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People around us are mirrors to our personality
R
http://healbyreiki.wordpress.com/2013/09/06/well-being-of-everybody-concerned/
Kindly explain that all of them are our projections means what?
Naran
The unfinished and unresolved parts of me e.g. my anger or my judgment about others are coming out in the form of other persons.
When you see them you get angry you dislike them you start criticizing them as if they were not yours.
In other words, your own anger takes the human form reminding you about the past unresolved conflicts.
Instead of repeating what we did in the past, giving Reiki is breaking the pattern.
Easy Way to Reach Divine
GA
During last week, I had been diagnosed with ectopic/tubal pregnancy.
Foetus was healthy and well growing, but growing at wrong place. So, as per doctor’s advice, I had to terminate that pregnancy.
I remained sad for one two days and not only me but whole family was sad.
I know everything is happening for the best and according to all merciful supreme lords’ will. I myself have seen so many worst looking events turning into beneficial ones afterwards.
But, during the moments of emotional trauma all this theoretical and practical knowledge disappears from mind.
Is there any method or technique other than meditation to train our minds to happily and calmly accept all such events, which are beyond our control and purely according to divine will?
And how should we perceive such incidents to feel less or no grief?
Naran
Feeling less grief is not to be imposed.
Go through the emotions, which naturally surface and bow to them and come out.
When there is great distress over grief or when there is reason for grieving, weep, weep.
Weeping is easy way of reaching the divine.
Let us not feel shy for weeping. Yes, there was expectation in vain. Feel sad and weep to get over that. Weeping intensely will ultimately relieve you from the burden.
A solace is given by weeping. When you think that you can no more weep, just say, “I bow to this weeping and go beyond this state.”
Repeat within after the weeping episode, the Radha’s prayer:
“Krishna, my lord, whether thou chooses for me life or death, happiness or sorrow , pleasure or suffering, all that comes to me from thee, is always welcome”.
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Patience alone can help us
Simran
If he shows anger on me, according to him, I should behave like a matured wife. I should behave same as in normal condition, in a polite way.
He loves me through my politeness. These are his expectations.
Can I change myself through this way, because if he becomes angry I can’t handle him politely?
At that time, I feel bad why he should get angry on me. And I don’t like his bad behavior either.
However, if by changing my behavior, my relationship takes a good way, then I am ready to become polite.
Naran
When he gets angry, be in the SAFE and SECURE MUDRA and chant “CHERRY PLUM, IMPATIENS”.
Our endurance and patience only can help us.
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Addiction to drink
Naran
Treatment through Bach Flower remedies
No will power to discontinue drinking: ROCK WATER
Gives the reason for drinking by blaming his parents/ spouse: WILLOW
Says to get release from business worries, and other such problems: AGRIMONY
Drinks if somebody offers a drink: CHICORY
Morning he promises he will give up drinking, evening he takes it: SCLERANTHUS
Can’t refuse to drink if somebody offers it: Centaury, WALNUT
To break from drinking habit – base remedy: WALNUT
Feels ashamed next day morning to face his people: ROCK WATER
Steals money to fund his drinking habit: CHESTNUT BUD
Feels guilty after he drinks: PINE
Abusive – physical and shouts at others after drinking: VINE, CHERRY PLUM
Note: One or more remedies have to be given based on the reasons cited above.
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Don’t fall into an addiction habit: http://reachnaran.com/dont-fall-into-an-addiction-habit/
Benefits of healing Hara chakra: http://healbyreiki.wordpress.com/2011/02/10/benefits-of-healing-hara-chakra/
The permanent change factor: http://reachnaran.com/the-permanent-change-factor/