Posts tagged parents
How to love parents who are cruel
Grace
My parents have been cruel to each other and to me in various ways. How to love them?
Naran
The irony is we know how to get angry or how to blame. Who taught this? How does it come to us so naturally?
While learning to live from childhood, we have been learning wrongly. Unfortunately, there is no teacher. We observe, understand and form a thought, conclusion and start believing.
We should understand that when by being in resentment, resentment only grows.
By being in a state of anger, anger only grows.
In spite of our knowing that anger and resentment cannot achieve what we want, yet we will be in that state.
You may not love them. Can you not help yourself by getting away from resentment?
See what you cannot see. Don’t see what you see.
When you stop judging, you start observing. When you observe, you understand what you have not so far understood.
Any feeling that blocks our progress can be released. Get any feeling that can enhance your life progress.
Grace
Thank you for such a complete answer. I am grateful.
I know intellectually that holding on to my judgment of them is causing me problems. I will try to do EFT or something to reduce my resentment (although I never call it that!).
Some part of me thinks it would be wrong to allow them to just be who they are. As if the judgment will save me from becoming like them.
Naran
Don’t drag them into your life now.
Unite all the parts.
Forget what happened and treat them as new persons and be neutral first. Even the slightest resentment against them, will bring the same type of persons in your life.
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Remove the plasters inside the mind: http://reachchildcare.wordpress.com/2013/10/13/remove-the-plasters-inside-the-mind/
Proof we inherited our lives
Naran
What is the proof we have inherited our lives (LIFE Gene) from our parents?
Doctors say when you have a problem either it is a physical problem or a genetic problem.
These days for any problem, they say genetics is the reason, without knowing the particle science or basis of epi-genetics – an off-shoot of genetics. The latter says that nothing is unchangeable.
Even though everything is genetics, we can change it. Genes also can be changed. It is a concept proposed by epi-genetics.
If physical problem is genetic, then all your life problems also must be genetics. Isn’t it?
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Our ancestors are alive, influencing us: http://healyourpastlife.wordpress.com/2013/03/13/our-ancestors-are-alive-influencing-us/
Addiction to drink
Naran
Treatment through Bach Flower remedies
No will power to discontinue drinking: ROCK WATER
Gives the reason for drinking by blaming his parents/ spouse: WILLOW
Says to get release from business worries, and other such problems: AGRIMONY
Drinks if somebody offers a drink: CHICORY
Morning he promises he will give up drinking, evening he takes it: SCLERANTHUS
Can’t refuse to drink if somebody offers it: Centaury, WALNUT
To break from drinking habit – base remedy: WALNUT
Feels ashamed next day morning to face his people: ROCK WATER
Steals money to fund his drinking habit: CHESTNUT BUD
Feels guilty after he drinks: PINE
Abusive – physical and shouts at others after drinking: VINE, CHERRY PLUM
Note: One or more remedies have to be given based on the reasons cited above.
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Benefits of healing Hara chakra: http://healbyreiki.wordpress.com/2011/02/10/benefits-of-healing-hara-chakra/
The permanent change factor: http://reachnaran.com/the-permanent-change-factor/
My mother-in-law’s best friend
Rajalekshmi
http://reachnaran.com/your-in-laws-are-your-parents/
Beautiful remedy for all the married couples from Naran!
Only after becoming Naran’s student, I learned to enjoy my divine life.
Now, I and my mother-in-law became best friends after doing the forgiving exercises and after past-life healing class.
LOVE THANKS DIVINE to our great teacher NARAN!
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I hate my father-in-law: http://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2009/07/25/i-hate-my-father-in-law/
Success in Business
MYL
I have a small business selling soapsuds, but due to some reasons, business has been slow and not many customers (possibly due to negative energies or influences by parents).
I’ve tried your suggested switch word phrase which you gave to someone else: “CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE clients COUNT NOW ON EVERYDAY”.
Would this be sufficient to clear whatever the obstacles which are blocking the smooth sale of my products?
Naran
The switch words are enough.
Thinking about your parents chant “I AM SORRY PLEASE FORGIVE ME LOVE THANKS DIVINE” daily around 500 times.
However they are, you can never succeed in your life if you think ill of your parents.
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Relationship with Parents = Relationship with Others: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2013/01/22/relationship-with-parents-equals-relationship-with-others/