Naran S Balakumar

Until children are 14 years old, take care of them. Then they don’t need you.

Now they need you to embrace them. Support them mentally and emotionally, and love them before they are 14 years old.

If you are busy with work during this period then it will affect them. The children will decide to seek love elsewhere. They will say, “I don’t care whether I am right or wrong. I will get what I want”.

Children are never to be blamed. Only the parents are the cause.

Do EFT (absent healing) for the child to accept/love itself totally.

Until they are sixteen, the children want the parents to take care of them.

After 16 years, they say, “Please don’t take care of me” – meaning you don’t need to bother me anymore.

If you take care of them until they are 16, then you don’t have to worry about them later.