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Rude Boss becomes Appreciating Boss
Swarna
Sometimes things seem to get worse before it gets better. But in getting worse the situation tests us and strengthens us in ways we cannot imagine or know.
All we need to learn is to sit still and watch our mind as the fluid situation morphs, and shifts.
We learn to see our fear, guilt, and our negative tendencies.
We learn to be watchful, not restful. We understand that growth, life, is characterized by changes.
Situations morph rapidly. We realize that there is really no beginning or end, it is our mind that creates the illusion.
We learned these from our own experience detailed below:
One man, thirty machines and endless working hours
Last year, we contacted Naran when my husband was going through lot of challenges at work. He had been in the new job for two years and doing very well.
Then, the supervisor began adding new machines to the lab. It was one man and 15 machines to begin with. It was manageable.
Each machine was specialized and the chemicals cost a lot of money. If experiments failed, it would be difficult to make up for the loss of valuable samples and the wastage of time and money. It was challenging to finish jobs that were lined up on all of the machines.
The lab ended up with 30 machines and one man. Working continuously made my husband tired and unable to think. And he began to work on weekends too. To make the situation worse, his supervisor began to shout at him.
My husband was threatened that he will be fired
In May last year, the Director called my husband and threatened to remove him. No reasons were given and he was shouted at him for 30 minutes.
My husband was shaken and could not understand what had happened. Naran asked us to chant “I AM A BEING OF VIOLET FIRE. I AM PURITY OF GOD DESIRES.”
Naran also asked us to chant and write— “OM GAM GANAPATHAYE NAMAHA”.
We have continued to do it every day from then on.
The director apologized
Within a week of this chanting, the Director came and apologized to my husband for his outburst. He told my husband that he hope that my husband would not quit because of the outburst.
We were surprised and grateful at the turn of events. We continued to write the Ganesh mantra and be relaxed.
Surprise became Shock
In June, my husband was called again and the Director said he would put him on probation for the job. This really disturbed my husband and he couldn’t sleep or eat.
Naran advised us to write (the Bach Flower Remedies) – “ELM, WATER VIOLET, HOLLY, VINE, HORNBEAM” in a piece of paper and keep it in my husband’s pocket and do the same in another paper and keep it under the pillow. And Naran asked me to chant (Bach Flower Remedies) “RED CHESTNUT, VINE”.
And to improve the working atmosphere, Naran advised my husband to chant the switch words, “LOVE, THANK, TOGETHER DIVINE”. My husband began to juggle these new responsibilities. His job was reduced to 75% time from 100%. However, he had to work for 100% of the time.
Now comes a big surprise
Six months later, we had a surprise when the administrators asked people to submit their job descriptions and responsibilities for comparing it with what people were getting paid for across the nation. My husband’s position was also called for reclassification. Naran asked us to chant: “GENTIAN, LARCH, THANK, TOGETHER DIVINE ORDER COUNT NOW DONE”.
Back to square one – problems started again
On December 10th, we returned to the same critical situation when, my husband’s Director called him and made him sign a memorandum saying he would fix all machines within December 20th. My husband had been working with the companies for months and nothing had been resolved. The Director was aware of all this.
Naran advised us to download a picture of MUSTARD (Bach flower) and PINK TOURMALINE (gem remedy) and paste both on the name of my husband. And also chant the switch words “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW”.
Everything went smoothly like a whistle
Thanks to these divine interventions, the deadline passed off smoothly without an incident.
But the biggest challenge was negotiating the annual review that was due at the end of the month. The annual review would determine if he would stay or go. In the current economic market, it was very hard to land another job. Living in the US without citizenship meant that we had to show continuous employment status. We continued to chant TOGETHER CHANGE NOW and write the Ganapathi mantra daily.
Annual review came on the right time
The annual review was postponed to January. It so happened that Divine took care of everything so beautifully. On Thursday, his immediate supervisor completed my husband’s annual review and gave him glowing references. They also discussed about my husband getting more help in the lab, and reinstating his job to 100% from 75% that he is currently on.
Three days later, the Director who was shouting at him all the time, said that there was no need for another review and he had nothing to add or change to the review already performed, and he agreed with everything. Everyone who knows the Director says this is nothing short of a miracle!
The director accepted his failings openly
Last week, the Director called my husband privately and told him that his personality was that of a person who magnified the negative. From his interactions with my husband he is realizing that he had to appreciate everything positive and not pay so much importance to the negative.
My husband said he politely thanked him and left, but inside he was shouting ‘Together Divine’ in a deafening crescendo. He felt so happy that he didn’t have to say a word for this change to come over! The flowers, gems, the switch words are so beautiful and so powerful!
We successfully sailed through the stressful phase
We are grateful for the divine to have helped us through this difficult and stressful phase. The chants helped us stay focused and positive and not panic. We found time daily to chant ‘Together Divine’ and write ‘Om Gam Ganapathayae Namaha.’
Lessons learned
We understand and are grateful that our future unfolds in small clear steps.
We have the opportunity to be watchful, present and steer the direction of our life.
Naran taught us patiently and gently to keep our mind open to the gifts that every situation brings in and not be carry our old patterns with us.
We are continuing to learn.
Naran
Thank you for sharing. What we need is trust in divinity. Yours has vindicated that. Best of luck!!!
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No regrets about exam results
Radha Rani
I have given 2nd time exam. This is my 2nd & last chance.
I need at least 95% (more is required). Chances of getting 95% are less.
Also, I want to give my best for coming exams. I also feel low sometimes and unable to concentrate on my studies.
Naran
Chant “GENITAN, HONEYSUCKLE”.
Write “TOGETHER BRING DIVINE WORD” and keep it under the pillow.
Explanation
To feel happy and successful about the results: GENTIAN, HONEY SUCKLE
To get the desired result: TOGETHER BRING DIVINE WORD
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Cannot escape cleaning
Sahana
My house owner is having rooster, hen as pet birds. The problem I am facing is it is doing dirty works in my portion. I am from an orthodox Brahmin family. For some particular reasons I am staying there.
Hearing rooster, hen’s voice is not problem for me because I am a devotee of lord Muruga. But I am getting irritated for the dirty works done by it in my portion.
Naran
Pray to Rooster itself.
Don’t think it is dirty.
You are given the work of cleaning the toilet of Rooster by Lord Muruga. Cleaning the dirtiness of the rooster is the service to Lord Muruga. Think like this and do it daily.
When you clean the dirtiness of Rooster, you are cleaned within and you are purified mentally and spiritually. This opportunity is not given to all.
Do it with devotion.
When inner cleaning is over, rooster will stop its SHIT.
While doing the cleaning of shit, chant “CRAB APPLE”.
You can chant “CRAB APPLE, CHANGE DIVINE ORDER” also regularly when you find time. But, you cannot escape cleaning.
Explanation
The Bach Flower Remedy Crab Apple is a cleanser – both physical and mental cleanser.
Change and Divine Order are switch words. This combination is good for changing our environment.
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Postponing cleaning: http://reachnaran.com/postponing-to-clean/
Black patches on the face
A Case History for Water Violet
Rani became sensitive to the ultraviolet rays of the sun and started developing black patches on her face.
The doctor asked her not to be exposed to the sun. Her movement is restricted because she goes out either in early mornings or after evening hours.
First time when she met me, she was given Walnut (sensitive to atmosphere). She just took it for four times and reported that she could see some improvement on her face.
I wanted to probe in further.
Naran: What would have caused this de-pigmentation?
Rani: I believe that the heavy make-up I was using might have caused the problem
Naran: Do you think there are other reasons too?
Rani: I was using lot of turmeric on my face. I used to be called as Yellow Beauty. Probably my usage of turmeric also would have caused this.
Naran: When other people, I mean friends and relatives, enquire about your face, what would be your reply?
Rani: Do you think anybody has the guts to ask me?
Naran: Hmmm was there are any?
Rani: Only two have enquired so far.
Naran: What was your reply then?
Rani: This is the latest make-up.
(Saying this, she laughed loudly, which indicated her superiority complex.)
Naran: Why should anybody have guts to talk to you?
Rani: I am a reserved person. If anybody tries to come near me, I will snub them. Few try to come closer to me. However, I will make sure that they don’t get close to me.
Naran: Do you have any close friends?
Rani: None fits my bill. I have some friends. But I am not close to them.
Naran: How do you select your friends?
Rani: Intelligence is very important. If I say something then they should understand it immediately. If I have to repeat what I say, then they are below my standard. He will be out of my list of friends.
Even in my area, nobody is up to my level. All the houses in my locality are built in small plots. My house is the only one which is built on a two-ground plot. (Laughing loudly)
(This above expressions points to Water Violet – Superiority Complex)
Analysis
WATER VIOLET: She is not allowing anybody to get close to her. Mentally, she keeps the people at a distance. Physically, by developing dark patches on her face, her body helps her to keep others at a distance.
PINE: The reason she gives for the dark patches on the face is that she had used lots of make-up materials. Blaming oneself for the problem indicates Pine.
CRAB APPLE: Make-up is the word she used often. It means that she is covering up the patches. Covering up is the key word of Crab Apple.
WALNUT: For over-sensitivity to Sun rays
Connect with Great Saints
Naran S Balakumar
Healing connection with Paramacharya
Last weekend, I was cleaning my attic.
I happened to find the photograph of Paramacharya Chandrashekarendra Saraswati. It showed his devotees doing Kanaga Abhishekam on him. It is a prayer to seek wealth and welfare.
The photo was kept unclean. So, I felt bad and send Reiki to Paramacharya using the Silver Triangle as a sign of apology and prayer.
I didn’t know what the message is for me here, because I believe strongly that divine gives us messages and guidance through many forms.
So, I simply prayed to Paramacharya, seeking whatever healing required by me, my family, and my patients.
Connection between the lost child and her parents
Only last month, I read an article about him in a Tamil Newspaper.
The story goes like this.
An old couple approached Paramacharya. They were childless and wanted to do something back to the society – either in the form of taking care of expenses of some poor girl (as marriage expenses are taken care of by the brides’ family in this part of the world) or adopt a child.
Therefore, they sought his guidance.
Paramacharya asked them to contact the poor family waiting to meet him outside his abode.
The old couple had a daughter who was about to get married and were looking for some financial help to get their daughter married.
When enquired about their daughter, the daughter’s father told the old couple that they found the girl in a railway station about 15 years back.
What was surprising was that the girl was nothing but the daughter of the old couple themselves. The man is her father and the lady was her step-mother.
It is his daughter from his first marriage.
After, his first wife passed away, he married his current wife. On her insistence, he left the daughter in a railway station that is far away from their home, so that she will be lost from their lives.
And, he never had a child through his second marriage.
The girl was picked up by the poor couple, who were childless themselves and took care of her from then.
How Paramacharya did know this? Nobody knew that fact. But, somehow he connected the abandoned daughter with her legal parents.
Connection with right gynecologist
Kala was about to have her second child. She has major complications and couldn’t find a solution to fix them.
Unfortunately, each doctor she consulted had given her different warnings, which confused her further. So she was worried and said she had to meet me immediately.
The time she came to see me, a couple was waiting for me to consult me for the first time.
When I found out that the lady is gynecologist, I asked her to help Kala. The doctor obliged to see Kala immediately and gave the right consultation that was the need for the hour.
The doctor refused to take any money as she felt that only divine has made her to come to my clinic and meet Kala. I insisted that she take 200 rupees as a token of energy exchange.
However, I told her to keep it with her and not spend it, as I have understood the message from divine – here Paramacharya, that divine is offering to the doctor, a gift of wealth and welfare in the form of 200 rupees.
What is the connection with Reiki past healing and Saints?
Whenever you want to seek the guidance and blessings of Saints and Sages, or Gods for that matter, you put them in the altar in the form of silver triangle and do your prayers by drawing Reiki symbols.
You will be able to receive their grace and rays of love from them.
While doing the prayer, make an affirmation, “I OPEN to GRACE and RAYS of LIGHT and LOVE of …. (NAME of the SAINT)”
Changes begins from us
Question: What is a Rogue husband? Do we refer to infidelity or incompatibility or uncaring?
Naran
It means all.
It is her view. We don’t know whether a person is a rogue or not.
However, the healing is always given to a person who makes a complaint about the other. As a healer, we assess the mental state (of the person complaining) and give the remedies.
Question: Is it possible for a man who has led a wayward life since his teens change into a good man with the help of remedies?
Naran
Anybody can change into a better person, provided he wants to.
However, the healing is always aimed at the self.
If you are putting up with a person, who is wayward, you have to change yourself. Heal your emotions; heal your reactions; heal your way of thinking.
If you are able to change effect in yourself, by taking the appropriate remedies, the opposite person will change.
In any relationship, one has to change to see the change in the other. This is the rule.
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Love thy neighbours even if they are a nuisance
LLM
My neighbors are very inconsiderate. We live in apartments. The one on next to me filled the corridor with their own stuffs and smelly shoes, make a lot of noise shouting at one end of corridor to the other, openly criticizes us and do damage to our plant tearing the leaves (we only put one pot of plant and door mat at my door and nothing else not even shoes). We only keep quiet, to maintain peace.
The neighbor above us, throw litter into our house and make a lot of noises (such as jumping in wee hours of the night after 12 am), and also hang wet laundry above our laundry. On one case, we even saw a packet of urine caught on our window.
We really don’t know what to do.
Naran
Chant “BEECH HOLLY WILLOW IMPATIENS” over a glass of water and drink it.
Download a picture of PISCES and paste it on your flat door.
Do the forgiving exercise for them.
In the morning thank them mentally for not disturbing you.
Pray to The Mother for keeping these elementals away from you.
LLM
May I ask how many times do I need to chant the flower remedy each time? Do I have to chant everyday or just once?
Do I do the forgiving exercise and thank them everyday also?
The picture of Pisces can be just the symbols or need to have images of fish?
At the last sentence, you mentioned praying to the mother. ‘The Mother’ refers to?
Naran
When the problem comes, you can chant.
Chanting what is given is just an alignment with the divine. Forget your identity. Just merge with the Grace Words which are nothing but divine. Enjoy chanting. Do it any number of times.
These words do not bring about any result. They want you to surrender. Surrender to the divine and start chanting. While chanting do not think about anything.
Download zodiac picture of Pisces, and paste it on the door facing outside.
The mother means Aurobindo mother. That divine mother only knows how to drive out the unwanted elementals. Just say once to her daily.
LLM (after a month)
I can see improvement on the issues with my neighbor next door, no more torn leaves and cleaner corridor.
Divine Will from Her Father
Naran
Conflict among the siblings over their parent’s property
There was a conflict among some siblings over their parental property. One of the sisters is very poor and she developed a knee problem.
Here, the message from her body is that she should not be possessive and had to give up.
Interestingly, while the sister who was very badly in need of money had the knee problem, none of her siblings have got any knee problems.
As per the will, she is getting lesser share than others. Others were getting some cash too, while she was not getting any.
She totally believed me and whatever I tell her, she was ready to follow.
I told her to accept whatever was given to her. I asked her to chant, ‘I am ready to submit myself to the Divine Will’. When she started to chant, the pain went off.
Now came the interesting climax
The area allotted for all of them was to be either in ground floor or third floor. They decided to go for the draw and in that she was allotted the third floor area.
Again, she approached me. She wept over her situation and I gave her the Bach Flower Rescue Remedy (to calm her down).
In the flat opposite to hers, which was for sale, was bought by a family. There was a boy in that family who was in marriageable age.
The whole family liked this lady as well as her daughter very much. The family wanted the daughter to get married to their son.
In addition, there was no demand (dowry) from the boy’s side. They also took care of the marriage expenses. Thus, there were no expenses whatsoever for the girl’s side.
The couple now very happily settled.
Body puts us in the path created for us by divinity
So we do not know what is there in store for us by the Divine. By god’s grace she accepted whatever I told her and accepted the property given to her.
The body is nothing but the Divine. We have to accept the message it is giving and act accordingly. At each and every step it guides us.
However, we fail to understand the message. We do not how to infer the messages from the body and we never take care of the body either.
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Nothing comes easily
Vijayalakshmi
My husband is not satisfied with the job that he is doing right now and our financial condition is not so good.
Naran
For financial improvement: CHICORY, GENTIAN and CLEMATIS.
This combination is available as a picture in the centre. You may also download them and paste it in the wall, where you can see them frequently.
Vijayalakshmi
How many times should “CHICORY GENTIAN CLEMATIS” be chanted for?
Naran
One has to have belief in whatever one does. If belief is there, such questions do not arise.
Nothing comes easily.
Divine grace will shower, when there is dedicated effort.
What is a dedicated effort?
It is that effort, which does not allow the mind to think about the result.
When you do as many times as possible concentrating on chanting only, the mind is ready to accept any result and one moves on in life without getting stagnated.
However, questions arising from doubts will keep you in doubts.
Every name and every word given is coming to you from the source of Divinity.
When divine is offering its help, surrender and start chanting as many times as possible and forget you in chanting.
Explanation
To become optimistic and get over the need for necessities: CHICORY, GENTIAN
From ideas into action: CLEMATIS
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Not able to get accommodation
Client: For the past three or four months we are trying to get the accommodation for type 5 quarters. We are currently staying in type 3 quarters (smaller house).
My husband is a government employee and we are due to type 5 quarters (it’s a bigger one) for several months.
Naran: You are not able to get that.
What are the feelings you are having?
What if you don’t get it?
Client: I am unhappy about it.
Naran: How you are maintaining that unhappy feeling?
You have been saying you are not getting the apartment that is due to your husband.
What is the thought that goes on in your mind?
Whom you are blaming for this situation?
You have to consider all of them.
What are you doing about the situation?
Client: We are trying for the same. But for several reasons like – the type 5 apartment is not available and the houses are given based on priority, and we are not getting the apartment yet.
Naran: What are the other thoughts you are getting?
Why you are not getting the accommodation?
Who is responsible for that?
What are the feelings you get – like for example, “It is not unfair that houses are given first to senior people”?
List all of them.
Whatever you thoughts and whatever you had said about the individuals concerned – the people who had to allocate the house for you, just list them out. Release each and every one of them.
What are advantages going to type 5?
What disadvantages staying in type 3?
Write them out. Why I want to move away from type 3 quarters? There has to be some reasons. List them out, one after another.
There is one problem over which you might be thinking about. We need to unearth those thoughts.
Now work on your “Likes and dislikes”.
Presently there is lack of space means that it’s a dislike isn’t it? Therefore, you don’t like the current house. Then how will you get a new house?
As long as you don’t like the present house, which means you are rejecting the present house, you will not get any new house.
It’s a rule, “Accept the present that you don’t want, to get the one you want”.
Therefore, you to need to accept whatever are available to you currently and you release all the dislikes that you have about your present house.
You are continuously cursing that the space in the current house is not enough.
What will happen if you continue to do complain?
Even if you move to bigger house, eventually you will be faced with lack of space. How?
Your husband will get more books and some of your relatives will move in. In the current house, her husband has completely filled one room with books.
Another rule: same reaction will get you a similar result, if not the same result.
Say “I release my desire to go to type 5 quarters”.
This is very important.
Unconsciously you have the resistance to go to type 5 quarters. Therefore, say, “I release my resistance to go to type 5 quarters”.
What is meant by resistance to type 5 quarters?
There is a desire to be in type 3 quarters. Unconsciously, you want to be in type 3 quarters because there is some advantage staying there.
Client: The advantage staying in type 3 quarters is that we are staying in the ground floor.
Naran: You have a desire to be in ground floor. This desire stops you from moving to type 5. Release that desire to be in type 3 quarters.
For all (troublesome) situations we are the reason behind it.
Whether she gets type 5 quarters or not, that is a different issue. Clean the clutters of your mind.
If you have the feeling, “Let it come when it has to come” then only it will come to you.
Instead, till such time (until you get the type 5 quarters) a fight goes inside, spoils your mood and you feel tensed all the time.
In addition, always you are angry about concerned authorities and criticizing the government officials. Release each and everything.
In the morning (before you came for the class) you would have picked up a fight with your spouse. You can release that even now (thus past is healed).
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