Posts tagged Ask
Create positives out of a situation
Naran
Let us see an example
“My husband is not good. He is irritating too”, says the wife.
She is blaming her husband here.
If she has to handle this situation, then what resource (quality) she needs to handle it?
Does she needs to be courageous, be more loving and caring, or be bold?
When there is a problem, you need to ask yourself, “What one resource will enrich me and will help me to handle this life situation”.
This way you are healing yourself. Instead, if some person is angry and you also get angry, then you are gone.
So what do we need here?
People would say she needs patience and tolerance.
What’s patience?
Patience is the quality or ability to withstand a situation without getting angry or upset.
If that’s the case, then the Bach Flower IMPATIENS is the remedy. Impatiens will create patience inside you.
You need tolerance also. BEECH is the remedy for it.
Beech and Impatiens go together in cultivating tolerance and patience.
Developing a Life Strategy
Quality of patience, without getting upset or angry about the other person, is waiting inside us, waiting for the right opportunity.
We all need it. If I have it, then I will be striking at the right moment. It’s a Life Strategy.
If we have this quality, we will have more consideration and caring for other people. To develop this strategy, take the flower remedy IMPATIENS.
If I cultivate patience and tolerance (Beech and Impatiens), then I will become more considerate.
Consideration means, there is more love and affection for other person. Then we will become accommodative.
To be more caring, after being considerate, HOLLY is the remedy.
Related Posts
Audit your thoughts:
https://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2013/09/19/audit-your-thoughts/
The Universal Lover:
https://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/09/05/the-universal-lover/
Caesarean Child
Naran
For any caesarean child, if they are hyperactive, they should be given STAR OF BETHLEHEM.
Immediately, after caesarean, give both the mother and child, STAR OF BETHLEHEM. Of course, only if they are confident about Bach Flower remedy then you give it to them.
Otherwise, if anything happens, they will blame the remedies, while there are no side-effects or bad consequences of taking them.
Therefore, instead ask them to chant the name of the remedies.
Change Divine Order Vs Find Divine Order
GA
I want to ask one question. Our scriptures say that each and everything is happening in this universe according to the Will of Supreme Lord.
It means good or bad whatever happens, it happens according to His Absolute Will. This is what I consider as Divine Order.
When everything is already in Divine Order i.e. according to His Will then what is the real meaning, significance of Switch Words “FIND DIVINE ORDER” and “CHANGE DIVINE ORDER”?
Naran
There is no good or bad event. It is our judgments which separate any event.
When we think the event is bad, we deviate from the DIVINE ORDER.
Therefore, the mind is instructed to re-align with the divine order by the Switch word CHANGE. When the mind does not accept what is happening, we are commanding the mind to change.
To know what is in store for us, we FIND DIVINE ORDER.
Similarly, there is no bad person. The so called bad person has deviated from the DIVINE CENTER.
Instead of changing him, we have to accept him as he is, for which CHANGE DIVINE ORDER will be helpful.
When we try to change him, we deviate from the CENTER.
By chanting CHANGE DIVINE ORDER, we will change our view towards the other person and re-align with the center divine; we will have a different outlook.
Any how this has to be done for a long period of time, analyzing our behaviour at each and every step.
Read the reply, I gave to Bhavi: http://reachnaran.com/what-is-going-to-happen-will-happen-why-to-chant/
Related Posts
Change for a better offer: https://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2012/11/21/change-for-a-better-offer/
How to use Switch Words: https://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2011/10/20/how-to-use-switch-words/
Blissful Office Atmosphere
GA
I am facing many problems in office such as missing of files and important documents.
Some of my colleagues are not talking to me without any reason. Some colleagues talk to me very rudely.
Work distribution is on partial basis. My seat is overburdened than other seats. Sometimes I feel politics all around.
If there is any strong and effective switch word to overcome all these problems and for smooth and secure running of job under a blissful and light atmosphere.
Naran
Chant “BEECH WILLOW PINE”
GA
As you advised me, I chanted it.
Today’s day was better than other recent passing days.
Thanks a lot.
Related Posts
Managing the Current Economic Downturn: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2009/05/01/managing-the-current-economic-downturn/
Ask Right Questions Find Right Solutions: http://naranonline.wordpress.com/2009/09/28/ask-right-questions-find-right-solutions/
Winning Switch Words Part III
Naran
| Switch Word(s) | Description |
| On | Not getting stuck up in a situation
No interruptions Get creative ideas Stay alert and awake when you work during late nights |
| Off | Sleep well |
| Reach | Find the lost article |
| Reach Divine Order | To come out of long-held negative beliefs |
| Release Resistance | If healing doesn’t happen even after several attempts add these switch words to the healing combination of remedies (during chanting)/ switch words |
| Release Resistance Find Buyer Count Now Done | To find a buyer for your property hasn’t yielded any results even after many efforts.
Buyer is not a switch word. |
| Slow Care | Wise people act slowly and carefully, so to become wise these switch words |
| Stretch On | To able to continue doing the task you are currently doing comfortably, especially when you are tired |
| Thanks | To show attitude of gratitude |
| Together | To work out a good relationship with others
Have a balanced mind Get co-operation from colleagues To find resolution and resolve conflict with others |
| Together Find Centre Divine Love | To find love within and in-turn attract love in your life |
| Together Divine | To improve relationship with your spouse
Bring peace into the family when there is on-going quarrel |
| Together Find Divine Love | Attract love and people |
| Together Find Divine Order Count Now On | To get a salary hike
To find money and order out of a situation |
| Together Reach Divine Love Centre | Attain Soul Love |
| UP | To manage your depression |
| With | To become compatible with a person |
| Why | It’s an afformation. You ask the brain why something you want has happened. It will find that out for you and make it happen. |
Related Posts
Winning Switch Words Part II: http://reachnaran.com/winning-switch-words-part-ii/
Winning Switch Words Part I: http://reachnaran.com/winning-switch-words-part-i/
Roles People Play
Reddy
Quite often, we are required to play different roles with respect to the same person. In the process lot of misunderstandings occur due to perception at both ends.
At work, we have a subordinate who is also a friend. This friend does not play his role in the office as required.
In the role of a friend, you try to protect him in various ways besides telling him / her about the problems in a friendly manner.
However, if it is not adhered to, it may go the extreme end that you may even need to terminate him/her. It is a very difficult choice. You are torn between both the roles.
In the earlier days, we could take a very dharmic stand and take decisions.
However, now we are required to play a role negotiating happiness for various people in the name of Professionalism / Management etc and suffer.
At home, we have to act as a Parent, Friend, Teacher, friend to your kids.
Often a role is over played by each of the participant resulting in clashes and misunderstanding. Each forgets that they are over stepping on the other role due to inherent flair for one.
Thus, a parent who is generally has a strong Vasanas of a Teacher in making, preaches more and is not able to know when to cut off and act as a friend.
Please give your recommendation to solve the above by way of flower remedy.
Naran
Whatever the role we play, let us ask a simple question.
What is that we lack in any role?
Basically, every relationship is based on communication. How do we communicate? What do we communicate? What do we want to communicate?
The objective of any communication is to reach out to the other person.
BEECH is the remedy for improving our communication.
What are the negative mental states of Beech?
- Unable to understand other man’s point of view
- Unable to appreciate other man’s priorities
- Intolerance
- Fault-finding
- Desire to control or change the other person
If one is in one of the above mental states, right communication will not take place. Here, how Beech can help us?
BEECH can bridge the gap between two persons and makes one understand other man’s point of view.
WALNUT should be taken along with Beech. Walnut can bring in change in the mind. A changed outlook and a changed view will give a different communication tool.
For you Mr. Reddy, in addition to taking BEECH and WALNUT, you take CENTAURY also, while communicating in the office.
“What would my friend think? Will he be hurt, if I say this?” These expressions belong to negative mental state of Centaury.
Rushrush
Wonderfully explained….your site is a healthy addiction.
I feel the need to read it like a holy book everyday…sorting out life’s many questions and seeking the right answer….
I follow so many remedies you advice, go through the topics so many times, sometimes apply my 2 cents worth as well….analyse life’s situation from a different angle….
I have changed so much in my mind and heart…..all because of being a part of this wonderful site and your guidance!!!!
Thank you ever so much…….Naran….THERE’s still so much to absorb from you……..regards……