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Coming out of Love Pangs

Naran

Raja and Rani were good friends and loved each other deeply.  They would meet each other every day and spend time together.  They decided to get married.

Suddenly one day Rani’s father brings a boy who has come from U.S.A. and fixes the marriage for Rani.  Rani respects her parent’s words and agrees for the wedding.  Since there was not much time, the marriage takes place and immediately she leaves for U.S.A. 

There was no communication from Rani.

Raja was shocked when he comes to know about the marriage.  He is dejected in life.  Loses interest in life, grows a beard. 

At this state, for pangs of love due to separation give the Bach Flower Remedy CHICORY. 

Raja will get over his separation and starts to lead his life.

The person who is highly possessive will be sentimental and so a love failure affects him a lot. They will say after their love failure they will not get married as they prefer to live in the memories of their beloved. They might get ready for marriage after taking CHICORY.

Why this person is unduly influenced by love? If you give them the Bach Flower Remedy WALNUT it will remove their sadness as Walnut is a great unwanted-link-breaker.

Raja was given Chicory and Walnut. And as expected he could come out of his love pangs.

Related Blogs

Say goodbye to lover of your past: http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2011/06/16/say-good-bye-to-lover-of-your-past/

Find Mr. Right: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2012/04/08/find-mr-right/

Gem Remedies Part I: http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2009/07/10/gem-remedies-part-i/

Vine

Naran

The Bach Flower Remedy Vine

Key words

Dominating, Ruthless, Ambitious, Totally Arrogant

Message

If you don’t know how to be a servant, you will always be bossed over

Indications

  • A Vine boss would claim, “I have absolute control over my staff”.
  • You ask some questions to your boss, about the institution you are working for. Your Vine Boss would reply, “Don’t ask me any questions. Do what I say”.
  • People become fearful, when they come.
  • Ruthlessly disregard others
  • Vine will have his way at any cost.
  • Ruthlessly disregards the opinion of others.
  • Everybody should dance to his tunes.
  • The Vine person is cruel, pitiless without conscience.  He will instil fear in others.
  • Can’t tolerate anyone contradicting him.
  • He beats others.
  • Vine father will develop fear in his child.  The means justifies the end.
  • When you find it difficult to obey others
  • A Vine child will not obey.

Vine says…

  • I am the ruler. You are the ruled.
  • I can question anybody in authority and shake them.
  • I impose my opinion on my children. My word is final for them.
  • I keep my employees on their toes.
  • I will accept what my superior say but with my subordinates, I impose my will.
  • Others say that I impose my will and go into rage when contradicted

Usage

  • For any crisis situations, as it gives you a good presence of mind and tremendous will power to handle the crisis. Of course, take it only when there is a crisis.
  • You are a man to be looked up to when there is a crisis, and a helping hand in crisis.
  • At work when you are promoted and asked to lead others à Vine + Walnut for a month.
  • To handle a dominant partner and in-laws, who squeeze too much of joy out of your life take à Centaury + Vine + Hornbeam. In these situations, you need to ask the questions: how to manage your life? How can you come out of this predicament? Whether you can come out? If you have the question how to initiate the process, then take à Cerato + Vine + Hornbeam + Centaury + Walnut.
  • To manage arrogant and adamant children à Cerato + Centaury + Vine + Hornbeam + Walnut
  • Your purpose in life is to lead others
  • To use your presence of mind.
  • Vine, Cherry Plum: I am becoming violent in my temper

Ailments

  • Multiple sclerosis – Vine. Patches of degeneration in the nerve cells of the brain and spinal cord.
  • Anorexia – Rock water + Vine
  • Sclerosis: (Sclerosis) the hardening of any part from the growth of fibrous tissues.
  • Athero astero sclerosis: the hardening of arteries (elasticity is lost)
  • Symptoms: disturbance of speech, vision and micturition and muscular weakness of limbs.
  • Might be affected by passive – aggressive personality disorder, disruptive behaviour, disorders, especially conduct disorders and anti – social disorders.

Knee and Toe problems

Naran

“HARE RAMA HARA KRISHNA” is the mantra to be chanted.

After old age, we tend to get knee problems. It is very important to take care of this part of the body.

Right knee represents issues with father, left knee represents mother, while toes are concerned with children.

Whether we think what we do is right or wrong, if we have a problem in knee or toes, it indicates we are making a mistake and need to change in some way. Chant “HARE RAMA HARE KRISHNA” to change yourself.

Change should happen within. Stubbornness and inflexibility will need to change into flexibility. By chanting this mantra as it makes us flexible.

Our outlook of life becomes flexible and open.

“I am flexible” and “I will adjust”– we say. In fact, we are opposite, because if we are flexible then we won’t say so.

We are not flexible because we want to control every event to our satisfaction. Then we will not be happy. The desire to change or control will be there in every action of ours.

Release your desire to change or control and accept others as they are.

Acceptance has to be there. If you are not resisting even in mind, any resistance (opposition) to life situations will not be present.

Rama was asked to go to the forest. While Lakshman opposed Rama didn’t oppose it. While all others resisted, Rama accepted it gracefully because he saw the divine plan behind going to the forest for fourteen years.

How do we operate in our lives? Life is nothing but a string of polarities. Our life is motivated by advantages and disadvantages.

The doctor asks you to get admitted in hospital for 10 days. This mantra will get you discharged easily. Both patient and his family can chant it.

Related Blogs

Story of Rama: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2014/01/14/story-of-rama/

Hospital Mantra 24/7: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/01/22/hospital-mantra-247/

Cannot support my parents: http://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2013/07/15/cannot-support-my-parents/

There are no accidents only incidents

Balu

I had an accident five years back. It was not a major accident. These days whenever I drive on the road, I am afraid that I might meet with an accident again.

Naran

Release all your current fears about accidents.

Release all your emotions attached with your accident that happened in the past.

Was there are any advantages of having that accident?  It might sound cruel, but we do invite those accidents as there are some benefits attached to that accident.

Balu

No, that was my first accident and your last question was interesting. I did take off from work for two months and I really did enjoy it, as I was not happy with the management then.

Naran

Ok, maybe you didn’t have an accident. Any incident happened that gave you the same advantages of taking leave or avoiding a situation you didn’t like.

If nothing comes to the memory, go back 12 years from now. Check whether you had any major incidents in your life that made you take a long leave. If there are none, then go back 18 years or 30 years before your accident.

Balu

I remember now. I was doing my graduation in Physics. I had problems with HOD (again issues with the management). While playing Hockey, I slipped and broke my left-hand. Interestingly, I took after a leave of two months then.

Naran

Put the emotions of your college incident in the triangle. Did any of your parents have met with an accident? Put all of them in the memory.

Balu

Yes, my father had a couple of accidents after his retirement. I have to check out with him whether he had an accident when he was studying college and when he was working.

The funny thing was, in both the cases, I had resentment about the treatment of management and the accident helped to avoid going to the places I hate.

Naran

Heal all the memory of your sicknesses that helped you avoid going to work/school/college.

Related Blogs

Unfulfilled Genes: http://healyourpastlife.wordpress.com/2013/04/03/unfulfilled-genes/

Travel Safely: http://lifsez.wordpress.com/2013/10/24/travel-safely/

Travel Pack: http://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2014/01/27/travel-pack/

Chanting for family members

Mithi

My father is suffering from liver cancer, at an advanced stage. Please suggest something that will help him staying in the best possible condition.

Naran

Chant “SANKARAN KANAGASABEYSAN”

The meaning of the mantra is, “The God will not leave us in the lurch”.

Mithi

Please clarify me whether I alone should chant it or ask my parents also do chanting.

Naran

All of you – family members, relatives and friends, need to chant.

Resolve your financial issues

Mr. ER

I had been trying many ways to increase my finances and increase higher and continuous inflow of money into my life. My ambition and dream is to have financial freedom.

Recently I came to know about switch words. Do switch words work 100%? Actually, I am writing this mail to you mainly for the ‘Abundance’ CD that will work on the subconscious mind to attract more money into my life.

Naran

 I will ship the CD. Switch words will work 100%.

Tell me what you are doing. Is there any problem with earning? Why do you want to have more money? What will be your state of mind if you don’t amass wealth?  What feelings and thoughts that will come to you then? What will you do with the money?

Mr. ER

You asked me why I want money. It’s like you asked me why I want food and clothes.

I come from a middle-class background where our life is always decided by lack of money. We have to think 20 times to spend 10 rupees. Almost all the problems in my life and my bitterest experiences were due to money.

I don’t like my work either. But have to do for money. I don’t like the place. I don’t like my present life. Life is full of compromises. I don’t have financial freedom. I want a life of my own.

My father says ‘to come up in life, we have to work very hard.’ If that is true, a labour person works very hard but hardly gets even food. As Deepak Chopra says the shortest way to get anything is correct not the hard way.

So I turned to spirituality to raise my standard. Not only my financial development, but my spiritual and all-round development is dependent on money. I feel switch words are a gift to me from the universe for my years of quest to change my life. Please help me with effective ways to manifest money along with switch words.

Naran

Chant “WILLOW RELEASE RESISTANCE FIND COUNT DIVINE” 200 TO 300 times daily.

Release all your aversion to the present state. Any state we have to accept and overgrow it.

“I don’t like my work. I don’t like the place. I don’t like my present life. Life is full of compromises. I don’t have financial freedom. I want a life of my own” – if these thoughts occupy the mind, money will not come.

Money will flow in when you willingly accept the situation. Any situation is designed by God.

Start liking the job. If you do it with aversion, and don’t contribute your work with full heart, you are stopping your growth.

Daily thank the company who gave you the employment. Thank all the people in the office. Start liking the place.

Compromises are there in everybody’s life. They are made to move forward in life and not to get stagnated.

Write “DIVINE LOVE MANIFEST IN MY HEART”.

I will also send you the CD entitled “I Love Myself” also, in addition to the Abundance CD.

Best of luck

Explanation

Handle resentment and aversion: WILLOW, Bach Flower Remedy

Release our resistance to growth, abundance and success: RELEASE RESISTANCE, switch word

Find money: FIND COUNT DIVINE, switch words

“I LOVE MYSELF” CD is a subliminal CD to help you love self, relationships, career and life in general

“ABUNDANCE” CD helps you to accumulate wealth with happiness.

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