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Escaped From a Cheater
Case History
The marriage was fixed for Priya.
The boy was working out of London. They used to keep talking for long hours on the phone for almost three months.
One fine day, the boy says that his father might oppose to his wedding as Priya belongs to a different sub-sect, even though from the same caste.
This made the girl and the mother doubtful about the boy and consulted Naran S Balakumar.
He told them to keep the Bach Flower Remedy SWEET CHESTNUT in the North East corner of the house and advised her to take it also.
Three days later there was a phone call from London saying that it is the boy’s wife who is talking.
She told Priya not to agree for the wedding. The boy is a cheater. He has done this to many girls and she is one of his victims.
After this telephone conversation, they verified and found out that it was true.
Sweet chestnut saved the life of Priya.
Related Posts
Thieves cannot escape: https://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2013/07/24/thieves-cannot-escape/
Single, 40F, looking for a Partner: https://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2012/06/07/single-40f-looking-for-a-partner/
Chain snatching: https://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2013/09/13/chain-snatching/
Create positives out of a situation
Naran
Let us see an example
“My husband is not good. He is irritating too”, says the wife.
She is blaming her husband here.
If she has to handle this situation, then what resource (quality) she needs to handle it?
Does she needs to be courageous, be more loving and caring, or be bold?
When there is a problem, you need to ask yourself, “What one resource will enrich me and will help me to handle this life situation”.
This way you are healing yourself. Instead, if some person is angry and you also get angry, then you are gone.
So what do we need here?
People would say she needs patience and tolerance.
What’s patience?
Patience is the quality or ability to withstand a situation without getting angry or upset.
If that’s the case, then the Bach Flower IMPATIENS is the remedy. Impatiens will create patience inside you.
You need tolerance also. BEECH is the remedy for it.
Beech and Impatiens go together in cultivating tolerance and patience.
Developing a Life Strategy
Quality of patience, without getting upset or angry about the other person, is waiting inside us, waiting for the right opportunity.
We all need it. If I have it, then I will be striking at the right moment. It’s a Life Strategy.
If we have this quality, we will have more consideration and caring for other people. To develop this strategy, take the flower remedy IMPATIENS.
If I cultivate patience and tolerance (Beech and Impatiens), then I will become more considerate.
Consideration means, there is more love and affection for other person. Then we will become accommodative.
To be more caring, after being considerate, HOLLY is the remedy.
Related Posts
Audit your thoughts:
https://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2013/09/19/audit-your-thoughts/
The Universal Lover:
https://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/09/05/the-universal-lover/
Husband wants to marry again
Bagyalakshmi
I was married for 16 yrs and got 3 girls. Ours is a middle-class family. Mine was a love marriage
Initially, everything was very well. He took good care of me and family but for the past 6 yrs there’s a lot of change in his attitude and behavior.
He yelled at me and kids in front of everyone, treating us very badly.
Last month, he brought one lady home and told us that he’s going to marry her.
My girls and parents launched a police complaint and with the help of a police officer that marriage was stopped.
He did not want to divorce but want to lead a new life with that lady. I told him that I will not agree for that.
After this he stopped coming home and eating from home. He will come as and when he wished but will not eat anything.
He gives money for the home expenses. I want to lead a happy married life with him. I want him to be genuine and truthful to our family.
Recently, he started hatred towards me. Pls help me to change this and lead me a happy life.
Naran
Take the flower remedies CHICORY, HOLLY, and ASPEN.
Put each 5 pills in a glass of water and have small sips from that water, every one or two hours, from morning to evening.
In the night, take the flower remedies WHITE CHESTNUT and WALNUT before going to sleep, 5 pills each.
Chant “TOGETHER DIVINE”
Explanation
A CHICORY person turns easily into HOLLY. Husband is the shadow-self of wife and hence, and therefore, his remedies are given to her.
Every day, she has to lead her life with the constant fear of what will happen, for which ASPEN will help.
To come out of persistent, constant worry: WHITE CHESTNUT and WALNUT
Related Posts
I follow my father’s footsteps: https://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2010/02/03/i-follow-my-father%E2%80%99s-footsteps/
Why a person is not married: https://healyourpastlife.wordpress.com/2013/01/16/why-a-person-is-not-married/
Found My Gold Earring
Biswasri Datta, Mar 6th
My wife has lost a gold earring today and two months back she had lost a gold locket during traveling.
Naran, Mar 5th
You will not get (the gold locket). Chant “GORSE, SLOW CARE” daily.
Biswasri Datta, Mar 6th
I got back my wife’s earring with in a night after chanting “CERATO, CHESTNUT BUD, ROCK WATER” as mentioned in the blog, “Secret to Find the Lost Objects”: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/02/08/secret-to-find-the-lost-objects/.
This is really a miracle only because of you.
Sunita
If Mr. Datta is not to get it back than why he should chant?
Naran
The switch words (SLOW CARE) will help him to be careful in the future. The Bach Flower GORSE is suggested for the hopeless situation of not getting back the ornament.
Idea is to come out of the current mental state, so that we will not be in the same situation in the future.
Groom is picky
Client
My brother is picky that he will marry only beautiful looking girls, though he doesn’t look smart. How to change his attitude?
Naran
Give him SWEET CHESTNUT and BEECH.
A BEECH person is picky. Even if he doesn’t look smart, he will expect his wife to be smart.
Related Posts
Not getting appreciation: http://reachnaran.com/not-getting-appreciation/
Clear the confusion about marriage: http://reachnaran.com/clear-the-confusion-about-marriage/
Remove your uncertainty getting jobs
Jayanthi
During my visit to the centre a few months back I asked your advice for a job for my younger son and his wife.
As per your advice I have been chanting ‘”ADJUST TOGETHER CHANGE DIVINE ORDER”.
There is some delay in my son getting a job which is of great concern to all of us.
I sought your guidance in his success on Monday.
Is there any chant that could remove this uncertainty and be successful in getting a job offer? Currently, he has now been interviewed in two companies.
You asked me to Chant “CRYSTAL GORSE WOLF REACH HELP COUNT DIVINE job NOW”.
I am pleased to inform you that my son has got a job offer from both the companies and he has chosen one. He reported to work today.
I had been chanting as per your guidance and am very grateful to you.
Thanking you
Related Posts
Solution is within YOU: http://reachnaran.com/solution-is-within-you/
The need for forgiveness and the Story of Drona: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/07/10/the-need-for-forgiveness-and-the-story-of-drona/