Posts tagged wife

Patience alone can help us

10 years ago
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Simran

If he shows anger on me, according to him, I should behave like a matured wife. I should behave same as in normal condition, in a polite way.

He loves me through my politeness. These are his expectations.

Can I change myself through this way, because if he becomes angry I can’t handle him politely?

At that time, I feel bad why he should get angry on me. And I don’t like his bad behavior either.

However, if by changing my behavior, my relationship takes a good way, then I am ready to become polite.

Naran

When he gets angry, be in the SAFE and SECURE MUDRA and chant “CHERRY PLUM, IMPATIENS”.

Our endurance and patience only can help us.

Related Posts

Patience is the key: http://joboneoone.wordpress.com/2013/11/26/patience-is-the-key/

Your spouse is possessive: http://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2014/01/28/your-spouse-is-possessive/

Do you know why she doesn’t appreciate?

10 years ago
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Patient: My wife loves me a lot. She is a very considerate person. At the same time, when it comes to my way of doing, she is highly intolerant. Surprisingly, she tolerates others’ mistakes to a greater extent – this includes my parent’s actions too.

Naran

One part of her is tolerant, while the other part of her is intolerant – especially to you. It shows, somehow you trigger the other – unwanted part in her.

Do you have a similar behavior in yourself?

Patient: Yeah! In general, I always tend to correct the way of others and not just one person. I believe everything has to be done correctly, with the right people, and at the right time.

Naran

I will teach you a simple method here.  

Affirm as many times as possible:

 “I RELEASE the PART of ME that is criticized by me”. 

“I OPEN ALIGN WITH the PART of ME that evokes her tolerance to PRAISE me”.

You can write them too.

The letters in UPPER CASE is fixed. The rest of the statement, you can fill with whatever you want. This way, you are releasing the behavior you don’t want and activating the behavior you want in others.

1st is C-section, 2nd is Normal Delivery

10 years ago
by admin in

Santhosh

I thank you for a wonderful service you are doing for mankind. I am a regular visitor to your website. I collect all the posts and practice a few.

My wife was pregnant for the 2nd time. First baby was born with C-section. So, this time we wanted a normal delivery. After seeing few posts, I asked my wife to daily chant “TOGETHER DIVINE” and she used to chant daily.

On the day of delivery, she chanted “TOGETHER DIVINE” and I chanted “LALITHAM LAMBODARAM”.

The baby got delivered at 1:10 PM with a normal delivery. Doctor herself was surprised. All our relatives are also surprised to know how come the second baby got delivered normally after the first one with C-section.

I know that it is because of the mantras given by you.

Thank you very much.

Related Posts

Safe Delivery: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/05/01/divine-birth/

Delivery Pain Joyful Gain: http://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2009/05/19/delivery-pain-joyful-gain/

Lalitham Lambodaram: http://reachnaran.com/lalitham-lambodaram/

Chicory

10 years ago
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The Bach Flower Remedy Chicory

Key words

Possessiveness, Self-Love, Self-Pity, Always Demanding, Noticeable, Attracting Attention

Indications

  • They try to attract others attention: for example, infants attract attention by crying when you leave them alone or we try to impress others sometimes by flattery.
  • Will be overeager to help.
  • They get angry, if they find no gratitude from the person benefited by them.
  • Their possessive nature can make the opposite person as a Centaury. Please note here, fear of rejection indicates a Centaury, while the person who instils a fear of rejection on others is Chicory.
  • Chicory will not give anything free – there is a hidden agenda behind every transaction he makes.
  • A Chicory person always attracts the attention of others.
  • Always demanding and expects a great deal from others.
  • He is possessive, extremely interfering, secretly manipulating and easily hurt.
  • He has a feeling of unwanted.
  • Over protection and too much parenting.
  • Constantly concerned with the affairs of the family, always interfering.
  • Behind all Chicory type, there lies a deep lack of fulfilment, often a feeling of not being loved.
  • Desires for company for his selfish ends.
  • He is a stingy person.
  • Easily offended or hurt – self-pity.
  • Pretending illness to attract others pity.
  • Always speaks about what others owe her.
  • Extremely nagging – the in-laws remedy.
  • Thinks, feels that everyone is there for his help.
  • Goes to the extent of weeping or pretending to be ill to get his things done.
  • There is constant fear of loss.
  • Emotional demanding always.
  • Behind the Chicory state, an internal emptiness is more.
  • Watching over the needs, wishes and progress of family and friends.
  • Always ready to comment, to correct others or to advise others.
  • The emotional control is subtle, making others dependent.
  • He will manipulate to impose his will.
  • The Chicory finds it hard to let go, feels easily offended or hurt; becomes ill to gain sympathy, always expecting others to live in the feeling of gratitude to her.
  • Chicory children throw temper tantrums.
  • The Chicory child will weep and get things done.
  • If weeping doesn’t pay, he will indulge in flattery or helps you in house hold work.
  • Always demanding, tries to seek attention.
  • The Chicory baby always wants her to be held in the lap all the time.
  • The Chicory child likes to be carried always.
  • Would weep if said anything.
  • Over care and over concern for hurt feelings.
  • Always seeks company.
  • Heart Chakra is closed for Chicory people.  Pray to Chicory to be active in the Heart Chakra.

Chicory says

  • Threatening: “I will do homework, but I will not go to the music class.  If you agree for my condition, then I will finish up all my homework now”.
  • “I am angry at his ingratitude, and he cheated me. I have done so much to him” – Chicory + Chestnut bud.
  • Chicory person makes others feel guilty by saying, “You have just used me.”
  • “After all that I have done for you, this is how you treat me”.
  • “I have given her a sari on her birthday and all that I get from her on my birth day is a card.”
  • Emotional black mailing – “How can I live without you?”
  • “Think of what I have done for you” and then bursting in to tears.
  • “My dear son, I miss you so much, the house is vacant.”
  • He sometimes become ill, he may resort to black mail. “I will study after this, if you allow me to browse the Internet.”
  • “People should respect me.”

Ailments

  • Eating disorders
  • Hysterical Neurosis  – convulsion type
  • Histrionic personality disorder

Usage

  • “Live and let live” is the positive Chicory.
  • Chicory + Walnut – when the child starts schooling
  • Chicory + Walnut – for a second wife
  • Chicory + Star of Bethlehem – if a person whom you love is dead
  • Chicory – for separation.
  • Chicory: I want love and attention
  • Chicory: I feel that nobody recognises my importance
  • Chicory: I have a fear of loneliness
  • Chicory: I feel I am neglected
  • Chicory: I feel unloved by my loved ones
  • Chicory: Others say that I am of a highly interfering type
  • Chicory: I can’t be alone; I always need company
  • Chicory: I often enjoy giving my opinions and advice to others; but I feel hurt/offended when they reject my advice
  • Mimulus, Chicory: My child stays close to my side; rarely goes alone; does nothing alone
  • Chicory: Cries a lot when starting for the school
  • Chicory, Mimulus: The child becomes upset even if mildly criticized
  • Mimulus, Chicory: Burst into tears for no apparent reason
  • Chicory: The child clings to mother

Child or Mother

10 years ago
by admin in

Naran

During delivery, the mother was very serious. The doctor tells the husband that condition is very serious. He can save only one life that is either the mother or the child. 

Now the hubby does not know what to do because both the lives are precious to him.  At that time, Sweet chestnut was given to the husband and to the wife through distance. 

Both the Wife and the child were saved. 

What is impossible to human mind is possible with the Bach Flower Remedy SWEET CHESTNUT.

Related Posts

Bach Flower Remedies for Pregnancy: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2009/10/13/bach-flower-remedies-for-pregnancy/

God appeared to me: http://reachnaran.com/god-appeared-to-me/

How to Use Bach Flower Remedies: http://reachnaran.com/how-to-use-bach-flower-remedies-2/

47-Broken-Relationship

10 years ago
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47 Broken-Relationship

This symbol:

  • Restores the lost love
  • Rejoins with husband/wife
  • Joins the broken relationship

Chant the switch words, “TOGETHER DIVINE”

On the empty circle, write the names of the people you want to get re-joined (one of them could be yourself)

Connect with Great Saints

10 years ago
by admin in

Naran S Balakumar

Healing connection with Paramacharya

Last weekend, I was cleaning my attic.

I happened to find the photograph of Paramacharya Chandrashekarendra Saraswati. It showed his devotees doing Kanaga Abhishekam on him. It is a prayer to seek wealth and welfare.

The photo was kept unclean. So, I felt bad and send Reiki to Paramacharya using the Silver Triangle as a sign of apology and prayer.

I didn’t know what the message is for me here, because I believe strongly that divine gives us messages and guidance through many forms.

So, I simply prayed to Paramacharya, seeking whatever healing required by me, my family, and my patients.

Connection between the lost child and her parents

Only last month, I read an article about him in a Tamil Newspaper.

The story goes like this.

An old couple approached Paramacharya. They were childless and wanted to do something back to the society – either in the form of taking care of expenses of some poor girl (as marriage expenses are taken care of by the brides’ family in this part of the world) or adopt a child.

Therefore, they sought his guidance.

Paramacharya asked them to contact the poor family waiting to meet him outside his abode.

The old couple had a daughter who was about to get married and were looking for some financial help to get their daughter married.

When enquired about their daughter, the daughter’s father told the old couple that they found the girl in a railway station about 15 years back.

What was surprising was that the girl was nothing but the daughter of the old couple themselves. The man is her father and the lady was her step-mother.

It is his daughter from his first marriage.

After, his first wife passed away, he married his current wife. On her insistence, he left the daughter in a railway station that is far away from their home, so that she will be lost from their lives.

And, he never had a child through his second marriage.

The girl was picked up by the poor couple, who were childless themselves and took care of her from then.

How Paramacharya did know this? Nobody knew that fact. But, somehow he connected the abandoned daughter with her legal parents.

Connection with right gynecologist

Kala was about to have her second child. She has major complications and couldn’t find a solution to fix them.

Unfortunately, each doctor she consulted had given her different warnings, which confused her further. So she was worried and said she had to meet me immediately.

The time she came to see me, a couple was waiting for me to consult me for the first time.

When I found out that the lady is gynecologist, I asked her to help Kala. The doctor obliged to see Kala immediately and gave the right consultation that was the need for the hour.

The doctor refused to take any money as she felt that only divine has made her to come to my clinic and meet Kala. I insisted that she take 200 rupees as a token of energy exchange.

However, I told her to keep it with her and not spend it, as I have understood the message from divine – here Paramacharya, that divine is offering to the doctor, a gift of wealth and welfare in the form of 200 rupees.

What is the connection with Reiki past healing and Saints?

Whenever you want to seek the guidance and blessings of Saints and Sages, or Gods for that matter, you put them in the altar in the form of silver triangle and do your prayers by drawing Reiki symbols.

 You will be able to receive their grace and rays of love from them.

While doing the prayer, make an affirmation, “I OPEN to GRACE and RAYS of LIGHT and LOVE of …. (NAME of the SAINT)”

Diagnosed with Glaucoma

10 years ago
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Mahesh             

My wife was diagnosed with Glaucoma in the right eye in 2007 and by the time she lost 90% of vision in that eye.

The eye pressure is under control with eye drops, but the lost vision could not be restored.

She was also diagnosed with deterioration of retina in both the eyes, especially in the left eye, due to which she lost the central vision. Doctors say there is no cure. We only have faith in God.

My wife continues to work for an IT major in the software domain.

Naran

She can listen to “VISION IMPROVEMENT” CD

Ask her to take the eye tone pills too.

Related Posts

Eye Care Mantras: http://reachnaran.com/eye-care-mantras/

Do this, before you visit doctors: http://reachnaran.com/do-this-before-you-visit-doctors/

Change the way of my son

10 years ago
by admin in

Tarsem Chima

My son has taken off with an older woman, who’s on drugs.

I am a widow staying with my daughter on a very small pension, waiting for my son to settle down, so that I can stay with him. You gave me the remedy “TOGETHER BREAST LIFT KIND DIVINE”. I am doing it 1000 times a day.

There are no changes at all in spite of doing other chanting also. He is not changing his way and neither speaking to us. I am very worried. What do I have to do so that he will change his ways, get a good job, settle down, find a good wife and have a family.

Naran

Chant only this, “TOGETHER BREAST LIFT KIND DIVINE”.

Keep your son in the left palm with all his weak points.

Keep yourself on the right palm with all your opinions and “wanting”.

Keep the palms horizontally 1 or 2 feet away from each other.

Bring both the palms together slowly, and very slowly, while chanting “I AM SORRY PLEASE FORGIVE ME. ALIGN LINK WITH CENTER DIVINE”.

Related Blogs

There will be no downfall: http://reachnaran.com/there-will-be-no-downfall/

Fed up with my son’s behavior: http://reachchildcare.wordpress.com/2013/06/04/fed-up-with-my-sons-behavior/

Failed to change my child’s behaviour: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2013/02/26/failing-to-change-my-childs-behaviour/

Your in-laws are your parents

10 years ago
by admin in

JEY

I am married a few months ago and have problems with my mother-in-law. She is the possessive type.

When my husband, she and I go out, she wants to sit in front in the car. Whenever my husband and I go out for a vacation, she would call him and ask him to come back.

She decides everything for us and we have no freedom as husband and wife. My husband follows her blindly without questioning.

How am I to solve this problem? I want my MIL to leave us to enjoy our marriage life.

I love my parents very much and I want my parents to stay near me and I want to take care of them forever.

At the moment my dad is jobless and he is always sad because of that. I hope he can get a job somewhere near my place so that my family will always be next to me. And, I want my parents to live long.

Naran

Write your parents name. Draw a circle around the names. Draw one more circle around the first one. Write in the gap, “SWEET CHESTNUT, WALNUT, GREEN TOURMALINE”.

Love your mother-in-law as much as you love your parents. What all you want to do for your parents, do for your mother-in-law.

Change your thinking and stop resenting. Do this for one month.

Thank her for allowing you to be with your husband. Daily thank her like this.

In the night, chant “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW” till you sleep.

Related Blogs

Love, Affection and Harmony: http://togetherrelationship.wordpress.com/2013/09/17/love-affection-and-harmony/

Bring Cheer in Relationships: http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2013/08/15/cheer-in-relationships/

Tie your problems and throw them away: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2011/06/06/tie-your-problems-and-throw-them-away/

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