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Easy Way to Reach Divine
GA
During last week, I had been diagnosed with ectopic/tubal pregnancy.
Foetus was healthy and well growing, but growing at wrong place. So, as per doctor’s advice, I had to terminate that pregnancy.
I remained sad for one two days and not only me but whole family was sad.
I know everything is happening for the best and according to all merciful supreme lords’ will. I myself have seen so many worst looking events turning into beneficial ones afterwards.
But, during the moments of emotional trauma all this theoretical and practical knowledge disappears from mind.
Is there any method or technique other than meditation to train our minds to happily and calmly accept all such events, which are beyond our control and purely according to divine will?
And how should we perceive such incidents to feel less or no grief?
Naran
Feeling less grief is not to be imposed.
Go through the emotions, which naturally surface and bow to them and come out.
When there is great distress over grief or when there is reason for grieving, weep, weep.
Weeping is easy way of reaching the divine.
Let us not feel shy for weeping. Yes, there was expectation in vain. Feel sad and weep to get over that. Weeping intensely will ultimately relieve you from the burden.
A solace is given by weeping. When you think that you can no more weep, just say, “I bow to this weeping and go beyond this state.”
Repeat within after the weeping episode, the Radha’s prayer:
“Krishna, my lord, whether thou chooses for me life or death, happiness or sorrow , pleasure or suffering, all that comes to me from thee, is always welcome”.
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Basic Thing to Improve a Relationship
Is forgiving the concerned person(s)…
Mona
My problem is my love relationship.
I am in a relationship for the past 3 years. From the beginning only we use to fight a lot but there is immense love and care also for each other.
But, few months ago he said that his family is not accepting our relationship due to inter-caste issues.
He is also fed up of my suspicious and fighting nature. In addition, he is not ready for commitment.
We tried to end up this relationship, yet still we are in talking terms.
Taking help from your blog, I started writing the affirmation, “TOGETHER I thank the divine for getting me <his name> as a life partner NOW DONE” for 21 times daily along with writing 58 for 58 times.
Also, I’m continuously chanting, “CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE <his name> PARTNER HOLE”.
I have also kept the power symbol 47 and 66 with me.
But nothing is helping. Neither things are improving nor are they ending completely.
At times, I feel like its divine wish that we should stay together that’s why in spite of deciding to part our ways, somehow we are still in terms.
Pls help me out of this situation – either things should improve or end up completely by divine grace.
Naran
Do the forgiving exercise for him.
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Winning Switch Words Part III
Naran
Switch Word(s) | Description |
On | Not getting stuck up in a situation
No interruptions Get creative ideas Stay alert and awake when you work during late nights |
Off | Sleep well |
Reach | Find the lost article |
Reach Divine Order | To come out of long-held negative beliefs |
Release Resistance | If healing doesn’t happen even after several attempts add these switch words to the healing combination of remedies (during chanting)/ switch words |
Release Resistance Find Buyer Count Now Done | To find a buyer for your property hasn’t yielded any results even after many efforts.
Buyer is not a switch word. |
Slow Care | Wise people act slowly and carefully, so to become wise these switch words |
Stretch On | To able to continue doing the task you are currently doing comfortably, especially when you are tired |
Thanks | To show attitude of gratitude |
Together | To work out a good relationship with others
Have a balanced mind Get co-operation from colleagues To find resolution and resolve conflict with others |
Together Find Centre Divine Love | To find love within and in-turn attract love in your life |
Together Divine | To improve relationship with your spouse
Bring peace into the family when there is on-going quarrel |
Together Find Divine Love | Attract love and people |
Together Find Divine Order Count Now On | To get a salary hike
To find money and order out of a situation |
Together Reach Divine Love Centre | Attain Soul Love |
UP | To manage your depression |
With | To become compatible with a person |
Why | It’s an afformation. You ask the brain why something you want has happened. It will find that out for you and make it happen. |
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Winning Switch Words Part I
Naran
Switch Word(s) | Description |
ADJUST | To adjust comfortably to a situation |
BE | Be in good health |
BOW CONCEDE | To surrender to the situation that is unsolvable and eventually win over it |
BOW CONCEDE TOGETHER DIVINE | To stop in-fighting within the house/ team |
CANCEL | Cancel your worries/ behaviour/ tendencies |
CLEAR | Clear your obstacles |
CHANGE | Transition to a new situation/ environment, new place |
CHANGE DIVINE ORDER | Restoring your health, Reduces painCreate a peaceful atmosphere
Clean up garbage Change to divine order |
CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE BE FIND DIVINE ORDER NOW DONE | To be in optimal health |
CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE ORDER | Manage un-manageable situations |
CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE LOVE | To shower/ find love among your friends, family and relatives |
CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE LOVE WITH <name of the person> | To improve your communication and love with a specific person (say the name of the person after the switch words) |
DIVINE | By magic |
DIVINE ON | Excel in studies/ job |
DIVINE ORDER | To find order in a situation, to make everything fall into place |
DONE | Get it done, and complete a task |
ELATE | To get an upbeat mood |
If What is going to happen will happen, Why to chant?
Bhavi
In the past, I have chanted, prayed a lot, with full faith in universal divine force. But, I was always told you can’t change anything. What is going to happen will happen? Nobody can change anything.
I still have faith and trust. However, I always had a question in mind then why do we pray and chant the mantras if they are not going to bring positivity to the concerned situation?
Is it fear of something negative happening to us and our family, which brings us, back again to chanting and praying?
Naran
You cannot always get what you want. Sometimes, you can get what you don’t want. These are two life rules, which we have to accept.
It is the mind which plays the game. If something does not happen, we wallow; if something happens, we elate. How long is this elation?
After some time, we need something else and again mental emotional drama begins. It is because we attach importance to the result only and not to the action.
If the action is done, and the result is surrendered, you will remain peaceful always.
Ultimately, what we want in life is either peace or happiness. To get happiness or peace is the aim of all.
Surrendering the result to the hands of Divine only can give you peace or happiness. Chanting or healing aims at changing the mind to accept what is happening.
Best of luck!!
Husband is angry, while I am smiling
Sreelu
I am chanting “OM HREEM TAHA” and also giving it to my family members. I feel good.
I am even chanting it holding my husband’s photo and my daughters too, as ours is a short-tempered family. I am feeling a difference in the way we are handling things.
When my husband is angry I am smiling and answering. Sometimes, he is ignoring my comments.
However, I see good results. How many days shall I continue doing this?
Naran
Continue.
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