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Not able to get accommodation
Client: For the past three or four months we are trying to get the accommodation for type 5 quarters. We are currently staying in type 3 quarters (smaller house).
My husband is a government employee and we are due to type 5 quarters (it’s a bigger one) for several months.
Naran: You are not able to get that.
What are the feelings you are having?
What if you don’t get it?
Client: I am unhappy about it.
Naran: How you are maintaining that unhappy feeling?
You have been saying you are not getting the apartment that is due to your husband.
What is the thought that goes on in your mind?
Whom you are blaming for this situation?
You have to consider all of them.
What are you doing about the situation?
Client: We are trying for the same. But for several reasons like – the type 5 apartment is not available and the houses are given based on priority, and we are not getting the apartment yet.
Naran: What are the other thoughts you are getting?
Why you are not getting the accommodation?
Who is responsible for that?
What are the feelings you get – like for example, “It is not unfair that houses are given first to senior people”?
List all of them.
Whatever you thoughts and whatever you had said about the individuals concerned – the people who had to allocate the house for you, just list them out. Release each and every one of them.
What are advantages going to type 5?
What disadvantages staying in type 3?
Write them out. Why I want to move away from type 3 quarters? There has to be some reasons. List them out, one after another.
There is one problem over which you might be thinking about. We need to unearth those thoughts.
Now work on your “Likes and dislikes”.
Presently there is lack of space means that it’s a dislike isn’t it? Therefore, you don’t like the current house. Then how will you get a new house?
As long as you don’t like the present house, which means you are rejecting the present house, you will not get any new house.
It’s a rule, “Accept the present that you don’t want, to get the one you want”.
Therefore, you to need to accept whatever are available to you currently and you release all the dislikes that you have about your present house.
You are continuously cursing that the space in the current house is not enough.
What will happen if you continue to do complain?
Even if you move to bigger house, eventually you will be faced with lack of space. How?
Your husband will get more books and some of your relatives will move in. In the current house, her husband has completely filled one room with books.
Another rule: same reaction will get you a similar result, if not the same result.
Say “I release my desire to go to type 5 quarters”.
This is very important.
Unconsciously you have the resistance to go to type 5 quarters. Therefore, say, “I release my resistance to go to type 5 quarters”.
What is meant by resistance to type 5 quarters?
There is a desire to be in type 3 quarters. Unconsciously, you want to be in type 3 quarters because there is some advantage staying there.
Client: The advantage staying in type 3 quarters is that we are staying in the ground floor.
Naran: You have a desire to be in ground floor. This desire stops you from moving to type 5. Release that desire to be in type 3 quarters.
For all (troublesome) situations we are the reason behind it.
Whether she gets type 5 quarters or not, that is a different issue. Clean the clutters of your mind.
If you have the feeling, “Let it come when it has to come” then only it will come to you.
Instead, till such time (until you get the type 5 quarters) a fight goes inside, spoils your mood and you feel tensed all the time.
In addition, always you are angry about concerned authorities and criticizing the government officials. Release each and everything.
In the morning (before you came for the class) you would have picked up a fight with your spouse. You can release that even now (thus past is healed).
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Seeing ray of hope
Anita
I am facing challenges in my career for the last 4 years – no recognition from my managers/higher authorities.
Could you please recommend a mantra for me to get the due appreciation for my hard work from my current managers?
And though I am trying to find another job in a different company I just face a lot of obstacles and do not get any results from my job hunt.
Suggest a mantra /switch words I can use for attracting the right job where I will be successful and happy?
Naran
Write “WATER VIOLET, CLEMATIS, WILLOW” daily for 51 times
Chant “AMBIKA ANADHINIDHANA, ASHWAROODAA, APARAAJITHAA”
Anita
I am doing the same for last 10 days. Day by day, I am becoming very desperate, frustrated and feeling all alone with stagnation in life. As I am seeing nothing is working for me. I’m doing Reiki as you have suggested in one of your blog for long standing problems.
But still all areas of my life are closed for me and not seeing ray of hope.
Naran
Do the forgiving exercise for all the persons in your life.
Thank also all the persons in your life.
Anita
As I was doing everything as u have suggested and unable to get any results.
No sooner I started forgiving and thanking exercise 3 times a day, very next day I got call from my previous boss to come and join on same post.
Thank you so much.
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Why something never happens in our lives
Naran
What’s the SECRET behind the fact that some things like “Buying My Own House” never happens?
These emotions, thoughts and desires are consciously operating. But, there’s one thing that unconsciously operates which is called as (internal) resistance.
For us, in our lives something never happens (whatever we might do). Who is responsible for that?
It’s we who are responsible for that.
I want to buy a house but I couldn’t buy it.
I want to get married but couldn’t get married. Why?
While there is some force behind “Wanting to get married”, then there is also an unconscious force that is equally operating that works towards “Not wanting to get married”.
When two forces equally strong operate from opposite sides, then we would be stand-still.
It is like while you give a throttle to the car, you apply for brakes also. Then the car will not move from the current place.
For all matters of life, this concept can be applied.
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Growth factor
Client
I got a really good new position this month within my company because of the reorganization (but I have not moved to the new position yet). But, today I came to know of my bonus and salary increase for last year’s performance and it was not good.
My previous manager who hired me in my post last year is no longer with the company. She promised salary hike this year as I moved from another department, but never told HR or wrote it in paper. That is the reason; my bonus and salary increase has been affected.
I spoke to my current boss about it and he said he will talk to HR and also to the head of our department to address this issue. I’m praying that they will increase it to what my old boss had promised. Is there any switch words that I can say for it?
Naran
Chant “CRYSTAL GORSE WOLF REACH HELP ADD COUNT NOW”
Client
My boss was finally able to get the pay to be half of what was promised. I’m happy and thanked him. I’m expecting my new pay by this Friday.
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Thank you for the Divine Help: http://naranonline.wordpress.com/2012/05/29/thank-you-for-the-divine-help-during-this-time-of-my-life/
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How to become happy?
Naran
Lakshmi is ‘Supreme Delight and Love’.
How to bring that in our lives?
There is a technique for that.
Whenever you feel sad, worried and fearful about money then do the following exercise.
There must be some period in your life where you would have been joyful and happier, and happiness born out of innocence. You would have enjoyed a joy of innocence.
Take that period as well as the current worrying period. Worry can be about anything.
We need to interchange them.
There is a technique in NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), by which you can immediately shift your emotions.
Visualize a white screen in front of you.
That white screen is your brain.
Normally, how brain stores the images?
All the worries in life will be in one compartment.
Similarly, all the joys will be in another compartment.
Likewise, all your anger will be in some other compartment.
Similarly, all persons you like will be in another compartment and those persons whom you dislike will be in another compartment.
Like this, you can segregate all your emotions.
Close your eyes. Visualize a white screen in front of you.
Think about the joyful period in the past. You have look in which part of the white screen – in which compartment, you have stored it. Feel the joy within yourself and identify the place it is stored.
Where is my present state of worry, anger, sadness or grief?
We found two compartments.
Both of them are in different places. Bring the worry compartment into joy compartment. You cannot bring it directly. Take a round-about route.
Now, automatically your worry will be transferred into joy.
There is a period of abundance of money and a period of lack. Sometime you had money and now you don’t have much.
Do it once. Bring the worry into joy compartment and not the other way around.
By this way, you can turn your enemy into friend.