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Patience alone can help us
Simran
If he shows anger on me, according to him, I should behave like a matured wife. I should behave same as in normal condition, in a polite way.
He loves me through my politeness. These are his expectations.
Can I change myself through this way, because if he becomes angry I can’t handle him politely?
At that time, I feel bad why he should get angry on me. And I don’t like his bad behavior either.
However, if by changing my behavior, my relationship takes a good way, then I am ready to become polite.
Naran
When he gets angry, be in the SAFE and SECURE MUDRA and chant “CHERRY PLUM, IMPATIENS”.
Our endurance and patience only can help us.
Related Posts
Patience is the key: http://joboneoone.wordpress.com/2013/11/26/patience-is-the-key/
Your spouse is possessive: http://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2014/01/28/your-spouse-is-possessive/
Make one talk
Bhuvana
I feel my husband is not transparent with me sometimes. Yes, he hides so many things from me.
However, he is not going in any wrong way. Still it’s painful for me. If I go ahead and talk to him about this, we end up in fight and the day is so painful.
Naran
Chant “AGRIMONY, CHESTNUT BUD” over a glass of water and drink it daily.
Explanation
The negative Agrimony person will not reveal his feelings. He will be hiding, what he does. When questioned, he will say “nothing” to avoid being exposed.
Avoidance is the negative aspect of Chestnut Bud.
To know the truth from the person, both are given. Then the person will open up.
Thus, AGRIMONY and CHESTNUT BUD will help them to open up and share their inner turmoil.
This combination is good for patients who go for a psychotherapy session. Without any difficulty they will share their feelings.
Related Posts
Is he telling truth or not: http://reachnaran.com/is-he-telling-truth-or-not/
Do you know why honesty meets dishonesty: https://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2013/10/22/do-you-know-why-honesty-meets-dishonesty/
Harmony with neighbor: http://reachnaran.com/harmony-with-neighbor/
If What is going to happen will happen, Why to chant?
Bhavi
In the past, I have chanted, prayed a lot, with full faith in universal divine force. But, I was always told you can’t change anything. What is going to happen will happen? Nobody can change anything.
I still have faith and trust. However, I always had a question in mind then why do we pray and chant the mantras if they are not going to bring positivity to the concerned situation?
Is it fear of something negative happening to us and our family, which brings us, back again to chanting and praying?
Naran
You cannot always get what you want. Sometimes, you can get what you don’t want. These are two life rules, which we have to accept.
It is the mind which plays the game. If something does not happen, we wallow; if something happens, we elate. How long is this elation?
After some time, we need something else and again mental emotional drama begins. It is because we attach importance to the result only and not to the action.
If the action is done, and the result is surrendered, you will remain peaceful always.
Ultimately, what we want in life is either peace or happiness. To get happiness or peace is the aim of all.
Surrendering the result to the hands of Divine only can give you peace or happiness. Chanting or healing aims at changing the mind to accept what is happening.
Best of luck!!
Not ready to go for a divorce
Anita
I am really tired of waiting to get initiation/news, words from my husband as he is not at all in contact with me or my family for last 2 months. We all tried very much but failed.
I am doing forgiving exercise for husband and my MIL more than 25 days now, but still no result or reply from his end.
Everybody in my family is asking me to take decision and to divorce him and start new life. But I am really not ready to do so.
Sometimes, I wonder why this person marries me, if he really doesn’t have any regards or interest in family life.
Naran
Chant “BEECH, WILLOW, PINE, WALNUT” for a month
Explanation
See events from different angle: BEECH
Stop blaming anybody for what happened: WILLOW
Come out of the thought of “One’s bad karma”: PINE
Do you know why she doesn’t appreciate?
Patient: My wife loves me a lot. She is a very considerate person. At the same time, when it comes to my way of doing, she is highly intolerant. Surprisingly, she tolerates others’ mistakes to a greater extent – this includes my parent’s actions too.
Naran
One part of her is tolerant, while the other part of her is intolerant – especially to you. It shows, somehow you trigger the other – unwanted part in her.
Do you have a similar behavior in yourself?
Patient: Yeah! In general, I always tend to correct the way of others and not just one person. I believe everything has to be done correctly, with the right people, and at the right time.
Naran
I will teach you a simple method here.
Affirm as many times as possible:
“I RELEASE the PART of ME that is criticized by me”.
“I OPEN ALIGN WITH the PART of ME that evokes her tolerance to PRAISE me”.
You can write them too.
The letters in UPPER CASE is fixed. The rest of the statement, you can fill with whatever you want. This way, you are releasing the behavior you don’t want and activating the behavior you want in others.
Purpose of Tapping
(From Multi-Dimensional Healing June 27 Workshop)
Naran
Simple way of tapping/EFT
Pull the entire 10 fingers one at a time as well as the gamut point (it’s the hollow place between the front little and ring fingers).
For any type of problem, pull each finger and tap on gamut, and affirm “I accept myself totally”.
What does the affirmation means?
It means that I accept my life situation, the event, as well as my feelings and my thoughts.
How to make sure we are not influenced by a situation?
Situation is one percent, our reaction is 99%. It becomes bothersome or problematic because of our own mind.
You are watching an accident on the road. A person riding a motor cycle had met with an accident.
The mother of the person, who was watching it happen, will react more strongly than others. Same event but reactions are different.
Our habit is to react emotionally. If we don’t have connection to the situation, I am not affected. Who gives this link? Isn’t it the mind?
If you do tapping then you will come out of the panic situation.
Why should you come out of the panic situation?
Then you can help, as you have a calm and tranquil mind. You will react calmly and do the necessary. Instead we overreact and spoil the whole thing.