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Want to be loved and respected
Karinapach
I have separated from my husband but we are now friends with benefits now and it hurt me. What can I do? Shall I go on?
He says we can have a good relationship in the future but I am not sure. I think I am making things easier for him. I don’t know how to proceed. I admire him a lot!
Naran
What do you want?
Karinapach I want to be loved and respected
Naran
Give love and love and respect all
From ‘I Love Myself’ Workbook
I am Loved
- What will I do today towards (gaining) this aspect of my life?
I am Worthy of Love
- Think about your positive qualities that you have used so far.
- How will you use them today?
In addition, check the link, to know how to gain respect: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2012/03/13/i-deserve-respect/
Changes begins from us
Question: What is a Rogue husband? Do we refer to infidelity or incompatibility or uncaring?
Naran
It means all.
It is her view. We don’t know whether a person is a rogue or not.
However, the healing is always given to a person who makes a complaint about the other. As a healer, we assess the mental state (of the person complaining) and give the remedies.
Question: Is it possible for a man who has led a wayward life since his teens change into a good man with the help of remedies?
Naran
Anybody can change into a better person, provided he wants to.
However, the healing is always aimed at the self.
If you are putting up with a person, who is wayward, you have to change yourself. Heal your emotions; heal your reactions; heal your way of thinking.
If you are able to change effect in yourself, by taking the appropriate remedies, the opposite person will change.
In any relationship, one has to change to see the change in the other. This is the rule.
Related Posts
I hate my father-in-law: http://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2009/07/25/i-hate-my-father-in-law/
Pluses and Minuses: http://reachnaran.com/pluses-and-minuses/
Managing a Rogue Husband: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/10/26/managing-a-rogue-husband/
How to love parents who are cruel
Grace
My parents have been cruel to each other and to me in various ways. How to love them?
Naran
The irony is we know how to get angry or how to blame. Who taught this? How does it come to us so naturally?
While learning to live from childhood, we have been learning wrongly. Unfortunately, there is no teacher. We observe, understand and form a thought, conclusion and start believing.
We should understand that when by being in resentment, resentment only grows.
By being in a state of anger, anger only grows.
In spite of our knowing that anger and resentment cannot achieve what we want, yet we will be in that state.
You may not love them. Can you not help yourself by getting away from resentment?
See what you cannot see. Don’t see what you see.
When you stop judging, you start observing. When you observe, you understand what you have not so far understood.
Any feeling that blocks our progress can be released. Get any feeling that can enhance your life progress.
Grace
Thank you for such a complete answer. I am grateful.
I know intellectually that holding on to my judgment of them is causing me problems. I will try to do EFT or something to reduce my resentment (although I never call it that!).
Some part of me thinks it would be wrong to allow them to just be who they are. As if the judgment will save me from becoming like them.
Naran
Don’t drag them into your life now.
Unite all the parts.
Forget what happened and treat them as new persons and be neutral first. Even the slightest resentment against them, will bring the same type of persons in your life.
Related Posts
There are no accidents only incidents: http://reachnaran.com/there-are-no-accidents-only-incidents/
Relationship with Parents equals Relationship with others: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/07/30/relationship-with-your-parents-relationship-with-others/
Remove the plasters inside the mind: http://reachchildcare.wordpress.com/2013/10/13/remove-the-plasters-inside-the-mind/
Hit the Bully’s Eye
GP
Thank you so much for suggesting me to chant cat’s eye, which I did as you advised me to do. Sure enough, teachers confronted the bully and disciplinary action is being taken.
The bully wrote an apology letter to my grandson. The school authorities said this will not be tolerated in the school.
Thank you so much for helping. I don’t know what cat’s eye means. God Bless you a thousand times. You solved our problem.
Naran
Cat’s eye – gem remedy is the key to open “the locked”.
The mind is blocked when a person is bullied by somebody and he or she don’t know what to do about the situation.
His mind will be locked about this particular situation and will not think about anything else. Therefore, CAT’S EYE helps the bullied.
Imaginary Fears
The fear group consists of four remedies – Aspen, Mimulus, Red Chestnut and Rock Rose.
Fear of imagination
I am giving this story so that you will learn how to use the flower remedy in a particular situation.
There is a newly married couple.
They went for the customary activity of honeymoon. They went to Kodaikanal. The girl couldn’t sleep in the hotel room.
She was trying to put on the lights, while her husband was trying to put off them.
She told him that she can’t sleep without the lights on as it was her practice right from childhood.
And that too in the Kodaikanal, which was 6000 feet above the sea level, when she saw the darkness outside, she felt afraid and needed the lights to be on.
However, as her husband is tired, he slept off easily.
When she put off the lights, she heard a whisper in her ears. She got startled – especially by the darkness outside seen through the windows.
Her fears got increased and her pulse rate became very high. The leaves of the plants grown outside the house looked like ghosts to her.
Again, when she put on the lights, she became normal. Any fear of darkness or fear and worry about ghosts or anything unspecified is ASPEN fear.
It is because in darkness, you always get imaginary fears. All sorts of imagination will happen.
This combination is the standard one I give for ghost busting.
I give this combination also for any unnatural deaths – either by murder, suicide or accident. Then that place will be a haunted place. Definitely, their energy will be present there.
This combination will help them to evolve into the next stage (of life).
White Chestnut, Walnut, Aspen and Crab Apple combination is a good house cleanser also. Add Mustard also. This is the best combination to remove any spirit from any place.
Once in a week this can be sprayed in the house, as the energy of the house will be highly positive. It will wipe out all thoughts and emotions accumulated in the space.
Even when the business is not flourishing as per the plan, this combination of remedies (put inside a vessel of water) can be sprayed in the business center.
Whenever a healer visits a place, they comment about the positive or negative vibrations present in that place. If anybody comments about negative vibration, then immediately start chanting Aspen.
If you feel not comfortable about the place or have a premonitory feeling that something bad is going to happen that day, then Aspen is the remedy to address those feelings.
Wherever you couldn’t specify the cause of the fear and say “I don’t know the reason for my fear” – Aspen is the remedy,