Posts tagged mentality

Love breaks all the hurdles

V

He got to say yes to the girl as his mother has decided. He knows, I respect his care for his mother, and will not say anything against it.

His engagement ceremony is going to happen in another 3 days. He too loves me a lot and suffering a lot because of this situation. There should be a way to come out of this situation and stop this engagement.

Please guide and bless me, so that both our families will accept our relationship.

Naran 

Love should break all the hurdles, if it is true.

Chant “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW” or listen to the “WELCOME CHANGE” CD

V

I can understand there are lots of facts happening in life, which we may feel are wrong. But that can be the Great Lords will, so it should not be questioned too.

May be it’s my destiny, which will decide about me. But, how many times should I need to bend in front of my destiny.

I am feeling really low with these incidents in my life. Earlier I had taken my step back, when it was about my career, and now it’s about my life partner.

Still, I am not succeeded on any part of my life at age of 32!! I have failed over and over again.

I have always been good to people. So why should not I expect the same from my life.

Naran 

“How many times should I need to bend” is a statement which exposes your anger and resentment at destiny.

A person if voluntarily bends and does the work will not complain.

Take the flower remedies CENTAURY, WILLOW, LARCH and PINE to overcome this feeling, three pills each, and one after the other, for three times a day.

Explanation

Weak-willed and not assertive enough: CENTUARY

Anger and Resentment: WILLOW

Failure mentality: LARCH

Feeling low: PINE

Related Posts

Can’t propose to girl of my heart: http://togetherrelationship.wordpress.com/2013/07/10/cant-propose-to-girl-of-my-heart/

Remove obstacles in getting married: http://reachnaran.com/remove-obstacles-in-getting-married/

Obstacles for a wedding: http://marriagemantri.wordpress.com/2013/08/05/obstacles-for-wedding/

Life is Divine

“I Trust Life” – from the “I Love Myself” Workbook

Naran

1.       So far divine has taken care of you in this life. In what ways you are divinely guided or helped?

My Life is Divine

I trust life means, I trust Divine. Life is Divine – the one energy which is leading my life.

How can you cultivate the trust in the Divine?

So far we have lived our life, which has been taken care of by the Divine.

This we can understand by the happening of certain events and situations. In certain important events you would have felt the presence of Divine.

2.       You must identify such events and situations. You must identify, in what ways you were helped or guided?

This we can understand only when we go deeper and find out.

Sometimes, your life has been saved by the Divine. In some situations, you would have cancelled your journey and that plane or train would have met with an accident.

Our very presence proves the existence of Divine

My very presence is because of the Divine, somebody is giving me something, and I am living. My very living is the proof that some Divine is protecting me, nurturing me, nourishing me, and guarding me.

Healing has come to us and it’s a great boon

Everybody cannot come into the healing profession.

How ignorant people are? Who has brought me in this line? Which has made me learn so many healing techniques?

So then, I am not an ordinary human being. The Divine wants to me to learn more and move spiritually at the same time.

In this profession, we cannot find out concrete profit. But lot of changes will take place in our mind, in our life and the way we look at life.  

If a problem comes for a common man then he will start worrying, go to temple and pray. But, what we will do?

We will do the necessary healing and that too with a mentality of non-attachment to the result.

Why do we need to have a fear of future?

When the Divine is doing so much for me, why not divine will protect me in future also? Why should I fear about my future?

Whenever the fear or worry comes, repeat the words, “I TRUST LIFE”.

When you say these words, you feel confident, thinking, “So far the Divine has protected me. Even here afterwards the Divine will protect me. Therefore, why should I worry?”

How to solve your problems?

If there is any problem means we are not submitting ourselves to the Divine Order and we fail to see the Divine Order in operation.

When we fail to see the Divine Order in operation, we lack in love.

When you chant the switch words, “CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE ORDER”, it completes the love, and problem is solved.

Related Posts

Surrender to win the battle of life: http://naranonline.wordpress.com/2011/12/31/to-surrender-is-to-win-the-battle-of-life/

Sleeping pill: http://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2013/07/18/sleeping-pill/

I lost all hope that I will succeed in Life: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2011/08/01/i-lost-all-hope-that-i-will-succeed-in-life/

Self Defense for Women

Protection against bullying, ragging, eve-teasing

Deeya

Although I live in Canada, I am very much in love with my motherland India.  

In the last two months so much crime in the form of rape is happening in our society.  It is really painful to see that even 4-5 yrs old-young girl child are being the target of sick mentality animals with a body of human are in our society.  

How to prevent such animals to commit these heinous crimes?  I know if we chant, pray or meditate together then any problem can be solved and we can save more girls to fall prey to this heinous crime.  

Any words or meditation will be good to keep our kids, daughters and sisters from another mother safe in today’s society.

Naran

The combination is: CENTAURY + MIMULUS + PINE + ROCK WATER + CHESTNUT BUD + ROCK ROSE + VINE + GUARD

CENTAURY – mental will to resist

MIMULUS – not to be bullied

PINE – not to be a victim

ROCK WATER + CHESTNUT BUD + VINE – for protection against getting beaten up or sexually harassed

ROCK ROSE – to be helped instantly

This combination is available as a picture card, with the pictures of the Bach Flowers Mentioned in the combination along with the switch word GUARD. Please contact the centre to buy the card.

Related Post

Protection from ragging and terrorism: http://reachnaran.com/protection-from-ragging-and-terrorism/

Common solution to the housing problem

Gayathri

This is a general question which I think will be benefited to all. Gone through your site – all mantras, remedies are fantastic. Main thing I noted is shelter problem.

Real estate is in peak today and due to this house rent/land rate is too high which affects lower and middle classes. Living in rent in a decent area or purchasing flat and house – everything is a difficult for them.

Hence, my humble request is to suggest remedies/mantras to peak down I.e. nominal value for land and so that all will be benefitted.

Naran

Don’t go by general interpretation of anything. Each one is unique. Each problem is unique. There may be similar problems but not same.

The problem in general is high rent, peak of land or house price. But each individual, undergoing this problem will react in different ways:

“It is the world of cheats. This is a bad phase in my life”.

“I am destined to suffer”

“Prices will never come down. We can never have a peaceful life”

“I feel like bursting out”.

“Everything is going beyond limits”

“What can we do? We have to accept and move on.”

“Something may happen. Prices will come down”

“God is not helping the poor. He is by the side of the rich only”

Each will be in a different state of mind. Each will react differently and approach the problem differently. Therefore it is not good to suggest a common solution to all.

In the above situation, what is the one general advice that can be given?

One has to bear, with fortitude and courage to face any situation. If this mentality is developed and or if one is in this state of mind, things will improve.

How to cultivate this or develop this state? How to transform one’s mental state into this?

Flowers are the answer. There are four (Bach) flowers that can help anybody in the above situation:

  1. CHERRY PLUM (to bear, and endure so that our limit to earn is enhanced)
  2. ROCK ROSE (to develop fortitude -never-say-die spirit; if this is developed help will come instantly)
  3. GORSE not to lose hope at any time
  4. WILD ROSE to get motivated to move on in life

Flowers are divine. Flowers are our teachers. Life is always a learning process. We are always students.

Related Blogs

Got the Housing Loan: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/10/11/got-the-housing-loan/

How to own a house: http://finddivinehome.wordpress.com/2013/07/25/buying-a-house/

We are about to own a house: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2013/08/22/we-are-about-to-own-a-house/

Rule the Chakras to Rule Your Life

Naran

The lower three chakras rule us

We have seven chakras. However, we are acting from the first three chakras, namely BASIC/ROOT CHAKRA, SWADHISTANA CHAKRA and SOLAR PLEXUS CHAKRA.

“I am seeking myself to maintain myself, seeking pleasure, seeking to possess, stick to confirmed events” would be our ruling behavior as long we live out of these three chakras.

However we should live out of Anahata chakra

Then what I need will never end.

Why my needs are never ending? Because what I get never satisfies me.

ANAHATA CHAKRA (Heart Chakra) is the one that changes these chakras. Only through Anahata chakra we learn to give.

Who will win eventually – all the three lower chakras or one Anahata chakra?

Sadly, success of Anahata chakra is short-lived

Obviously the three chakras will win. But even if Anahata wins how it comes down again? Let us see.

Giving and sharing are the qualities of Anahata. But now and then Solar Plexus calls Anahata, and tells that ‘You are giving liberally. That’s very good’.

The moment it tells like that, ego sets in. When “ego” predominates, giving is denied.

You are not the doer, but the divine is

The quarrel of these four chakras is watched by VISUDHI that is THROAT CHAKRA.

Visudhi means purification. The Visudhi tells the other chakras, you are not the doer, and if you let go the thinking that I am the doer, you will become very good.

When ‘I am not the doer’ thinking comes to you, there will be surrender mentality. All your thoughts will be purified; your love will be refined; then you will accept whatever happens in your life.

Purification of Chakras

Which mantra purifies all these chakras? That is the mantra:

HARE RAMA HARE RAMA

RAMA RAMA HARE HARE

HARE KRISHNA HARE KRISHNA

KRISHNA KRISHNA HARE HARE

Eight times we are chanting HARE, every time you chant the mantra. When you chant HARE, your selfishness will go, and self-centeredness is removed.

When you chant RAMA, arrogance is removed, and the “I” goes off. As long as you are healthy we will not let go the “I”.

“KRU” means adaptability. We can go up and down in life, but wherever we go we have to be happy. For that “KRU” will help.

SHNA means let go of everything daily. Only when you let go you will be adaptable/flexible. If you are flexible means there is no arrogance.

Related Blogs

Opening the chakras with mantras: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2009/07/10/opening-the-chakras-with-mantras/

Colours heal chakras: http://colorhealing.wordpress.com/2009/11/08/colours-heals-chakras/

Instructions to use chakra symbols or pictures: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2011/02/10/instructions-to-use-chakra-symbols-or-pictures/

Gain Confidence

My self-confidence is now very low after so many years of struggle and confusion.

Naran

Chant, “LARCH” for self confidence

Explanation

The Bach Flower Remedy LARCH will improve your self-confidence.

Related Blogs

Larch: http://reachnaran.com/larch/

Boost your self-confidence: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2013/09/11/self-confidence/

Reduce your victim mentality: http://lifsez.wordpress.com/2013/11/26/reduce-your-victim-mentality/

Not getting appreciation

Ambika

Even though my husband is working hard, he is not getting appreciation. He doesn’t have job satisfaction. Because of office politics he is suffering a lot. His colleagues and manager are trying to spoil his name.

Naran

Write the names of flowers “HOLLY, BEECH, WILLOW, WALNUT” in a piece of paper and keep it in his pocket.

Keep HORSE picture also in his pocket – to assert oneself in one’s place.

Related Blogs

Reduce your victim mentality: http://lifsez.wordpress.com/2013/11/26/reduce-your-victim-mentality/

Forgiving mind: http://divineshakthi.wordpress.com/2013/12/24/forgiving-mind/

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