Posts tagged desire

Visualization not enough to achieve goals

9 years ago
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Naran S Balakumar

  • List out your wishes – not in words, but in the form of pictures and color them.
  • Suppose you have a wish to build a house. You have to take a paper and picture what you want, in the form of a sketch.

The drawing need not be neat. Only thing is that you have to draw in a sequence – from basement, to construction and then to painting the house. Everything should be in the form of pictures.

  • Whatever you want, you have to draw it in the form of picture. Daily you have to see that picture.

Come out of the desire first

For intention fulfillment and desire fulfillment there are lot of techniques.

While drawing the picture, if you involve too much then you cannot come out of it and the desire will also not be fulfilled.

We have to visualize it in picture form in a sequence, at the same time be out of the desire.

As long the desire is in your mind it is your desire and when once it is drawn on a paper you should think that it is not your desire.

  • You do healing in that manner for which “I AM SORRY, PLEASE FORGIVE ME, LOVE, THANKS, DIVINE” will help.

You must keep chanting this while looking at the picture. Then only the desire will be fulfilled.

Related Posts

Help to achieve our goal: http://wolfforhelp.blogspot.in/2015/01/help-to-achieve-our-goal.html

Get an engineering seat: https://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2014/01/22/get-an-engineering-seat/

How to perform your karma

9 years ago
by admin in

Naran

Release the mental drama going on inside the mind (using IEIT/tapping for example) and do what you want to do.

An action is taken without judgment, without any emotion or without any desire.

Action is never prevented or you are not prevented to take a decision to your will.

Keep the mind free before taking any action and after taking the action.

A decision is taken after releasing everything of the mind, so that a state of equanimity is achieved.

For example, a child may not listen to the parent. Then the parent may get angry and try to advise the child. She has to release all her anger and her desire to control or change the person and then advise.

Release the mental drama before saying anything or doing anything. In action for the mind and action for the body is the need.

Related Posts

One drop of love will change him:

http://reachnaran.com/one-drop-of-love-will-change-him/

Rhythm of Love:

https://divineshakthi.wordpress.com/2013/07/16/rhythm-of-love/

Learn to Drive Safely

9 years ago
by admin in

Srinivas

With Car driving I have following problems:

  • While driving I have fear that I may hit or some other will hit me.
  • While driving at junctions, taking turns or while stopping, instead of pressing Clutch  and Break, I may press accelerator due to some nervousness or tension.
  • Sometimes I am unable to concentrate on all sides i.e. if I am looking straight, I may not look at left side where I may hit some object.
  • In fact, I have strong desire to master Car Driving. However, when I look at my performance, it is very slow, it appears so.

Naran

Chant “MIMULUS, IMPATIENS, CHESTNUT BUD, SLOW CARE”, while driving or before you start driving.

Explanation

The Bach Flower combination I give for riding any vehicle is MIMULUS, IMPATIENS and CHESTNUT BUD.

While driving I have fear that I may hit or some other will hit me: Mimulus

While driving at junctions, taking turns or while stopping, instead of pressing Clutch and Break, I may press accelerator due to some nervousness or tension: Impatiens

Sometimes I am unable to concentrate on all sides i.e. if I am looking straight, I may not look at left side where I may hit some object: Chestnut Bud

To learn and master anything the switch words SLOW CARE is a must.

Related Posts

Drive safely on road:

http://reachnaran.com/drive-safely-on-road/

Driving test first time:

http://reachnaran.com/driving-test-first-time/

Found a Prospective Buyer

9 years ago
by admin in

Pre

We had purchased an independent house for the purpose of investment but unfortunately we didn’t get much rent/returns as we expected.

We have been trying to sell this residential independent house for quite a long time. People come and finalize the deal. After some time, they drop the offer and go away. This has happened two times.

Also, we are finding it difficult to get buyers and to sell off the property.

Naran 

Chant “SCELRANTHUS, GENTIAN, FIND DIVINE buyer GIVE COUNT NOW”

Pre

We have received amazing results after chanting the switch words. Thanks a lot.

We will be meeting a prospective buyer tomorrow. We want to sell the house for 50 lakhs. Pls give us switch words to sell the property in the amount we desire.

Naran

Chant “RELEASE RESISTANCE FIND DIVINE 50 lakhs COUNT GIVE NOW DONE”

Pre

Thanks, we have finalized the deal. 

Explanation

Morning happy, evening unhappy, for such mood swings: SCLERANTHUS, GENTIAN (Bach Flower Remedies)

Related Posts

Need not cut down expenses:

https://abundancein.wordpress.com/2013/09/03/need-not-cut-down-expenses/

Solution is within you:

https://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2009/05/19/solution-is-within-you/

One drop of love will change him

10 years ago
by admin in

A patient of Naran remarked about her spouse. He gave the following reply to her. These exercises however can be done anybody who wants to live harmoniously and be happy with them.

Naran

Look at oneself first

This is Drama of Life and if one understands, we will come to know, realize and understand that we have to bring in change in ourselves only.

We have to direct the mind towards oneself and then towards others. This is the basis of all healing modalities.

The nature always expects us to move towards perfection.

In this process, one understands not only the DIVINE ORDER, but also realizes that one has to rise above the mind and its tantrums, and become spiritual.

All healing methods help a person to understand his/her own potentials.

Others are mirrors of yourself

Before trying to change the other person do this exercise on you first.

Take a piece of paper and write about him first. Whatever you wanted to say about him write it.

  • Insert the word ‘I’ wherever you have put ‘He’.

For example, “He never takes the treatment properly and he escapes”, should be rewritten as “I never take the treatment properly. I escape.”

Change what all you have written about him Into I.

  • Now affirm, “I never take the treatment properly. I escape. In spite of this, I accept myself totally”.

Do three rounds of tapping for each sentence.

  • Do the forgiving exercise for them. “I forgive you …. (Name) you please forgive me and release me”.
  • Send Reiki to him daily.

Problem is the source of solution

Whoever is causing problem to you, can only give you solution.

Whoever irritates or angers you, can only give you peace. 

You cannot change your husband. You want him for your status and security. Then you have to heal yourself. Forgive.

  • You only have to make your life peaceful. For getting peace with such a person, you have to shed your ego and heal yourself.

Heal your controlling tendencies

Heal your anger and controlling tendency.

We always like people who comply or who just listen to us or obey us implicitly. That is why we want all the people to do this and that as well as agree with us, whatever we say.

When there is slight disagreement, dissent or difference of opinion, we may not like the person.

This dislike of the person who disagrees and the like of the person who agrees create conflicts in life.

  • Both are born from our controlling tendency – desire to control or change.  Release your desire to control and change others.

You have the power to heal him

What your husband needs attention, love and tolerance. Understand that he is mentally deranged, unlike we who are sane. The sane people are supposed to protect and understand such people.

When you ignore, chide, or send your husband away, who will take care of him?

The God has sent him to you, because you know Reiki.

God has sent him to you, because you know forgiving exercise and you know how to release your karma.

God has sent him to you because you know how to change yourself through flower remedies.

Heal him. This is how god has made him. One drop of love will change him. One iota of kindness can change.

Heal him from the heart. Sympathize with him. If he is the cause of your mental agony, how much he is suffering within mentally. Just help a man who needs help. Pray for him.

He is not a curse to you. He has not become your husband because of your bad karma.

He has come to you for healing. He is a grace for you.

Through him you spiritual journey starts! I hope you will start the Journey!!

Roles People Play

10 years ago
by admin in

Reddy

Quite often, we are required to play different roles with respect to the same person. In the process lot of misunderstandings occur due to perception at both ends.

At work, we have a subordinate who is also a friend. This friend does not play his role in the office as required.

In the role of a friend, you try to protect him in various ways besides telling him / her about the problems in a friendly manner.

However, if it is not adhered to, it may go the extreme end that you may even need to terminate him/her. It is a very difficult choice. You are torn between both the roles.

In the earlier days, we could take a very dharmic stand and take decisions.

However, now we are required to play a role negotiating happiness for various people in the name of Professionalism / Management etc and suffer.

At home, we have to act as a Parent, Friend, Teacher, friend to your kids.

Often a role is over played by each of the participant resulting in clashes and misunderstanding. Each forgets that they are over stepping on the other role due to inherent flair for one.

Thus, a parent who is generally has a strong Vasanas of a Teacher in making, preaches more and is not able to know when to cut off and act as a friend.

Please give your recommendation to solve the above by way of flower remedy.

Naran

Whatever the role we play, let us ask a simple question.

What is that we lack in any role?

Basically, every relationship is based on communication. How do we communicate? What do we communicate? What do we want to communicate?

The objective of any communication is to reach out to the other person.

BEECH is the remedy for improving our communication.

What are the negative mental states of Beech?

  • Unable to understand other man’s point of view
  • Unable to appreciate other man’s priorities
  • Intolerance
  • Fault-finding
  • Desire to control or change the other person

If one is in one of the above mental states, right communication will not take place. Here, how Beech can help us?

BEECH can bridge the gap between two persons and makes one understand other man’s point of view.

WALNUT should be taken along with Beech. Walnut can bring in change in the mind. A changed outlook and a changed view will give a different communication tool.

For you Mr. Reddy, in addition to taking BEECH and WALNUT, you take CENTAURY also, while communicating in the office.

“What would my friend think? Will he be hurt, if I say this?” These expressions belong to negative mental state of Centaury.

Rushrush

Wonderfully explained….your site is a healthy addiction.

I feel the need to read it like a holy book everyday…sorting out life’s many questions and seeking the right answer….

I follow so many remedies you advice, go through the topics so many times, sometimes apply my 2 cents worth as well….analyse life’s situation from a different angle….

I have changed so much in my mind and heart…..all because of being a part of this wonderful site and your guidance!!!!

Thank you ever so much…….Naran….THERE’s still so much to absorb from you……..regards……

Asthma will disappear

10 years ago
by admin in

One old man couldn’t come up stairs to Naran’s clinic, because he has asthma.

Naran enquired what type of healing can be initiated for him.

He commented that one part of the hair in his head is grey.

Interestingly, he is not worried about 20 years of his asthma. Why?

It is because the disease has become part and parcel of him. However, he is conscious about his appearance, and wants to look beautiful as he has the desire for approval in him.

The remedy therefore for Asthma is the Bach Flower Remedy CRAB APPLE.

But, Asthma will disappear and not his grey hair.

Related Posts

Clear your health issues: http://reachnaran.com/clear-your-health-issues/

The Cleanser: http://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/04/18/the-cleanser/

What is Mind-Body-Life-Demystified healing: http://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2013/09/09/what-is-mind-body-life-demystified-healing/

Program Your Life Part II

10 years ago
by admin in

Read the first part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/program-your-life-part-i/

Be with your feelings

Naran

Focus on the feeling, with Adi Mudra.

Say, “Yes, there is … (mention the feeling here, for example, a feeling of sadness)”

“I welcome this … (feeling)”. But, can I let go this feeling?

If you get the answer “yes”, then just say, “I let go of this … (feeling)”

Is the feeling is still there? Ask the mind, “Can I let go just 10% of the feeling?” If the answer is yes, then proceed further and let go another 10%.

Still you are unable to come out of stagnation.

Now, observe your thoughts.

Can I release this thought?

If the answer is yes then say, “I release … (thought)”

If the answer is “no”, then ask another question, “Is this thought useful to me?”

“No.” means you need to let go of the thoughts. Release all the thoughts one by one.

Find out which desire is behind the emotions.

Is it the desire to control or change the person or event, or the desire for approval or the desire to feel more secure? Ask the mind again.

If there is desire to control or change ask, “Can I release the desire to control?”

Yes means, “I accept my desire to control but I let go this desire to control”.

Is there any desire for approval? (Desiring for praise, recognition)

If yes means, “I just release this desire for approval.”

Is there any desire to feel more secure? or is there is any fear?

If yes means, “I release this desire to feel more secure; or i release my lack of trust ”

After some time, there will not be any feeling or thought. Peace dawns. Now take the required action. 

Read the final part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/exercises-for-program-your-life/

Program Your Life – Part I

10 years ago
by admin in

Letting GO is the Nature of LIFE

Naran

When you look at the whole world you will understand we only are holding on to mind.

What is the opposite of letting go? “Holding on to” is the opposite word. Holding will restrict us. Letting go expands us.

By letting go you are discharging from yourself what is not required by you, like Water putting out the Fire. Body and Nature Follows this rule 100%.

Watch the body. What it does?

Whatever is inhaled, lungs have to exhale out. Lungs cannot keep the air even for one second.

Heart – what does it do? It takes in blood and sends it out immediately. Blood enters the heart through Auricles and let out through Ventricles.

Whatever you take in, has to be let it out. It is the natural process of the body.

Lungs contract to let go, kidneys contract to let go urine, intestines peristaltically (downward movement) contract to let go the faeces and skin lets go by sweat.

The mouth lets go whatever you eat to the stomach. Stomach lets it go to the intestine. Intestine and kidneys let go as excretion.

Morning lets go to the noon, the noon lets go and becomes afternoon. Afternoon lets go and become the evening, and then evening to night. Each and every second gives way to the next.

Let go before taking the action. Then let go the emotions and thoughts attached to results.

Ask the questions:

  • What do you expect to achieve?
  • What is the driver desire or wanting behind each emotion and thought?
  • Wanting to control or change?
  • Wanting appreciation, recognition? (Desire for Approval)
  • Wanting more security? (fearful)

With this technique, you are not prevented from doing anything. Let go emotions as well as thoughts, and then Act.

“You are only entitled to Act. Don’t think about the result while doing” – says Lord Krishna in Bhagavat Gita.

The theory, we propose here is a new dimension to Bhagavat Gita and a new understanding of the Gita.

Read the 2nd part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/program-your-life-part-ii/

Be Happy and Energetic

10 years ago
by admin in

Client

Many thanks for all your help to me it has made a difference.

I am unable to overcome my sadness and crying.  I realize I have to accept the situation. I also need to be happy and joyful.

My husband is coming home on 13th for the time my sons visit. My son is coming home on 14th and a family holiday has been planned from 22nd to May 2nd.

I need to be able to handle the situation with a happy disposition and with energy. However, I am very tired all the time.

I wish we could be reconciled and a happy family with love and trust.  

I wish my son is happy-safe, free of addictions, and desire and will to study well. 

I am also starting a business. I wish the energy to carry it through and make it a success.

I am presently at Prashant for a two week of Yoga Ayurveda Therapy.  

I am looking forward to your advice.

Naran

Take the flower remedies CENTAURY, WALNUT, OLIVE, WILD ROSE and HORNBEAM to feel energetic and tonified.

In addition, do as per the instructions in “Becoming Happy is in Your Hands”: http://reachnaran.com/becoming-happy-is-in-your-hands/

Other Related Posts

Find the energy to get things done: http://reachnaran.com/find-the-energy-to-get-your-things-done/

Energetic Future: http://healyourpastlife.wordpress.com/2013/01/03/energetic-future/

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