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Mantra for a Happy Married Life

Minee

I heard a lot about you from my friends.

I’m facing a lot of problems as I’m in love with a guy since past 8 years. He also loves me a lot.

My family has agreed regarding our marriage issues but his family is totally against it as our horoscopes are not matching as I have KAL SARP YOG in my horoscope.

What should I chant in order to remove all these obstacles and his family agrees?

Anu

As suggested by you, I am chanting (switching words) “CLIMB ADJUST TOGETHER CHANGE DIVINE” daily 200 times, for removing little fighting in between me and my would-be husband.

Just 25 days are left for our marriage but there is daily fight between us on phone. I want a loveable and harmonious relation between us.

We get normal after 2 days. I want that nobody can put finger on our fighting as ours is a love marriage.

I want these fights to far away from my both families so that there should be peace and love between us.

Naran

(For both Minee and Anu…the following answer)

Whether the horoscope matches or not, all the couples should understand each other, trust that both live to love each other, shed the ego which is the cause of all conflict, reach harmony somehow, praising each other instead of finding fault, and understanding to communicate after listening.

Chant “BOW PRAISE TOGETHER REACH DIVINE LOVE LISTEN BETWEEN” is the mantra for your happy married life.

Anu

I am really feeling glad for your response. Every answer and solution suggested by you really gives us message and lesson!

Thank you Naran!!

Related Posts

Marriage got fixed after a long period of waiting: https://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/03/16/marriage-got-fixed-after-a-long-period-of-waiting/

Raining clouds: https://marriagemantri.wordpress.com/2013/08/27/raining-clouds/

How Mind Affects Our Prana?

Read the first part of the article, “Increase Your Energy Levels” here: http://reachnaran.com/increase-your-energy-levels/

Naran

Anger and worry will reduce the Prana inside us. If Prana is reduced, then your physical vitality will also be reduced.

Within worry, there is fear and sadness. Anger has jealousy, envy, likes and dislikes behind it.

What will increase Prana then?

When you do yoga for example, it will and due to that, it stabilizes the physical stuff.

Prana also can be increased by having certain states of mind.

What are those mental states that increase the Prana and thus our degree of vitality levels?

According to Dr. Mikao Usui – the founder of Reiki, the following principles do that:

  •   Be honest

You should act with your conscience;

  •  Be kind to others – express kindness and love to others.

Even if you see a cockroach struggling to get up from its upside down position, you should help it, to regain its position. This single act alone can increase your Pranic energy thousand fold.

  •  Have an Attitude of Gratitude

For anything good done to us, we have to say thanks; especially for parents we have to keep on say love and thanks as we owe so much to them.

  •  Also say thanks to others – even to your enemy. He will become your friend then. Don’t have vengeance and hatred. They not only will sustain the enmity but will reduce Prana as well.

Even inanimate things like the house you live in – say thanks to them.

Increase Your Energy Levels

Naran

All over the world, everyone understands the existence of energy and the need of energy. 

A person to move from Anna Nagar to T. Nagar needs energy. Energy is available within us.

Energy can be Increased or Decreased

Within us, how are our energy levels are increased or decreased?

It depends on how we react to our life situations. If we are happy then energy will be in plenty. If not then that means we will have little energy.

Until our death energy is present. When somebody is dead we say Prana is not there.

We check their breath to find that out. Prana and breath are connected. They are not one and the same. Breath is in the body.

Body needs energy to carry on and that’s called as Prana or Reiki. Prana is increased or decreased by our minds.

Thanks to Reiki, people have found that we could manipulate the universal energy for the highest good of everybody concerned.

Reiki is…

  • Powerful and very subtle
  • All organs are working in coordination with the universal energy that’s Reiki.
  • Reiki is extending love and light to the cells of the body.
  • Wherever there is less energy we energise that area. We don’t do more than that.

Body, Mind and Prana are Interrelated

To sustain the physical body, we need food – healthy food. Our body grows if we are taking sufficiently good food. Then we are healthy.

After digestion is over everything is converted to oxygen and behind oxygen is Prana (so it increases too). They are bound to each other.

So, we should eat oxygen- rich food. If so, we will be healthy.

Unfortunately the food we eat doesn’t contain enough oxygen, thanks to environmental pollution.

I read in the newspaper, Apples that we import from Fiji and Washington contain nothing but carbon dioxide. When they are transported by airplanes, I believe they are infused with carbon dioxide.

Therefore, preferably we take seasonal fruits that are locally available. Even they are not grown properly these days.

Yet, we still manage to live because we have enough Prana to sustain us. If Prana is maintained well, health will be maintained too.

Read the next part of the article ‘How Mind Affects Our Prana”:  http://reachnaran.com/how-mind-affects-our-prana/

Life Goes ON Smoothly

Prashanthi

I was introduced to your remedies by one of my aunts. I have been reading your blog and following very closely. I just want to share my experiences with you after reading your blogs.

Travel Smooth

I have been using ‘ON’ Switch Word a lot. Like for e.g., I used ‘Happy, smooth and uninterrupted journey ON’ and I chanted it a number of times on an international travel.

I travel very frequently on work and last few journeys have caused a lot of worry and discomfort, but this time the journey was really smooth.

Chanting these switch words actually shifted my mind to not think negative. I was calm and accepted as is.

There was pilot strike going on this time, and I got routed through a different route. Yet, I reached home in time without any trouble.

Related Post

Concerned about other’s safety: http://lifsez.wordpress.com/2013/10/20/concerned-about-others-safety/

One drop of love will change him

A patient of Naran remarked about her spouse. He gave the following reply to her. These exercises however can be done anybody who wants to live harmoniously and be happy with them.

Naran

Look at oneself first

This is Drama of Life and if one understands, we will come to know, realize and understand that we have to bring in change in ourselves only.

We have to direct the mind towards oneself and then towards others. This is the basis of all healing modalities.

The nature always expects us to move towards perfection.

In this process, one understands not only the DIVINE ORDER, but also realizes that one has to rise above the mind and its tantrums, and become spiritual.

All healing methods help a person to understand his/her own potentials.

Others are mirrors of yourself

Before trying to change the other person do this exercise on you first.

Take a piece of paper and write about him first. Whatever you wanted to say about him write it.

  • Insert the word ‘I’ wherever you have put ‘He’.

For example, “He never takes the treatment properly and he escapes”, should be rewritten as “I never take the treatment properly. I escape.”

Change what all you have written about him Into I.

  • Now affirm, “I never take the treatment properly. I escape. In spite of this, I accept myself totally”.

Do three rounds of tapping for each sentence.

  • Do the forgiving exercise for them. “I forgive you …. (Name) you please forgive me and release me”.
  • Send Reiki to him daily.

Problem is the source of solution

Whoever is causing problem to you, can only give you solution.

Whoever irritates or angers you, can only give you peace. 

You cannot change your husband. You want him for your status and security. Then you have to heal yourself. Forgive.

  • You only have to make your life peaceful. For getting peace with such a person, you have to shed your ego and heal yourself.

Heal your controlling tendencies

Heal your anger and controlling tendency.

We always like people who comply or who just listen to us or obey us implicitly. That is why we want all the people to do this and that as well as agree with us, whatever we say.

When there is slight disagreement, dissent or difference of opinion, we may not like the person.

This dislike of the person who disagrees and the like of the person who agrees create conflicts in life.

  • Both are born from our controlling tendency – desire to control or change.  Release your desire to control and change others.

You have the power to heal him

What your husband needs attention, love and tolerance. Understand that he is mentally deranged, unlike we who are sane. The sane people are supposed to protect and understand such people.

When you ignore, chide, or send your husband away, who will take care of him?

The God has sent him to you, because you know Reiki.

God has sent him to you, because you know forgiving exercise and you know how to release your karma.

God has sent him to you because you know how to change yourself through flower remedies.

Heal him. This is how god has made him. One drop of love will change him. One iota of kindness can change.

Heal him from the heart. Sympathize with him. If he is the cause of your mental agony, how much he is suffering within mentally. Just help a man who needs help. Pray for him.

He is not a curse to you. He has not become your husband because of your bad karma.

He has come to you for healing. He is a grace for you.

Through him you spiritual journey starts! I hope you will start the Journey!!

Healing and Happiness Comes to Me in Many Forms

Client

Dear Naran,

Hope you are doing well. I am following your healing techniques, switch words, Lalitham mantras, and bija mantras diligently.

I just wish you to know, that I have a temporary job in Singapore now.

The pay is not so good but “FIND COUNT DIVINE” and “SRINIVASA ARAVINDALOCHANA” has helped me to live in abundance and small amounts of money have trickled through, when I had chanted “FIND COUNT DIVINE”.

For example, one day, I had to shell out on taxi fare, which is too much for my budget. Since, I had no choice, but to spend I started chanting “TOGETHER DIVINE FIND COUNT”.

Immediately, I got a call from a person, who said that he is doing a health-related survey for Singapore government and he will pay me if I allow him to conduct a survey!

It all took about 40 minutes of my time and I was paid for it! I spent for the taxi fare, and the divine heard my pleas through “FIND COUNT…” and compensated for my expenses.

In one of your own blogs, you had mentioned about switch words for job “QUIET CLEAR GO ADD END BRING GIVE TAKE job COUNT NOW DONE” and after chanting, I got this contract job.

I am doing well in my job. FORGIVENESS exercise has mellowed my Boss.

OAK, WALNUT and ELM has helped me to learn new things and also to complete my tasks on time.

Help is pouring from colleagues, because I am totally new to this field and no mistakes are allowed here.

By Divine’s grace, my mental and physical health too has improved.

The mantra “VALLABAM GAJANANAM” has helped me to time manage.

The Bach Flower remedy HORNBEAM has cleared my Monday morning blues.

“RELEASE RESISTANCE TOGETHER DIVINE” has become a family saga! Looks like everyone in the family are aligned with one another and harmonious.

Affair with another man

S

My husband is having an affair with another man.

We live in same house but separate room since 7 yrs. He’s not interested in me.

We have two children. I want him to leave the house and go far from us as I’m only 33 yrs old and I want to start a fresh life.

Pls help me as I’m so lonely and feel rejected. Help me brother! I want a way out!!

Naran

  1. Chant “RUBY, HOLLY, VINE”.
  2. Write these names also in a notebook daily 51 times.

Explanation

To break the relationship with the husband: (Gem) Ruby.it gives the needed courage to start life independently.

To heal the rejected feeling and to re-align with the energy of love, HOLY and VINE will help, because the new life is to start with love in the heart.

Got tenants

Grace

I am looking to rent a room in my hope to a good natured, respectful, temporary tenant.

I want to ensure I do not have any issues with the building owner nor with the person I select. I want the person to pay on time and to leave at the end of the agreement.

I am seeing so many improvements in my life thanks to you. The helping hand of wolf is endless.

Naran

Chant “AGRIMONY, SLOW CARE, TOGETHER DIVINE”

Grace

I got the tenants. Thank you.

Explanation

Not to be disturbed in anyway and live peacefully: AGRIMONY, the Bach Flower Remedy

The combination SLOW CARE TOGETHER DIVINE is one of the best switch word combination I have come across. It is an all-round mantra that will help you to lead a happy and harmonious life.

Give birth to good children

Naran

“LALITHAM SRINIVASAM LALITHAM PADMANABHAM LALITHAM DAMODARAM”

This mantra can be chanted by pregnant women, so that they will give birth to good children.

It will build up the relationship between the mother and child.

Thus, for child-bearing, for good foetus growth and for development of good mother-child relationship this mantra is very useful.

Whoever wants to get pregnant can chant this mantra too. It will develop the relationship between mother and child. Especially for single parent, this mantra will be useful.

Related Posts

Mantras Discussed on 4th Sep 2010: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/09/13/mantras-discussed-on-4th-sep-2010/

Open up to Abundant Love, Life: http://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/07/30/open-up-to-abundant-love-life/

Chicory

The Bach Flower Remedy Chicory

Key words

Possessiveness, Self-Love, Self-Pity, Always Demanding, Noticeable, Attracting Attention

Indications

  • They try to attract others attention: for example, infants attract attention by crying when you leave them alone or we try to impress others sometimes by flattery.
  • Will be overeager to help.
  • They get angry, if they find no gratitude from the person benefited by them.
  • Their possessive nature can make the opposite person as a Centaury. Please note here, fear of rejection indicates a Centaury, while the person who instils a fear of rejection on others is Chicory.
  • Chicory will not give anything free – there is a hidden agenda behind every transaction he makes.
  • A Chicory person always attracts the attention of others.
  • Always demanding and expects a great deal from others.
  • He is possessive, extremely interfering, secretly manipulating and easily hurt.
  • He has a feeling of unwanted.
  • Over protection and too much parenting.
  • Constantly concerned with the affairs of the family, always interfering.
  • Behind all Chicory type, there lies a deep lack of fulfilment, often a feeling of not being loved.
  • Desires for company for his selfish ends.
  • He is a stingy person.
  • Easily offended or hurt – self-pity.
  • Pretending illness to attract others pity.
  • Always speaks about what others owe her.
  • Extremely nagging – the in-laws remedy.
  • Thinks, feels that everyone is there for his help.
  • Goes to the extent of weeping or pretending to be ill to get his things done.
  • There is constant fear of loss.
  • Emotional demanding always.
  • Behind the Chicory state, an internal emptiness is more.
  • Watching over the needs, wishes and progress of family and friends.
  • Always ready to comment, to correct others or to advise others.
  • The emotional control is subtle, making others dependent.
  • He will manipulate to impose his will.
  • The Chicory finds it hard to let go, feels easily offended or hurt; becomes ill to gain sympathy, always expecting others to live in the feeling of gratitude to her.
  • Chicory children throw temper tantrums.
  • The Chicory child will weep and get things done.
  • If weeping doesn’t pay, he will indulge in flattery or helps you in house hold work.
  • Always demanding, tries to seek attention.
  • The Chicory baby always wants her to be held in the lap all the time.
  • The Chicory child likes to be carried always.
  • Would weep if said anything.
  • Over care and over concern for hurt feelings.
  • Always seeks company.
  • Heart Chakra is closed for Chicory people.  Pray to Chicory to be active in the Heart Chakra.

Chicory says

  • Threatening: “I will do homework, but I will not go to the music class.  If you agree for my condition, then I will finish up all my homework now”.
  • “I am angry at his ingratitude, and he cheated me. I have done so much to him” – Chicory + Chestnut bud.
  • Chicory person makes others feel guilty by saying, “You have just used me.”
  • “After all that I have done for you, this is how you treat me”.
  • “I have given her a sari on her birthday and all that I get from her on my birth day is a card.”
  • Emotional black mailing – “How can I live without you?”
  • “Think of what I have done for you” and then bursting in to tears.
  • “My dear son, I miss you so much, the house is vacant.”
  • He sometimes become ill, he may resort to black mail. “I will study after this, if you allow me to browse the Internet.”
  • “People should respect me.”

Ailments

  • Eating disorders
  • Hysterical Neurosis  – convulsion type
  • Histrionic personality disorder

Usage

  • “Live and let live” is the positive Chicory.
  • Chicory + Walnut – when the child starts schooling
  • Chicory + Walnut – for a second wife
  • Chicory + Star of Bethlehem – if a person whom you love is dead
  • Chicory – for separation.
  • Chicory: I want love and attention
  • Chicory: I feel that nobody recognises my importance
  • Chicory: I have a fear of loneliness
  • Chicory: I feel I am neglected
  • Chicory: I feel unloved by my loved ones
  • Chicory: Others say that I am of a highly interfering type
  • Chicory: I can’t be alone; I always need company
  • Chicory: I often enjoy giving my opinions and advice to others; but I feel hurt/offended when they reject my advice
  • Mimulus, Chicory: My child stays close to my side; rarely goes alone; does nothing alone
  • Chicory: Cries a lot when starting for the school
  • Chicory, Mimulus: The child becomes upset even if mildly criticized
  • Mimulus, Chicory: Burst into tears for no apparent reason
  • Chicory: The child clings to mother
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