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Roles People Play
Reddy
Quite often, we are required to play different roles with respect to the same person. In the process lot of misunderstandings occur due to perception at both ends.
At work, we have a subordinate who is also a friend. This friend does not play his role in the office as required.
In the role of a friend, you try to protect him in various ways besides telling him / her about the problems in a friendly manner.
However, if it is not adhered to, it may go the extreme end that you may even need to terminate him/her. It is a very difficult choice. You are torn between both the roles.
In the earlier days, we could take a very dharmic stand and take decisions.
However, now we are required to play a role negotiating happiness for various people in the name of Professionalism / Management etc and suffer.
At home, we have to act as a Parent, Friend, Teacher, friend to your kids.
Often a role is over played by each of the participant resulting in clashes and misunderstanding. Each forgets that they are over stepping on the other role due to inherent flair for one.
Thus, a parent who is generally has a strong Vasanas of a Teacher in making, preaches more and is not able to know when to cut off and act as a friend.
Please give your recommendation to solve the above by way of flower remedy.
Naran
Whatever the role we play, let us ask a simple question.
What is that we lack in any role?
Basically, every relationship is based on communication. How do we communicate? What do we communicate? What do we want to communicate?
The objective of any communication is to reach out to the other person.
BEECH is the remedy for improving our communication.
What are the negative mental states of Beech?
- Unable to understand other man’s point of view
- Unable to appreciate other man’s priorities
- Intolerance
- Fault-finding
- Desire to control or change the other person
If one is in one of the above mental states, right communication will not take place. Here, how Beech can help us?
BEECH can bridge the gap between two persons and makes one understand other man’s point of view.
WALNUT should be taken along with Beech. Walnut can bring in change in the mind. A changed outlook and a changed view will give a different communication tool.
For you Mr. Reddy, in addition to taking BEECH and WALNUT, you take CENTAURY also, while communicating in the office.
“What would my friend think? Will he be hurt, if I say this?” These expressions belong to negative mental state of Centaury.
Rushrush
Wonderfully explained….your site is a healthy addiction.
I feel the need to read it like a holy book everyday…sorting out life’s many questions and seeking the right answer….
I follow so many remedies you advice, go through the topics so many times, sometimes apply my 2 cents worth as well….analyse life’s situation from a different angle….
I have changed so much in my mind and heart…..all because of being a part of this wonderful site and your guidance!!!!
Thank you ever so much…….Naran….THERE’s still so much to absorb from you……..regards……
Doing Well in the Examination Hall
Naran
During the examination, a student makes silly and careless mistakes. Probably due to lack of time, he is writing answers without any thinking.
While going through the question paper, he may find a question, for which he doesn’t know the answer.
He will become restless suddenly and will start writing the exam hastily. So his answers will tend to be wrong.
He may also go into a negative HORNBEAM state. Starting problem leads to mental weariness.
Immediately a crisis of confidence may occur – ELM.
A sudden regression may lead to sudden loss of memory – state of GENTIAN, and nothing seems to be remembered.
To avoid all these possible negative states in the examination hall, one can take the following flower remedies:
- Impatiens: not to do anything in a hurry
- Hornbeam: overcome mental weariness
- Elm: overcome any sudden crisis of confidence
- Gentian: prevents any regression and
- Wild Rose: when you try to speed up doing something, your mind has to be calm. Wild rose gives that to you and will liven up your enthusiasm throughout the examination. Also, you will have plenty of time to complete the exam!
Related Posts
Impatiens Discussion with Naran: http://reachnaran.com/impatiens-discussion-with-naran/
Deserve A Better Life Through Reiki: http://healbyreiki.wordpress.com/2009/08/09/deserve-a-better-life-through-reiki/
Exam Mantra: https://studyforsuccess.wordpress.com/2013/11/05/exam-mantra/
Goals Achievement through Reiki Part I
Naran
How Reiki works in achieving our goal?
All our desires and intentions can be fulfilled with the help of Reiki. It works as per our intention.
As you intend, energy flows towards that direction or goal. Though, it might take its own route.
Why some goals are not achieved?
Some of our intensions are always fulfilled – say for example eating Dosas or going to Mumbai by flight. Though, there are desires that are not fulfilled.
Why? It means the energy of those desires is very low.
Let us say we require X degrees of energy to get the work done. We have only X – 30. Then these desires can’t be fulfilled. So it has to be increased to make our intensions fulfilled.
How to increase the energy level behind the intensions? Give them Reiki. This will boost the energy level of them.
For anything that’s not happening in your life, give it Reiki. Reiki can change anybody’s life. It’s a subtle form of energy, result of which, we may not be able to see immediately.
Affirmations and Reiki
If you say, “I want to be successful in business” then it means that there is a lack of success in business.
This area (business) is not receiving required energy either from body or mind. To make it successful, give Reiki – the universal energy to that area.
Write the goal as if it happened and give Reiki to it.
How Reiki Works Here?
I am not successful in one area of life because there is internal resistance – otherwise known as psychological reversal or internal sabotage mechanism.
When an intention is unfilled, it means it requires some more amount of energy.
Let us say we have 30 no’s of energy, while 70 is required, then the remaining energy can be generated through Reiki.
Reiki channels are successful because they work on the affirmations with lots of perseverance.
When we fail we form a belief, a self-limiting belief. We have to remove that from the mind.
We can remove it through Reiki. None of your intentions will go unfulfilled, I challenge you on this.
Read the part II of the article, “How to create affirmations and form intentions” here: http://reachnaran.com/goals-achievement-through-reiki-part-ii/
Related Posts
Fulfillment at Your Finger Tips: http://healbymudra.wordpress.com/2009/11/24/fulfilment-at-your-finger-tips/
Rule your MIND, Rule your LIFE: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2013/02/17/manage-your-mind-manage-your-life/
How to get fulfilled and satisfied in life: http://naranonline.wordpress.com/2010/08/15/how-to-get-fulfilled-and-satisfied-in-life/
Chicory
The Bach Flower Remedy Chicory
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Possessiveness, Self-Love, Self-Pity, Always Demanding, Noticeable, Attracting Attention
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