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Change Divine Order Vs Find Divine Order
GA
I want to ask one question. Our scriptures say that each and everything is happening in this universe according to the Will of Supreme Lord.
It means good or bad whatever happens, it happens according to His Absolute Will. This is what I consider as Divine Order.
When everything is already in Divine Order i.e. according to His Will then what is the real meaning, significance of Switch Words “FIND DIVINE ORDER” and “CHANGE DIVINE ORDER”?
Naran
There is no good or bad event. It is our judgments which separate any event.
When we think the event is bad, we deviate from the DIVINE ORDER.
Therefore, the mind is instructed to re-align with the divine order by the Switch word CHANGE. When the mind does not accept what is happening, we are commanding the mind to change.
To know what is in store for us, we FIND DIVINE ORDER.
Similarly, there is no bad person. The so called bad person has deviated from the DIVINE CENTER.
Instead of changing him, we have to accept him as he is, for which CHANGE DIVINE ORDER will be helpful.
When we try to change him, we deviate from the CENTER.
By chanting CHANGE DIVINE ORDER, we will change our view towards the other person and re-align with the center divine; we will have a different outlook.
Any how this has to be done for a long period of time, analyzing our behaviour at each and every step.
Read the reply, I gave to Bhavi: http://reachnaran.com/what-is-going-to-happen-will-happen-why-to-chant/
Related Posts
Change for a better offer: https://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2012/11/21/change-for-a-better-offer/
How to use Switch Words: https://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2011/10/20/how-to-use-switch-words/
Roles People Play
Reddy
Quite often, we are required to play different roles with respect to the same person. In the process lot of misunderstandings occur due to perception at both ends.
At work, we have a subordinate who is also a friend. This friend does not play his role in the office as required.
In the role of a friend, you try to protect him in various ways besides telling him / her about the problems in a friendly manner.
However, if it is not adhered to, it may go the extreme end that you may even need to terminate him/her. It is a very difficult choice. You are torn between both the roles.
In the earlier days, we could take a very dharmic stand and take decisions.
However, now we are required to play a role negotiating happiness for various people in the name of Professionalism / Management etc and suffer.
At home, we have to act as a Parent, Friend, Teacher, friend to your kids.
Often a role is over played by each of the participant resulting in clashes and misunderstanding. Each forgets that they are over stepping on the other role due to inherent flair for one.
Thus, a parent who is generally has a strong Vasanas of a Teacher in making, preaches more and is not able to know when to cut off and act as a friend.
Please give your recommendation to solve the above by way of flower remedy.
Naran
Whatever the role we play, let us ask a simple question.
What is that we lack in any role?
Basically, every relationship is based on communication. How do we communicate? What do we communicate? What do we want to communicate?
The objective of any communication is to reach out to the other person.
BEECH is the remedy for improving our communication.
What are the negative mental states of Beech?
- Unable to understand other man’s point of view
- Unable to appreciate other man’s priorities
- Intolerance
- Fault-finding
- Desire to control or change the other person
If one is in one of the above mental states, right communication will not take place. Here, how Beech can help us?
BEECH can bridge the gap between two persons and makes one understand other man’s point of view.
WALNUT should be taken along with Beech. Walnut can bring in change in the mind. A changed outlook and a changed view will give a different communication tool.
For you Mr. Reddy, in addition to taking BEECH and WALNUT, you take CENTAURY also, while communicating in the office.
“What would my friend think? Will he be hurt, if I say this?” These expressions belong to negative mental state of Centaury.
Rushrush
Wonderfully explained….your site is a healthy addiction.
I feel the need to read it like a holy book everyday…sorting out life’s many questions and seeking the right answer….
I follow so many remedies you advice, go through the topics so many times, sometimes apply my 2 cents worth as well….analyse life’s situation from a different angle….
I have changed so much in my mind and heart…..all because of being a part of this wonderful site and your guidance!!!!
Thank you ever so much…….Naran….THERE’s still so much to absorb from you……..regards……
Changes begins from us
Question: What is a Rogue husband? Do we refer to infidelity or incompatibility or uncaring?
Naran
It means all.
It is her view. We don’t know whether a person is a rogue or not.
However, the healing is always given to a person who makes a complaint about the other. As a healer, we assess the mental state (of the person complaining) and give the remedies.
Question: Is it possible for a man who has led a wayward life since his teens change into a good man with the help of remedies?
Naran
Anybody can change into a better person, provided he wants to.
However, the healing is always aimed at the self.
If you are putting up with a person, who is wayward, you have to change yourself. Heal your emotions; heal your reactions; heal your way of thinking.
If you are able to change effect in yourself, by taking the appropriate remedies, the opposite person will change.
In any relationship, one has to change to see the change in the other. This is the rule.
Related Posts
I hate my father-in-law: http://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2009/07/25/i-hate-my-father-in-law/
Pluses and Minuses: http://reachnaran.com/pluses-and-minuses/
Managing a Rogue Husband: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/10/26/managing-a-rogue-husband/
No Words to Express Kindness of Divine
Sandhya Varma
My grandson who will soon be 3 years old was not speaking clearly. My daughter took him to a therapist, who indicated that the child may be mildly Autistic.
Extremely worried I came and asked Naran for help. He asked me to chant “LIFT KIND DIVINE”.
Hardly four days after, I started chanting. Soon after, the therapist changed her view and said he may be just a late talker.
Amazingly, not only he started talking, but also compiling sentences, e.g., “Bye, see you, drive there”.
I am amazed and thankful to Naran for this turn of events.
Related Posts
There will be no downfall: http://reachnaran.com/there-will-be-no-downfall/
Change the way of my son: http://reachnaran.com/change-the-way-of-my-son/
Struggling with lethargy and laziness: http://reachnaran.com/struggling-with-lethargy-and-laziness/