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Patience alone can help us
Simran
If he shows anger on me, according to him, I should behave like a matured wife. I should behave same as in normal condition, in a polite way.
He loves me through my politeness. These are his expectations.
Can I change myself through this way, because if he becomes angry I can’t handle him politely?
At that time, I feel bad why he should get angry on me. And I don’t like his bad behavior either.
However, if by changing my behavior, my relationship takes a good way, then I am ready to become polite.
Naran
When he gets angry, be in the SAFE and SECURE MUDRA and chant “CHERRY PLUM, IMPATIENS”.
Our endurance and patience only can help us.
Related Posts
Patience is the key: http://joboneoone.wordpress.com/2013/11/26/patience-is-the-key/
Your spouse is possessive: http://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2014/01/28/your-spouse-is-possessive/
Not ready to go for a divorce
Anita
I am really tired of waiting to get initiation/news, words from my husband as he is not at all in contact with me or my family for last 2 months. We all tried very much but failed.
I am doing forgiving exercise for husband and my MIL more than 25 days now, but still no result or reply from his end.
Everybody in my family is asking me to take decision and to divorce him and start new life. But I am really not ready to do so.
Sometimes, I wonder why this person marries me, if he really doesn’t have any regards or interest in family life.
Naran
Chant “BEECH, WILLOW, PINE, WALNUT” for a month
Explanation
See events from different angle: BEECH
Stop blaming anybody for what happened: WILLOW
Come out of the thought of “One’s bad karma”: PINE
Does karma theory says murderer can go scot free
GA
Thanks for your reply to my previous question. You have advised me to surrender before the ultimate reality. I am trying to do so.
I think you are not from this universe. You are a divine personality. Your words are very powerful – even magical, having a deep impact on my mind and soul.
I am a little bit confused about the theory of karma. As we know, we all are facing good or bad in our lives due to our own good or bad karmas and we should not blame others for our sufferings.
The point at which I am confused is that if someone does some harm to us then we say this is result of our own karma and the person is just a medium.
For an example, somebody kills a man then the man should have definitely done such type of karmic account with the murderer or have done something wrong in the past, for which he has to be punished like this by divine forces.
If it is just the previous account which is settling down now and the murderer is just a medium then murderer should not be punished anywhere not here or not in another world.
And as you say that divine forces compel us to do specific karma as per our nature or prakriti then in this case divine wants the killed man to be punished like this and the murderer is just a divine helper or a medium.
So my question is this that the person who becomes the medium (who is apparently doing wrong karma) in another person’s suffering (as my suffering is due to my own bad karma) will be punished for this by divinity?
If no, is it because he is just a medium? I hope you will show me some light.
Naran
Karma theory is just an explanation put forward. If you want to justify karma theory, it leads you to confusion.
Karma will act upon one, who does not think that he is the tool of divine.
All our reactions and views are happening at the outer mind – the mind that looks outside and assesses. Nothing that affects the outer mind affects the inner mind at all.
Whenever you want an answer, just ask the questions and go inside. Stop analyzing. Be silent. Silence alone will bring the answer.
The inner mind sees what the outer mind does not see. It also does not see what the outer mind sees.
Stop reading books on spiritualism or karma etc.
Related Posts
Karma Vs Free Will: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2012/08/10/karma-vs-free-will/
How to Handle Your Karma: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/07/17/how-to-handle-your-karma/
Bed-time Ritual: http://reachnaran.com/bed-time-ritual/
Love thy neighbours even if they are a nuisance
LLM
My neighbors are very inconsiderate. We live in apartments. The one on next to me filled the corridor with their own stuffs and smelly shoes, make a lot of noise shouting at one end of corridor to the other, openly criticizes us and do damage to our plant tearing the leaves (we only put one pot of plant and door mat at my door and nothing else not even shoes). We only keep quiet, to maintain peace.
The neighbor above us, throw litter into our house and make a lot of noises (such as jumping in wee hours of the night after 12 am), and also hang wet laundry above our laundry. On one case, we even saw a packet of urine caught on our window.
We really don’t know what to do.
Naran
Chant “BEECH HOLLY WILLOW IMPATIENS” over a glass of water and drink it.
Download a picture of PISCES and paste it on your flat door.
Do the forgiving exercise for them.
In the morning thank them mentally for not disturbing you.
Pray to The Mother for keeping these elementals away from you.
LLM
May I ask how many times do I need to chant the flower remedy each time? Do I have to chant everyday or just once?
Do I do the forgiving exercise and thank them everyday also?
The picture of Pisces can be just the symbols or need to have images of fish?
At the last sentence, you mentioned praying to the mother. ‘The Mother’ refers to?
Naran
When the problem comes, you can chant.
Chanting what is given is just an alignment with the divine. Forget your identity. Just merge with the Grace Words which are nothing but divine. Enjoy chanting. Do it any number of times.
These words do not bring about any result. They want you to surrender. Surrender to the divine and start chanting. While chanting do not think about anything.
Download zodiac picture of Pisces, and paste it on the door facing outside.
The mother means Aurobindo mother. That divine mother only knows how to drive out the unwanted elementals. Just say once to her daily.
LLM (after a month)
I can see improvement on the issues with my neighbor next door, no more torn leaves and cleaner corridor.