Married Life
Patience alone can help us
Simran
If he shows anger on me, according to him, I should behave like a matured wife. I should behave same as in normal condition, in a polite way.
He loves me through my politeness. These are his expectations.
Can I change myself through this way, because if he becomes angry I can’t handle him politely?
At that time, I feel bad why he should get angry on me. And I don’t like his bad behavior either.
However, if by changing my behavior, my relationship takes a good way, then I am ready to become polite.
Naran
When he gets angry, be in the SAFE and SECURE MUDRA and chant “CHERRY PLUM, IMPATIENS”.
Our endurance and patience only can help us.
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Make one talk
Bhuvana
I feel my husband is not transparent with me sometimes. Yes, he hides so many things from me.
However, he is not going in any wrong way. Still it’s painful for me. If I go ahead and talk to him about this, we end up in fight and the day is so painful.
Naran
Chant “AGRIMONY, CHESTNUT BUD” over a glass of water and drink it daily.
Explanation
The negative Agrimony person will not reveal his feelings. He will be hiding, what he does. When questioned, he will say “nothing” to avoid being exposed.
Avoidance is the negative aspect of Chestnut Bud.
To know the truth from the person, both are given. Then the person will open up.
Thus, AGRIMONY and CHESTNUT BUD will help them to open up and share their inner turmoil.
This combination is good for patients who go for a psychotherapy session. Without any difficulty they will share their feelings.
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Harmony with neighbor: http://reachnaran.com/harmony-with-neighbor/
Hindrance to a Peaceful Family Life
Subhayu Sur
There is one unwanted relationship in my life, which I want to ward off. This is a one female colleague of mine, who came close to me.
Now, she is not leaving me and being hindrance in my peaceful family life.
Naran
Pray to god to help you come out of this lady.
Daily affirm, “I thank … to have parted from me”.
Thank her (mentally) for what she gave you. At some point she gave what you lacked. Don’t hate her now. Thank her and forgive her as many times as possible.
Write “CHICORY, WALNUT, ROCK ROSE” in a paper and keep it under the pillow.
Explanation
Break the link: WALNUT
To release the part of you that is still attached to her: CHICORY
To be helped in times of need (similar to Wolf): ROCK ROSE
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Feel Love in Plenty: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/06/16/feel-love-in-plenty/
My mother-in-law’s best friend
Rajalekshmi
http://reachnaran.com/your-in-laws-are-your-parents/
Beautiful remedy for all the married couples from Naran!
Only after becoming Naran’s student, I learned to enjoy my divine life.
Now, I and my mother-in-law became best friends after doing the forgiving exercises and after past-life healing class.
LOVE THANKS DIVINE to our great teacher NARAN!
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Build a relationship step by step
Naran
A girl was married 10 years back. From that time onwards till now, she was not allowed to visit her mother’s house at all. Neither she should talk to her family members nor should her parents visit her.
Chitra suggested her to chant “OM HAM NAMAHA, OM YAM NAMAHA, OM RAM NAMAHA, OM VAM NAMAHA, OM LAM NAMAHA”.
After chanting for three days she was allowed to go to her parent’s house.
Explanation
So it is an excellent mantra combination for relationship, building harmony in the family and develops understanding as well. It will also release all the imbalances in the chakras.
Ham – the desire to relate, comes to the space,
Yam – taken out by air, telepathy is established, and
Ram – the connection is established
Vam – to relate and
Lam – one calms down after manifestation of the desire
She is the God-Send Angel to Help Her Husband
Sinobia
A friend’s husband is interested in another woman. Can you please help with switch words so that she can bring him back?
Naran
Ask her to love herself deeply.
Let her have faith in God.
Ask her to thank god for sending this person to her so that she has got a chance to mend him.
Ask her not to regret what is happening.
Ask her not to blame.
Ask her not to think this as karmic.
Ask her to think that this chance is given to her – as god considers her special – to mend him.
Pray and pray – prayer can move mountains.
Daily in the morning, around 5 am, ask her to talk to him mentally, what all she wants to put in his mind. Let she talk mentally with love and kindness, thinking God is besides her directing her.
Let her send lots of love (pink) energy to her husband and that girl.
Close the meditation with the affirmation, “Oh! Divine Order! Re-align him (husband) and (that girl) her to your flow so that both of them understand and come out of their entanglement.”
Ask her to write “MUSTARD, HOLLY, CHICORY, FIND DIVINE ORDER”.
Explanation
Mustard, Holly and Chicory are Bach flower remedies, while Find and Divine Order are switch words.
Mustard: to come out of the problem (darkness) and find a solution (light)
Holly: to come out of rage and to re-align with husband
Chicory: for possessiveness and attachment
Find Divine Order: to find a solution and (divine) order in life
My married life is like living in a hostel
My married life is like a hostel life. We two are living like roommates only. He is taking food, and bathing at his mother’s home, coming only in the late evening after finishing all his routines. He is not willing to go out with me.
We two are working and have problems in money matters.
In-laws also wanted to keep him with them at all times. He is the third son. All others in family are well attached to their families blessed with all boons and children. But I am living like sanyasi and no children after seven years of marriage. Not all are co-operating even for small things also. Undergoing treatment and that too not successful till date.
Born in a poor temple’s priest family and after many struggles and hard work, completed my graduation and currently earning a small income monthly. But in-laws need my money fully and problem created there and we came separately. After that also they are begging for money from my husband.
He believes them and not trusting me. I am doing and thinking everything for our welfare only. But he does not understand me. Not going out with me, but willing to go with others.
I am working from my young age. So I don’t want to quit the job and be idle. But in a joint-family I have to give all money to them.
We are separate now but my life is like a sanyasi life.
All my relations are coming with their partners. But I am going alone to all functions. He is not at all willing to come out with me.
Gone through your site and all mantras are well, good and useful.
I am a devotee of Shridi Sai Baba and I trust the reply given by you is the remedy given by Guru Shridi Sai. Jai Sairam. Sainath Maharaj Ki Jai.
Naran
Throughout our life, we hunt for love, needing caring and affection from others. When we don’t get it, we fail to understand that we are demanding more and more from a person who does not have what we want. Instead, we hang on to him.
Our demand annoys him and he distances himself away. The paradox is he married you with the intention that you would give him love. There is an unconscious decision is your life before birth that you will always give love to your husband without any expectation. Now instead of giving, you want to receive. That is why you are not getting.
Instead of trying to get, become a giver. That is why you are named Someshwari.
Give love even when there is no receiving.
Giving love without expecting to receive will make you magnanimous.
Thank every person and every event in your life daily.
Meditate on Sai Baba, reminding yourself of his anecdotes of Divine love and visualize his love filling up your heart. Then from your heart let his love flow through your hands to your husband and his family.
Do this daily. Thank them. Pray for them.
Chant the following: “CHICORY, CHERRY PLUM, TOGETHER FIND DIVINE LOVE WITH”.
Chant this as many times as possible.
Faith and Endurance will carry us forward.
Write this in a paper and keep it under the pillow.
After my marriage, my wheezing increased!
Lalitha
I am a student of Shobana, who teaches yoga in the Bach Flower Center.
Few months back, my cook’s daughter Hema got married. She visited my home a couple of days of back and mentioned to me that her wheezing has increased just after her marriage.
I consulted Shobana, who after hearing the details, asked me to give Hema, the Bach Flower Remedy Walnut. After taking the Walnut pills a couple of times, Hema’s condition got significantly improved.
Shobana explained to me later, as this has happened after Hema’s marriage – a transition in her life, Walnut has helped her to resolve her health issue.