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Easy Way to Reach Divine
GA
During last week, I had been diagnosed with ectopic/tubal pregnancy.
Foetus was healthy and well growing, but growing at wrong place. So, as per doctor’s advice, I had to terminate that pregnancy.
I remained sad for one two days and not only me but whole family was sad.
I know everything is happening for the best and according to all merciful supreme lords’ will. I myself have seen so many worst looking events turning into beneficial ones afterwards.
But, during the moments of emotional trauma all this theoretical and practical knowledge disappears from mind.
Is there any method or technique other than meditation to train our minds to happily and calmly accept all such events, which are beyond our control and purely according to divine will?
And how should we perceive such incidents to feel less or no grief?
Naran
Feeling less grief is not to be imposed.
Go through the emotions, which naturally surface and bow to them and come out.
When there is great distress over grief or when there is reason for grieving, weep, weep.
Weeping is easy way of reaching the divine.
Let us not feel shy for weeping. Yes, there was expectation in vain. Feel sad and weep to get over that. Weeping intensely will ultimately relieve you from the burden.
A solace is given by weeping. When you think that you can no more weep, just say, “I bow to this weeping and go beyond this state.”
Repeat within after the weeping episode, the Radha’s prayer:
“Krishna, my lord, whether thou chooses for me life or death, happiness or sorrow , pleasure or suffering, all that comes to me from thee, is always welcome”.
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Common solution to the housing problem
Gayathri
This is a general question which I think will be benefited to all. Gone through your site – all mantras, remedies are fantastic. Main thing I noted is shelter problem.
Real estate is in peak today and due to this house rent/land rate is too high which affects lower and middle classes. Living in rent in a decent area or purchasing flat and house – everything is a difficult for them.
Hence, my humble request is to suggest remedies/mantras to peak down I.e. nominal value for land and so that all will be benefitted.
Naran
Don’t go by general interpretation of anything. Each one is unique. Each problem is unique. There may be similar problems but not same.
The problem in general is high rent, peak of land or house price. But each individual, undergoing this problem will react in different ways:
“It is the world of cheats. This is a bad phase in my life”.
“I am destined to suffer”
“Prices will never come down. We can never have a peaceful life”
“I feel like bursting out”.
“Everything is going beyond limits”
“What can we do? We have to accept and move on.”
“Something may happen. Prices will come down”
“God is not helping the poor. He is by the side of the rich only”
Each will be in a different state of mind. Each will react differently and approach the problem differently. Therefore it is not good to suggest a common solution to all.
In the above situation, what is the one general advice that can be given?
One has to bear, with fortitude and courage to face any situation. If this mentality is developed and or if one is in this state of mind, things will improve.
How to cultivate this or develop this state? How to transform one’s mental state into this?
Flowers are the answer. There are four (Bach) flowers that can help anybody in the above situation:
- CHERRY PLUM (to bear, and endure so that our limit to earn is enhanced)
- ROCK ROSE (to develop fortitude -never-say-die spirit; if this is developed help will come instantly)
- GORSE not to lose hope at any time
- WILD ROSE to get motivated to move on in life
Flowers are divine. Flowers are our teachers. Life is always a learning process. We are always students.
Related Blogs
Got the Housing Loan: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/10/11/got-the-housing-loan/
How to own a house: http://finddivinehome.wordpress.com/2013/07/25/buying-a-house/
We are about to own a house: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2013/08/22/we-are-about-to-own-a-house/