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Common solution to the housing problem

Gayathri

This is a general question which I think will be benefited to all. Gone through your site – all mantras, remedies are fantastic. Main thing I noted is shelter problem.

Real estate is in peak today and due to this house rent/land rate is too high which affects lower and middle classes. Living in rent in a decent area or purchasing flat and house – everything is a difficult for them.

Hence, my humble request is to suggest remedies/mantras to peak down I.e. nominal value for land and so that all will be benefitted.

Naran

Don’t go by general interpretation of anything. Each one is unique. Each problem is unique. There may be similar problems but not same.

The problem in general is high rent, peak of land or house price. But each individual, undergoing this problem will react in different ways:

“It is the world of cheats. This is a bad phase in my life”.

“I am destined to suffer”

“Prices will never come down. We can never have a peaceful life”

“I feel like bursting out”.

“Everything is going beyond limits”

“What can we do? We have to accept and move on.”

“Something may happen. Prices will come down”

“God is not helping the poor. He is by the side of the rich only”

Each will be in a different state of mind. Each will react differently and approach the problem differently. Therefore it is not good to suggest a common solution to all.

In the above situation, what is the one general advice that can be given?

One has to bear, with fortitude and courage to face any situation. If this mentality is developed and or if one is in this state of mind, things will improve.

How to cultivate this or develop this state? How to transform one’s mental state into this?

Flowers are the answer. There are four (Bach) flowers that can help anybody in the above situation:

  1. CHERRY PLUM (to bear, and endure so that our limit to earn is enhanced)
  2. ROCK ROSE (to develop fortitude -never-say-die spirit; if this is developed help will come instantly)
  3. GORSE not to lose hope at any time
  4. WILD ROSE to get motivated to move on in life

Flowers are divine. Flowers are our teachers. Life is always a learning process. We are always students.

Related Blogs

Got the Housing Loan: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/10/11/got-the-housing-loan/

How to own a house: http://finddivinehome.wordpress.com/2013/07/25/buying-a-house/

We are about to own a house: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2013/08/22/we-are-about-to-own-a-house/

Be a mother like Yasodha

Anu

I had a dream in the morning around 6.00 a.m. like feeding milk to a girl baby (one of my cousin brother’s daughter). I have seen her two months back and was not thinking of her also.

But having dream like this. I am a married woman, awaiting child birth and undergoing treatment for this. What does this indicate?

Naran

Pray to Lord Krishna.

Chant “OM KLEEM KRISHNAYA NAMAHA”

Related Blogs

Think differently says the rabbit: http://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/2012/09/24/think-differently-says-the-rabbit/

The Mother’s Care: http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2012/06/29/the-mothers-care/

My married life is like living in a hostel: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/08/19/my-married-life-is-like-living-in-a-hostel/

Converting unwanted to wanted

Naran

Ram had problems with his brother Sundar, for the last 15 years, after his brother had cheated him to the tune of 1 crore of rupees.

While Ram was suffering like anything, Sundar was doing well by all means. Sundar’s business was growing leaps and bounds. He could get his children married easily and so on.

On the contrary, Ram was struggling financially. All his attempts to get his daughter married proved futile.

For last six years, I was giving several healing techniques to Ram. He was following them judiciously. Over the course of the time, he could get his money back from Sundar. Though, he could never release his anger for him.

He came to see me last week in regards to his daughter’s marriage. There were two prospects, but neither of them is committing for the marriage proposal.

I asked him to do the following technique based on the fact that he is jealous of the progress of his brother.

I asked him to close his eyes. Then visualize his house in a screen in front of him and mark the place and then his brother’s house in the same screen. He had to move his house slowly towards his brother‘s house to merge both.

He did this for a few days. One of the two prospects agreed to marry his daughter.

I know, you will have some questions

How can I use this technique when I am single and have to do this technique to attract a suitable girl into my love-life?

You will know somebody who can attract himself a girl-friend or bride. Visualize yourself, shifting yourself into him. This way you are developing in you the capacity he has.

I don’t want to become like him, as he some bad aspects about him

He might have other qualities which you don’t like. Don’t worry as you are only intending for the capacity you lack, which you want to develop in yourself.

Other example could be…

You have a prospective customer as well as a customer who doesn’t respond to your sales call at all. Move your unresponsive client into responding client and this way you will be able to convert him into a prospective customer.

Related Blogs

NLP for accepting a bad relationship: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2013/10/11/nlp-for-relationships/

How to become happy: http://reachnaran.com/how-to-become-happy/

Can’t think of him as my husband: http://reachnaran.com/cant-think-of-him-as-my-husband/

Get a promotion and find harmony as well

Ms. Rita

I’m a science teacher in Haryana govt. (TGT Grade). Last month, department asked for promotion case for Biology lecturer and the eligibility required was M.Sc., B.Ed. I send my case.

But know in yesterday’s letter they have put condition of Haryana Teacher Eligibility Test qualification certificate, which was never a condition beforeor earlier. Candidates are required to submit their forms within a week.

I think it is only my hard luck that this condition has been put as TGT’s were not required to pass this test earlier.

I have lost my sleep as this time, all the vacancies will be filled in 2 months for lecturers and there will be no further scope for promotion in coming next 10-15 years.

Plz suggest me some mantra or anything to help me to get promotion.

Naran

Chant “CRYSTAL GORSE WOLF REACH HELP DONE”

Write in a paper, “398 SLOW CARE” and keep it under the pillow.

If there is resentment and anger then release that.

Ms. Rita

Thanks to Mr. Naran. Thanks to Gorse. Thanks to Wolf.

It really worked.

I don’t from where last page of notice has appeared in which it is mentioned that for promotion case HTET passing certificate is not required!

Now, I’m eligible to fill promotion form.

Now further should I continue to chant the same switch words to ensure my promotion or you would like to suggest something else?

Naran

Chant, “CRYSTAL GORSE WOLF REACH HELP DIVINE promotion DONE”

In your life, find one positive quality in each and every member of your family, friends, teachers or colleagues.

Think about them chant TOGETHER PRAISE DIVINE.

Find a positive quality of anyone whom you criticized or blamed and chant TOGETHER PRAISE DIVINE.

Write in a notebook TOGETHER PRAISE DIVINE daily 51 times.

Write TOGETHER PRAISE DIVINE in a paper and keep it under the pillow

Ms. Rita

Since you suggested I’m chanting TOGETHER PRAISE DIVINE daily.

Though, I could not write it in notebook for 3-4 days as I was out of station but later I finished those pending pages also.

I am observing a slight change in my staff member’s attitude towards me. They are softer to me.

Although, they have not given me a king’s throne, without any clash they  are trying to finish their answer sheet marking, assessment of children in school, which otherwise a govt. teacher do with a very slow pace causing delay in result preparation.

I hope this chanting will make my colleagues more honest to their work and bring harmony at my workplace.

Thanks a lot for such beautiful and easy remedies which can heal difficult situations.

Naran

Add the word LINK to the phrase (TOGETHER PRAISE LINK DIVINE)

Related Blogs

Want a promotion: http://joboneoone.wordpress.com/2013/06/16/want-a-promotion/

Be Mr. Right to Find Ms. Right: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2012/10/01/be-mr-right-to-find-ms-right/

The Well-Wisher: http://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/06/23/well-wisher/

Can’t think of him as my husband

Naran

There was one lady, 25 years old, a widow, came to see me with her parents. She has a child of three-years old.

Her parents told me her story.

The lady loved a person and married him with the consent of her parents. When she was pregnant, her husband died in an accident.

Because, she was still young enough to get re-married, her parents wanted her to marry her own uncle.

Though, she was ready to re-marry, she found it difficult to marry him as she, from childhood was looking up to him as her own brother. Therefore, she was unable to marry him.

Her parents wanted her to marry her uncle, as he would look after her very well.

I gave her this technique, mentioned in this blog: http://reachnaran.com/how-to-become-happy/

I asked her to locate the place in the screen, where her late husband is placed.

Then, I asked her to find out the compartment where her uncle is stored as her brother.

Bring the brother to the husband’s compartment.

She did this for one week.

Finally, she agreed to marry him.

This is one of the best NLP programs I teach.

We can do this easily.

Pick the compartment of the period when you had money and the compartment of the period you don’t have money. Bring the lack into abundance compartment.

Why we need to be happy?

Naran

Why we need to be happy?

To be wealthy, we need to be happy.

How we can make ourselves happy? Read the blog on changing mental compartments here: http://reachnaran.com/how-to-become-happy/

What is the basis of changing mental compartments?

Whenever you think that there is no source for money or today there is no money, especially for business persons, at that time you have to do this exercise.

Because, whenever there is fear or worry Lakshmi will not come. Therefore, you have to change your mental attitude.

It is one of the best NLP programs.

This is how brain stores everything…

Worry will be in one compartment…

Fear will be in some other compartment…

And joy will be in other compartment.

Some event is happening outside. Immediately, your reaction goes to the any compartment which you are used to.

For example, when there is no money immediately you will have fear – some type of fear, and worry.

If the event invokes fear means, immediately the brain will go to that compartment and will make you feel like that.

You won’t feel differently as you don’ have the habit of reacting differently.

If you do this exercise, then immediately there will be a shift in your thought pattern and emotional mind.

You can do this for any type of situation where you want a change in the (mental) situation.

Learn to manage your fears

Naran

List out the fears

Think about your unnecessary fears and worries (over which you cannot do anything).

You list out all those fears.

Release them one by one.

Why fear should not be there?

Then fear will not allow you to love yourself.

How that fears can be removed?

You have to address one fear at a time and say:

  •          “I AM SORRY PLEASE FORGIVE ME FIND DIVINE LOVE”  (or)
  •          “I AM SORRY PLEASE FORGIVE ME FIND DIVINE FIBER”.

Meaning of the Switch Word Fiber

“FIND DIVINE FIBRE” means regain the courage in me or regain the trust in me.

When you get fear chant this, “FIND DIVINE FIBER”.

Switch Word Fiber creates a movement, while fear will stop it.

Fear manifests what we do not want

Madhu

There is always a saying that marriages are made in heaven. Is that true?

And if so then why there is negativity like divorce, extramarital, and even more than that?

I am very much afraid of this issue as it’s a lifelong decision and relationship.

Is there any switch word which all can chant to have a successful, happy and respected marital life either love or arranged.

Any switch words that can keep harmony not only in couple but also between two families because sometimes we see that due to family distances, fights arise.

And also anything after which there should not be any regression about marriage decision?

I know you are the only one who can clear my questions and hope so many people wants know it.

Naran

Fear is hallucination.

Fearing about something is happening in the mind only.

The mind is unable to perceive the future and therefore indulges in thoughts that produce fear.

Instead of becoming inquisitive, the mind pushes you in fear or in darkness.

What is this fear? Fear manifests the very same event which we do not want.

Understand that every emotion has got individual consciousness.

Fear is born because future is unknown. Anything unknown is darkness. Darkness – fear – will be no more, when there is light.

When the fear appears, think that it needs light. Say, “Fear SET FREE, OPEN, ALIGN yourself with the LIGHT and RELAX me.”

Read again and again all the answers and blog postings and meditate on each and every answer.

You will know everything that you need to know.

Too much of thoughts – unwanted thoughts – obsess you and you have forgotten to listen. Listening happens when we become silent and Truth will reveal itself when we introspect.

It is not my reply but your understanding is more important.

Resolve your financial issues

Mr. ER

I had been trying many ways to increase my finances and increase higher and continuous inflow of money into my life. My ambition and dream is to have financial freedom.

Recently I came to know about switch words. Do switch words work 100%? Actually, I am writing this mail to you mainly for the ‘Abundance’ CD that will work on the subconscious mind to attract more money into my life.

Naran

 I will ship the CD. Switch words will work 100%.

Tell me what you are doing. Is there any problem with earning? Why do you want to have more money? What will be your state of mind if you don’t amass wealth?  What feelings and thoughts that will come to you then? What will you do with the money?

Mr. ER

You asked me why I want money. It’s like you asked me why I want food and clothes.

I come from a middle-class background where our life is always decided by lack of money. We have to think 20 times to spend 10 rupees. Almost all the problems in my life and my bitterest experiences were due to money.

I don’t like my work either. But have to do for money. I don’t like the place. I don’t like my present life. Life is full of compromises. I don’t have financial freedom. I want a life of my own.

My father says ‘to come up in life, we have to work very hard.’ If that is true, a labour person works very hard but hardly gets even food. As Deepak Chopra says the shortest way to get anything is correct not the hard way.

So I turned to spirituality to raise my standard. Not only my financial development, but my spiritual and all-round development is dependent on money. I feel switch words are a gift to me from the universe for my years of quest to change my life. Please help me with effective ways to manifest money along with switch words.

Naran

Chant “WILLOW RELEASE RESISTANCE FIND COUNT DIVINE” 200 TO 300 times daily.

Release all your aversion to the present state. Any state we have to accept and overgrow it.

“I don’t like my work. I don’t like the place. I don’t like my present life. Life is full of compromises. I don’t have financial freedom. I want a life of my own” – if these thoughts occupy the mind, money will not come.

Money will flow in when you willingly accept the situation. Any situation is designed by God.

Start liking the job. If you do it with aversion, and don’t contribute your work with full heart, you are stopping your growth.

Daily thank the company who gave you the employment. Thank all the people in the office. Start liking the place.

Compromises are there in everybody’s life. They are made to move forward in life and not to get stagnated.

Write “DIVINE LOVE MANIFEST IN MY HEART”.

I will also send you the CD entitled “I Love Myself” also, in addition to the Abundance CD.

Best of luck

Explanation

Handle resentment and aversion: WILLOW, Bach Flower Remedy

Release our resistance to growth, abundance and success: RELEASE RESISTANCE, switch word

Find money: FIND COUNT DIVINE, switch words

“I LOVE MYSELF” CD is a subliminal CD to help you love self, relationships, career and life in general

“ABUNDANCE” CD helps you to accumulate wealth with happiness.

How and why we need to forgive others

For more detailed explanation on Why we need to forgive others and How to forgive others, please refer the book: “Forgiveness How and Why”, written by Naran S. Balakumar.

Jay

I have a problem letting go or forgiving people. Is there any switch word for it?

Naran

If you don’t do the forgiving exercise, you will undergo same emotions, even though situations may be different.

If you do not want to meet or interact with same people in future, Forgiving is the only way.

There is no shortcut for letting go the resentment and anger.

Do not act from ego; have higher perception and think that every event in our life is happening as per our desire. Before taking the birth, I want this life with these people to mend my life. But unfortunately after taking birth, we forget our commitment.  When the situation is created as per our desire, instead of learning lessons and moving forward, we get stuck and we refuse to forget or forgive.

What is the one that prevents you from forgiving? Release that and do it.

I Jay forgive you —–(name of the person). You please forgive me and release me. This can be done mechanically without the involvement of the heart.

Jay

Do I just have to fill the name or action that upsets me?

Naran

 “I Jay forgive you —–(name of the person). You please forgive me and release me”.

Take a person with whom you are angry. Insert his or her name in the space given above. Chant the same for 200 times a day.

Forgiving Exercise

Affirm, “I (your name) Robert forgive you Ashok (replace with name of the person to be forgiven). You please forgive me and release me”.

Questions regarding Forgiveness Exercise

Nayana

I have two queries related to Forgiving exercise.

I have too many people to forgive in my life, so please guide me how to forgive them with once for all.

I see my husband is having so much resentment in his life with so many people but he doesn’t try to do any of the exercise to forgive and forget. So is there anything I can do on behalf of him, as it’s affecting my life all the time.

Naran

Take a list of all of them. Do the forgiving for all. Take one at a time. Chant 200 times for each.

You cannot do anything for somebody’s sake. What is your predominant thought or emotion when you deal with him? Release that one by one. If one goes, another will come. Release that also.

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