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Manage a negative-minded spouse

9 years ago
by admin in

MONI

My brother has lost all hope as his wife is not co-operative, negative-minded, and selfish, blaming personally and never satisfied how much you do for her.

Tell some remedy or mantra for my brother so that he can handle the situation. My brother just wants to give divorce to his wife.

It’s really difficult for him to control the situation as she blames him for everything but then when he asks her for divorce, she doesn’t want to give to him.

Naran

Ask your brother to take flower remedies CHICORY, CRAB APPLE and CHERRY PLUM, 2 pills of each, one after the other, three times a day. He has to keep himself cool.

Ask him to chant “TOGETHER DIVINE”.

Explanation

To remain calm and composed: Cherry Plum

To get the problem out of one’s life: Crab Apple.

The wife does not want the husband; at the same time denying to get separated from him: Chicory

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Say a hard no: https://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2009/03/28/learn-to-say-%E2%80%98no%E2%80%99-to-loans/

Say Yes For No

9 years ago
by admin in

Naran

Sheela was doing business with a company. They owe her 4.5 lakhs. She made a commitment to her supplier based on that.

But as the customer didn’t give the money, she couldn’t meet her supplier and therefore she was afraid to see him.

“I am afraid” she said, being afraid of the supplier: MIMULUS was given.

After one week she opened up. “All of my problems are due to my inability to say no”. I gave her CENTAURY.

After ten days, she met me again and said that her sister is the root cause of all the problems. Therefore, she took WILLOW for blaming others for her life situation.

She got payment from her customer soon afterwards.

Here we could have analyzed how to handle non-payment of dues owed to you. It will not work here.

Find out what’s the expression of the patient? Treat it. Heal it. Solution will appear automatically.

Related Posts

Don’t be Sympathetic Be Empathetic: https://healbyreiki.wordpress.com/2010/07/19/don%E2%80%99t-be-sympathetic-be-empathetic/

Don’t let others use your goodwill: https://healbyreiki.wordpress.com/2011/02/22/don%E2%80%99t-let-others-use-your-goodwill/

How Mind Affects Our Prana?

9 years ago
by admin in

Read the first part of the article, “Increase Your Energy Levels” here: http://reachnaran.com/increase-your-energy-levels/

Naran

Anger and worry will reduce the Prana inside us. If Prana is reduced, then your physical vitality will also be reduced.

Within worry, there is fear and sadness. Anger has jealousy, envy, likes and dislikes behind it.

What will increase Prana then?

When you do yoga for example, it will and due to that, it stabilizes the physical stuff.

Prana also can be increased by having certain states of mind.

What are those mental states that increase the Prana and thus our degree of vitality levels?

According to Dr. Mikao Usui – the founder of Reiki, the following principles do that:

  •   Be honest

You should act with your conscience;

  •  Be kind to others – express kindness and love to others.

Even if you see a cockroach struggling to get up from its upside down position, you should help it, to regain its position. This single act alone can increase your Pranic energy thousand fold.

  •  Have an Attitude of Gratitude

For anything good done to us, we have to say thanks; especially for parents we have to keep on say love and thanks as we owe so much to them.

  •  Also say thanks to others – even to your enemy. He will become your friend then. Don’t have vengeance and hatred. They not only will sustain the enmity but will reduce Prana as well.

Even inanimate things like the house you live in – say thanks to them.

One drop of love will change him

9 years ago
by admin in

A patient of Naran remarked about her spouse. He gave the following reply to her. These exercises however can be done anybody who wants to live harmoniously and be happy with them.

Naran

Look at oneself first

This is Drama of Life and if one understands, we will come to know, realize and understand that we have to bring in change in ourselves only.

We have to direct the mind towards oneself and then towards others. This is the basis of all healing modalities.

The nature always expects us to move towards perfection.

In this process, one understands not only the DIVINE ORDER, but also realizes that one has to rise above the mind and its tantrums, and become spiritual.

All healing methods help a person to understand his/her own potentials.

Others are mirrors of yourself

Before trying to change the other person do this exercise on you first.

Take a piece of paper and write about him first. Whatever you wanted to say about him write it.

  • Insert the word ‘I’ wherever you have put ‘He’.

For example, “He never takes the treatment properly and he escapes”, should be rewritten as “I never take the treatment properly. I escape.”

Change what all you have written about him Into I.

  • Now affirm, “I never take the treatment properly. I escape. In spite of this, I accept myself totally”.

Do three rounds of tapping for each sentence.

  • Do the forgiving exercise for them. “I forgive you …. (Name) you please forgive me and release me”.
  • Send Reiki to him daily.

Problem is the source of solution

Whoever is causing problem to you, can only give you solution.

Whoever irritates or angers you, can only give you peace. 

You cannot change your husband. You want him for your status and security. Then you have to heal yourself. Forgive.

  • You only have to make your life peaceful. For getting peace with such a person, you have to shed your ego and heal yourself.

Heal your controlling tendencies

Heal your anger and controlling tendency.

We always like people who comply or who just listen to us or obey us implicitly. That is why we want all the people to do this and that as well as agree with us, whatever we say.

When there is slight disagreement, dissent or difference of opinion, we may not like the person.

This dislike of the person who disagrees and the like of the person who agrees create conflicts in life.

  • Both are born from our controlling tendency – desire to control or change.  Release your desire to control and change others.

You have the power to heal him

What your husband needs attention, love and tolerance. Understand that he is mentally deranged, unlike we who are sane. The sane people are supposed to protect and understand such people.

When you ignore, chide, or send your husband away, who will take care of him?

The God has sent him to you, because you know Reiki.

God has sent him to you, because you know forgiving exercise and you know how to release your karma.

God has sent him to you because you know how to change yourself through flower remedies.

Heal him. This is how god has made him. One drop of love will change him. One iota of kindness can change.

Heal him from the heart. Sympathize with him. If he is the cause of your mental agony, how much he is suffering within mentally. Just help a man who needs help. Pray for him.

He is not a curse to you. He has not become your husband because of your bad karma.

He has come to you for healing. He is a grace for you.

Through him you spiritual journey starts! I hope you will start the Journey!!

How to Get Benefits Out of Meditation?

9 years ago
by admin in

Naran

I want to get the benefits out of the meditation. And at the same time my mind gets distracted.

Will there be any possibility? Or will there be any chance of getting the benefits of meditation, even though there are distractions?

Yes definitely there is a possibility.

All the CDs in the Bach Flower Study Centre are tuned in certain brainwaves.

Whenever a person goes into a deep meditation, or deep meditative level, the brain produces certain waves called Brainwaves.

When you are in deep meditation you go to Alpha, then Theta and then Delta. Normally our distractive mind is in Beta State.

When you listen to the Meditation CD with a headphone, whatever Alpha waves generated will be imposed on your brain.

When those waves are imposed, you will be forced to come out of Beta level and you will be in the silence mode.

In that way, you can silence the rebellious or the resisting mind. That is the only way by which you can do meditation.

 The other way is really cumbersome for every time you have to be careful about the mind, because the mind is a great trickster.

You think that you will be able to manage it, for when you just say ‘release’, the thought goes off.

You feel happy then. But the happy state itself is another thought – whether it is happiness, sadness, calmness, worry, anger or love, all of them is a thought. 

Every such thought has to be released.

Change Divine Order Vs Find Divine Order

10 years ago
by admin in

GA

I want to ask one question. Our scriptures say that each and everything is happening in this universe according to the Will of Supreme Lord.

It means good or bad whatever happens, it happens according to His Absolute Will. This is what I consider as Divine Order.

When everything is already in Divine Order i.e. according to His Will then what is the real meaning, significance of Switch Words “FIND DIVINE ORDER” and “CHANGE DIVINE ORDER”?

Naran

There is no good or bad event. It is our judgments which separate any event.

When we think the event is bad, we deviate from the DIVINE ORDER.

Therefore, the mind is instructed to re-align with the divine order by the Switch word CHANGE. When the mind does not accept what is happening, we are commanding the mind to change.

To know what is in store for us, we FIND DIVINE ORDER.

Similarly, there is no bad person. The so called bad person has deviated from the DIVINE CENTER.

Instead of changing him, we have to accept him as he is, for which CHANGE DIVINE ORDER will be helpful.

When we try to change him, we deviate from the CENTER.

By chanting CHANGE DIVINE ORDER, we will change our view towards the other person and re-align with the center divine; we will have a different outlook.

Any how this has to be done for a long period of time, analyzing our behaviour at each and every step.

Read the reply, I gave to Bhavi: http://reachnaran.com/what-is-going-to-happen-will-happen-why-to-chant/

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Change for a better offer: https://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2012/11/21/change-for-a-better-offer/

How to use Switch Words: https://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2011/10/20/how-to-use-switch-words/

Need not procrastinate

10 years ago
by admin in

Grace

You have instructed me to chant “PINE” over water for feeling like “I need to be better”.

I am seeing my feeling shift into I need to stop breaking my promises to people.

I am also always late even when I don’t intend to be. The guilt feeling is there but it’s more like…shame or embarrassment. I know that there has been a shift because I haven’t felt embarrassment in years.

I’d like to be on time, fulfill my promises to people, not feel over burdened by the expectations of others and have partnerships that are not based on always doing things for others.

Naran

Add “CENTAURY. WILLOW. SCLERANTHUS”

Explanation

The combination given now is CENTAURY, WILLOW, PINE and SCLERANTHUS.

A Centaury person cannot say ‘NO’ and always has the need to oblige others. In the process, he feels resentment (WILLOW) and feels guilty to say ‘NO’ (PINE).

A person who procrastinates needs SCLERANTHUS and later, he feels guilty for not doing things in right time (PINE).

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How to tap the resource of an expert

10 years ago
by admin in

Who may be dead too…

Naran

“I choose to understand math as I understand comics”.

A child did EFT/Tapping like that and did well in her math exam.

However, be specific about the resource we require — like math intelligence of Ramanujam and don’t say “I need the intelligence of Ramanujam” as then we might acquire a quality from him that may not be to our liking.

Say instead, “I choose the math intelligence of Ramanujam”.

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SOHAM Meditation

10 years ago
by admin in

Naran

Say ‘SO’ during inhale internally and ‘HAM’ for exhale. A mild or soft breath will do.

Use only one speed while doing this rapid breathing, without holding the breath during inhale and exhale.

After 45 minutes of rapid breathing, we don’t need to breathe at all. In that state of no breathing, we merge with the cosmic breath. Then the latter will take over our breathing and take care of it.

Whenever we have a diarrhea or dysentery SOHAM breathing can do the necessary healing. Our pulse rate changes from 74 to 60.

If the breathing is fast, then our focus will be on our breath, mind becomes quiet, and throws away toxins from our system.

Instead of SOHAM (I am that), you may chant NAGAM (I am not) or KOHAM (who am I).

It is better to use a CD that chants SOHAM as then it will be easier for us to maintain the speed of breathing.

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Circular Breathing CD – Benefits and Instructions: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2012/10/01/circular-breathing-cd-benefits-and-instructions/

I want to die before you: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2013/03/09/iwanttodieforyou/

Make one talk

10 years ago
by admin in

Bhuvana

I feel my husband is not transparent with me sometimes. Yes, he hides so many things from me.

However, he is not going in any wrong way. Still it’s painful for me. If I go ahead and talk to him about this, we end up in fight and the day is so painful.

Naran

Chant “AGRIMONY, CHESTNUT BUD” over a glass of water and drink it daily.

Explanation

The negative Agrimony person will not reveal his feelings. He will be hiding, what he does. When questioned, he will say “nothing” to avoid being exposed.

Avoidance is the negative aspect of Chestnut Bud.

To know the truth from the person, both are given. Then the person will open up.

Thus, AGRIMONY and CHESTNUT BUD will help them to open up and share their inner turmoil.

This combination is good for patients who go for a psychotherapy session. Without any difficulty they will share their feelings.

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Do you know why honesty meets dishonesty: https://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2013/10/22/do-you-know-why-honesty-meets-dishonesty/

Harmony with neighbor: http://reachnaran.com/harmony-with-neighbor/

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