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How to perform your karma

Naran

Release the mental drama going on inside the mind (using IEIT/tapping for example) and do what you want to do.

An action is taken without judgment, without any emotion or without any desire.

Action is never prevented or you are not prevented to take a decision to your will.

Keep the mind free before taking any action and after taking the action.

A decision is taken after releasing everything of the mind, so that a state of equanimity is achieved.

For example, a child may not listen to the parent. Then the parent may get angry and try to advise the child. She has to release all her anger and her desire to control or change the person and then advise.

Release the mental drama before saying anything or doing anything. In action for the mind and action for the body is the need.

Related Posts

One drop of love will change him:

http://reachnaran.com/one-drop-of-love-will-change-him/

Rhythm of Love:

https://divineshakthi.wordpress.com/2013/07/16/rhythm-of-love/

One drop of love will change him

A patient of Naran remarked about her spouse. He gave the following reply to her. These exercises however can be done anybody who wants to live harmoniously and be happy with them.

Naran

Look at oneself first

This is Drama of Life and if one understands, we will come to know, realize and understand that we have to bring in change in ourselves only.

We have to direct the mind towards oneself and then towards others. This is the basis of all healing modalities.

The nature always expects us to move towards perfection.

In this process, one understands not only the DIVINE ORDER, but also realizes that one has to rise above the mind and its tantrums, and become spiritual.

All healing methods help a person to understand his/her own potentials.

Others are mirrors of yourself

Before trying to change the other person do this exercise on you first.

Take a piece of paper and write about him first. Whatever you wanted to say about him write it.

  • Insert the word ‘I’ wherever you have put ‘He’.

For example, “He never takes the treatment properly and he escapes”, should be rewritten as “I never take the treatment properly. I escape.”

Change what all you have written about him Into I.

  • Now affirm, “I never take the treatment properly. I escape. In spite of this, I accept myself totally”.

Do three rounds of tapping for each sentence.

  • Do the forgiving exercise for them. “I forgive you …. (Name) you please forgive me and release me”.
  • Send Reiki to him daily.

Problem is the source of solution

Whoever is causing problem to you, can only give you solution.

Whoever irritates or angers you, can only give you peace. 

You cannot change your husband. You want him for your status and security. Then you have to heal yourself. Forgive.

  • You only have to make your life peaceful. For getting peace with such a person, you have to shed your ego and heal yourself.

Heal your controlling tendencies

Heal your anger and controlling tendency.

We always like people who comply or who just listen to us or obey us implicitly. That is why we want all the people to do this and that as well as agree with us, whatever we say.

When there is slight disagreement, dissent or difference of opinion, we may not like the person.

This dislike of the person who disagrees and the like of the person who agrees create conflicts in life.

  • Both are born from our controlling tendency – desire to control or change.  Release your desire to control and change others.

You have the power to heal him

What your husband needs attention, love and tolerance. Understand that he is mentally deranged, unlike we who are sane. The sane people are supposed to protect and understand such people.

When you ignore, chide, or send your husband away, who will take care of him?

The God has sent him to you, because you know Reiki.

God has sent him to you, because you know forgiving exercise and you know how to release your karma.

God has sent him to you because you know how to change yourself through flower remedies.

Heal him. This is how god has made him. One drop of love will change him. One iota of kindness can change.

Heal him from the heart. Sympathize with him. If he is the cause of your mental agony, how much he is suffering within mentally. Just help a man who needs help. Pray for him.

He is not a curse to you. He has not become your husband because of your bad karma.

He has come to you for healing. He is a grace for you.

Through him you spiritual journey starts! I hope you will start the Journey!!

If What is going to happen will happen, Why to chant?

Bhavi

In the past, I have chanted, prayed a lot, with full faith in universal divine force. But, I was always told you can’t change anything. What is going to happen will happen? Nobody can change anything.

I still have faith and trust. However, I always had a question in mind then why do we pray and chant the mantras if they are not going to bring positivity to the concerned situation?

Is it fear of something negative happening to us and our family, which brings us, back again to chanting and praying?

Naran

You cannot always get what you want. Sometimes, you can get what you don’t want. These are two life rules, which we have to accept.

It is the mind which plays the game. If something does not happen, we wallow; if something happens, we elate. How long is this elation?

After some time, we need something else and again mental emotional drama begins. It is because we attach importance to the result only and not to the action.

If the action is done, and the result is surrendered, you will remain peaceful always.

Ultimately, what we want in life is either peace or happiness. To get happiness or peace is the aim of all.

Surrendering the result to the hands of Divine only can give you peace or happiness.  Chanting or healing aims at changing the mind to accept what is happening.

Best of luck!!

Why to chant when everything is destined

Bhavi

In the past, I have chanted, prayed a lot, with full faith in universal divine force.

But, I was always told you can’t change anything. What is going to happen will happen? Nobody can change anything.

I still have faith and trust. However, I always had a question in mind then why do we pray and chant the mantras if they are not going to bring positivity to the concerned situation?

Is it fear of something negative happening to us and our family, which brings us back again to chanting and praying?

Naran

You cannot always get what you want. Sometimes, you can get what you don’t want. These are two life rules, which we have to accept.

It is the mind which plays the game. If something does not happen, we wallow; if something happens, we elate. How long is this elation?

After some time, we need something else and again mental emotional drama begins.

It is because we attach importance to the result only and not to the action.

If the action is done, and the result is surrendered, you will remain peaceful always. Ultimately, what we want in life is either peace or happiness. To get happiness or peace is the aim of all.

Surrendering the result to the hands of Divine only can give you peace or happiness.  Chanting or healing, aims at changing the mind, to accept what is happening.

Best of luck!!

Recreate the Life You Want

Naran

I am Helpless and Living In Hell! How can I create my world?

As long as I believe that I and My Mind are one and the same, and accepting whatever mind creates, my life is helpless and hell.

As long as I am not aware that I can RECREATE or REPROGRAM my life, I lose all the power.

Not knowing that I can reprogram my mind and life is ignorance.

Our mind is full of emotions, thoughts, and reactions. As long as they alone make up our mind, we don’t have any choice but to live our lives without any power.

Become POWERFUL

When there is awareness, when we come to know that we are not our mind, a new POWER surges in. 

We will be able to RECREATE our own world to an extent with this little awareness. We can then become POWERFUL and take our lives into our own hands.

Releasing is a self-empowering tool, which changes our outlook about our lives.

What is this technique all about?

It is simply a process of letting go and releasing the emotions and thoughts as and when they arise.

How to implement it?

It is very simple. Whenever we tend to react, just say, “I let go this feeling”.

E.g., “Fear, can you please go? This is not the time for you. For the time being please go out. This is not your place either.”

See what happens. The mind becomes baffled and the emotion flees.

Do not react, but release and act

Reactions destroy our peace of mind. Once our uncontrollable emotions and thoughts are let off, we will find a peace deep inside us.

Releasing is a technique for allowing us to change on the spot.

Releasing allows us to handle any problem by releasing and letting go and thus stops the inner mental struggle.

Reactions intensify the mental struggle. Releasing gives us a new outlook. Reactions repeat the same drama.

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Create a new healthy body: http://reachnaran.com/create-a-new-healthy-body/

My married life is like living in a hostel: http://reachnaran.com/my-married-life-is-like-living-in-a-hostel/

Positive vs. Negative thoughts: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2013/07/08/positive-vs-negative-thoughts/

Worried About Losing My Friendship

Client

I have a misunderstanding with a friend of mine. I am not sure, next time when I meet her, whether she will properly talk to me or not.

For the last two days, I have this anxiety. So, I released all my anxiety. Now I feel ok.

However, I am worried, when I meet her next time how she will react and how will I handle it.

Naran

1.       Release the anxiety (worry).

2.       You are having a desire to keep the friendship going. Release this desire too.

You are only releasing the thought, emotions and desires. You are not stopping the actions (to be her friend).

Here, instead of the enacting the usual drama we create, we simply observe what is happening in our mind. We release and observe the whole incident as a third person.

Which is convenient – fearing about something or releasing?

In the end, we keep the mind blank – free from worries, anger and fears.

What are the ultimate results we gain due to this technique?

As long as we are working from a noisy mind, there will not be any solution to the problem. 

By releasing all the emotions (and thoughts and desires) one after another, we are taking one step after another towards a litter-free (mind) zone, where we will be free of our emotions and thoughts.

Then the solution for the problem will be found automatically as that part of the mind (litter free zone) knows how to tackle the problem.

In this technique, we do no prayers.

If my house is full of garbage what will I do?

I will simply clear them isn’t it? When I remove all the clutters in the house it becomes good.

In the same way, I release all the clutters from my mind.

Desire is the motivator behind our actions. For me what is motivating me to seek friendship in my friend? There is a desire for approval operating in it. Release it.

When anything comes inside your mind, Just say, “Can I release? Yes. I release this. I let go this…”

Related Posts

Old One Dies New One Blooms: http://reachnaran.com/old-one-dies-new-one-blooms/

The Driver for Relationships, Desires and Talent: http://reachnaran.com/the-driver-for-relationships-desires-and-talent/

Opening the chakras with mantras: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2009/07/10/opening-the-chakras-with-mantras/

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