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Rude Boss becomes Appreciating Boss
Swarna
Sometimes things seem to get worse before it gets better. But in getting worse the situation tests us and strengthens us in ways we cannot imagine or know.
All we need to learn is to sit still and watch our mind as the fluid situation morphs, and shifts.
We learn to see our fear, guilt, and our negative tendencies.
We learn to be watchful, not restful. We understand that growth, life, is characterized by changes.
Situations morph rapidly. We realize that there is really no beginning or end, it is our mind that creates the illusion.
We learned these from our own experience detailed below:
One man, thirty machines and endless working hours
Last year, we contacted Naran when my husband was going through lot of challenges at work. He had been in the new job for two years and doing very well.
Then, the supervisor began adding new machines to the lab. It was one man and 15 machines to begin with. It was manageable.
Each machine was specialized and the chemicals cost a lot of money. If experiments failed, it would be difficult to make up for the loss of valuable samples and the wastage of time and money. It was challenging to finish jobs that were lined up on all of the machines.
The lab ended up with 30 machines and one man. Working continuously made my husband tired and unable to think. And he began to work on weekends too. To make the situation worse, his supervisor began to shout at him.
My husband was threatened that he will be fired
In May last year, the Director called my husband and threatened to remove him. No reasons were given and he was shouted at him for 30 minutes.
My husband was shaken and could not understand what had happened. Naran asked us to chant “I AM A BEING OF VIOLET FIRE. I AM PURITY OF GOD DESIRES.”
Naran also asked us to chant and write— “OM GAM GANAPATHAYE NAMAHA”.
We have continued to do it every day from then on.
The director apologized
Within a week of this chanting, the Director came and apologized to my husband for his outburst. He told my husband that he hope that my husband would not quit because of the outburst.
We were surprised and grateful at the turn of events. We continued to write the Ganesh mantra and be relaxed.
Surprise became Shock
In June, my husband was called again and the Director said he would put him on probation for the job. This really disturbed my husband and he couldn’t sleep or eat.
Naran advised us to write (the Bach Flower Remedies) – “ELM, WATER VIOLET, HOLLY, VINE, HORNBEAM” in a piece of paper and keep it in my husband’s pocket and do the same in another paper and keep it under the pillow. And Naran asked me to chant (Bach Flower Remedies) “RED CHESTNUT, VINE”.
And to improve the working atmosphere, Naran advised my husband to chant the switch words, “LOVE, THANK, TOGETHER DIVINE”. My husband began to juggle these new responsibilities. His job was reduced to 75% time from 100%. However, he had to work for 100% of the time.
Now comes a big surprise
Six months later, we had a surprise when the administrators asked people to submit their job descriptions and responsibilities for comparing it with what people were getting paid for across the nation. My husband’s position was also called for reclassification. Naran asked us to chant: “GENTIAN, LARCH, THANK, TOGETHER DIVINE ORDER COUNT NOW DONE”.
Back to square one – problems started again
On December 10th, we returned to the same critical situation when, my husband’s Director called him and made him sign a memorandum saying he would fix all machines within December 20th. My husband had been working with the companies for months and nothing had been resolved. The Director was aware of all this.
Naran advised us to download a picture of MUSTARD (Bach flower) and PINK TOURMALINE (gem remedy) and paste both on the name of my husband. And also chant the switch words “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW”.
Everything went smoothly like a whistle
Thanks to these divine interventions, the deadline passed off smoothly without an incident.
But the biggest challenge was negotiating the annual review that was due at the end of the month. The annual review would determine if he would stay or go. In the current economic market, it was very hard to land another job. Living in the US without citizenship meant that we had to show continuous employment status. We continued to chant TOGETHER CHANGE NOW and write the Ganapathi mantra daily.
Annual review came on the right time
The annual review was postponed to January. It so happened that Divine took care of everything so beautifully. On Thursday, his immediate supervisor completed my husband’s annual review and gave him glowing references. They also discussed about my husband getting more help in the lab, and reinstating his job to 100% from 75% that he is currently on.
Three days later, the Director who was shouting at him all the time, said that there was no need for another review and he had nothing to add or change to the review already performed, and he agreed with everything. Everyone who knows the Director says this is nothing short of a miracle!
The director accepted his failings openly
Last week, the Director called my husband privately and told him that his personality was that of a person who magnified the negative. From his interactions with my husband he is realizing that he had to appreciate everything positive and not pay so much importance to the negative.
My husband said he politely thanked him and left, but inside he was shouting ‘Together Divine’ in a deafening crescendo. He felt so happy that he didn’t have to say a word for this change to come over! The flowers, gems, the switch words are so beautiful and so powerful!
We successfully sailed through the stressful phase
We are grateful for the divine to have helped us through this difficult and stressful phase. The chants helped us stay focused and positive and not panic. We found time daily to chant ‘Together Divine’ and write ‘Om Gam Ganapathayae Namaha.’
Lessons learned
We understand and are grateful that our future unfolds in small clear steps.
We have the opportunity to be watchful, present and steer the direction of our life.
Naran taught us patiently and gently to keep our mind open to the gifts that every situation brings in and not be carry our old patterns with us.
We are continuing to learn.
Naran
Thank you for sharing. What we need is trust in divinity. Yours has vindicated that. Best of luck!!!
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Heal Your Heart Chakra
Naran
Our life is ruled by three chakras – Basic, Hara and Solar Plexus Chakras.
Yet, beyond them, we manage to express our love. We get close to people. We offer our thanks to all. All that because of one chakra and that is the Heart Chakra.
Heart Chakra is the fourth in line. It’s closer to Solar Plexus Chakra. On the chest, from breast draw a line. That’s the point where Heart Chakra is situated.
It is responsible for creation of heart and blood circulation.
It’s the reservoir of love. This chakra is reflected when we experience joy and enthusiasm with our friends and relatives.
If love is there, hate will be there too. If hate is filled in a place, then it’s a hell. Love is heaven and it increases our prana.
Heart chakra is mentally connected with love.
When you desire to make profits out of relationships (or anything for that matter with selfish intentions), we lose energy in this chakra.
If there is a relationship without a love, then it’s of no use, says the Heart Chakra.
We love our children and parents. We love somebody and hate somebody.
Hatred and sadness decreases energy and then we feel we can’t love anybody. We fight at office. When we come home, we should show love. Instead we fight.
If there is less energy in heart, we feel there is no love in life. We feel sad and think that nobody is there for us. With Heart Chakra, we need to love. Otherwise, we will deplete it!
Even if nobody loves you, love god, yourself, others and the world is the message from Reiki. If we GO for love, then the energy level of Heart Chakra expands and balances it.
When we get imbalanced due to Basic, Hara and Solar Plexus Chakras, then the energy level in those chakras shrink. But in the case of Heart Chakra, it’s never gets overfull. It can expand to any level.
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Unable to work due to surgery
Gomathy
I have lot of financial problems due to my husband being unable to work because of 2 surgeries (brain and spinal). The surgeries have left him depleted both physically and mentally.
Kindly give me a solution to my financial problems and also if possible his health.
Naran
For your husband, give YELLOW SAPPHIRE and CORAL pills regularly. You can get them from the centre.
For financial problem: write “FIND COUNT DIVINE NOW” for 120 times daily.
Chant “LALITHAM SRIDHARAM LALITHAM BASKARAM LALITHAM SUDARSHNAM”
Explanation
Recover lost health: YELLOW SAPPHIRE and CORAL
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Dark spots on face
Lupe
Guide me to control “dark spots” on face due to melisma or sun damage, I use bleaching cream HQ hydroquinone 4%, with no success.
Naran
You can take the flower remedies MUSTARD and CRAB APPLE
Explanation
To become fair: MUSTARD
Physical cleanser: CRAB APPLE
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Worried About Losing My Friendship
Client
I have a misunderstanding with a friend of mine. I am not sure, next time when I meet her, whether she will properly talk to me or not.
For the last two days, I have this anxiety. So, I released all my anxiety. Now I feel ok.
However, I am worried, when I meet her next time how she will react and how will I handle it.
Naran
1. Release the anxiety (worry).
2. You are having a desire to keep the friendship going. Release this desire too.
You are only releasing the thought, emotions and desires. You are not stopping the actions (to be her friend).
Here, instead of the enacting the usual drama we create, we simply observe what is happening in our mind. We release and observe the whole incident as a third person.
Which is convenient – fearing about something or releasing?
In the end, we keep the mind blank – free from worries, anger and fears.
What are the ultimate results we gain due to this technique?
As long as we are working from a noisy mind, there will not be any solution to the problem.
By releasing all the emotions (and thoughts and desires) one after another, we are taking one step after another towards a litter-free (mind) zone, where we will be free of our emotions and thoughts.
Then the solution for the problem will be found automatically as that part of the mind (litter free zone) knows how to tackle the problem.
In this technique, we do no prayers.
If my house is full of garbage what will I do?
I will simply clear them isn’t it? When I remove all the clutters in the house it becomes good.
In the same way, I release all the clutters from my mind.
Desire is the motivator behind our actions. For me what is motivating me to seek friendship in my friend? There is a desire for approval operating in it. Release it.
When anything comes inside your mind, Just say, “Can I release? Yes. I release this. I let go this…”
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Afraid of bad news
Madhu
From beginning of 2013 I am getting so many bad news like anyone sick, death news of relative, neighbor not feeling good.
For this am worried about my father too. As you know my relationship also in trouble. I am feeling little bit lonely and negative.
Naran
Take the flower remedies RED CHESTNUT, ASPEN and RESCUE REMEDY.
Explanation
Fear due to concern for others: RED CHESTNUT
Fears without a specific and valid reason: ASPEN
Getting panic: RESCUE REMEDY
Two months without salary
Client
It’s been two months without salary.
Company’s operations are very slow due to unavailable operating cost, shareholders are fighting, though they have assets but to liquidate them is a long process, huge pile of debts in market and nil credibility with banks.
Seems company is going to close down in near future unless DIVINE INTERVENTION takes place. I even heard they are planning to retrench 70% of staff soon.
Please advise any chanting for company’s regular business so salaries are not delayed further…
Naran
Chant “SWEET CHESTNUT, WALNUT, STAR OF BETHLEHEM, CHESTNUT BUD, DIVINE ORDER”
Client
After I senta mail to you, my senior messaged me that I need to travel to Singapore to look for apartment and school for the kids. The thing which is worrying me is I relocate and what if reaching there such delays in salary happens! How will I survive?
Sorry Naran, if it’s annoying you but being single parent Ineed to assure financial assurance for me and my kids. Besides chanting the above, do I need to chant anything else?
Naran
Continue the same.
Client
Thanks to You and Divine light… New investors are coming in hopefully. Really wish company grows and flourish with these new changes.
Salaries are released and all pending payments are settled… Thank God!
I am so glad that my boss is now allowing me to work couple of days to work from home when he is not in town. This way I can spend more quality time with kids and I pray Divine light to help me getting some tuition for evening, as additional source of income.
Explanation
Divine order is a switch word, while Sweet Chestnut, Star of Bethlehem and Chestnut Bud are Bach flower remedies.
For divine intervention: Sweet chestnut
Outside, unhelpful environment over which one has no control: Walnut
Total break-down because of the company: Star of Bethlehem
To get free from the bad situation: Chestnut bud
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Earn Without Employment
Student
After attending Naran Abundance workshop I did the “ABUNDANCE PROGRAMME”.
I started it almost after 15- 20 days attending the workshop.
Here I am listing all things regarding money or somehow related to it.
In the past I was penniless
Before that I like to tell you few words about my situation.
Right now I am not working. I left my job after marriage, due to some family issues.
It was almost 3 years back. And that was hard time for me.
Even though we have enough money in house, I couldn’t spend.
Even for small amount of money or small expenses too, I felt like beggar, jilted and distress as Hubby not used to give me money in hand due to our loans and not even for day-to-day expenses.
Today my situation has changed
In all these days, there was not any single moment of denial or refuse from husband, while giving me money.
And that was the biggest surprising part for me.
In this period I paid all my debts. (It was not very heavy, every time when my husband denied giving me money).
It was with my sister and friend. Now only remaining part is my mother – who helped me in form of money, when we bought a house.
She didn’t ask me to return anything. But still I feel I should give all her money back and other is workshop fees that I attended in Mumbai.
4th day – I got a call from old colleague. He is going to start his own company and he wants me to join there, but this is after few months in this year.
6th day – I wanted to return some money to my friend, which he gave me in my need,(3 months back) when I was afraid to ask/ demand money from my hubby.
Somehow, I wanted to return it at earliest. But, there was no money source for me. And after writing 5th statement I was crying. Hubby asked me the reason.
And for the first time I had the courage to tell truth to him that I borrowed money from someone and that I was feeling guilty on how I will repay to them.
The person who used to get so furious on such things was completely calm and gave me money to return, without saying a word.
10th day – without applying anywhere, got a call from some job site, that too on my 3-year-old resume.
11th day – surprise shopping for me from hubby.
13th day – been to interview. Same day got another job call.
15th day – 2nd interview.
16th day – got selected in 1st interview, but I was not keen to join. Again hubby gave me some money, without asking.
17th day – got a credit note of almost 25,000 Rupees from Mobile Company.
5 months back my hubby gifted me a smart phone, which suddenly stopped working. Service center people said that it got damaged and un-repairable.
And that same service center gave us a credit note same as the original purchase amount of phone. It will get cleared within a month. Nobody could believe that I am getting money instead of replacement!
27th day – Hubby gave me some money for doctor visit, which was 3 times extra of normal fees. He didn’t even ask me about remaining money, or bills, which he used to ask after every visit.
29th day – 2nd interview, cleared 2nd round. Got selection call in evening.
Again I couldn’t join here, because of family issues. Was little upset, but knew something good might come in future. 30th day- again some surprise money from hubby.
Will keep updating more!!
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Not able to get accommodation
Client: For the past three or four months we are trying to get the accommodation for type 5 quarters. We are currently staying in type 3 quarters (smaller house).
My husband is a government employee and we are due to type 5 quarters (it’s a bigger one) for several months.
Naran: You are not able to get that.
What are the feelings you are having?
What if you don’t get it?
Client: I am unhappy about it.
Naran: How you are maintaining that unhappy feeling?
You have been saying you are not getting the apartment that is due to your husband.
What is the thought that goes on in your mind?
Whom you are blaming for this situation?
You have to consider all of them.
What are you doing about the situation?
Client: We are trying for the same. But for several reasons like – the type 5 apartment is not available and the houses are given based on priority, and we are not getting the apartment yet.
Naran: What are the other thoughts you are getting?
Why you are not getting the accommodation?
Who is responsible for that?
What are the feelings you get – like for example, “It is not unfair that houses are given first to senior people”?
List all of them.
Whatever you thoughts and whatever you had said about the individuals concerned – the people who had to allocate the house for you, just list them out. Release each and every one of them.
What are advantages going to type 5?
What disadvantages staying in type 3?
Write them out. Why I want to move away from type 3 quarters? There has to be some reasons. List them out, one after another.
There is one problem over which you might be thinking about. We need to unearth those thoughts.
Now work on your “Likes and dislikes”.
Presently there is lack of space means that it’s a dislike isn’t it? Therefore, you don’t like the current house. Then how will you get a new house?
As long as you don’t like the present house, which means you are rejecting the present house, you will not get any new house.
It’s a rule, “Accept the present that you don’t want, to get the one you want”.
Therefore, you to need to accept whatever are available to you currently and you release all the dislikes that you have about your present house.
You are continuously cursing that the space in the current house is not enough.
What will happen if you continue to do complain?
Even if you move to bigger house, eventually you will be faced with lack of space. How?
Your husband will get more books and some of your relatives will move in. In the current house, her husband has completely filled one room with books.
Another rule: same reaction will get you a similar result, if not the same result.
Say “I release my desire to go to type 5 quarters”.
This is very important.
Unconsciously you have the resistance to go to type 5 quarters. Therefore, say, “I release my resistance to go to type 5 quarters”.
What is meant by resistance to type 5 quarters?
There is a desire to be in type 3 quarters. Unconsciously, you want to be in type 3 quarters because there is some advantage staying there.
Client: The advantage staying in type 3 quarters is that we are staying in the ground floor.
Naran: You have a desire to be in ground floor. This desire stops you from moving to type 5. Release that desire to be in type 3 quarters.
For all (troublesome) situations we are the reason behind it.
Whether she gets type 5 quarters or not, that is a different issue. Clean the clutters of your mind.
If you have the feeling, “Let it come when it has to come” then only it will come to you.
Instead, till such time (until you get the type 5 quarters) a fight goes inside, spoils your mood and you feel tensed all the time.
In addition, always you are angry about concerned authorities and criticizing the government officials. Release each and everything.
In the morning (before you came for the class) you would have picked up a fight with your spouse. You can release that even now (thus past is healed).
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Retired From Government Service
Naran
Ramachandran retired from his government services. He got a sum of five lakhs of rupees towards his final settlement.
Ramachandran was always thinking about his office. I gave him WALNUT (for transition) and HONEYSUCKLE (not to think about the office) separately.
Chandran a friend of Ramachandran asked him to deposit a sum of five lakhs of rupees in a benefit fund, where Chandran is working and he had meet his target.
Ramachandran said yes. He wrote the cheque and asked his friend to collect it in the evening, as the time then is auspicious.
Around 11 am, Ramachandran heard the news that his uncle has passed away. Therefore, he left for Coimbatore.
“Life events happen without asking us. We are always concerned about our children, our environment and us.
However, for divinity, every molecule in this Universe is important. It would have preferred him not to give the cheque.”
He informed Chandran from the bus stand, that he would come back and give the cheque after two days.
Nevertheless, Chandran insisted that he needs it to complete his target ASAP. Ramachandran pleaded his inability to give the cheque.
Ramachandran came back after 3 days, just to realize the closure of the benefit fund due to lack of funds.
He mentioned to me that one of the flowers has stopped him from paying the money and losing it.
I told him, “It is Honey Suckle.”
Before taking any important decisions, take HONEYSUCKLE, for example in the case of letting out our homes or leasing it.
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