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Office Remedies Part I

10 years ago
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Naran

Convincing about a useless product

I am asked to market a useless product. I don’t know how to convince the customers:

GENTIAN (for being discouraged) and WILLOW (for resentment)

Add LARCH to develop confidence in you to sell

To convince others – especially in selling, VERVAIN

Implement a process change

WALNUT, OAK (he goes in the same path, and so doesn’t look for alternatives) and HORNBEAM

Asking for leave

Asking for leave at the last moment, keep postponing it – because initially “my Boss will say no”

MIMULUS to face the boss

WALNUT for rapport with the boss

CENTAURY to speak your cause assertively

WILLOW: To avoid blaming the boss

No empowerment

My boss will put me in a critical situation giving an impression that why not I do the job myself.

If I do it independently though, she would get upset because I have done the job without consulting her.

WILLOW (blaming) and SCLERANTHUS (for fear of getting confusing instructions)

Getting shouted at

In front of everybody my boss shouts – “I didn’t make any mistake why should I be blamed.”

WILLOW (resentment) and add PINE (for being blamed) and LARCH (losing confidence) CRAB APPLE (what others will think about me)

Not satisfied with her own performance

Even though she has got a very good rating, she is not happy about the job she has done.

Pine for being not satisfied with one’s own work

Develop Creativity

Multimedia: ELM, CLEMATIS

Public Meeting

ELM, GORSE and HEATHER is for public presentation

Managing an incompetent person

I have to manage somebody who is not good. He is related to one of the directors.

WILLOW for resentment

BEECH for criticising

CENTAURY: because of inability to voice one’s opinion

Related Blogs

Winning Presentations: http://reachnaran.com/winning-presentations/

Sales Exam: http://reachnaran.com/sales-exam/

Resentment is a seed don’t feed it

10 years ago
by admin in

Savitri

I am tired of looking after my daughter, who is giving birth to her third child. Currently they are staying in Mumbai.

I am tired of travelling too, from Chennai to Mumbai as well as doing the baby-sitting stuff.

Naran

Tell me in which part of your life you have looked after somebody in the same way you are looking after your daughter now.  They may be your cousins or friends.

Savitri

You won’t believe it, if I tell you that I had done the same for my mother. I looked after her when she gave birth to my younger brother after nineteen long years (after my birth).

My parents wanted to have a son. I resented it.

I also didn’t like to take care of my mother’s pregnancy too.

Naran

No doubt your frustration continues.

When we don’t heal ourselves regarding a life-situation then the same situation will happen in the future too and you will go through the same feelings and thoughts.

Savitri

Are you saying that I will be helping my grand-daughter too, when she gets pregnant? No way. I don’t think I will be living until then.

Naran

Not necessarily.

You may go through the same experience in your next lifetime(s) also.

Or you might get caught in a situation in this life-time itself that is similar to this situation. And you will end-up feeling the same.

So, I would advise you to heal all your incidents related to pregnancy, including yours and some other incidents where you had felt in the same way as you are feeling now.

Related Blogs

How and why we need to forgive others: http://reachnaran.com/how-and-why-we-need-to-forgive-others/

The Mother’s Care: http://reachnaran.com/the-mothers-care/

Profit after Loss: http://reachnaran.com/profit-after-loss/

Profit after Loss

10 years ago
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Naran

One of my clients lost 10 sovereigns of gold. I asked them to chant “LALITHAM SRIDHARAM LALITHAM BASKARAM LALITHAM BALACHANDRAM”.

This set of three mantras is given for clearing the debts. 

He was given flower remedies also.

Whenever we lose something, we will start cursing several people including the cops, saying they are crooks. For resentment and anger I asked him to chant the ‘I am sorry mantra’ too.

I also gave him the Power Life symbol ‘Profit after Loss’ given in the manual. This symbol is for anything that is lost. The symbols given in the Abundance Manual are new and they are not part of the original set of Power Life Symbols.

Soon after, he got back the 10 sovereigns from the cops.

Related Blogs

Raise your profits: http://powerlifesymbols.wordpress.com/2013/10/07/raise-your-profits/

Stable Success: http://reachnaran.com/stable-success/

The Flower for Prosperity: http://abundancein.wordpress.com/2013/05/12/the-flower-for-prosperity/

Get a promotion and find harmony as well

10 years ago
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Ms. Rita

I’m a science teacher in Haryana govt. (TGT Grade). Last month, department asked for promotion case for Biology lecturer and the eligibility required was M.Sc., B.Ed. I send my case.

But know in yesterday’s letter they have put condition of Haryana Teacher Eligibility Test qualification certificate, which was never a condition beforeor earlier. Candidates are required to submit their forms within a week.

I think it is only my hard luck that this condition has been put as TGT’s were not required to pass this test earlier.

I have lost my sleep as this time, all the vacancies will be filled in 2 months for lecturers and there will be no further scope for promotion in coming next 10-15 years.

Plz suggest me some mantra or anything to help me to get promotion.

Naran

Chant “CRYSTAL GORSE WOLF REACH HELP DONE”

Write in a paper, “398 SLOW CARE” and keep it under the pillow.

If there is resentment and anger then release that.

Ms. Rita

Thanks to Mr. Naran. Thanks to Gorse. Thanks to Wolf.

It really worked.

I don’t from where last page of notice has appeared in which it is mentioned that for promotion case HTET passing certificate is not required!

Now, I’m eligible to fill promotion form.

Now further should I continue to chant the same switch words to ensure my promotion or you would like to suggest something else?

Naran

Chant, “CRYSTAL GORSE WOLF REACH HELP DIVINE promotion DONE”

In your life, find one positive quality in each and every member of your family, friends, teachers or colleagues.

Think about them chant TOGETHER PRAISE DIVINE.

Find a positive quality of anyone whom you criticized or blamed and chant TOGETHER PRAISE DIVINE.

Write in a notebook TOGETHER PRAISE DIVINE daily 51 times.

Write TOGETHER PRAISE DIVINE in a paper and keep it under the pillow

Ms. Rita

Since you suggested I’m chanting TOGETHER PRAISE DIVINE daily.

Though, I could not write it in notebook for 3-4 days as I was out of station but later I finished those pending pages also.

I am observing a slight change in my staff member’s attitude towards me. They are softer to me.

Although, they have not given me a king’s throne, without any clash they  are trying to finish their answer sheet marking, assessment of children in school, which otherwise a govt. teacher do with a very slow pace causing delay in result preparation.

I hope this chanting will make my colleagues more honest to their work and bring harmony at my workplace.

Thanks a lot for such beautiful and easy remedies which can heal difficult situations.

Naran

Add the word LINK to the phrase (TOGETHER PRAISE LINK DIVINE)

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The Well-Wisher: http://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/06/23/well-wisher/

Peace always

10 years ago
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Alamelu

My husband lost job and not got one. Some days feel pity and some days I feel why I deserve this while all are happy and I have to suffer. We never indulge in anything negative, yet we suffer.

How I keep my mind every day in same status, neither sad nor very happy?

Naran

Write “WILLOW, PINE” in a notebook daily for about 51 times.

Chant “QUIET MIND OPEN HEART RELAX”

Explanation

For the mental states – feeling pity (PINE) and why I deserve this, while others are happy – resentment (WILLOW), Bach flower remedies were suggested.

To keep mind balanced always the affirmation QUIET MIND was suggested.

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Fighting for happiness and success: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2013/04/10/fighting-for-happiness-and-success/

Found Hope: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2012/03/29/found-hope/

There are no accidents only incidents

10 years ago
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Balu

I had an accident five years back. It was not a major accident. These days whenever I drive on the road, I am afraid that I might meet with an accident again.

Naran

Release all your current fears about accidents.

Release all your emotions attached with your accident that happened in the past.

Was there are any advantages of having that accident?  It might sound cruel, but we do invite those accidents as there are some benefits attached to that accident.

Balu

No, that was my first accident and your last question was interesting. I did take off from work for two months and I really did enjoy it, as I was not happy with the management then.

Naran

Ok, maybe you didn’t have an accident. Any incident happened that gave you the same advantages of taking leave or avoiding a situation you didn’t like.

If nothing comes to the memory, go back 12 years from now. Check whether you had any major incidents in your life that made you take a long leave. If there are none, then go back 18 years or 30 years before your accident.

Balu

I remember now. I was doing my graduation in Physics. I had problems with HOD (again issues with the management). While playing Hockey, I slipped and broke my left-hand. Interestingly, I took after a leave of two months then.

Naran

Put the emotions of your college incident in the triangle. Did any of your parents have met with an accident? Put all of them in the memory.

Balu

Yes, my father had a couple of accidents after his retirement. I have to check out with him whether he had an accident when he was studying college and when he was working.

The funny thing was, in both the cases, I had resentment about the treatment of management and the accident helped to avoid going to the places I hate.

Naran

Heal all the memory of your sicknesses that helped you avoid going to work/school/college.

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Golden words are to be repeated

10 years ago
by admin in

Leela

As guided by you in the past few weeks, I am calm and peaceful by myself. Now that the marriage is round the corner (of my niece – husband’s brother’s daughter), I need to attend.

All the past incidents of harassment, sarcastic remarks, aloofness etc. of my husband’s Anni is coming to my mind and I need enough strength to face it all this time.

I want to raise above all this silly behavior of others and come out successfully, to neutralize my karma.

Naran 

Chant “CHOCOLATE CONCEDE TOGETHER DIVINE”.

Chant “I am sorry. Please forgive me”, as many times as possible.

Your anger and resentment – whether it is right or not – will upset your stomach, which in turn increases your insecurity.

Take the flower remedies AGRIMONY, WILLOW and CHERRY PLUM.

Leela

Since yesterday, I am practicing as advised by you. I do not understand, why, often I get this thought flashed in my mind that I need to move away from my husband?

I do not know if it is a natural process. It is a soul-searching experience for me. I need your divine help and guidance.

Naran 

Soul searching is to happen within. It does not depend on outside person or event.

Leela

I attended the marriage and chanted the Switch Words as advised by you.

I am back to Bangalore.

I am trying to find the golden nugget … May be my spiritual awareness is not enough to find one.

As I have disclosed to you before, I have this urgent need to go back to work in UK. I have contacted my ex-colleagues, friends, and contacts and passed on my resume.

Initially, they were very encouraging, told me to help me out with a job.

But as days went by, there is no communication from them regarding my application status.

Also, I have applied many jobs. It is Apply, Apply, but no reply.

I am chanting “TOGETHER DIVINE FIND JOB COUNT NOW ORDER DONE” and also recently after reading one of your blogs regarding chakra cleansing, I have chanting Bija Mantras (OM LUM…)

In between, I am chanting forgive exercise to my husband too. Please advise, what can be chanted.

Naran 

Move away with love in the heart and not in resentment

For job: chant “CRYSTAL GORSE WOLF REACH HELP JOB COUNT NOW DONE”

Leela

I am writing this mail, rather after a long time. I am following the chants and forgive exercise as advised by you.

There are lots of changes in me. I am able to forgive many things now.

Though, I still remember the events, which had caused me so much anger, hurt and other negative emotions.

After forgive exercise, these emotions have drastically reduced to an intensity of zero!

I am now able to appreciate the switch word “CHOCOLATE” as suggested by you.

The golden nugget in my case is to get re introduced to healing techniques through you.

Thank you very much for your Grace and support you have extended to me.

The top most emotional layer of healing has taken place. As a result, my relationship with my husband has improved.

As regards to finding a job, this is the next layer to be dealt with. I am chanting and many times writing the Switch words.

CRYSTAL has strengthened my intention of job seeking.

I am now more confident and beginning to understand what I want. My previous emotional state of confusion together with mixed feelings is no more. I am more calm and focused.

Our friend – WOLF is bringing me some leads for job searching and I am working on it.

Resolve your financial issues

12 years ago
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Mr. ER

I had been trying many ways to increase my finances and increase higher and continuous inflow of money into my life. My ambition and dream is to have financial freedom.

Recently I came to know about switch words. Do switch words work 100%? Actually, I am writing this mail to you mainly for the ‘Abundance’ CD that will work on the subconscious mind to attract more money into my life.

Naran

 I will ship the CD. Switch words will work 100%.

Tell me what you are doing. Is there any problem with earning? Why do you want to have more money? What will be your state of mind if you don’t amass wealth?  What feelings and thoughts that will come to you then? What will you do with the money?

Mr. ER

You asked me why I want money. It’s like you asked me why I want food and clothes.

I come from a middle-class background where our life is always decided by lack of money. We have to think 20 times to spend 10 rupees. Almost all the problems in my life and my bitterest experiences were due to money.

I don’t like my work either. But have to do for money. I don’t like the place. I don’t like my present life. Life is full of compromises. I don’t have financial freedom. I want a life of my own.

My father says ‘to come up in life, we have to work very hard.’ If that is true, a labour person works very hard but hardly gets even food. As Deepak Chopra says the shortest way to get anything is correct not the hard way.

So I turned to spirituality to raise my standard. Not only my financial development, but my spiritual and all-round development is dependent on money. I feel switch words are a gift to me from the universe for my years of quest to change my life. Please help me with effective ways to manifest money along with switch words.

Naran

Chant “WILLOW RELEASE RESISTANCE FIND COUNT DIVINE” 200 TO 300 times daily.

Release all your aversion to the present state. Any state we have to accept and overgrow it.

“I don’t like my work. I don’t like the place. I don’t like my present life. Life is full of compromises. I don’t have financial freedom. I want a life of my own” – if these thoughts occupy the mind, money will not come.

Money will flow in when you willingly accept the situation. Any situation is designed by God.

Start liking the job. If you do it with aversion, and don’t contribute your work with full heart, you are stopping your growth.

Daily thank the company who gave you the employment. Thank all the people in the office. Start liking the place.

Compromises are there in everybody’s life. They are made to move forward in life and not to get stagnated.

Write “DIVINE LOVE MANIFEST IN MY HEART”.

I will also send you the CD entitled “I Love Myself” also, in addition to the Abundance CD.

Best of luck

Explanation

Handle resentment and aversion: WILLOW, Bach Flower Remedy

Release our resistance to growth, abundance and success: RELEASE RESISTANCE, switch word

Find money: FIND COUNT DIVINE, switch words

“I LOVE MYSELF” CD is a subliminal CD to help you love self, relationships, career and life in general

“ABUNDANCE” CD helps you to accumulate wealth with happiness.

How and why we need to forgive others

12 years ago
by admin in

For more detailed explanation on Why we need to forgive others and How to forgive others, please refer the book: “Forgiveness How and Why”, written by Naran S. Balakumar.

Jay

I have a problem letting go or forgiving people. Is there any switch word for it?

Naran

If you don’t do the forgiving exercise, you will undergo same emotions, even though situations may be different.

If you do not want to meet or interact with same people in future, Forgiving is the only way.

There is no shortcut for letting go the resentment and anger.

Do not act from ego; have higher perception and think that every event in our life is happening as per our desire. Before taking the birth, I want this life with these people to mend my life. But unfortunately after taking birth, we forget our commitment.  When the situation is created as per our desire, instead of learning lessons and moving forward, we get stuck and we refuse to forget or forgive.

What is the one that prevents you from forgiving? Release that and do it.

I Jay forgive you —–(name of the person). You please forgive me and release me. This can be done mechanically without the involvement of the heart.

Jay

Do I just have to fill the name or action that upsets me?

Naran

 “I Jay forgive you —–(name of the person). You please forgive me and release me”.

Take a person with whom you are angry. Insert his or her name in the space given above. Chant the same for 200 times a day.

Forgiving Exercise

Affirm, “I (your name) Robert forgive you Ashok (replace with name of the person to be forgiven). You please forgive me and release me”.

Questions regarding Forgiveness Exercise

Nayana

I have two queries related to Forgiving exercise.

I have too many people to forgive in my life, so please guide me how to forgive them with once for all.

I see my husband is having so much resentment in his life with so many people but he doesn’t try to do any of the exercise to forgive and forget. So is there anything I can do on behalf of him, as it’s affecting my life all the time.

Naran

Take a list of all of them. Do the forgiving for all. Take one at a time. Chant 200 times for each.

You cannot do anything for somebody’s sake. What is your predominant thought or emotion when you deal with him? Release that one by one. If one goes, another will come. Release that also.

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