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Do you know why she doesn’t appreciate?
Patient: My wife loves me a lot. She is a very considerate person. At the same time, when it comes to my way of doing, she is highly intolerant. Surprisingly, she tolerates others’ mistakes to a greater extent – this includes my parent’s actions too.
Naran
One part of her is tolerant, while the other part of her is intolerant – especially to you. It shows, somehow you trigger the other – unwanted part in her.
Do you have a similar behavior in yourself?
Patient: Yeah! In general, I always tend to correct the way of others and not just one person. I believe everything has to be done correctly, with the right people, and at the right time.
Naran
I will teach you a simple method here.
Affirm as many times as possible:
“I RELEASE the PART of ME that is criticized by me”.
“I OPEN ALIGN WITH the PART of ME that evokes her tolerance to PRAISE me”.
You can write them too.
The letters in UPPER CASE is fixed. The rest of the statement, you can fill with whatever you want. This way, you are releasing the behavior you don’t want and activating the behavior you want in others.
Hindrance to a Peaceful Family Life
Subhayu Sur
There is one unwanted relationship in my life, which I want to ward off. This is a one female colleague of mine, who came close to me.
Now, she is not leaving me and being hindrance in my peaceful family life.
Naran
Pray to god to help you come out of this lady.
Daily affirm, “I thank … to have parted from me”.
Thank her (mentally) for what she gave you. At some point she gave what you lacked. Don’t hate her now. Thank her and forgive her as many times as possible.
Write “CHICORY, WALNUT, ROCK ROSE” in a paper and keep it under the pillow.
Explanation
Break the link: WALNUT
To release the part of you that is still attached to her: CHICORY
To be helped in times of need (similar to Wolf): ROCK ROSE
Related Posts
Flowers for Harmony: http://reachnaran.com/flowers-for-harmony-in-relationships-and-family/
Maintain your level of intimacy: http://togetherrelationship.wordpress.com/2013/07/22/how-to-maintain-your-level-of-intimacy/
Feel Love in Plenty: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/06/16/feel-love-in-plenty/
Common solution to the housing problem
Gayathri
This is a general question which I think will be benefited to all. Gone through your site – all mantras, remedies are fantastic. Main thing I noted is shelter problem.
Real estate is in peak today and due to this house rent/land rate is too high which affects lower and middle classes. Living in rent in a decent area or purchasing flat and house – everything is a difficult for them.
Hence, my humble request is to suggest remedies/mantras to peak down I.e. nominal value for land and so that all will be benefitted.
Naran
Don’t go by general interpretation of anything. Each one is unique. Each problem is unique. There may be similar problems but not same.
The problem in general is high rent, peak of land or house price. But each individual, undergoing this problem will react in different ways:
“It is the world of cheats. This is a bad phase in my life”.
“I am destined to suffer”
“Prices will never come down. We can never have a peaceful life”
“I feel like bursting out”.
“Everything is going beyond limits”
“What can we do? We have to accept and move on.”
“Something may happen. Prices will come down”
“God is not helping the poor. He is by the side of the rich only”
Each will be in a different state of mind. Each will react differently and approach the problem differently. Therefore it is not good to suggest a common solution to all.
In the above situation, what is the one general advice that can be given?
One has to bear, with fortitude and courage to face any situation. If this mentality is developed and or if one is in this state of mind, things will improve.
How to cultivate this or develop this state? How to transform one’s mental state into this?
Flowers are the answer. There are four (Bach) flowers that can help anybody in the above situation:
- CHERRY PLUM (to bear, and endure so that our limit to earn is enhanced)
- ROCK ROSE (to develop fortitude -never-say-die spirit; if this is developed help will come instantly)
- GORSE not to lose hope at any time
- WILD ROSE to get motivated to move on in life
Flowers are divine. Flowers are our teachers. Life is always a learning process. We are always students.
Related Blogs
Got the Housing Loan: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/10/11/got-the-housing-loan/
How to own a house: http://finddivinehome.wordpress.com/2013/07/25/buying-a-house/
We are about to own a house: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2013/08/22/we-are-about-to-own-a-house/