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One drop of love will change him
A patient of Naran remarked about her spouse. He gave the following reply to her. These exercises however can be done anybody who wants to live harmoniously and be happy with them.
Naran
Look at oneself first
This is Drama of Life and if one understands, we will come to know, realize and understand that we have to bring in change in ourselves only.
We have to direct the mind towards oneself and then towards others. This is the basis of all healing modalities.
The nature always expects us to move towards perfection.
In this process, one understands not only the DIVINE ORDER, but also realizes that one has to rise above the mind and its tantrums, and become spiritual.
All healing methods help a person to understand his/her own potentials.
Others are mirrors of yourself
Before trying to change the other person do this exercise on you first.
Take a piece of paper and write about him first. Whatever you wanted to say about him write it.
- Insert the word ‘I’ wherever you have put ‘He’.
For example, “He never takes the treatment properly and he escapes”, should be rewritten as “I never take the treatment properly. I escape.”
Change what all you have written about him Into I.
- Now affirm, “I never take the treatment properly. I escape. In spite of this, I accept myself totally”.
Do three rounds of tapping for each sentence.
- Do the forgiving exercise for them. “I forgive you …. (Name) you please forgive me and release me”.
- Send Reiki to him daily.
Problem is the source of solution
Whoever is causing problem to you, can only give you solution.
Whoever irritates or angers you, can only give you peace.
You cannot change your husband. You want him for your status and security. Then you have to heal yourself. Forgive.
- You only have to make your life peaceful. For getting peace with such a person, you have to shed your ego and heal yourself.
Heal your controlling tendencies
Heal your anger and controlling tendency.
We always like people who comply or who just listen to us or obey us implicitly. That is why we want all the people to do this and that as well as agree with us, whatever we say.
When there is slight disagreement, dissent or difference of opinion, we may not like the person.
This dislike of the person who disagrees and the like of the person who agrees create conflicts in life.
- Both are born from our controlling tendency – desire to control or change. Release your desire to control and change others.
You have the power to heal him
What your husband needs attention, love and tolerance. Understand that he is mentally deranged, unlike we who are sane. The sane people are supposed to protect and understand such people.
When you ignore, chide, or send your husband away, who will take care of him?
The God has sent him to you, because you know Reiki.
God has sent him to you, because you know forgiving exercise and you know how to release your karma.
God has sent him to you because you know how to change yourself through flower remedies.
Heal him. This is how god has made him. One drop of love will change him. One iota of kindness can change.
Heal him from the heart. Sympathize with him. If he is the cause of your mental agony, how much he is suffering within mentally. Just help a man who needs help. Pray for him.
He is not a curse to you. He has not become your husband because of your bad karma.
He has come to you for healing. He is a grace for you.
Through him you spiritual journey starts! I hope you will start the Journey!!
Life situations where Walnut is helpful
Naran
When I go to a person for request: (Bach Flower Remedies) BEECH and WALNUT
To make person easily approachable: WALNUT and WATER VIOLET
Uphill task: WALNUT and HORNBEAM
To begin: WALNUT is like ‘PILLAYAR SULI” (a symbol in Tamil that invokes the blessings of Lord Ganesha – the remover of obstacles)
To end: WALNUT because beginning is end of something else.
To begin communication, to re-establish communication and I don’t know how to start the communication: WALNUT
Sharing the ancestral property: WALNUT
When one withholds info, as in a therapy: AGRIMONY and WALNUT
Work is not challenging: WALNUT
Puberty: WALNUT
To come out of too much of TV watching and speaking on mobile phones, or any other form of addiction: WALNUT, SCLERANTHUS
WALNUT protects our boundaries
First marriage ended in a divorce, not to attract the same type of person in the second marriage: WALNUT
I feel rejected: CHICORY, WALNUT
I am easily offended (highly sensitive): CHICORY, HOLLY, and WALNUT
The antonym of attraction is Resistance – resistance means to fight against or refrain from temptation. To refrain from any temptation: WALNUT and CHERRY PLUM
When the child revolts and throw temper tantrums: CHICORY, HOLLY and WALNUT
When completion is not happening in any work, for example not completing the book you promised to write and it’s half-done: WALNUT, OAK and HORNBEAM
Defense against a verbal attack – WALNUT, PINE (when you are constantly criticized) – for example, due a strict father his son is afraid.
The antonym of attraction is Hindrance. Therefore, to give/get a helping hand: WALNUT (it works like Wolf animal spirit).
When there is Delay, Obstruction, and Resistance: WALNUT.
When somebody prevents (hinders) promotion: WILLOW and WALNUT (“if he wants, he can help but he didn’t or he spoiled it”)
All of us worried about ****** (7.5 years itch): WALNUT
He is afraid he will fail in the exam (transition from one class to another), Interview or reapplying for a new passport: WALNUT
When others are unreasonable: WILLOW, WALNUT
When anybody is merciless: WALNUT
When a person is avoiding you: ROCK WATER, CHESTNUT BUD and WALNUT
Reconciling to the situation: WALNUT
For a caring, co-operative, friendly, generous, helpful, kind atmosphere: WALNUT
Any stiffness: WALNUT, ROCK WATER. When the atmosphere is tensed, when there is tension, WALNUT is the remedy.
Walnut is the remedy for relaxation. Antonyms for stiff are easy and relax. For relaxation – WALNUT
If you are uncomfortable to attend a VIP’s marriage: WALNUT, WATER VIOLET and LARCH (you will be treated well)
If anyone is possessive, selfish, greedy, demanding, stingy: CHICORY, WALNUT
To stop the bleeding: RESCUE REMEDY, WALNUT
Want to hurry up: IMPATIENS and WALNUT – then the program may not start on time
Children during teenage — not to be influenced by peers and friends – WALNUT protects the child
The child will cry, whenever parents criticize: RESCUE REMEDY and WALNUT (it will find balance and protect self).
Due to constant criticism a child will become HEATHER. To prevent that from happening in the future, Walnut is the remedy.
Walnut tree is big. When the flower blooms its smell is so strong, insects and other flies will keep away. So it can protect the self.
Allergic to smell – (gem remedy) YELLOW SAPPHIRE and WALNUT
Give the remedies always separately.
In Nutshell
The goal of Walnut’s healing is to have constancy and stability in one’s life!!!
Life situations where Walnut is helpful
Naran
When I go to a person for request: (Bach Flower Remedies) BEECH and WALNUT
To make person easily approachable: WALNUT and WATER VIOLET
Uphill task: WALNUT and HORNBEAM
To begin: WALNUT is like ‘PILLAYAR SULI” (a symbol in Tamil that invokes the blessings of Lord Ganesha – the remover of obstacles)
To end: WALNUT because beginning is end of something else.
To begin communication, to re-establish communication and I don’t know how to start the communication: WALNUT
Sharing the ancestral property: WALNUT
When one withholds info, as in a therapy: AGRIMONY and WALNUT
Work is not challenging: WALNUT
Puberty: WALNUT
To come out of too much of TV watching and speaking on mobile phones, or any other form of addiction: WALNUT, SCLERANTHUS
WALNUT protects our boundaries
First marriage ended in a divorce, not to attract the same type of person in the second marriage: WALNUT
I feel rejected: CHICORY, WALNUT
I am easily offended (highly sensitive): CHICORY, HOLLY, and WALNUT
The antonym of attraction is Resistance – resistance means to fight against or refrain from temptation. To refrain from any temptation: WALNUT and CHERRY PLUM
When the child revolts and throw temper tantrums: CHICORY, HOLLY and WALNUT
When completion is not happening in any work, for example not completing the book you promised to write and it’s half-done: WALNUT, OAK and HORNBEAM
Defense against a verbal attack – WALNUT, PINE (when you are constantly criticized) – for example, due a strict father his son is afraid.
The antonym of attraction is Hindrance. Therefore, to give/get a helping hand: WALNUT (it works like Wolf animal spirit). When there is Delay, Obstruction, and Resistance: WALNUT. When somebody prevents (hinders) promotion: WILLOW and WALNUT (“if he wants, he can help but he didn’t or he spoiled it”)
All of us worried about ****** (7.5 years itch): WALNUT
He is afraid he will fail in the exam (transition from one class to another), Interview or reapplying for a new passport: WALNUT
When others are unreasonable: WILLOW, WALNUT
When anybody is merciless: WALNUT
When a person is avoiding you: ROCK WATER, CHESTNUT BUD and WALNUT
Reconciling to the situation: WALNUT
For a caring, co-operative, friendly, generous, helpful, kind atmosphere: WALNUT
Any stiffness: WALNUT, ROCK WATER. When the atmosphere is tensed, when there is tension, WALNUT is the remedy. Walnut is the remedy for relaxation. Antonyms for stiff are easy and relax. For relaxation – WALNUT
If you are uncomfortable to attend a VIP’s marriage: WALNUT, WATER VIOLET and LARCH (you will be treated well)
If anyone is possessive, selfish, greedy, demanding, stingy: CHICORY, WALNUT
To stop the bleeding: RESCUE REMEDY, WALNUT
Want to hurry up: IMPATIENS and WALNUT – then the program may not start on time
Children during teenage — not to be influenced by peers and friends – WALNUT protects the child
The child will cry, whenever parents criticize: RESCUE REMEDY and WALNUT (it will find balance and protect self). Due to constant criticism a child will become HEATHER. To prevent that from happening in the future, Walnut is the remedy. Walnut tree is big. When the flower blooms its smell is so strong, insects and other flies will keep away. So it can protect the self.
Allergic to smell – (gem remedy) YELLOW SAPPHIRE and WALNUT
Give the remedies always separately.
In Nutshell
The goal of Walnut’s healing is to have constancy and stability in one’s life!!!
Chicory
The Bach Flower Remedy Chicory
Key words
Possessiveness, Self-Love, Self-Pity, Always Demanding, Noticeable, Attracting Attention
Indications
Chicory says
Ailments
Usage