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Seeing ray of hope

Anita

I am facing challenges in my career for the last 4 years – no recognition from my managers/higher authorities.

Could you please recommend a mantra for me to get the due appreciation for my hard work from my current managers?

And though I am trying to find another job in a different company I just face a lot of obstacles and do not get any results from my job hunt.

Suggest a mantra /switch words I can use for attracting the right job where I will be successful and happy?

Naran

Write “WATER VIOLET, CLEMATIS, WILLOW” daily for 51 times

Chant “AMBIKA ANADHINIDHANA, ASHWAROODAA, APARAAJITHAA”

Anita

I am doing the same for last 10 days. Day by day, I am becoming very desperate, frustrated and feeling all alone with stagnation in life. As I am seeing nothing is working for me. I’m doing Reiki as you have suggested in one of your blog for long standing problems.

But still all areas of my life are closed for me and not seeing ray of hope.

Naran

Do the forgiving exercise for all the persons in your life.

Thank also all the persons in your life.

Anita

As I was doing everything as u have suggested and unable to get any results.

No sooner I started forgiving and thanking exercise 3 times a day, very next day I got call from my previous boss to come and join on same post.

Thank you so much.

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All-time Safety

Grace

Referring the blog: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2012/09/24/why-this-discrimination-against-girls/

Will doing what you have told us create a situation whereby girls are safe in all aspects?

Naran

That is a different question, different answer.

You cannot create any situation. You can handle a situation as per the requirement.

Nobody including men can be safe in all aspects.

When there is fear of something, handle that situation.

Or if the question is asked pertaining to a situation one is facing, I will give solution to handle that situation.

Grace

Okay. Thank you for your response. I understand it better now.

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The permanent change factor

Naran

Life is nothing but adjustment and comprise. The Bach Flower Remedy Walnut – the 21st Century Magic Pill helps you to achieve that effortlessly.

In addition, WALNUT completes any type of healing. It has a place of its own in healing arena.

In this Age of Change, it’s the Elixir of Life.

Keywords: to Change, to Move, Adjust, Circulate

Age of Change

With the key word Change, how many life situations can be addressed? Change means to become a different person based on the hour of need and to Move from one phase to another phase (Transition)

  • I am not able to change my residence. I wanted to Move closer to my office.
  • Change Into means to become.

For example, I want my son to become studious says a mother of a child. Both mother and son should take WALNUT. When we expect the change in some other person, then we are in Walnut state.

  • To change a person thoroughly, for example to come out of addiction, WALNUT is the base remedy.
  • When one is forced to frequently change jobs: WALNUT
  • When you want some diversion, when you feel bored, you need a change: WALNUT

A balanced life!!!

Naran

Your wants have to be in balance

Wherever you need harmony you can use the word TOGETHER. It is a very special switch word. It goes deep into the life of person. It stimulates the values in us.

However, most of us do not know what we want. He will be working as a temporary worker but he may want freedom. Employment and freedom cannot go together. If you want freedom and independence then you should have your own business.

However, for doing business, he needs security and so he cannot invest in business. Like this, we are always in conflict in our lives.

Some people want to earn more money, but he cannot because if earns more money, his family life may be affected and so on.

Different parts of life

For all of us a balanced life is needed. What is that?

One is personal; one unknown person is there inside all of us. I can only know myself. That is the personal life in which physical life will be there too. You cannot be healing others continuously unless you are healthy. So, physical health is one part of life.

 The second part of life is our social life and relationships. That is, relationship with others – either relationship with the family or society.

The third part is professional. 

Thus, the first part of life is physical or personal, the second part is relationships, the third part is professional and the fourth part is spiritual.

Our conflicts of interest

All these four are not balanced in any of us because our interests are in conflict with each other.

Our physical health will be good but relationships will not be good. If relationship is good, his professional life will not be good as he may not go to the office.

When you take a decision for one part of life, it may imbalance the other part of life. When you decide to go to a foreign country, you will lose your family life.

For that reason, you cannot sit at home saying that for you, your family is important and therefore you will skip work.

In the same way, when you think money is important then you have to forego your family life.

Ultimately, you are working for your health, which is lost by working hard, going at 6 am and coming back at 12 midnight.

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How to get fulfilled and satisfied in life: http://naranonline.wordpress.com/2010/08/15/how-to-get-fulfilled-and-satisfied-in-life/

Enjoy the Feel-Good Factor: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2011/03/05/enjoying-the-feel-good-factor/

Common solution to the housing problem

Gayathri

This is a general question which I think will be benefited to all. Gone through your site – all mantras, remedies are fantastic. Main thing I noted is shelter problem.

Real estate is in peak today and due to this house rent/land rate is too high which affects lower and middle classes. Living in rent in a decent area or purchasing flat and house – everything is a difficult for them.

Hence, my humble request is to suggest remedies/mantras to peak down I.e. nominal value for land and so that all will be benefitted.

Naran

Don’t go by general interpretation of anything. Each one is unique. Each problem is unique. There may be similar problems but not same.

The problem in general is high rent, peak of land or house price. But each individual, undergoing this problem will react in different ways:

“It is the world of cheats. This is a bad phase in my life”.

“I am destined to suffer”

“Prices will never come down. We can never have a peaceful life”

“I feel like bursting out”.

“Everything is going beyond limits”

“What can we do? We have to accept and move on.”

“Something may happen. Prices will come down”

“God is not helping the poor. He is by the side of the rich only”

Each will be in a different state of mind. Each will react differently and approach the problem differently. Therefore it is not good to suggest a common solution to all.

In the above situation, what is the one general advice that can be given?

One has to bear, with fortitude and courage to face any situation. If this mentality is developed and or if one is in this state of mind, things will improve.

How to cultivate this or develop this state? How to transform one’s mental state into this?

Flowers are the answer. There are four (Bach) flowers that can help anybody in the above situation:

  1. CHERRY PLUM (to bear, and endure so that our limit to earn is enhanced)
  2. ROCK ROSE (to develop fortitude -never-say-die spirit; if this is developed help will come instantly)
  3. GORSE not to lose hope at any time
  4. WILD ROSE to get motivated to move on in life

Flowers are divine. Flowers are our teachers. Life is always a learning process. We are always students.

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Got the Housing Loan: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/10/11/got-the-housing-loan/

How to own a house: http://finddivinehome.wordpress.com/2013/07/25/buying-a-house/

We are about to own a house: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2013/08/22/we-are-about-to-own-a-house/

Conflicts Inside Out

Madhu

What can I do when I feel that my future is not good or happy? Should I chant release?

Why this type of thought comes on mind…..is it any signal?

Naran

The mind is not one. It is a union of various parts – accumulation of all surviving emotions. Each works in a different and opposite ways.

This thought comes from that part of mind which is fearful. Don’t get yourself bogged down by this thought. Treat this as a doubt asking by some part of the mind.

Think that somebody is asking you. Give a reply to that part as another person like this, “Don’t be afraid. Release your fear. You are safe and secured”.

That part (of the mind) for the time being will keep quite. After sometime it may again raise the doubt. Every time give the same answer and escape.

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Praise Money: http://abundancein.wordpress.com/2013/11/11/praise-money/

Supreme Divine Order

R Mohan

Even though, many times I have heard the power of “DIVINE ORDER” from the followers of Naran, I am never a fan of it. However, I chant “DIVINE” or “FIND DIVINE” regularly. I have witnessed good results chanting them both.

For me, DIVINE is an instant tonic of happiness, while FIND DIVINE brings in happiness that I had felt during childhood – for example, meeting friends from the past after a long time or doing things like playing cricket on the road.

Recently, when I called up Naran, he shared some insights into teachings of Sri Aurobindo. At that time, he used the word “SUPREME DIVINE ORDER”.

Naran mentioned that Sri Aurobindo wants us to become supra mental beings and that’s the supreme divine order ordained to each one of us.

I was immediately hooked up to the word “SUPREME DIVINE ORDER”. I felt, Supreme Divine Order has to be switch word as it was coined by Sri Aurobindo himself.

So, I simply chanted it over the course of next few days, without asking Naran, whether it is a switch word or not, as I know Naran keeps silent on most of the things.

I implemented it in the releasing technique he recently proposed to us.

For example, when I had a conflict with one of my friends, I used it like this, “I release the part that produced the conflict. I OPEN, ALIGN and RESONATE With SUPREME DIVINE ORDER”.

I felt as per the expression of the sages from the past, ‘Be detached like the leaves of the lotus in the water pond’. I guess to keep ourselves intact in any situation Supreme Divine Order is the key.

My question to Naran is how supreme divine order is different from divine order?

Naran

There is good behind every bad incident and bad behind every good incident. Divine order helps us to sail through both, making us to learn the lessons of this lifetime.

While Supreme Divine Order, avoids both, making us to go through the right things successfully every time.

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How and why we need to forgive others

For more detailed explanation on Why we need to forgive others and How to forgive others, please refer the book: “Forgiveness How and Why”, written by Naran S. Balakumar.

Jay

I have a problem letting go or forgiving people. Is there any switch word for it?

Naran

If you don’t do the forgiving exercise, you will undergo same emotions, even though situations may be different.

If you do not want to meet or interact with same people in future, Forgiving is the only way.

There is no shortcut for letting go the resentment and anger.

Do not act from ego; have higher perception and think that every event in our life is happening as per our desire. Before taking the birth, I want this life with these people to mend my life. But unfortunately after taking birth, we forget our commitment.  When the situation is created as per our desire, instead of learning lessons and moving forward, we get stuck and we refuse to forget or forgive.

What is the one that prevents you from forgiving? Release that and do it.

I Jay forgive you —–(name of the person). You please forgive me and release me. This can be done mechanically without the involvement of the heart.

Jay

Do I just have to fill the name or action that upsets me?

Naran

 “I Jay forgive you —–(name of the person). You please forgive me and release me”.

Take a person with whom you are angry. Insert his or her name in the space given above. Chant the same for 200 times a day.

Forgiving Exercise

Affirm, “I (your name) Robert forgive you Ashok (replace with name of the person to be forgiven). You please forgive me and release me”.

Questions regarding Forgiveness Exercise

Nayana

I have two queries related to Forgiving exercise.

I have too many people to forgive in my life, so please guide me how to forgive them with once for all.

I see my husband is having so much resentment in his life with so many people but he doesn’t try to do any of the exercise to forgive and forget. So is there anything I can do on behalf of him, as it’s affecting my life all the time.

Naran

Take a list of all of them. Do the forgiving for all. Take one at a time. Chant 200 times for each.

You cannot do anything for somebody’s sake. What is your predominant thought or emotion when you deal with him? Release that one by one. If one goes, another will come. Release that also.

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