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Easy Way to Reach Divine
GA
During last week, I had been diagnosed with ectopic/tubal pregnancy.
Foetus was healthy and well growing, but growing at wrong place. So, as per doctor’s advice, I had to terminate that pregnancy.
I remained sad for one two days and not only me but whole family was sad.
I know everything is happening for the best and according to all merciful supreme lords’ will. I myself have seen so many worst looking events turning into beneficial ones afterwards.
But, during the moments of emotional trauma all this theoretical and practical knowledge disappears from mind.
Is there any method or technique other than meditation to train our minds to happily and calmly accept all such events, which are beyond our control and purely according to divine will?
And how should we perceive such incidents to feel less or no grief?
Naran
Feeling less grief is not to be imposed.
Go through the emotions, which naturally surface and bow to them and come out.
When there is great distress over grief or when there is reason for grieving, weep, weep.
Weeping is easy way of reaching the divine.
Let us not feel shy for weeping. Yes, there was expectation in vain. Feel sad and weep to get over that. Weeping intensely will ultimately relieve you from the burden.
A solace is given by weeping. When you think that you can no more weep, just say, “I bow to this weeping and go beyond this state.”
Repeat within after the weeping episode, the Radha’s prayer:
“Krishna, my lord, whether thou chooses for me life or death, happiness or sorrow , pleasure or suffering, all that comes to me from thee, is always welcome”.
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Dealing with fears
Nanda
I have a fearful attitude to visit hospitals or to attend the patients in the hospital and panic to hear the news of death of near and dears.
Besides, I avoid traveling distant places either by train or bus. So, I feel guilty about myself for this. So, kindly suggest Bach flower remedy to heal from this type of psychosomatic state of mind.
Naran
Take the flower remedies “MIMULUS, ROCK ROSE”
Explanation
Fear of visiting hospitals, death, new places: MIMULUS
Getting panic attacks: ROCK ROSE
Bring in a feeling of security
अच्छेद्योअ्यमदाह्योअ्यमक्लेद्योअ्शोष्य एव च
नित्यः सर्वगतः स्थाणुरचलोअ्यं सनातनः
Healing Notes on Bagavad Gita Chapter 2 Verse 24
Naran
Uncleavable, incombustible, it is not liable to be drenched or dried up; eternal, all-pervading, stable and unmoving. It is forever and forever.
No pain (fire) can kill you; no sadness (water) can drown you; no worry (air) can dry you; no event (space and earth) can break you.
Survival fear is always there in our thinking… To feel secured is the desire of every human being.
In life, relationships make us insecure; our working place makes us insecure.
How to bring in the state of security?
For people who are unstable in their profession…
Who have lower back pain…
Who have fear of death for unknown reason…
Who have unknown fear …
And people who are fearful of in-laws …
And for people who feel unstable…
Listen to the Verse 24 of SRIMAD BAGAVAD GITA, or read it 11 times.
Any audio version of this verse can be looped and listened continuously.
You can paste the verse in paper and keep it under the pillow.
This brings back the feeling of security –the original SAT which is forgotten by the mind.
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Practice Living Bhagavat Gita’s Way: http://naranonline.wordpress.com/2009/05/08/practice-living-with-awareness-bhagavat-gita%E2%80%99s-way/
“Atmavan Bhava” – Switch Word from Lord Krishna: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/09/15/%E2%80%9Catmavan-bhava%E2%80%9D-%E2%80%93-switch-word-from-lord-krishna/
Stop the Mind’s Influence on You Part I: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2013/01/31/how-to-stop-the-mind-influencing-us-part-i/
Afraid of bad news
Madhu
From beginning of 2013 I am getting so many bad news like anyone sick, death news of relative, neighbor not feeling good.
For this am worried about my father too. As you know my relationship also in trouble. I am feeling little bit lonely and negative.
Naran
Take the flower remedies RED CHESTNUT, ASPEN and RESCUE REMEDY.
Explanation
Fear due to concern for others: RED CHESTNUT
Fears without a specific and valid reason: ASPEN
Getting panic: RESCUE REMEDY