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How to handle people who are angry?
Naran
If someone is angry against you, the FIRE element is more inside you.
To pacify it, you have to react in a different way. If you activate WATER and EARTH elements, then you will become patient and relaxed.
The PRAN MUDRA – little and ring fingers touching the tip on both the hands, will activate your earth and water elements.
When such an unusual response is given – instead of reacting with other person angrily, you treat him in a peaceful manner, then the opposite person don’t have a choice but to react in a different way.
We can also reduce our Anger.
Purpose of Tapping
(From Multi-Dimensional Healing June 27 Workshop)
Naran
Simple way of tapping/EFT
Pull the entire 10 fingers one at a time as well as the gamut point (it’s the hollow place between the front little and ring fingers).
For any type of problem, pull each finger and tap on gamut, and affirm “I accept myself totally”.
What does the affirmation means?
It means that I accept my life situation, the event, as well as my feelings and my thoughts.
How to make sure we are not influenced by a situation?
Situation is one percent, our reaction is 99%. It becomes bothersome or problematic because of our own mind.
You are watching an accident on the road. A person riding a motor cycle had met with an accident.
The mother of the person, who was watching it happen, will react more strongly than others. Same event but reactions are different.
Our habit is to react emotionally. If we don’t have connection to the situation, I am not affected. Who gives this link? Isn’t it the mind?
If you do tapping then you will come out of the panic situation.
Why should you come out of the panic situation?
Then you can help, as you have a calm and tranquil mind. You will react calmly and do the necessary. Instead we overreact and spoil the whole thing.
Stop your negative reactions
Client
Is there is a simple way to react negatively to others?
Naran
If somebody is dead, will you react to them negatively?
In the same way, if you feel somebody is irritating or provoking you, think that you are dead, becoming non-reactive.
Related Posts
Put a stop to your angry reactions: http://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2014/01/06/put-a-stop-to-your-angry-reactions/
Recreate the life you want: http://reachnaran.com/recreate-the-life-you-want/
Recreate the Life You Want
Naran
I am Helpless and Living In Hell! How can I create my world?
As long as I believe that I and My Mind are one and the same, and accepting whatever mind creates, my life is helpless and hell.
As long as I am not aware that I can RECREATE or REPROGRAM my life, I lose all the power.
Not knowing that I can reprogram my mind and life is ignorance.
Our mind is full of emotions, thoughts, and reactions. As long as they alone make up our mind, we don’t have any choice but to live our lives without any power.
Become POWERFUL
When there is awareness, when we come to know that we are not our mind, a new POWER surges in.
We will be able to RECREATE our own world to an extent with this little awareness. We can then become POWERFUL and take our lives into our own hands.
Releasing is a self-empowering tool, which changes our outlook about our lives.
What is this technique all about?
It is simply a process of letting go and releasing the emotions and thoughts as and when they arise.
How to implement it?
It is very simple. Whenever we tend to react, just say, “I let go this feeling”.
E.g., “Fear, can you please go? This is not the time for you. For the time being please go out. This is not your place either.”
See what happens. The mind becomes baffled and the emotion flees.
Do not react, but release and act
Reactions destroy our peace of mind. Once our uncontrollable emotions and thoughts are let off, we will find a peace deep inside us.
Releasing is a technique for allowing us to change on the spot.
Releasing allows us to handle any problem by releasing and letting go and thus stops the inner mental struggle.
Reactions intensify the mental struggle. Releasing gives us a new outlook. Reactions repeat the same drama.
Related Posts
Create a new healthy body: http://reachnaran.com/create-a-new-healthy-body/
My married life is like living in a hostel: http://reachnaran.com/my-married-life-is-like-living-in-a-hostel/
Positive vs. Negative thoughts: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2013/07/08/positive-vs-negative-thoughts/
The case of the missing baggage
Anupa
My husband travelled to China for a week officially.
On the way back, his flight was from Shanghai-Bangkok-Mumbai. He reached Mumbai on 22nd May early morning at 1am.
After about an hour realized that his baggage had not arrived. Jet Airways gave him a settling allowance of Rs.4000/- for the night. They told him that they will retrieve the baggage within 24 hrs.
Back home, the whole night was spent restlessly but with the hope that it would be found by the day. On 22nd May at around 9.30am I called Naran.
Told him the scenario and he asked me to chant “WATER VIOLET ROCK WATER GORSE CHESTNUT BUD”.
Only a day before, I mailed to him for our pattern in losing things or money during travel (CHESTNUT BUD).
I kept chanting. The whole of May 22nd there was no proper response from Jet Airways. They said that Sri Lankan Airways missed the transfer between Shanghai and Bangkok. They would coordinate from Mumbai on the same.
On 23rd morning they told us that our baggage had been traced and will reach us by the evening. I decided to continue chanting till the baggage reaches our hand. Naran also told me to do the same.
On 23rd evening, they informed us that Sri Lankan Airways is yet to dispatch the baggage. The same script was maintained by them on every time.
I kept chanting but sometimes I was losing hope, we were getting irritated about the whole episode and a lot of charged emotions were in place at home.
I decided to try to reach the Sri Lankan airways on 27th may and ask them what had happened to the baggage.
At this point Naran asked me to additionally chant, “REACH BAGGAGE” or “FIND BAGGAGE” along with chanting “SCLERANTHUS IMPATIENS” with the other 3 flowers. We excluded CHESTNUT BUD.
They told us very clearly that the baggage had been dispatched on the very next day itself and had reached the Mumbai airport on 23rd May early morning flight and they had a proof of delivery.
They asked my husband to go personally to Jet Airways at the airport and check with them. They also said that Sri Lankan Airways would speak to Jet Airways if required at the Mumbai airport.
I informed Naran of the development and he asked me to chant and take WILLOW when we speak to them. Also to chant REACH BAGGAGE HALF WAY DIVINE.
I did these and my husband went to the airport. The Jet Airways personnel insisted that they did not receive the baggage. Sri Lankan Airways people spoke to them.
Jet Airways realized that they must have received the same. So they told my husband that they will search further and will get back to him as soon as possible.
I continued chanting through the night as well. The next day morning 28th May, much to our surprise our baggage got delivered at home at 7am itself and the baggage tag said it was delivered Mumbai airport 23rd May.
We lost an iPod and a watch from inside the pouches of the suitcase. Jet Airways has promised to retrieve them too!!!!
My husband does not believe in flowers or any alternate healing methods.
Thank you Naran! Thank you flowers….!!! I prostrate before the magical powers of the Flowers!!!!!
Naran
Reach and Find are switch words. Why REACH baggage and FIND baggage?
Find baggage for the self (the loser): he wants to get the baggage somehow or other.
Reach baggage for the other (finder): The airport people totally forgot that they have received the baggage. To help them retrieve from memory, Reach is chanted.
WATER VIOLET, ROCK WATER, GORSE and CHESTNUT BUD are Bach Flower remedies. Water violet, Rock water and Gorse are remedies for Traveler’s Delight.
Chestnut Bud was suggested for they were losing things and learning to correct their mistakes. Use WATER VIOLET and ROCK WATER when you deal with government officials.
SCLERANTHUS and IMPATIENS are Bach flower remedies. When you are impatient (IMPATIENS), the other person would react slowly (SCLERANTHUS) – pair of opposites.
WILLOW was prescribed for blaming and getting irritated with airport authorities.
REACH BAGGAGE HALF WAY DIVINE: half way will speed up things and it has to be done in a magic (Divine). HALF WAY DIVINE is a good combination for not getting stuck up in traffic.
Common solution to the housing problem
Gayathri
This is a general question which I think will be benefited to all. Gone through your site – all mantras, remedies are fantastic. Main thing I noted is shelter problem.
Real estate is in peak today and due to this house rent/land rate is too high which affects lower and middle classes. Living in rent in a decent area or purchasing flat and house – everything is a difficult for them.
Hence, my humble request is to suggest remedies/mantras to peak down I.e. nominal value for land and so that all will be benefitted.
Naran
Don’t go by general interpretation of anything. Each one is unique. Each problem is unique. There may be similar problems but not same.
The problem in general is high rent, peak of land or house price. But each individual, undergoing this problem will react in different ways:
“It is the world of cheats. This is a bad phase in my life”.
“I am destined to suffer”
“Prices will never come down. We can never have a peaceful life”
“I feel like bursting out”.
“Everything is going beyond limits”
“What can we do? We have to accept and move on.”
“Something may happen. Prices will come down”
“God is not helping the poor. He is by the side of the rich only”
Each will be in a different state of mind. Each will react differently and approach the problem differently. Therefore it is not good to suggest a common solution to all.
In the above situation, what is the one general advice that can be given?
One has to bear, with fortitude and courage to face any situation. If this mentality is developed and or if one is in this state of mind, things will improve.
How to cultivate this or develop this state? How to transform one’s mental state into this?
Flowers are the answer. There are four (Bach) flowers that can help anybody in the above situation:
- CHERRY PLUM (to bear, and endure so that our limit to earn is enhanced)
- ROCK ROSE (to develop fortitude -never-say-die spirit; if this is developed help will come instantly)
- GORSE not to lose hope at any time
- WILD ROSE to get motivated to move on in life
Flowers are divine. Flowers are our teachers. Life is always a learning process. We are always students.
Related Blogs
Got the Housing Loan: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/10/11/got-the-housing-loan/
How to own a house: http://finddivinehome.wordpress.com/2013/07/25/buying-a-house/
We are about to own a house: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2013/08/22/we-are-about-to-own-a-house/