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Basic Thing to Improve a Relationship

10 years ago

by admin in Forgiveness How and Why

Is forgiving the concerned person(s)…

Mona

My problem is my love relationship.

I am in a relationship for the past 3 years. From the beginning only we use to fight a lot but there is immense love and care also for each other.

But, few months ago he said that his family is not accepting our relationship due to inter-caste issues.

He is also fed up of my suspicious and fighting nature. In addition, he is not ready for commitment.

We tried to end up this relationship, yet still we are in talking terms.

Taking help from your blog, I started writing the affirmation, “TOGETHER I thank the divine for getting me <his name> as a life partner NOW DONE” for 21 times daily along with writing 58 for 58 times.

Also, I’m continuously chanting, “CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE <his name> PARTNER HOLE”.

I have also kept the power symbol 47 and 66 with me.

But nothing is helping. Neither things are improving nor are they ending completely.

At times, I feel like its divine wish that we should stay together that’s why in spite of deciding to part our ways, somehow we are still in terms.

Pls help me out of this situation – either things should improve or end up completely by divine grace.

Naran

Do the forgiving exercise for him.

Make one talk

10 years ago

by admin in Married Life

Bhuvana

I feel my husband is not transparent with me sometimes. Yes, he hides so many things from me.

However, he is not going in any wrong way. Still it’s painful for me. If I go ahead and talk to him about this, we end up in fight and the day is so painful.

Naran

Chant “AGRIMONY, CHESTNUT BUD” over a glass of water and drink it daily.

Explanation

The negative Agrimony person will not reveal his feelings. He will be hiding, what he does. When questioned, he will say “nothing” to avoid being exposed.

Avoidance is the negative aspect of Chestnut Bud.

To know the truth from the person, both are given. Then the person will open up.

Thus, AGRIMONY and CHESTNUT BUD will help them to open up and share their inner turmoil.

This combination is good for patients who go for a psychotherapy session. Without any difficulty they will share their feelings.

Reach destination on time

10 years ago

by admin in Travel

Yasoshree

6 months before my family has shifted to new place near Bhubaneswar. Every day, my husband faces the problem of getting auto rickshaw due to poor road conditions.

The auto driver charge more than usual fare taking advantage of this condition and my husband have fight with them regarding auto fare.

Due to all these happenings, he reaches office lately.

Please suggest any remedy for my husband so that he will not face problem of getting auto and reach his destination on time.

Naran

Call WOLF for getting the auto.

While sitting in the auto ask him to chant MIMULUS.

The Bach Flower Remedy Mimulus chanting will help one get the right fare

Priya

Call the Animal Spirit Guide before getting out of the house and request the Wolf to help your husband get to the office on time….the WOLF will do miracles.

Sunita

Hi Priya,

You are right. I too found the wolf very helpful while travelling many a times to new places. Thanks

Heal Your Heart Chakra

10 years ago

by admin in Reiki

Naran

Our life is ruled by three chakras – Basic, Hara and Solar Plexus Chakras.

Yet, beyond them, we manage to express our love. We get close to people. We offer our thanks to all. All that because of one chakra and that is the Heart Chakra.

Heart Chakra is the fourth in line. It’s closer to Solar Plexus Chakra. On the chest, from breast draw a line. That’s the point where Heart Chakra is situated.

It is responsible for creation of heart and blood circulation.

It’s the reservoir of love. This chakra is reflected when we experience joy and enthusiasm with our friends and relatives.

If love is there, hate will be there too. If hate is filled in a place, then it’s a hell. Love is heaven and it increases our prana.

Heart chakra is mentally connected with love.

When you desire to make profits out of relationships (or anything for that matter with selfish intentions), we lose energy in this chakra.

If there is a relationship without a love, then it’s of no use, says the Heart Chakra.

We love our children and parents. We love somebody and hate somebody.

Hatred and sadness decreases energy and then we feel we can’t love anybody. We fight at office. When we come home, we should show love. Instead we fight.

If there is less energy in heart, we feel there is no love in life. We feel sad and think that nobody is there for us. With Heart Chakra, we need to love. Otherwise, we will deplete it!

Even if nobody loves you, love god, yourself, others and the world is the message from Reiki. If we GO for love, then the energy level of Heart Chakra expands and balances it.

When we get imbalanced due to Basic, Hara and Solar Plexus Chakras, then the energy level in those chakras shrink. But in the case of Heart Chakra, it’s never gets overfull. It can expand to any level.

Need a Fair Treatment in Court

10 years ago

by admin in Court

Naran

Mother Kaushalya told Rama when he was leaving for the forest that he will always be protected by Dharma (fairness) and Satyam (truthfulness) and will shadow him throughout the journey.

Both Dharma and Satyam have separate consciousness – which means that they are energy entities and therefore you can call them anytime for help.

Let us say in the court proceedings, you want fairness in favour of you.

You can directly talk to Dharma and Satyam and ask them, “Please be with me for next eight hrs”.

They will be with you and will get the verdict in favour of you.

When Satyam and Dharma accompanies a person nothing can go against the person.

Call Dharma and Satyam and affirm, “As it prevailed with Rama, please be with us”.

Divine Will from Her Father

10 years ago

by admin in Mind-Body Intelligence

Naran

Conflict among the siblings over their parent’s property

There was a conflict among some siblings over their parental property. One of the sisters is very poor and she developed a knee problem.

Here, the message from her body is that she should not be possessive and had to give up.

Interestingly, while the sister who was very badly in need of money had the knee problem, none of her siblings have got any knee problems.

As per the will, she is getting lesser share than others. Others were getting some cash too, while she was not getting any.

She totally believed me and whatever I tell her, she was ready to follow.

I told her to accept whatever was given to her. I asked her to chant, ‘I am ready to submit myself to the Divine Will’. When she started to chant, the pain went off.

Now came the interesting climax

The area allotted for all of them was to be either in ground floor or third floor. They decided to go for the draw and in that she was allotted the third floor area.

Again, she approached me. She wept over her situation and I gave her the Bach Flower Rescue Remedy (to calm her down).

In the flat opposite to hers, which was for sale, was bought by a family. There was a boy in that family who was in marriageable age.

The whole family liked this lady as well as her daughter very much. The family wanted the daughter to get married to their son.

In addition, there was no demand (dowry) from the boy’s side. They also took care of the marriage expenses. Thus, there were no expenses whatsoever for the girl’s side.

The couple now very happily settled.

Body puts us in the path created for us by divinity

So we do not know what is there in store for us by the Divine. By god’s grace she accepted whatever I told her and accepted the property given to her.

The body is nothing but the Divine. We have to accept the message it is giving and act accordingly. At each and every step it guides us.

However, we fail to understand the message. We do not how to infer the messages from the body and we never take care of the body either.

Should I divorce?

10 years ago

by admin in Divorce

GDS

Mine was a love marriage. With parents’ consent we got married 1.5 years back. But, I am not happy with my marital life.

There is always interference of in-laws. We don’t lead a very happy and peaceful life.

On top of that, my husband hits me, when his temper goes out of control. We argue and fight for small things and end up with hatred. There is no romance and happiness.

Should I divorce, or is there any other remedy?

Naran

Do the forgiving exercise.

Chant “BOW CONCEDE, END SHUT LIMIT, TOGETHER DIVINE”

Explanation

BOW CONCEDE END SHUT LIMIT: Surrender the ego, which comes in the way of harmony, and allowing the inner self to take control of the life.

TOGETHER DIVINE: Find harmony

Not able to get accommodation

10 years ago

by admin in Rule Your Mind

Client: For the past three or four months we are trying to get the accommodation for type 5 quarters. We are currently staying in type 3 quarters (smaller house).

My husband is a government employee and we are due to type 5 quarters (it’s a bigger one) for several months.

Naran: You are not able to get that.

What are the feelings you are having?

What if you don’t get it?

Client: I am unhappy about it.

Naran: How you are maintaining that unhappy feeling?

You have been saying you are not getting the apartment that is due to your husband.

What is the thought that goes on in your mind?

Whom you are blaming for this situation?

You have to consider all of them.

What are you doing about the situation?

Client: We are trying for the same. But for several reasons like – the type 5 apartment is not available and the houses are given based on priority, and we are not getting the apartment yet.

Naran: What are the other thoughts you are getting?

Why you are not getting the accommodation?

Who is responsible for that?

What are the feelings you get – like for example, “It is not unfair that houses are given first to senior people”?

List all of them.

Whatever you thoughts and whatever you had said about the individuals concerned – the people who had to allocate the house for you, just list them out. Release each and every one of them.

What are advantages going to type 5?

What disadvantages staying in type 3?

Write them out. Why I want to move away from type 3 quarters? There has to be some reasons. List them out, one after another.

There is one problem over which you might be thinking about. We need to unearth those thoughts.

Now work on your “Likes and dislikes”.

Presently there is lack of space means that it’s a dislike isn’t it? Therefore, you don’t like the current house. Then how will you get a new house?

As long as you don’t like the present house, which means you are rejecting the present house, you will not get any new house.

It’s a rule, “Accept the present that you don’t want, to get the one you want”.

Therefore, you to need to accept whatever are available to you currently and you release all the dislikes that you have about your present house.

You are continuously cursing that the space in the current house is not enough.

What will happen if you continue to do complain?

Even if you move to bigger house, eventually you will be faced with lack of space. How?

Your husband will get more books and some of your relatives will move in. In the current house, her husband has completely filled one room with books.

Another rule: same reaction will get you a similar result, if not the same result.

Say “I release my desire to go to type 5 quarters”.

This is very important.

Unconsciously you have the resistance to go to type 5 quarters. Therefore, say, “I release my resistance to go to type 5 quarters”.

What is meant by resistance to type 5 quarters?

There is a desire to be in type 3 quarters. Unconsciously, you want to be in type 3 quarters because there is some advantage staying there.

Client: The advantage staying in type 3 quarters is that we are staying in the ground floor.

Naran: You have a desire to be in ground floor. This desire stops you from moving to type 5. Release that desire to be in type 3 quarters.

For all (troublesome) situations we are the reason behind it.

Whether she gets type 5 quarters or not, that is a different issue. Clean the clutters of your mind.

If you have the feeling, “Let it come when it has to come” then only it will come to you.

Instead, till such time (until you get the type 5 quarters) a fight goes inside, spoils your mood and you feel tensed all the time.

In addition, always you are angry about concerned authorities and criticizing the government officials. Release each and everything.

In the morning (before you came for the class) you would have picked up a fight with your spouse. You can release that even now (thus past is healed).

Life situations where Walnut is helpful

10 years ago

by admin in Bach Flower Remedy

Naran

When I go to a person for request: (Bach Flower Remedies) BEECH and WALNUT

To make person easily approachable: WALNUT and WATER VIOLET

Uphill task: WALNUT and HORNBEAM

To begin: WALNUT is like ‘PILLAYAR SULI” (a symbol in Tamil that invokes the blessings of Lord Ganesha – the remover of obstacles)

To end: WALNUT because beginning is end of something else.

To begin communication, to re-establish communication and I don’t know how to start the communication: WALNUT

Sharing the ancestral property: WALNUT

When one withholds info, as in a therapy: AGRIMONY and WALNUT

Work is not challenging: WALNUT

Puberty: WALNUT

To come out of too much of TV watching and speaking on mobile phones, or any other form of addiction: WALNUT, SCLERANTHUS

WALNUT protects our boundaries

First marriage ended in a divorce, not to attract the same type of person in the second marriage: WALNUT

I feel rejected: CHICORY, WALNUT

I am easily offended (highly sensitive): CHICORY, HOLLY, and WALNUT

The antonym of attraction is Resistance – resistance means to fight against or refrain from temptation. To refrain from any temptation: WALNUT and CHERRY PLUM

When the child revolts and throw temper tantrums: CHICORY, HOLLY and WALNUT

When completion is not happening in any work, for example not completing the book you promised to write and it’s half-done: WALNUT, OAK and HORNBEAM

Defense against a verbal attack – WALNUT, PINE (when you are constantly criticized) – for example, due a strict father his son is afraid.

The antonym of attraction is Hindrance. Therefore, to give/get a helping hand: WALNUT (it works like Wolf animal spirit).

When there is Delay, Obstruction, and Resistance: WALNUT.

When somebody prevents (hinders) promotion: WILLOW and WALNUT (“if he wants, he can help but he didn’t or he spoiled it”)

All of us worried about ****** (7.5 years itch): WALNUT

He is afraid he will fail in the exam (transition from one class to another), Interview or reapplying for a new passport: WALNUT

When others are unreasonable: WILLOW, WALNUT

When anybody is merciless: WALNUT

When a person is avoiding you: ROCK WATER, CHESTNUT BUD and WALNUT

Reconciling to the situation: WALNUT

For a caring, co-operative, friendly, generous, helpful, kind atmosphere: WALNUT

Any stiffness: WALNUT, ROCK WATER. When the atmosphere is tensed, when there is tension, WALNUT is the remedy.

Walnut is the remedy for relaxation. Antonyms for stiff are easy and relax. For relaxation – WALNUT

If you are uncomfortable to attend a VIP’s marriage: WALNUT, WATER VIOLET and LARCH (you will be treated well)

If anyone is possessive, selfish, greedy, demanding, stingy: CHICORY, WALNUT

To stop the bleeding: RESCUE REMEDY, WALNUT

Want to hurry up: IMPATIENS and WALNUT – then the program may not start on time

Children during teenage — not to be influenced by peers and friends – WALNUT protects the child

The child will cry, whenever parents criticize: RESCUE REMEDY and WALNUT (it will find balance and protect self).

Due to constant criticism a child will become HEATHER. To prevent that from happening in the future, Walnut is the remedy.

Walnut tree is big. When the flower blooms its smell is so strong, insects and other flies will keep away. So it can protect the self.

Allergic to smell – (gem remedy) YELLOW SAPPHIRE and WALNUT

Give the remedies always separately.

In Nutshell

The goal of Walnut’s healing is to have constancy and stability in one’s life!!!

‘PILLAYAR SULI” 7.5 about addiction afraid against AGRIMONY Allergic Ancestral Animal. Spirit antonym any approachable atmosphere attack attend attract attraction avoiding Bach flower balance BEECH begin beginning big bleeding blessings blooms book boundaries caring challenging CHERRY PLUM CHESTNUT BUD Chicory child children class co-operative communication Completion constancy criticize criticized cry Defense delay demanding divorce during easily easy END ended exam fail father feel fight find first flies Flower form Friendly friends from future gem generous get GIVE goal greedy half-done hand happening Have healing HEATHER HELP helpful helping highly hinders Hindrance HOLLY HORNBEAM how hurry IMPATIENS in influenced info insects Interview invokes is itch KIND know LARCH life like Lord Ganesha make marriage means merciless mobile phones Naran new Not Nutshell OAK obstacles Obstruction of offended on parents passport peers person PINE possessive prevents Program promised promotion property protects Puberty re-establish reapplying Reconciling refrain rejected relaxation remedies remedy remover request RESCUE REMEDY resistance revolts ROCK WATER same Saturn SCLERANTHUS second self selfish sensitive separately Sharing situations smell son speaking spoiled Stability start stiffness stingy stop strict strong symbol Tamil tantrums task teenage temper temptation tensed Tension Therapy throw time to Transition treated tree TV type uncomfortable unreasonable up Uphill verbal VIP’s WALNUT want watching WATER VIOLET well where WILLOW withholds Wolf work worried Write years Yellow Sapphire

Life situations where Walnut is helpful

10 years ago

by admin in Bach Flower Remedy

Naran

When I go to a person for request: (Bach Flower Remedies) BEECH and WALNUT

To make person easily approachable: WALNUT and WATER VIOLET

Uphill task: WALNUT and HORNBEAM

To begin: WALNUT is like ‘PILLAYAR SULI” (a symbol in Tamil that invokes the blessings of Lord Ganesha – the remover of obstacles)

To end: WALNUT because beginning is end of something else.

To begin communication, to re-establish communication and I don’t know how to start the communication: WALNUT

Sharing the ancestral property: WALNUT

When one withholds info, as in a therapy: AGRIMONY and WALNUT

Work is not challenging: WALNUT

Puberty: WALNUT

To come out of too much of TV watching and speaking on mobile phones, or any other form of addiction: WALNUT, SCLERANTHUS

WALNUT protects our boundaries

First marriage ended in a divorce, not to attract the same type of person in the second marriage: WALNUT

I feel rejected: CHICORY, WALNUT

I am easily offended (highly sensitive): CHICORY, HOLLY, and WALNUT

The antonym of attraction is Resistance – resistance means to fight against or refrain from temptation. To refrain from any temptation: WALNUT and CHERRY PLUM

When the child revolts and throw temper tantrums: CHICORY, HOLLY and WALNUT

When completion is not happening in any work, for example not completing the book you promised to write and it’s half-done: WALNUT, OAK and HORNBEAM

Defense against a verbal attack – WALNUT, PINE (when you are constantly criticized) – for example, due a strict father his son is afraid.

The antonym of attraction is Hindrance. Therefore, to give/get a helping hand: WALNUT (it works like Wolf animal spirit). When there is Delay, Obstruction, and Resistance: WALNUT. When somebody prevents (hinders) promotion: WILLOW and WALNUT (“if he wants, he can help but he didn’t or he spoiled it”)

All of us worried about ****** (7.5 years itch): WALNUT

He is afraid he will fail in the exam (transition from one class to another), Interview or reapplying for a new passport: WALNUT

When others are unreasonable: WILLOW, WALNUT

When anybody is merciless: WALNUT

When a person is avoiding you: ROCK WATER, CHESTNUT BUD and WALNUT

Reconciling to the situation: WALNUT

For a caring, co-operative, friendly, generous, helpful, kind atmosphere: WALNUT

Any stiffness: WALNUT, ROCK WATER. When the atmosphere is tensed, when there is tension, WALNUT is the remedy. Walnut is the remedy for relaxation. Antonyms for stiff are easy and relax. For relaxation – WALNUT

If you are uncomfortable to attend a VIP’s marriage: WALNUT, WATER VIOLET and LARCH (you will be treated well)

If anyone is possessive, selfish, greedy, demanding, stingy: CHICORY, WALNUT

To stop the bleeding: RESCUE REMEDY, WALNUT

Want to hurry up: IMPATIENS and WALNUT – then the program may not start on time

Children during teenage — not to be influenced by peers and friends – WALNUT protects the child

The child will cry, whenever parents criticize: RESCUE REMEDY and WALNUT (it will find balance and protect self). Due to constant criticism a child will become HEATHER. To prevent that from happening in the future, Walnut is the remedy. Walnut tree is big. When the flower blooms its smell is so strong, insects and other flies will keep away. So it can protect the self.

Allergic to smell – (gem remedy) YELLOW SAPPHIRE and WALNUT

Give the remedies always separately.

In Nutshell

The goal of Walnut’s healing is to have constancy and stability in one’s life!!!

‘PILLAYAR SULI” 7.5 about addiction afraid against AGRIMONY Allergic Ancestral Animal. Spirit antonym any approachable atmosphere attack attend attract attraction avoiding Bach flower balance BEECH begin beginning big bleeding blessings blooms book boundaries caring challenging CHERRY PLUM CHESTNUT BUD Chicory child children class co-operative communication Completion constancy criticize criticized cry Defense delay demanding divorce during easily easy END ended exam fail father feel fight find first flies Flower form Friendly friends from future gem generous get GIVE goal greedy half-done hand happening Have healing HEATHER HELP helpful helping highly hinders Hindrance HOLLY HORNBEAM how hurry IMPATIENS in influenced info insects Interview invokes is itch KIND know LARCH life like Lord Ganesha make marriage means merciless mobile phones Naran new Not Nutshell OAK obstacles Obstruction of offended on parents passport peers person PINE possessive prevents Program promised promotion property protects Puberty re-establish reapplying Reconciling refrain rejected relaxation remedies remedy remover request RESCUE REMEDY resistance revolts ROCK WATER same Saturn SCLERANTHUS second self selfish sensitive separately Sharing situations smell son speaking spoiled Stability start stiffness stingy stop strict strong symbol Tamil tantrums task teenage temper temptation tensed Tension Therapy throw time to Transition treated tree TV type uncomfortable unreasonable up Uphill verbal VIP’s WALNUT want watching WATER VIOLET well where WILLOW withholds Wolf work worried Write years Yellow Sapphire

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