elements.
When such an unusual response is given – instead of reacting with other person angrily, you treat him in a peaceful manner, then the opposite person don’t have a choice but to react in a different way.
We can also reduce our Anger.
Magic can happen!!!
Varsha P
I came across SWITCH WORD concept in August 2013. I was very much amused and fascinated by this.
And specially after reading knowledgeable and useful blogs of Naran, I believed though there are miseries, unwanted situations, fear in our life, we can definitely CHANGE them with such wonderful gifts of nature – BACH FLOWERS and ANIMAL SPIRITS.
There are many day-to–day life situations and events, where I and my family members are using and applying Switch words, mantra and Bach flower remedy.
In my case, success was not 100%, but still I very much believe in this knowledge.
Magical Experience
In February’2014, I was travelling to Bangalore with my friend. Our flight was in morning and got delayed for 3 times.
We were having breakfast at Coffee shop (CCD) that is at another extreme end, very far from our terminal gate. As flight got delayed again, we were relaxed.
I was feeling very drowsy as I had got up very early to reach the airport. And other friend was busy on her phone. Somehow, we totally forgot to check time.
And when we checked our watch, we just ran!! We saw, our boarding gate was closed.
We requested them, to open it but they were not authorized to do so. We could see our flight in front of us, but couldn’t get in.
In that panic moment, I called up WOLF and FOX (I recalled this suddenly, while dealing with officials and airport staff call Fox). Then next thing was rescheduling of our flight and taking our luggage back.
All the time I was talking to WOLF. We knew that there will be a great price hike for current Ticket and we were upset about that.
I was in complete hopeless stage, as for this trip my Husband was in a denial mood. Since morning he kept talking, “You are going to miss your flight.”
My friends said that she can bear hike up to Rs. 5000 or so. I didn’t think about any amount. Somehow there was faith that some magic is going to happen.
Even I asked my friend, not to produce any intentions/ vibrations regarding money.
While waiting to claim baggage and cancellation of tickets, I called up Shobana Madam.
She told me to chant, and write these flower names on paper, and to keep it in hand while dealing with authorities, “WATER VIOLET, ROCK WATER, GENTIAN, WILD ROSE”
Immediately, I prepared 2 chits of paper for both of us. I told my friend, not to talk any money part at all. But she keeps on saying that she can bear 5000 Rs. and I kept chanting.
1st magic moment – we got our luggage very soon. Girl at counter exclaimed with wonder that how we got our luggage so early n fast!
2nd magical moment – at ticket counter, we went to reissue next ticket for afternoon flight. We gave our old tickets, to subtract that much amount from current fare.
And to my wonder, I couldn’t believe this, when they said, “You need not to pay anything!” I got ZERO hikes for next flight, and my friend paid 5600 Rs hike. There was a sigh of relief!!
I thanked everything – Bach flowers, Animal guide, Shobanaji, airport staff, Cell phone – thru which I made calls, and many more things and thanked that SITUATION, which taught me many lessons.
Last but not least, after arrival at Bangalore, we got few co-passengers till our destination, which again saved our excess expenditure on Taxi.
I don’t know what MAGIC was behind this. But YES, Magic does happen! Only you need to trust it, deep within your heart.
Seek the Help of the Universe – Your Friend
I am jobless and I don’t know who will call me for an interview
- When you send your CV to a company, imagine the Universe as the postman, who delivers your CV to the concerned person. “Universe I am sending this CV to you. Please deliver to ……(name of the company)
- Wait for five minutes.
- You don’t know who will be handling your CV. Imagine yourself as that person. Say within the mind, “I have received this application. I am happy about the qualification of this person. He is the right guy for me” and so on. He sends a reply back to you through the Universe – the postman, saying, “I would like to meet …….. (Insert your name) on ……. (mention the date)
- Wait for five minutes. Now switch roles. You become yourself. Imagine that you are receiving letter requesting you to attend the interview. Send a reply back that you will attend the interview. Follow the first step.
- Wait for five minutes. Now switch roles. Become the person who is going to do the interview. Whatever the next step that will happen in a typical interview, imagine as though that is happening.
- Do all the necessary steps that will culminate in you getting a job.
- Go back to your normal day-to-day life, leaving it (your job) to the Universe to make it happen.
- Till manifestation of what you want, chant “QUIET MIND OPEN HEART RELAX.”
I am jobless, I was interviewed and waiting for the result
- You (Ravi) have attended an interview in a company XYX. You were interviewed by let us say by person named James
- Ask the Universe to convince James that you are the right person for the job.
- Wait for five minutes. Now switch roles. Take the role of James. Imagine, “Ravi is the right guy for the job. I am going to call him to come tomorrow to give the offer to him”. He passes the message to the Universe to deliver it to you.
- Wait for five minutes. Now switch roles. You become yourself. Accept the meeting and pass the message through the Universe.
- Continue the steps needed until it ends in getting you the job, with the salary and the position desired by you.
I am looking for an investor
You have a great business case, but lack money to start the business. Ask the universe to pass your business proposal to the person – who can invest and who is looking for a good business idea. Universe helps you to meet him. Again, use your imagination, figure out the steps and using the Universe, execute one step at a time, by switching to the required role.
How does this work?
Every thought and every word goes to the universe. The Universe is a meeting place of desires, intentions and fulfillment. It is the Main Post Office, where everything is sorted out and delivered to the right person. It decides what we get, how we get it and when we get it.
That is why one has to quite the mind, open the heart and be relaxed.
Treat Universe as your friend, who helps you to get your desires fulfilled. You don’t need elaborate rules to talk to a friend. Try this simple technique, with your imagination set free, and you are sure to fulfill your dreams.
Some example from ancient Indian literature
In the story of Nalan and Damayandhi, Nalan will ask the Swan to deliver a message to Damayandhi, when they were living in different countries.
In Nutshell
Here, we are asking the Universal mind to reach the concerned person and deliver the required message. In the first case, we don’t know who is going to give us the job, but the universal mind knows. In the second case, we know the person, but we don’t know how to get across the person, for it might be considered as an intrusion.
So, seek the help of the Universe to work for you, be it a job, business or relationship.
Rude Boss becomes Appreciating Boss
Swarna
Sometimes things seem to get worse before it gets better. But in getting worse the situation tests us and strengthens us in ways we cannot imagine or know.
All we need to learn is to sit still and watch our mind as the fluid situation morphs, and shifts.
We learn to see our fear, guilt, and our negative tendencies.
We learn to be watchful, not restful. We understand that growth, life, is characterized by changes.
Situations morph rapidly. We realize that there is really no beginning or end, it is our mind that creates the illusion.
We learned these from our own experience detailed below:
One man, thirty machines and endless working hours
Last year, we contacted Naran when my husband was going through lot of challenges at work. He had been in the new job for two years and doing very well.
Then, the supervisor began adding new machines to the lab. It was one man and 15 machines to begin with. It was manageable.
Each machine was specialized and the chemicals cost a lot of money. If experiments failed, it would be difficult to make up for the loss of valuable samples and the wastage of time and money. It was challenging to finish jobs that were lined up on all of the machines.
The lab ended up with 30 machines and one man. Working continuously made my husband tired and unable to think. And he began to work on weekends too. To make the situation worse, his supervisor began to shout at him.
My husband was threatened that he will be fired
In May last year, the Director called my husband and threatened to remove him. No reasons were given and he was shouted at him for 30 minutes.
My husband was shaken and could not understand what had happened. Naran asked us to chant “I AM A BEING OF VIOLET FIRE. I AM PURITY OF GOD DESIRES.”
Naran also asked us to chant and write— “OM GAM GANAPATHAYE NAMAHA”.
We have continued to do it every day from then on.
The director apologized
Within a week of this chanting, the Director came and apologized to my husband for his outburst. He told my husband that he hope that my husband would not quit because of the outburst.
We were surprised and grateful at the turn of events. We continued to write the Ganesh mantra and be relaxed.
Surprise became Shock
In June, my husband was called again and the Director said he would put him on probation for the job. This really disturbed my husband and he couldn’t sleep or eat.
Naran advised us to write (the Bach Flower Remedies) – “ELM, WATER VIOLET, HOLLY, VINE, HORNBEAM” in a piece of paper and keep it in my husband’s pocket and do the same in another paper and keep it under the pillow. And Naran asked me to chant (Bach Flower Remedies) “RED CHESTNUT, VINE”.
And to improve the working atmosphere, Naran advised my husband to chant the switch words, “LOVE, THANK, TOGETHER DIVINE”. My husband began to juggle these new responsibilities. His job was reduced to 75% time from 100%. However, he had to work for 100% of the time.
Now comes a big surprise
Six months later, we had a surprise when the administrators asked people to submit their job descriptions and responsibilities for comparing it with what people were getting paid for across the nation. My husband’s position was also called for reclassification. Naran asked us to chant: “GENTIAN, LARCH, THANK, TOGETHER DIVINE ORDER COUNT NOW DONE”.
Back to square one – problems started again
On December 10th, we returned to the same critical situation when, my husband’s Director called him and made him sign a memorandum saying he would fix all machines within December 20th. My husband had been working with the companies for months and nothing had been resolved. The Director was aware of all this.
Naran advised us to download a picture of MUSTARD (Bach flower) and PINK TOURMALINE (gem remedy) and paste both on the name of my husband. And also chant the switch words “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW”.
Everything went smoothly like a whistle
Thanks to these divine interventions, the deadline passed off smoothly without an incident.
But the biggest challenge was negotiating the annual review that was due at the end of the month. The annual review would determine if he would stay or go. In the current economic market, it was very hard to land another job. Living in the US without citizenship meant that we had to show continuous employment status. We continued to chant TOGETHER CHANGE NOW and write the Ganapathi mantra daily.
Annual review came on the right time
The annual review was postponed to January. It so happened that Divine took care of everything so beautifully. On Thursday, his immediate supervisor completed my husband’s annual review and gave him glowing references. They also discussed about my husband getting more help in the lab, and reinstating his job to 100% from 75% that he is currently on.
Three days later, the Director who was shouting at him all the time, said that there was no need for another review and he had nothing to add or change to the review already performed, and he agreed with everything. Everyone who knows the Director says this is nothing short of a miracle!
The director accepted his failings openly
Last week, the Director called my husband privately and told him that his personality was that of a person who magnified the negative. From his interactions with my husband he is realizing that he had to appreciate everything positive and not pay so much importance to the negative.
My husband said he politely thanked him and left, but inside he was shouting ‘Together Divine’ in a deafening crescendo. He felt so happy that he didn’t have to say a word for this change to come over! The flowers, gems, the switch words are so beautiful and so powerful!
We successfully sailed through the stressful phase
We are grateful for the divine to have helped us through this difficult and stressful phase. The chants helped us stay focused and positive and not panic. We found time daily to chant ‘Together Divine’ and write ‘Om Gam Ganapathayae Namaha.’
Lessons learned
We understand and are grateful that our future unfolds in small clear steps.
We have the opportunity to be watchful, present and steer the direction of our life.
Naran taught us patiently and gently to keep our mind open to the gifts that every situation brings in and not be carry our old patterns with us.
We are continuing to learn.
Naran
Thank you for sharing. What we need is trust in divinity. Yours has vindicated that. Best of luck!!!
Related Blogs
Inner Smile Brings an Outer Smile: http://wp.me/p12byb-27
Manage your bosses and coworkers: http://wp.me/ptULP-2g
Digestion care
Naran
Chant “RUM BUM LUM DHUM”
RUM for digestion, absorption and assimilation
BUM for elimination
LUM for strength and activating basic chakra
DHUM for comforts as after eating you should feel relaxed.
OM LAMBODARAM is good for digestion as it contains all the Bija Mantras as well as BUM and DHUM (mentioned above).
Lambodaram means man with a big stomach. Anything can be digested by this person. Only when you digest your food, then sugar is digested too.
Related posts
Curing digestion related issues: http://togetherhealth.wordpress.com/2014/01/27/curing-digestion-related-issues/
Heal your body with Gem Remedies: http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2011/12/29/heal-your-body-with-gem-remedies/
Mantras for digestive tract: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/01/04/booklet-of-mantras-iii/
A lifetime of seeking is over
Feedback on workshop held at Mumbai: http://reachnaran.com/mumbai-workshop-april-5th-and-6th/
Deepa
“When the student is ready the teacher comes”
Dear Naran,
This saying has been resonating in my mind since day one, when I wrote you the first mail seeking healing and you replied. Seeing you in person has just made it a happier occasion – TY TY TY.
If I had the time and opportunity to say it in person, I would tell you how I am feeling today – “Enveloped in a ball of bliss”.
I am so delighted that my smile is just refusing to go away. Though, all the participants have got your equal grace, I feel you have come to Mumbai only for me. Today, it felt all so easy. Finally, I got confidence that I can learn any healing modalities/techniques – so, multiple bonanzas for me.
The joy of meeting you in person, doing the workshop – it is ALL PERFECT.
Your presence is such that at end of day, the hotel waiter was asking me about you. Really, he is blessed for wanting to know.
A lifetime of seeking is over! Deepest love!! Thanks Love Divine!!!
Varsha Patil
A big thank to YOU Naran! And welcome back to Mumbai in this year-end. That was the most amazing and wonderful time. Really felt so blessed in your divine presence. A big thanks to Shobanaji, Haripriya, and all other participants who made this workshop happen.
Dear Participants, am opening a Facebook group for Mumbai Participants, as per request by many. As many of them wanted to be in touch with each other, for Success stories, and more future events in Mumbai. Will post here.
Kalpana Vasudevan Iyer
An unforgettable and much awaited day for me! Thank you Naran!! Thank you Varsha, Nagalakshmi and others for organizing this meet. It was so long on my wish list. Please organize another one soon!! Blessed to listen to NARAN and his simple explanations and suggestions!!!
Barathi Raghav
Yesterday workshop was excellent – Purnima
Usha Raghunathan
Well organized. Thanks to all. Did a good job. Workshop was excellent.
Dr. Rashmi Menon
I was fortunate to attend the first one. It was a lovely experience. Thank you! Thank you organizers!! May the love and light spread through you all over the Universe!!! And so it is!!!!
Salima
We were truly blessed! Love and Light always!!
Vrushali Vilas
We love you Naran…great to meet you and well organized beautiful experience.
Shilpa Deshmukh
Excellent is the word!!
Sumegha Shanbhag
Love you Naran and waiting for next workshop to happen soon…. love to meet all you friends!
Lupe Soto
Hi Naran, please remember your foreign students. Many of us would benefit from Skype or your wonderful audio recordings. Please let us know. This class would mean a lot to me. Thank you Naranji!
Irene D’Souza
Thank you Guruji for visiting Mumbai! It was wonderful sessions.
Deepa Prabhu
There was so much love in the room. By end of day two, people who were strangers and tense on day one morning were by end of day two relaxed smiling and sharing hugs!
Naran
Yes people were tensed on the first day. They expected a buttoned-up, taciturn Naran!!!
Fresh and Positive
JS
Yesterday, I bought three CDs (TOGETHER DIVINE, I LOVE MY SELF and MANTRA’S).
I was so depressed and cried full day. These CDs relaxed my mind like anything. Morning when I got up, I was so fresh and started thinking things in positive ways.
Thanks a lot for those wonderfulness CDs. I am planning to buy some more of them by next month.
Related Blogs
The most important sacred word: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2012/06/29/together-divine-cd-benefits-and-instructions/
I am loved by all: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2011/08/23/i-am-loved-by-all/
Mantras for internal organs: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/01/04/booklet-of-mantras-part-v/
Letting go the unwanted thoughts
Naran
Wisdom Within
Chin Mudra is a good Mudra for meditation.
When your mind is not relaxed, start with this Mudra and automatically all the unwanted thoughts that is clogging the mind will go off. That is why this Mudra is called as Chin Mudra or Gyan Mudra.
There is nothing Gyan or wisdom as it is. There is no wisdom available (outside). The Mudra will remove the Agyanam (ignorance) in us. Then wisdom will come automatically.
Whenever unwanted thoughts come to you, be in this Mudra and they will get released.