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Husband wants to marry again

Bagyalakshmi

I was married for 16 yrs and got 3 girls. Ours is a middle-class family. Mine was a love marriage

Initially, everything was very well. He took good care of me and family but for the past 6 yrs there’s a lot of change in his attitude and behavior.

He yelled at me and kids in front of everyone, treating us very badly.

Last month, he brought one lady home and told us that he’s going to marry her.

My girls and parents launched a police complaint and with the help of a police officer that marriage was stopped.

He did not want to divorce but want to lead a new life with that lady. I told him that I will not agree for that.

After this he stopped coming home and eating from home. He will come as and when he wished but will not eat anything.

He gives money for the home expenses. I want to lead a happy married life with him. I want him to be genuine and truthful to our family.

Recently, he started hatred towards me. Pls help me to change this and lead me a happy life.

Naran

Take the flower remedies CHICORY, HOLLY, and ASPEN.

Put each 5 pills in a glass of water and have small sips from that water, every one or two hours, from morning to evening.

In the night, take the flower remedies WHITE CHESTNUT and WALNUT before going to sleep, 5 pills each.

Chant “TOGETHER DIVINE”

Explanation

A CHICORY person turns easily into HOLLY. Husband is the shadow-self of wife and hence, and therefore, his remedies are given to her.

Every day, she has to lead her life with the constant fear of what will happen, for which ASPEN will help.

To come out of persistent, constant worry: WHITE CHESTNUT and WALNUT

Related Posts

I follow my father’s footsteps: https://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2010/02/03/i-follow-my-father%E2%80%99s-footsteps/

Why a person is not married: https://healyourpastlife.wordpress.com/2013/01/16/why-a-person-is-not-married/

How Mind Affects Our Prana?

Read the first part of the article, “Increase Your Energy Levels” here: http://reachnaran.com/increase-your-energy-levels/

Naran

Anger and worry will reduce the Prana inside us. If Prana is reduced, then your physical vitality will also be reduced.

Within worry, there is fear and sadness. Anger has jealousy, envy, likes and dislikes behind it.

What will increase Prana then?

When you do yoga for example, it will and due to that, it stabilizes the physical stuff.

Prana also can be increased by having certain states of mind.

What are those mental states that increase the Prana and thus our degree of vitality levels?

According to Dr. Mikao Usui – the founder of Reiki, the following principles do that:

  •   Be honest

You should act with your conscience;

  •  Be kind to others – express kindness and love to others.

Even if you see a cockroach struggling to get up from its upside down position, you should help it, to regain its position. This single act alone can increase your Pranic energy thousand fold.

  •  Have an Attitude of Gratitude

For anything good done to us, we have to say thanks; especially for parents we have to keep on say love and thanks as we owe so much to them.

  •  Also say thanks to others – even to your enemy. He will become your friend then. Don’t have vengeance and hatred. They not only will sustain the enmity but will reduce Prana as well.

Even inanimate things like the house you live in – say thanks to them.

Increase Your Energy Levels

Naran

All over the world, everyone understands the existence of energy and the need of energy. 

A person to move from Anna Nagar to T. Nagar needs energy. Energy is available within us.

Energy can be Increased or Decreased

Within us, how are our energy levels are increased or decreased?

It depends on how we react to our life situations. If we are happy then energy will be in plenty. If not then that means we will have little energy.

Until our death energy is present. When somebody is dead we say Prana is not there.

We check their breath to find that out. Prana and breath are connected. They are not one and the same. Breath is in the body.

Body needs energy to carry on and that’s called as Prana or Reiki. Prana is increased or decreased by our minds.

Thanks to Reiki, people have found that we could manipulate the universal energy for the highest good of everybody concerned.

Reiki is…

  • Powerful and very subtle
  • All organs are working in coordination with the universal energy that’s Reiki.
  • Reiki is extending love and light to the cells of the body.
  • Wherever there is less energy we energise that area. We don’t do more than that.

Body, Mind and Prana are Interrelated

To sustain the physical body, we need food – healthy food. Our body grows if we are taking sufficiently good food. Then we are healthy.

After digestion is over everything is converted to oxygen and behind oxygen is Prana (so it increases too). They are bound to each other.

So, we should eat oxygen- rich food. If so, we will be healthy.

Unfortunately the food we eat doesn’t contain enough oxygen, thanks to environmental pollution.

I read in the newspaper, Apples that we import from Fiji and Washington contain nothing but carbon dioxide. When they are transported by airplanes, I believe they are infused with carbon dioxide.

Therefore, preferably we take seasonal fruits that are locally available. Even they are not grown properly these days.

Yet, we still manage to live because we have enough Prana to sustain us. If Prana is maintained well, health will be maintained too.

Read the next part of the article ‘How Mind Affects Our Prana”:  http://reachnaran.com/how-mind-affects-our-prana/

You Will Be Greeted With Love

Naran

Visualize all are talking with you in love and kindness.

Visualize everyone you meet and greet you with love.

Before attending a wedding (or any function), visualize all the people in the marriage hall greeting you with love and talking to you with loving words.

Affirm, “Divine Love Manifests in My Life” – from ‘I love myself’ CD

Related Posts

Love follows without fail: https://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/2012/12/10/love-follows-without-fail/

Relationship with Your Parents = Relationship with Others: https://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/07/30/relationship-with-your-parents-relationship-with-others/

Create Good Fortune and Luck

Naran

Preparation Steps

Think what fortune means for you.

Let us first find out the meaning of fortune. Now close your eyes and give a command to your mind like, “What is color of fortune?”

Whichever color strikes your mind then that is the color of your fortune.

Now draw a circle in a paper. Color it with whatever color you have found out to be your color of fortune.

Paste that paper on the wall in line with your eyes.

Mentally visualize the following steps

  1. Your Hara Centre (chakra) creates all your luck, fortune etc. Visualize a tube of your fortune color from your Hara Centre and touching the paper pasted on the wall.
  2. From the paper, the same color tube extends itself to touch your Heart Centre.
  3. From the Heart Centre to the Hara Centre another tube is present.
  4. By this you are forming a triangle.
  5. Meditate on this triangle for some time.

If you do this regularly, you will get good fortune and luck. Whatever luck comes from the Divine, let it come.

Affirm regularly, “Divine Love Creates Good Fortune” – from ‘I Love Myself’ CD

Related Posts

Change your misfortune: https://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2009/07/25/change-your-misfortune/

Debts, many thanks to you: https://abundancein.wordpress.com/2013/09/14/debts-many-thanks-for-leaving-me-alone/

How to criticize others?

SD

By nature I am very candid and not diplomatic.

Also, I am very open to negative feedback too, when someone is giving me a feedback – at home or at work.

However, at home (mine is a joint family), everyone dislikes me since I am very frank. Although, I am very efficient with house work and do not compromise on my duties.

One of my boss (I have 2 bosses) was very good to me and appreciated my work etc, until a while ago when I was frank in expressing some work-related issue.

Now one boss is still ok, since he knows that I am good at work and I am very frank – that is my nature.

Another boss is all angry with me and at every meeting makes sure that he puts me down or talks negatively when it comes to my work.

Can I chant something please, especially that both my husband and my boss should start appreciating me?

Naran 

If you want to maintain your candidness, you can get these only.

You do not point out the mistake only. You point out the good points also. If you want to point the mistake then do it with love.

Related Posts

Others will criticize me: http://studyforsuccess.wordpress.com/2013/03/13/afraid-people-will-criticize-me/

I feel small, when he criticizes me: https://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2010/01/19/i-feel-small-when-he-criticizes-me-%E2%80%93-a-case-history/

Divine Peace for Your Country

Vini

I wish we all could have a chant to heal the country smooth for political issues and…. surrounding the borders is all enemies. We all Indians pray for quick solution.

Naran

Write the place where you want peace. Do the circle method and write AGRIMONY in between the circles.

Chant AGRIMONY by holding the paper on hand daily for 10 minutes.

Or you can download a picture of AGRIMONY (Bach) flower and paste it on the paper, written with the name of the place.

Agrimony is a peacemaker.

Pray daily “Let India and Indians BE OPEN to the LOVE, BEAUTY and GRACE of the DIVINE PEACE”.

Related Post

The Peacemaker: http://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/07/04/the-peacemaker/

One drop of love will change him

A patient of Naran remarked about her spouse. He gave the following reply to her. These exercises however can be done anybody who wants to live harmoniously and be happy with them.

Naran

Look at oneself first

This is Drama of Life and if one understands, we will come to know, realize and understand that we have to bring in change in ourselves only.

We have to direct the mind towards oneself and then towards others. This is the basis of all healing modalities.

The nature always expects us to move towards perfection.

In this process, one understands not only the DIVINE ORDER, but also realizes that one has to rise above the mind and its tantrums, and become spiritual.

All healing methods help a person to understand his/her own potentials.

Others are mirrors of yourself

Before trying to change the other person do this exercise on you first.

Take a piece of paper and write about him first. Whatever you wanted to say about him write it.

  • Insert the word ‘I’ wherever you have put ‘He’.

For example, “He never takes the treatment properly and he escapes”, should be rewritten as “I never take the treatment properly. I escape.”

Change what all you have written about him Into I.

  • Now affirm, “I never take the treatment properly. I escape. In spite of this, I accept myself totally”.

Do three rounds of tapping for each sentence.

  • Do the forgiving exercise for them. “I forgive you …. (Name) you please forgive me and release me”.
  • Send Reiki to him daily.

Problem is the source of solution

Whoever is causing problem to you, can only give you solution.

Whoever irritates or angers you, can only give you peace. 

You cannot change your husband. You want him for your status and security. Then you have to heal yourself. Forgive.

  • You only have to make your life peaceful. For getting peace with such a person, you have to shed your ego and heal yourself.

Heal your controlling tendencies

Heal your anger and controlling tendency.

We always like people who comply or who just listen to us or obey us implicitly. That is why we want all the people to do this and that as well as agree with us, whatever we say.

When there is slight disagreement, dissent or difference of opinion, we may not like the person.

This dislike of the person who disagrees and the like of the person who agrees create conflicts in life.

  • Both are born from our controlling tendency – desire to control or change.  Release your desire to control and change others.

You have the power to heal him

What your husband needs attention, love and tolerance. Understand that he is mentally deranged, unlike we who are sane. The sane people are supposed to protect and understand such people.

When you ignore, chide, or send your husband away, who will take care of him?

The God has sent him to you, because you know Reiki.

God has sent him to you, because you know forgiving exercise and you know how to release your karma.

God has sent him to you because you know how to change yourself through flower remedies.

Heal him. This is how god has made him. One drop of love will change him. One iota of kindness can change.

Heal him from the heart. Sympathize with him. If he is the cause of your mental agony, how much he is suffering within mentally. Just help a man who needs help. Pray for him.

He is not a curse to you. He has not become your husband because of your bad karma.

He has come to you for healing. He is a grace for you.

Through him you spiritual journey starts! I hope you will start the Journey!!

Healing your womb state

Naran

On the date of (our) conception, we don’t know the state of our parents.

Let us see how to make them (at that time) into light and love. Then we will also become light and love – I mean we will become good.

We don’t know when we got conceived. So we will take one year before our date of birth and put our parents into light and love.

Healing steps

Form a silver triangle in front of you

All the unaligned non-divine memory frequencies of my past-life, my conception, and my parents that were carried in my womb state are released and kept in the silver triangle.

Other general steps…

Reiki open the green triangles, open my womb state, fill it up with light and love, align and resonate it with grace and rays of wealth and prosperity.

My womb state is open, aligning, and resonating with grace of joy and happiness.

My womb state is open, aligning, and resonating with grace of purity and peace.

My womb state is open, aligning and resonating with the grace of detachment and righteousness

My womb state is open, aligning and resonating with the grace of divine love, gratitude and forgiveness.

My womb state is open, aligning and resonating with the grace of intelligence and creativity, removing the ignorance.

My womb state is open, integrated with physical, mental and spiritual energies of light and love.

My womb state is filled up the grace of purity, peace, divine love, gratitude and forgiveness.

Divine light and love fills up the whole my womb state making it whole and complete.

My womb state is whole and complete with the help of Reiki light and love.

Post-healing

You are re-born. Very good!!

Womb changes into child. Did you feel your own womb state?

Mother is the first person to recognize us.

Mother is the first person to give us love, the taste of first love.

Mother is the first person to approve us and we want approval only. The moment we are born mother approves us.

Sometimes the mother may have different thoughts – for example they would have preferred a boy but a girl was born. Such thoughts were made complete by the meditation we had done now.

How can we complete this further? (Additional steps)

From the state of birth, to the current age divided by three, whatever we had experienced put it in the triangle. Let us say you are 45, do the healing from your date of birth till 15 years.

Healing using Violet Flame

The above techniques can be applied using Violet Flame and you don’t need to know Reiki to do the same. To know how to use Violet Flame healing for our past, please attend workshop on Violet Flame Past-Life Healing.

Affair with another man

S

My husband is having an affair with another man.

We live in same house but separate room since 7 yrs. He’s not interested in me.

We have two children. I want him to leave the house and go far from us as I’m only 33 yrs old and I want to start a fresh life.

Pls help me as I’m so lonely and feel rejected. Help me brother! I want a way out!!

Naran

  1. Chant “RUBY, HOLLY, VINE”.
  2. Write these names also in a notebook daily 51 times.

Explanation

To break the relationship with the husband: (Gem) Ruby.it gives the needed courage to start life independently.

To heal the rejected feeling and to re-align with the energy of love, HOLY and VINE will help, because the new life is to start with love in the heart.

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