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Within the Budget
Naran
MIMULUS is a good remedy to handle your expenses within a budget.
Any auto driver will only demand exact fare, thanks to Mimulus, as getting an auto driver to agree for a right fare is a nightmare these days, especially during the nights!
You are performing a function. You will complete the function within the specified budget, if you take MIMULUS.
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Dancing to the tune of the dance teacher:
https://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2009/11/01/dancing-to-the-tune-of-the-dance-teacher/
Find a House within Your budget:
https://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2012/07/30/find-a-house-within-your-budget/
Create positives out of a situation
Naran
Let us see an example
“My husband is not good. He is irritating too”, says the wife.
She is blaming her husband here.
If she has to handle this situation, then what resource (quality) she needs to handle it?
Does she needs to be courageous, be more loving and caring, or be bold?
When there is a problem, you need to ask yourself, “What one resource will enrich me and will help me to handle this life situation”.
This way you are healing yourself. Instead, if some person is angry and you also get angry, then you are gone.
So what do we need here?
People would say she needs patience and tolerance.
What’s patience?
Patience is the quality or ability to withstand a situation without getting angry or upset.
If that’s the case, then the Bach Flower IMPATIENS is the remedy. Impatiens will create patience inside you.
You need tolerance also. BEECH is the remedy for it.
Beech and Impatiens go together in cultivating tolerance and patience.
Developing a Life Strategy
Quality of patience, without getting upset or angry about the other person, is waiting inside us, waiting for the right opportunity.
We all need it. If I have it, then I will be striking at the right moment. It’s a Life Strategy.
If we have this quality, we will have more consideration and caring for other people. To develop this strategy, take the flower remedy IMPATIENS.
If I cultivate patience and tolerance (Beech and Impatiens), then I will become more considerate.
Consideration means, there is more love and affection for other person. Then we will become accommodative.
To be more caring, after being considerate, HOLLY is the remedy.
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Audit your thoughts:
https://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2013/09/19/audit-your-thoughts/
The Universal Lover:
https://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/09/05/the-universal-lover/
Say Yes For No
Naran
Sheela was doing business with a company. They owe her 4.5 lakhs. She made a commitment to her supplier based on that.
But as the customer didn’t give the money, she couldn’t meet her supplier and therefore she was afraid to see him.
“I am afraid” she said, being afraid of the supplier: MIMULUS was given.
After one week she opened up. “All of my problems are due to my inability to say no”. I gave her CENTAURY.
After ten days, she met me again and said that her sister is the root cause of all the problems. Therefore, she took WILLOW for blaming others for her life situation.
She got payment from her customer soon afterwards.
Here we could have analyzed how to handle non-payment of dues owed to you. It will not work here.
Find out what’s the expression of the patient? Treat it. Heal it. Solution will appear automatically.
Related Posts
Don’t be Sympathetic Be Empathetic: https://healbyreiki.wordpress.com/2010/07/19/don%E2%80%99t-be-sympathetic-be-empathetic/
Don’t let others use your goodwill: https://healbyreiki.wordpress.com/2011/02/22/don%E2%80%99t-let-others-use-your-goodwill/
How to handle people who are angry?
Naran
If someone is angry against you, the FIRE element is more inside you.
To pacify it, you have to react in a different way. If you activate WATER and EARTH elements, then you will become patient and relaxed.
The PRAN MUDRA – little and ring fingers touching the tip on both the hands, will activate your earth and water elements.
When such an unusual response is given – instead of reacting with other person angrily, you treat him in a peaceful manner, then the opposite person don’t have a choice but to react in a different way.
We can also reduce our Anger.
Reduce Your Pain
V
My husband is having severe pain in left leg (thigh), since last 3 days and its increasing day by day.
Naran
Chant “CALM BEAR DIVINE GLORY” over a glass of water and give him.
Explanation
The switch words will help one to CALMLY BEAR the pain, thanks to the DIVINE and heal the attention, you needed (GLORY).
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You can handle all your pains: http://reachnaran.com/you-can-handle-all-your-pains/
Cannot support my parents: https://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2013/07/15/cannot-support-my-parents/
Patience alone can help us
Simran
If he shows anger on me, according to him, I should behave like a matured wife. I should behave same as in normal condition, in a polite way.
He loves me through my politeness. These are his expectations.
Can I change myself through this way, because if he becomes angry I can’t handle him politely?
At that time, I feel bad why he should get angry on me. And I don’t like his bad behavior either.
However, if by changing my behavior, my relationship takes a good way, then I am ready to become polite.
Naran
When he gets angry, be in the SAFE and SECURE MUDRA and chant “CHERRY PLUM, IMPATIENS”.
Our endurance and patience only can help us.
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Patience is the key: http://joboneoone.wordpress.com/2013/11/26/patience-is-the-key/
Your spouse is possessive: http://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2014/01/28/your-spouse-is-possessive/
Clear Medical Exam for Permanent Residency
Shilaben
One of my parents has to clear the medical exam to get permanent residence (PR) in Canada.
Naran
Write “WATER VIOLET, LARCH, GENTIAN, WILD ROSE, MIMULUS” in a paper and ask them to keep it.
You can chant for them too.
Explanation
The standard Bach Flower combination for any type of interview is WATER VIOLET, LARCH, GENTIAN and WILD ROSE, to face the interview members and reply confidently.
The remedy MIMULUS is included to handle the fear associated with getting the permanent residency.