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Your in-laws are your parents

10 years ago
by admin in

JEY

I am married a few months ago and have problems with my mother-in-law. She is the possessive type.

When my husband, she and I go out, she wants to sit in front in the car. Whenever my husband and I go out for a vacation, she would call him and ask him to come back.

She decides everything for us and we have no freedom as husband and wife. My husband follows her blindly without questioning.

How am I to solve this problem? I want my MIL to leave us to enjoy our marriage life.

I love my parents very much and I want my parents to stay near me and I want to take care of them forever.

At the moment my dad is jobless and he is always sad because of that. I hope he can get a job somewhere near my place so that my family will always be next to me. And, I want my parents to live long.

Naran

Write your parents name. Draw a circle around the names. Draw one more circle around the first one. Write in the gap, “SWEET CHESTNUT, WALNUT, GREEN TOURMALINE”.

Love your mother-in-law as much as you love your parents. What all you want to do for your parents, do for your mother-in-law.

Change your thinking and stop resenting. Do this for one month.

Thank her for allowing you to be with your husband. Daily thank her like this.

In the night, chant “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW” till you sleep.

Related Blogs

Love, Affection and Harmony: http://togetherrelationship.wordpress.com/2013/09/17/love-affection-and-harmony/

Bring Cheer in Relationships: http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2013/08/15/cheer-in-relationships/

Tie your problems and throw them away: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2011/06/06/tie-your-problems-and-throw-them-away/

Converting unwanted to wanted

10 years ago
by admin in

Naran

Ram had problems with his brother Sundar, for the last 15 years, after his brother had cheated him to the tune of 1 crore of rupees.

While Ram was suffering like anything, Sundar was doing well by all means. Sundar’s business was growing leaps and bounds. He could get his children married easily and so on.

On the contrary, Ram was struggling financially. All his attempts to get his daughter married proved futile.

For last six years, I was giving several healing techniques to Ram. He was following them judiciously. Over the course of the time, he could get his money back from Sundar. Though, he could never release his anger for him.

He came to see me last week in regards to his daughter’s marriage. There were two prospects, but neither of them is committing for the marriage proposal.

I asked him to do the following technique based on the fact that he is jealous of the progress of his brother.

I asked him to close his eyes. Then visualize his house in a screen in front of him and mark the place and then his brother’s house in the same screen. He had to move his house slowly towards his brother‘s house to merge both.

He did this for a few days. One of the two prospects agreed to marry his daughter.

I know, you will have some questions

How can I use this technique when I am single and have to do this technique to attract a suitable girl into my love-life?

You will know somebody who can attract himself a girl-friend or bride. Visualize yourself, shifting yourself into him. This way you are developing in you the capacity he has.

I don’t want to become like him, as he some bad aspects about him

He might have other qualities which you don’t like. Don’t worry as you are only intending for the capacity you lack, which you want to develop in yourself.

Other example could be…

You have a prospective customer as well as a customer who doesn’t respond to your sales call at all. Move your unresponsive client into responding client and this way you will be able to convert him into a prospective customer.

Related Blogs

NLP for accepting a bad relationship: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2013/10/11/nlp-for-relationships/

How to become happy: http://reachnaran.com/how-to-become-happy/

Can’t think of him as my husband: http://reachnaran.com/cant-think-of-him-as-my-husband/

Can’t think of him as my husband

10 years ago
by admin in

Naran

There was one lady, 25 years old, a widow, came to see me with her parents. She has a child of three-years old.

Her parents told me her story.

The lady loved a person and married him with the consent of her parents. When she was pregnant, her husband died in an accident.

Because, she was still young enough to get re-married, her parents wanted her to marry her own uncle.

Though, she was ready to re-marry, she found it difficult to marry him as she, from childhood was looking up to him as her own brother. Therefore, she was unable to marry him.

Her parents wanted her to marry her uncle, as he would look after her very well.

I gave her this technique, mentioned in this blog: http://reachnaran.com/how-to-become-happy/

I asked her to locate the place in the screen, where her late husband is placed.

Then, I asked her to find out the compartment where her uncle is stored as her brother.

Bring the brother to the husband’s compartment.

She did this for one week.

Finally, she agreed to marry him.

This is one of the best NLP programs I teach.

We can do this easily.

Pick the compartment of the period when you had money and the compartment of the period you don’t have money. Bring the lack into abundance compartment.

Peace always

10 years ago
by admin in

Alamelu

My husband lost job and not got one. Some days feel pity and some days I feel why I deserve this while all are happy and I have to suffer. We never indulge in anything negative, yet we suffer.

How I keep my mind every day in same status, neither sad nor very happy?

Naran

Write “WILLOW, PINE” in a notebook daily for about 51 times.

Chant “QUIET MIND OPEN HEART RELAX”

Explanation

For the mental states – feeling pity (PINE) and why I deserve this, while others are happy – resentment (WILLOW), Bach flower remedies were suggested.

To keep mind balanced always the affirmation QUIET MIND was suggested.

Related Blogs

Peace brings a job: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/03/28/peace-brings-a-job/

Fighting for happiness and success: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2013/04/10/fighting-for-happiness-and-success/

Found Hope: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2012/03/29/found-hope/

Increase your love energy

10 years ago
by admin in

Nayana

My husband is wearing Blue Sapphire ring in his right hand middle finger since 12 years and says that things started getting better after he is wearing.

I am wearing Diamond ring in my left hand ring finer since 4 years. I am also keeping Kunzite gemstone with me, which you had given to me since 4 months.

Is there any reason behind all these me not getting Job also preventing my pregnancy?

Naran

This involves another person; I cannot comment on this. DIAMOND anybody can wear.

KUNZITE will not give you any negative effect. It is a light pink stone meant to forgive and increase your love energy, so that there is cordiality between you and your husband.

Are you wearing this as a chain? How are you instructed to use?

Nayana

I have not yet made the pendant but you had instructed me to keep it with me until I make one and use as chain.

Naran

DIAMOND and KUNZITE will do no harm for you.

Search for solution within. Ask yourself “Why am I not pregnant?”

Do you think you are 100% not responsible for your state of affairs?

The divine is more intelligent than all of us. Surrender to the divine to get anything in your life.

Do not be obsessed about what you are not having. Think about what you have got so far from the Divine and thank the divine for what all you got.

When you are content and satisfied with the present, you will get what you want.

Take the flower remedy GENTIAN and WILLOW.

Best of luck!!!

Related Blogs

Heal your Family Life through Gem Remedies: http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2011/11/30/heal-your-family-life-through-gem-remedies/

Love, Affection and Harmony: http://togetherrelationship.wordpress.com/2013/09/17/love-affection-and-harmony/

Take the next best step forward: https://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2010/09/20/take-the-next-best-step-forward/

Imaginary Fears

10 years ago
by admin in

The fear group consists of four remedies – Aspen, Mimulus, Red Chestnut and Rock Rose.

Fear of imagination

I am giving this story so that you will learn how to use the flower remedy in a particular situation.

There is a newly married couple.

They went for the customary activity of honeymoon. They went to Kodaikanal. The girl couldn’t sleep in the hotel room.

She was trying to put on the lights, while her husband was trying to put off them.

She told him that she can’t sleep without the lights on as it was her practice right from childhood.

And that too in the Kodaikanal, which was 6000 feet above the sea level, when she saw the darkness outside, she felt afraid and needed the lights to be on.

However, as her husband is tired, he slept off easily.

When she put off the lights, she heard a whisper in her ears. She got startled – especially by the darkness outside seen through the windows.

Her fears got increased and her pulse rate became very high. The leaves of the plants grown outside the house looked like ghosts to her.

Again, when she put on the lights, she became normal. Any fear of darkness or fear and worry about ghosts or anything unspecified is ASPEN fear.

It is because in darkness, you always get imaginary fears. All sorts of imagination will happen.

This combination is the standard one I give for ghost busting.

I give this combination also for any unnatural deaths – either by murder, suicide or accident. Then that place will be a haunted place. Definitely, their energy will be present there.

This combination will help them to evolve into the next stage (of life).

If you feel not comfortable about the place or have a premonitory feeling that something bad is going to happen that day, then Aspen is the remedy to address those feelings.

Wherever you couldn’t specify the cause of the fear and say “I don’t know the reason for my fear” – Aspen is the remedy,

Not getting appreciation

10 years ago
by admin in

Ambika

Even though my husband is working hard, he is not getting appreciation. He doesn’t have job satisfaction. Because of office politics he is suffering a lot. His colleagues and manager are trying to spoil his name.

Naran

Write the names of flowers “HOLLY, BEECH, WILLOW, WALNUT” in a piece of paper and keep it in his pocket.

Keep HORSE picture also in his pocket – to assert oneself in one’s place.

Related Blogs

Reduce your victim mentality: http://lifsez.wordpress.com/2013/11/26/reduce-your-victim-mentality/

Forgiving mind: http://divineshakthi.wordpress.com/2013/12/24/forgiving-mind/

Golden words are to be repeated

11 years ago
by admin in

Leela

As guided by you in the past few weeks, I am calm and peaceful by myself. Now that the marriage is round the corner (of my niece – husband’s brother’s daughter), I need to attend.

All the past incidents of harassment, sarcastic remarks, aloofness etc. of my husband’s Anni is coming to my mind and I need enough strength to face it all this time.

I want to raise above all this silly behavior of others and come out successfully, to neutralize my karma.

Naran 

Chant “CHOCOLATE CONCEDE TOGETHER DIVINE”.

Chant “I am sorry. Please forgive me”, as many times as possible.

Your anger and resentment – whether it is right or not – will upset your stomach, which in turn increases your insecurity.

Take the flower remedies AGRIMONY, WILLOW and CHERRY PLUM.

Leela

Since yesterday, I am practicing as advised by you. I do not understand, why, often I get this thought flashed in my mind that I need to move away from my husband?

I do not know if it is a natural process. It is a soul-searching experience for me. I need your divine help and guidance.

Naran 

Soul searching is to happen within. It does not depend on outside person or event.

Leela

I attended the marriage and chanted the Switch Words as advised by you.

I am back to Bangalore.

I am trying to find the golden nugget … May be my spiritual awareness is not enough to find one.

As I have disclosed to you before, I have this urgent need to go back to work in UK. I have contacted my ex-colleagues, friends, and contacts and passed on my resume.

Initially, they were very encouraging, told me to help me out with a job.

But as days went by, there is no communication from them regarding my application status.

Also, I have applied many jobs. It is Apply, Apply, but no reply.

I am chanting “TOGETHER DIVINE FIND JOB COUNT NOW ORDER DONE” and also recently after reading one of your blogs regarding chakra cleansing, I have chanting Bija Mantras (OM LUM…)

In between, I am chanting forgive exercise to my husband too. Please advise, what can be chanted.

Naran 

Move away with love in the heart and not in resentment

For job: chant “CRYSTAL GORSE WOLF REACH HELP JOB COUNT NOW DONE”

Leela

I am writing this mail, rather after a long time. I am following the chants and forgive exercise as advised by you.

There are lots of changes in me. I am able to forgive many things now.

Though, I still remember the events, which had caused me so much anger, hurt and other negative emotions.

After forgive exercise, these emotions have drastically reduced to an intensity of zero!

I am now able to appreciate the switch word “CHOCOLATE” as suggested by you.

The golden nugget in my case is to get re introduced to healing techniques through you.

Thank you very much for your Grace and support you have extended to me.

The top most emotional layer of healing has taken place. As a result, my relationship with my husband has improved.

As regards to finding a job, this is the next layer to be dealt with. I am chanting and many times writing the Switch words.

CRYSTAL has strengthened my intention of job seeking.

I am now more confident and beginning to understand what I want. My previous emotional state of confusion together with mixed feelings is no more. I am more calm and focused.

Our friend – WOLF is bringing me some leads for job searching and I am working on it.

My mind and body is not in coordination

13 years ago
by admin in

Jayanthy

Dear Naran,

Yesterday I had this strange experience.

As I was sleeping in the morning, for some more time, feeling very tired, in spite of my daughter and husband, who had woken up already. My husband told me that it’s ok for me to sleep, for some more time.

After a few minutes, I wanted to wake up, but could not. I yelled my husband’s name and called him, but he did not turn up at all. Nethraa, my daughter, saw me yelling and came near me. In addition, my husband also came, and they tried to make me get up with great difficulty.

And suddenly, I opened my eyes, only to realize that all those five minutes were a dream. But, that dream was pathetic. I got really scared, if I would really be able to get up.

This is not the first time that has happened to me like that.

My mom, when I discussed with her said, that it happens like that when you are really tired. Our body does not get up even though our mind gets up. Naran, could you please explain more on why this happens?

Naran

Yes what your mom says is right. There was no co-ordination between mind and body. It is an inner cry for help. Release this.

In addition, take the Bach Flower Remedies ASPEN and CLEMATIS before sleeping.

Explanation

Aspen: for nightmares

Clematis: when the mind and body is not in co-ordination

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