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Coming out of Love Pangs
Naran
Raja and Rani were good friends and loved each other deeply. They would meet each other every day and spend time together. They decided to get married.
Suddenly one day Rani’s father brings a boy who has come from U.S.A. and fixes the marriage for Rani. Rani respects her parent’s words and agrees for the wedding. Since there was not much time, the marriage takes place and immediately she leaves for U.S.A.
There was no communication from Rani.
Raja was shocked when he comes to know about the marriage. He is dejected in life. Loses interest in life, grows a beard.
At this state, for pangs of love due to separation give the Bach Flower Remedy CHICORY.
Raja will get over his separation and starts to lead his life.
The person who is highly possessive will be sentimental and so a love failure affects him a lot. They will say after their love failure they will not get married as they prefer to live in the memories of their beloved. They might get ready for marriage after taking CHICORY.
Why this person is unduly influenced by love? If you give them the Bach Flower Remedy WALNUT it will remove their sadness as Walnut is a great unwanted-link-breaker.
Raja was given Chicory and Walnut. And as expected he could come out of his love pangs.
Related Blogs
Say goodbye to lover of your past: http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2011/06/16/say-good-bye-to-lover-of-your-past/
Find Mr. Right: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2012/04/08/find-mr-right/
Gem Remedies Part I: http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2009/07/10/gem-remedies-part-i/
Common solution to the housing problem
Gayathri
This is a general question which I think will be benefited to all. Gone through your site – all mantras, remedies are fantastic. Main thing I noted is shelter problem.
Real estate is in peak today and due to this house rent/land rate is too high which affects lower and middle classes. Living in rent in a decent area or purchasing flat and house – everything is a difficult for them.
Hence, my humble request is to suggest remedies/mantras to peak down I.e. nominal value for land and so that all will be benefitted.
Naran
Don’t go by general interpretation of anything. Each one is unique. Each problem is unique. There may be similar problems but not same.
The problem in general is high rent, peak of land or house price. But each individual, undergoing this problem will react in different ways:
“It is the world of cheats. This is a bad phase in my life”.
“I am destined to suffer”
“Prices will never come down. We can never have a peaceful life”
“I feel like bursting out”.
“Everything is going beyond limits”
“What can we do? We have to accept and move on.”
“Something may happen. Prices will come down”
“God is not helping the poor. He is by the side of the rich only”
Each will be in a different state of mind. Each will react differently and approach the problem differently. Therefore it is not good to suggest a common solution to all.
In the above situation, what is the one general advice that can be given?
One has to bear, with fortitude and courage to face any situation. If this mentality is developed and or if one is in this state of mind, things will improve.
How to cultivate this or develop this state? How to transform one’s mental state into this?
Flowers are the answer. There are four (Bach) flowers that can help anybody in the above situation:
- CHERRY PLUM (to bear, and endure so that our limit to earn is enhanced)
- ROCK ROSE (to develop fortitude -never-say-die spirit; if this is developed help will come instantly)
- GORSE not to lose hope at any time
- WILD ROSE to get motivated to move on in life
Flowers are divine. Flowers are our teachers. Life is always a learning process. We are always students.
Related Blogs
Got the Housing Loan: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/10/11/got-the-housing-loan/
How to own a house: http://finddivinehome.wordpress.com/2013/07/25/buying-a-house/
We are about to own a house: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2013/08/22/we-are-about-to-own-a-house/
Why we need to be happy?
Naran
Why we need to be happy?
To be wealthy, we need to be happy.
How we can make ourselves happy? Read the blog on changing mental compartments here: http://reachnaran.com/how-to-become-happy/
What is the basis of changing mental compartments?
Whenever you think that there is no source for money or today there is no money, especially for business persons, at that time you have to do this exercise.
Because, whenever there is fear or worry Lakshmi will not come. Therefore, you have to change your mental attitude.
It is one of the best NLP programs.
This is how brain stores everything…
Worry will be in one compartment…
Fear will be in some other compartment…
And joy will be in other compartment.
Some event is happening outside. Immediately, your reaction goes to the any compartment which you are used to.
For example, when there is no money immediately you will have fear – some type of fear, and worry.
If the event invokes fear means, immediately the brain will go to that compartment and will make you feel like that.
You won’t feel differently as you don’ have the habit of reacting differently.
If you do this exercise, then immediately there will be a shift in your thought pattern and emotional mind.
You can do this for any type of situation where you want a change in the (mental) situation.
Golden words are to be repeated
Leela
As guided by you in the past few weeks, I am calm and peaceful by myself. Now that the marriage is round the corner (of my niece – husband’s brother’s daughter), I need to attend.
All the past incidents of harassment, sarcastic remarks, aloofness etc. of my husband’s Anni is coming to my mind and I need enough strength to face it all this time.
I want to raise above all this silly behavior of others and come out successfully, to neutralize my karma.
Naran
Chant “CHOCOLATE CONCEDE TOGETHER DIVINE”.
Chant “I am sorry. Please forgive me”, as many times as possible.
Your anger and resentment – whether it is right or not – will upset your stomach, which in turn increases your insecurity.
Take the flower remedies AGRIMONY, WILLOW and CHERRY PLUM.
Leela
Since yesterday, I am practicing as advised by you. I do not understand, why, often I get this thought flashed in my mind that I need to move away from my husband?
I do not know if it is a natural process. It is a soul-searching experience for me. I need your divine help and guidance.
Naran
Soul searching is to happen within. It does not depend on outside person or event.
Leela
I attended the marriage and chanted the Switch Words as advised by you.
I am back to Bangalore.
I am trying to find the golden nugget … May be my spiritual awareness is not enough to find one.
As I have disclosed to you before, I have this urgent need to go back to work in UK. I have contacted my ex-colleagues, friends, and contacts and passed on my resume.
Initially, they were very encouraging, told me to help me out with a job.
But as days went by, there is no communication from them regarding my application status.
Also, I have applied many jobs. It is Apply, Apply, but no reply.
I am chanting “TOGETHER DIVINE FIND JOB COUNT NOW ORDER DONE” and also recently after reading one of your blogs regarding chakra cleansing, I have chanting Bija Mantras (OM LUM…)
In between, I am chanting forgive exercise to my husband too. Please advise, what can be chanted.
Naran
Move away with love in the heart and not in resentment
For job: chant “CRYSTAL GORSE WOLF REACH HELP JOB COUNT NOW DONE”
Leela
I am writing this mail, rather after a long time. I am following the chants and forgive exercise as advised by you.
There are lots of changes in me. I am able to forgive many things now.
Though, I still remember the events, which had caused me so much anger, hurt and other negative emotions.
After forgive exercise, these emotions have drastically reduced to an intensity of zero!
I am now able to appreciate the switch word “CHOCOLATE” as suggested by you.
The golden nugget in my case is to get re introduced to healing techniques through you.
Thank you very much for your Grace and support you have extended to me.
The top most emotional layer of healing has taken place. As a result, my relationship with my husband has improved.
As regards to finding a job, this is the next layer to be dealt with. I am chanting and many times writing the Switch words.
CRYSTAL has strengthened my intention of job seeking.
I am now more confident and beginning to understand what I want. My previous emotional state of confusion together with mixed feelings is no more. I am more calm and focused.
Our friend – WOLF is bringing me some leads for job searching and I am working on it.