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Your Agenda Vs Divine Agenda
Naran
Suri walked into my office with a dejected face. He was worried that he is in trouble, for he hasn’t achieved last month’s sales target due to his own personal commitments.
He is worried that his manager will blast him during their next monthly meeting.
I said his worry is based on his own agenda, while the divine’s agenda might be different, He thinks his manager would question about the dip in sales, while divine mayn’t make the manger raise the topic at all.
Instead of expecting to have problem and keeps on worrying about it, he is overriding the divine agenda and mentally forcing the manager to bring the subject.
So, I asked him to stop thinking about the subject, and prepare his usual monthly report that he normally prepares for the monthly meeting.
I also suggested him to chant the names of the Bach Flower remedies, “ELM, OAK, CHESTNUT BUD”.
I gave Elm and Oak to be ready for any unexpected questions and Chestnut Bud not to repeat the mistake once again.
The monthly meeting happened. His boss never even mentioned about the sale’s target and moved onto other issues.
Let us be silent and allow divine to work its agenda.
Related Posts
Lot of work at home: http://divineshakthi.wordpress.com/2013/10/02/lot-of-work-at-home/
Reaching for greater heights: http://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2012/02/27/reaching-for-greater-heights/
Bach Flower Remedies June 27 2009 Part II: http://reachnaran.com/bach-flower-remedies-june-27-2009-part-ii/
Bring in a feeling of security
अच्छेद्योअ्यमदाह्योअ्यमक्लेद्योअ्शोष्य एव च
नित्यः सर्वगतः स्थाणुरचलोअ्यं सनातनः
Healing Notes on Bagavad Gita Chapter 2 Verse 24
Naran
Uncleavable, incombustible, it is not liable to be drenched or dried up; eternal, all-pervading, stable and unmoving. It is forever and forever.
No pain (fire) can kill you; no sadness (water) can drown you; no worry (air) can dry you; no event (space and earth) can break you.
Survival fear is always there in our thinking… To feel secured is the desire of every human being.
In life, relationships make us insecure; our working place makes us insecure.
How to bring in the state of security?
For people who are unstable in their profession…
Who have lower back pain…
Who have fear of death for unknown reason…
Who have unknown fear …
And people who are fearful of in-laws …
And for people who feel unstable…
Listen to the Verse 24 of SRIMAD BAGAVAD GITA, or read it 11 times.
Any audio version of this verse can be looped and listened continuously.
You can paste the verse in paper and keep it under the pillow.
This brings back the feeling of security –the original SAT which is forgotten by the mind.
Related Posts
Practice Living Bhagavat Gita’s Way: http://naranonline.wordpress.com/2009/05/08/practice-living-with-awareness-bhagavat-gita%E2%80%99s-way/
“Atmavan Bhava” – Switch Word from Lord Krishna: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/09/15/%E2%80%9Catmavan-bhava%E2%80%9D-%E2%80%93-switch-word-from-lord-krishna/
Stop the Mind’s Influence on You Part I: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2013/01/31/how-to-stop-the-mind-influencing-us-part-i/
How to love parents who are cruel
Grace
My parents have been cruel to each other and to me in various ways. How to love them?
Naran
The irony is we know how to get angry or how to blame. Who taught this? How does it come to us so naturally?
While learning to live from childhood, we have been learning wrongly. Unfortunately, there is no teacher. We observe, understand and form a thought, conclusion and start believing.
We should understand that when by being in resentment, resentment only grows.
By being in a state of anger, anger only grows.
In spite of our knowing that anger and resentment cannot achieve what we want, yet we will be in that state.
You may not love them. Can you not help yourself by getting away from resentment?
See what you cannot see. Don’t see what you see.
When you stop judging, you start observing. When you observe, you understand what you have not so far understood.
Any feeling that blocks our progress can be released. Get any feeling that can enhance your life progress.
Grace
Thank you for such a complete answer. I am grateful.
I know intellectually that holding on to my judgment of them is causing me problems. I will try to do EFT or something to reduce my resentment (although I never call it that!).
Some part of me thinks it would be wrong to allow them to just be who they are. As if the judgment will save me from becoming like them.
Naran
Don’t drag them into your life now.
Unite all the parts.
Forget what happened and treat them as new persons and be neutral first. Even the slightest resentment against them, will bring the same type of persons in your life.
Related Posts
There are no accidents only incidents: http://reachnaran.com/there-are-no-accidents-only-incidents/
Relationship with Parents equals Relationship with others: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/07/30/relationship-with-your-parents-relationship-with-others/
Remove the plasters inside the mind: http://reachchildcare.wordpress.com/2013/10/13/remove-the-plasters-inside-the-mind/
Help me control my negative thinking
Sreelatha
I am a regular follower of your blogs.
I used animal spirit HORSE in office as I had no proper support from my senior.
I kept the HORSE as my desktop saver too – not one but three horses.
I daily request horse to help me control my negative thinking about others as I do not get proper support from the required seniors.
After 10 days, the person with whom I had problem called me and said sorry.
He also promised me that he would be supporting me from here afterwards and that we will help the company for better prospects.
Related Posts
Remove Negatives Reinforce Positives: https://healbyeft.wordpress.com/2012/05/19/remove-negatives-reinforce-positives/
Put a stop to your angry reactions: http://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2014/01/06/put-a-stop-to-your-angry-reactions/
About IPOMEA CAIRICA in Facebook by Naran: https://www.facebook.com/groups/736951156355999/permalink/756810047703443/
Stop Divorce Proceedings
SP
Yesterday, I was forced to put sign in draft. It should be submitted to the judge within 1pm. I called wolf deeply to help me somehow not to submit that draft to the judge for divorce procedure.
Finally, it was not submitted. Wolf really helped me at that moment. But, my husband asked me to come another day for submission.
My thought is to stop divorce and I want to regain his love and to live with him happily.
Naran
Chant “END SHUT LIMIT WITH DIVINE LINK”
SP
I feel very sad to say that divorce draft paper was submitted in court. Even, I chanted “END SHUT LIMIT WITH DIVINE LINK” and called wolf for help like mad.
I want my husband back with full of love and affection. He is my world and everything. I love him a lot. Divorce process should get stopped with divine help.
Naran
Chant “CALM BEAR DIVINE SIGHT NOW DONE”
Explanation
END SHUT LIMIT LINK WITH DIVINE to subjugate the active ego and help one to accept willingly what happens as divine order.
CALM BEAR DIVINE SIGHT: If one remains calm, forbearing what happens; divine help (sight) is there.
Related Posts
Open up to Abundant Love Life: http://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/07/30/open-up-to-abundant-love-life/
The embodiment of love: http://reachnaran.com/the-embodiment-of-love/
You can change your spouse: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2012/10/15/you-can-change-your-spouse/
You can handle all your pains: http://reachnaran.com/you-can-handle-all-your-pains/
Ravi Kiran Ruchi Karan Paripooranan
Like Sun, Shine, and Stay at the Top
Ravi means Sun in Sanskrit.
This mantra heals Tamo Guna (type of characteristic or personality), which stands for laziness, lethargy, and procrastination.
For stability (of life) also, this mantra will work.
When you are not sure of the position in the office, or when you are afraid you will be transferred, this mantra will help.
To open one’s eyes of those who is going on wrong path, this mantra can be used.
This mantra is also for abundance. That is, it will stop the loss. Any loss making business if we keep chanting this mantra will help us to handle it.
I would not say loss would be wiped out completely but first loss will be stopped; then profitability would start coming. Business will also become stable soon after.
Question – When someone is going on wrong path, can we chant for the person – to open their eyes? Can we just say their name and chant this mantra for them?
Answer – Yes, that is right. That is all we can do. Or you can also chant over a glass of water and give it to that person. Any mantra can be chanted over a tumbler of water and given daily.
This mantra is based on Bhagavat Geeta, 16th chapter, 23rd Sloka. Though, in that, these words would not be there. To make one person to go on right path this is the mantra.
In Life…Fly Safe
Client
As describing a flower is never the flower itself, some of the most subtle blessings and experiences lie beyond the reach of expression.
All the good that has come into my life since discovering the various methods offered in this blog are one of those.
I will illustrate with two specific clear examples and also dwell on the changes in a larger way.
Me and my brother missed our flight from Mumbai to Bangalore had to get back at any cost the next day morning. I lost 10,000 Rupees.
The next and only available flight was at 2.30 AM or so which was an international stop over flight. Desperately withdrew money around 15000 and booked onto that flight.
We went to the international airport, and realized that we cannot enter without passport!! How could I board without being able to enter?
I was gutted…I had no money left in my account even to check in to a hotel.
I returned to the travel agent who sold us the tickets. He said he could not help.
I had lost nearly 40,000 in few hours and it seemed impossible to get to Bangalore. I called out to wolf.
A man working at the agents immediately came out and offered help. He told us he had a relative in the forex department at the international airport.
We went back there and the person was already waiting for us. We were allowed in without security check even when there were at least 70 people in queue!!
He escorted us until we got the boarding pass and in a few hours I was in the flight safe sound, grateful and completely amazed.
I am not getting my promotion
Naran
One person joined a new company.
He worked in the company for one year. He was due for a promotion but he did not get it.
So he thought that this company is not the right company for him. He was contemplating to resign and started searching for a new job.
At that time he developed a back pain. There is no problem in the office, but he is thinking that he is not given promotion.
I asked him the nature of his back pain.
He said that while sitting there is no pain. But while walking or climbing the stairs, he gets a back pain.
Here the body conveys to him, “The place you are sitting is already secured. Why you need to go elsewhere. Why do you want another job? You are already secured”.
I told him that this company is by all means secured.
Now, he has to make a commitment, ‘I will stop searching for a new job’.
If the pain reduces then the diagnosis is correct and he has to continue in this company.
He took the commitment. The pain got healed and he stopped searching for a new job. Till to-day he has been in the same job, for the last 7 years.
Related Posts
Get a promotion and find harmony as well: http://reachnaran.com/get-a-promotion-and-find-harmony-as-well/
Relived from lower back pain: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/03/16/relived-from-lower-back-pain/
Want a promotion: http://joboneoone.wordpress.com/2013/06/16/want-a-promotion/