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Detach Emotionally

Ravi

I have a problem of getting emotionally attached to people (especially of the opposite sex). They would come on my mind for maximum times of the day.

I unknowingly get so involved that after some time in the relationship, I say or do things that I don’t want to or that which is not good for the relation. Then of course there is friction in the relation.

I really start to feel the energy when this starts to happen. I try to control but cannot.

Naran

Do the forgiving exercise with EFT (tapping).

Related Posts

How and why we need to forgive others: http://reachnaran.com/how-and-why-we-need-to-forgive-others/

Advantage Acceptance: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2009/06/25/advantage-acceptance/

Program Your Life – Part I

Letting GO is the Nature of LIFE

Naran

When you look at the whole world you will understand we only are holding on to mind.

What is the opposite of letting go? “Holding on to” is the opposite word. Holding will restrict us. Letting go expands us.

By letting go you are discharging from yourself what is not required by you, like Water putting out the Fire. Body and Nature Follows this rule 100%.

Watch the body. What it does?

Whatever is inhaled, lungs have to exhale out. Lungs cannot keep the air even for one second.

Heart – what does it do? It takes in blood and sends it out immediately. Blood enters the heart through Auricles and let out through Ventricles.

Whatever you take in, has to be let it out. It is the natural process of the body.

Lungs contract to let go, kidneys contract to let go urine, intestines peristaltically (downward movement) contract to let go the faeces and skin lets go by sweat.

The mouth lets go whatever you eat to the stomach. Stomach lets it go to the intestine. Intestine and kidneys let go as excretion.

Morning lets go to the noon, the noon lets go and becomes afternoon. Afternoon lets go and become the evening, and then evening to night. Each and every second gives way to the next.

Let go before taking the action. Then let go the emotions and thoughts attached to results.

Ask the questions:

  • What do you expect to achieve?
  • What is the driver desire or wanting behind each emotion and thought?
  • Wanting to control or change?
  • Wanting appreciation, recognition? (Desire for Approval)
  • Wanting more security? (fearful)

With this technique, you are not prevented from doing anything. Let go emotions as well as thoughts, and then Act.

“You are only entitled to Act. Don’t think about the result while doing” – says Lord Krishna in Bhagavat Gita.

The theory, we propose here is a new dimension to Bhagavat Gita and a new understanding of the Gita.

Read the 2nd part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/program-your-life-part-ii/

Hindrance to a Peaceful Family Life

Subhayu Sur

There is one unwanted relationship in my life, which I want to ward off. This is a one female colleague of mine, who came close to me.

Now, she is not leaving me and being hindrance in my peaceful family life.

Naran

Pray to god to help you come out of this lady.

Daily affirm, “I thank … to have parted from me”.

Thank her (mentally) for what she gave you. At some point she gave what you lacked. Don’t hate her now. Thank her and forgive her as many times as possible.

Write “CHICORY, WALNUT, ROCK ROSE” in a paper and keep it under the pillow.

Explanation

Break the link: WALNUT

To release the part of you that is still attached to her: CHICORY

To be helped in times of need (similar to Wolf): ROCK ROSE

Related Posts

Flowers for Harmony: http://reachnaran.com/flowers-for-harmony-in-relationships-and-family/

Maintain your level of intimacy: http://togetherrelationship.wordpress.com/2013/07/22/how-to-maintain-your-level-of-intimacy/

Feel Love in Plenty: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/06/16/feel-love-in-plenty/

There are no accidents only incidents

Balu

I had an accident five years back. It was not a major accident. These days whenever I drive on the road, I am afraid that I might meet with an accident again.

Naran

Release all your current fears about accidents.

Release all your emotions attached with your accident that happened in the past.

Was there are any advantages of having that accident?  It might sound cruel, but we do invite those accidents as there are some benefits attached to that accident.

Balu

No, that was my first accident and your last question was interesting. I did take off from work for two months and I really did enjoy it, as I was not happy with the management then.

Naran

Ok, maybe you didn’t have an accident. Any incident happened that gave you the same advantages of taking leave or avoiding a situation you didn’t like.

If nothing comes to the memory, go back 12 years from now. Check whether you had any major incidents in your life that made you take a long leave. If there are none, then go back 18 years or 30 years before your accident.

Balu

I remember now. I was doing my graduation in Physics. I had problems with HOD (again issues with the management). While playing Hockey, I slipped and broke my left-hand. Interestingly, I took after a leave of two months then.

Naran

Put the emotions of your college incident in the triangle. Did any of your parents have met with an accident? Put all of them in the memory.

Balu

Yes, my father had a couple of accidents after his retirement. I have to check out with him whether he had an accident when he was studying college and when he was working.

The funny thing was, in both the cases, I had resentment about the treatment of management and the accident helped to avoid going to the places I hate.

Naran

Heal all the memory of your sicknesses that helped you avoid going to work/school/college.

Related Blogs

Unfulfilled Genes: http://healyourpastlife.wordpress.com/2013/04/03/unfulfilled-genes/

Travel Safely: http://lifsez.wordpress.com/2013/10/24/travel-safely/

Travel Pack: http://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2014/01/27/travel-pack/

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