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Chicory

The Bach Flower Remedy Chicory

Key words

Possessiveness, Self-Love, Self-Pity, Always Demanding, Noticeable, Attracting Attention

Indications

  • They try to attract others attention: for example, infants attract attention by crying when you leave them alone or we try to impress others sometimes by flattery.
  • Will be overeager to help.
  • They get angry, if they find no gratitude from the person benefited by them.
  • Their possessive nature can make the opposite person as a Centaury. Please note here, fear of rejection indicates a Centaury, while the person who instils a fear of rejection on others is Chicory.
  • Chicory will not give anything free – there is a hidden agenda behind every transaction he makes.
  • A Chicory person always attracts the attention of others.
  • Always demanding and expects a great deal from others.
  • He is possessive, extremely interfering, secretly manipulating and easily hurt.
  • He has a feeling of unwanted.
  • Over protection and too much parenting.
  • Constantly concerned with the affairs of the family, always interfering.
  • Behind all Chicory type, there lies a deep lack of fulfilment, often a feeling of not being loved.
  • Desires for company for his selfish ends.
  • He is a stingy person.
  • Easily offended or hurt – self-pity.
  • Pretending illness to attract others pity.
  • Always speaks about what others owe her.
  • Extremely nagging – the in-laws remedy.
  • Thinks, feels that everyone is there for his help.
  • Goes to the extent of weeping or pretending to be ill to get his things done.
  • There is constant fear of loss.
  • Emotional demanding always.
  • Behind the Chicory state, an internal emptiness is more.
  • Watching over the needs, wishes and progress of family and friends.
  • Always ready to comment, to correct others or to advise others.
  • The emotional control is subtle, making others dependent.
  • He will manipulate to impose his will.
  • The Chicory finds it hard to let go, feels easily offended or hurt; becomes ill to gain sympathy, always expecting others to live in the feeling of gratitude to her.
  • Chicory children throw temper tantrums.
  • The Chicory child will weep and get things done.
  • If weeping doesn’t pay, he will indulge in flattery or helps you in house hold work.
  • Always demanding, tries to seek attention.
  • The Chicory baby always wants her to be held in the lap all the time.
  • The Chicory child likes to be carried always.
  • Would weep if said anything.
  • Over care and over concern for hurt feelings.
  • Always seeks company.
  • Heart Chakra is closed for Chicory people.  Pray to Chicory to be active in the Heart Chakra.

Chicory says

  • Threatening: “I will do homework, but I will not go to the music class.  If you agree for my condition, then I will finish up all my homework now”.
  • “I am angry at his ingratitude, and he cheated me. I have done so much to him” – Chicory + Chestnut bud.
  • Chicory person makes others feel guilty by saying, “You have just used me.”
  • “After all that I have done for you, this is how you treat me”.
  • “I have given her a sari on her birthday and all that I get from her on my birth day is a card.”
  • Emotional black mailing – “How can I live without you?”
  • “Think of what I have done for you” and then bursting in to tears.
  • “My dear son, I miss you so much, the house is vacant.”
  • He sometimes become ill, he may resort to black mail. “I will study after this, if you allow me to browse the Internet.”
  • “People should respect me.”

Ailments

  • Eating disorders
  • Hysterical Neurosis  – convulsion type
  • Histrionic personality disorder

Usage

  • “Live and let live” is the positive Chicory.
  • Chicory + Walnut – when the child starts schooling
  • Chicory + Walnut – for a second wife
  • Chicory + Star of Bethlehem – if a person whom you love is dead
  • Chicory – for separation.
  • Chicory: I want love and attention
  • Chicory: I feel that nobody recognises my importance
  • Chicory: I have a fear of loneliness
  • Chicory: I feel I am neglected
  • Chicory: I feel unloved by my loved ones
  • Chicory: Others say that I am of a highly interfering type
  • Chicory: I can’t be alone; I always need company
  • Chicory: I often enjoy giving my opinions and advice to others; but I feel hurt/offended when they reject my advice
  • Mimulus, Chicory: My child stays close to my side; rarely goes alone; does nothing alone
  • Chicory: Cries a lot when starting for the school
  • Chicory, Mimulus: The child becomes upset even if mildly criticized
  • Mimulus, Chicory: Burst into tears for no apparent reason
  • Chicory: The child clings to mother

Benefits of Healing Throat Chakra

Naran

This is the fifth chakra. It is also called as the Communication Chakra.

This chakra is connected with our lungs, larynx and throat. It is our communication channel. It takes care of our communication and determines how we relate to this world.

If I speak with love, then others will speak with love

When we hear good things, it will expand. That’s why Satsang (group of good thinkers) is important.Speak well and hear good things are the messages of this chakra.

Keep silent as when you open your mouth only bad stuff come out. Though, when there is love – thanks to good functioning of Heart Chakra, only good and kind words will come out.

When we talk, more energy is lost. The best way to get energy for the Throat Chakra is to do listening.

Only when we listen, we will know which is divine and which is not. While listening we will know the power of divine. Therefore, ‘listen properly’ is the message from Throat Chakra.

More silence more energy

There is a saying, ‘Mounam Sarvartha Sadhagam’, which means silence is a big tool. In silence, we get more energy. Guru is silent. Through silence we communicate so many things.

To know divinity and to know what to do we have to remain silent. It also means silence in thoughts. There is no point in having continuous thoughts in your head and say “we are practicing silence”.

When I need to communicate then?

While remaining silent if it still creates problems, then if we open our mouth there will be more problems. Communicate appropriately is the message from Throat Chakra.

You told your son one hundred times to study well. Yet he did not listen.

Therefore, your communication has failed to serve its objective, which is to make him understand. If he hasn’t, then why should we keep advising?

Right communication should be preceded by silence. Therefore, practice it!

Your talents will be known to the world

Throat and Hara Chakras are connected.

When our talents are not known to the world then it shows the Throat Chakra is not functioning well.

When you want the world to know about it, give Reiki to the Throat Chakra as well as Hara Chakra (keep one hand in Hara and another in Throat).

Then your talent will be exposed, recognition in office (in outside world) will improve.

To get the right appreciation, give Reiki to your Throat Chakra.

Thanks to throat we will communicate better. Our lives also get better, for all our relationships get spoiled because of miscommunication – in all misunderstandings, we need to balance the Throat Chakra.

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Need not be afraid to give presentations

Rama Rao

I want to share my experience and express my gratitude.

On June 20’14 our VP was arriving from Hong Kong to meet us and see how we were performing.

Our manager asked us to prepare individual presentation to show what we have been doing here since we joined and tell him about our contribution towards this business growth. 

This was the first time in my service of 12 years I was giving a presentation. I had no good ideas about presentation but I am top performer in my team. 

I was afraid I am working in this company for last 5.8 years now and if I do not present well then people might doubt about my ability, I was nervous. 

I started reading the blog and found one situation matching with mine and then I call Shobana madam and asked if I can follow the below and she suggested yes its good while attending any meetings.

What I did the before day of the meeting?

Made 2 concentric circles

  1. One with my name in the centre and WATER VIOLET, LARCH, GENTIAN and WILD ROSE in the outer circles in that order
  2. Another one with my name in the centre along with the person I was making the presentation to, date and location and ELM, GORSE and HEATHER in the outer circles in that order.

Kept these two papers in my file and started my day chanting Ambika mantra;

Tons of thanks to Naran, this amazingly worked out, sequence of what happened:

  1. As I got into the office, the VP was just come in car behind me; I was the first to meet him and wished him good morning. 
  2. I was so confident and we went to the meeting room again all the seats we occupied and only one chair next to VP was left. I had no choice but to sit. He started talking to me while other team members were quite nervous, I was not and was very casual with him
  3. I was the last to share my presentation and it was really amazing that is was not nervous at any point and was able to present well about our team work.  Our VP told it is good to see my presentation where I have used some words which no one has used. I was very happy.

The day was very smooth. We had lunch with him and our manager was very happy that we all presented well very on the day.

Once again thank you, we are blessed to have you on earth sent by god to advise how to lead life easily.

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Improve your English communication

Madhavi

My English communication is very poor.

Naran

Chant “TOGETHER CERATO BETWEEN NOW”

Explanation

To improve communication between any two individuals: BETWEEN

Learn a language: CERATO

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Fulfill your desires easier

Kamakshi

I have gone through your blogs. Lalitham mantras are fantastic and working well.

My family’s deity is Lord Muruga. For this can I chant “LALITHAM SUBRAMANYAM LALITHAM KUMAARAM LALITHAM SHANMUGAM”?

M has the power to go in easily, which I read it from your site only. Hence, this idea has aroused to me. Please clarify.

Naran

Your coining is wonderful. I think Lord Muruga is suggesting this through your question.

Whenever we want to have anything for us, we also should think in what way it can be useful for others. Through your coining of words, I am asked by the divine to explain.

Lalitham makes us always secured. Kumaaram protects us like Mother. In other words, when our mother is there beside us, we feel safe; we are confident; we are assured to get what we need (it is not “what we want”).

The one beauty with this combination is that you can chant this at anytime and surrender intending “He knows when to fulfill anything (for me) at the right time”.

Shanmugam is strengthening our link with the Mother Earth.

“GAM” is for steady abundance.

When it is coined with “Sha” your receiving capacity will increase. 

“SUBRAMANYAM” (don’t say Maniam, but say Manyam) acts both on our Manipura and Heart chakras, releasing our ego and replacing it with Love.

When all the three “LALITHAM SUBRAMANYAM LALITHAM KUMAARAM LALITHAM SHANMUGAM” is chanted what will happen?

You will get the feeling that you are the child of God. What else we need in this life?

Best of luck

Life is Divine

“I Trust Life” – from the “I Love Myself” Workbook

Naran

1.       So far divine has taken care of you in this life. In what ways you are divinely guided or helped?

My Life is Divine

I trust life means, I trust Divine. Life is Divine – the one energy which is leading my life.

How can you cultivate the trust in the Divine?

So far we have lived our life, which has been taken care of by the Divine.

This we can understand by the happening of certain events and situations. In certain important events you would have felt the presence of Divine.

2.       You must identify such events and situations. You must identify, in what ways you were helped or guided?

This we can understand only when we go deeper and find out.

Sometimes, your life has been saved by the Divine. In some situations, you would have cancelled your journey and that plane or train would have met with an accident.

Our very presence proves the existence of Divine

My very presence is because of the Divine, somebody is giving me something, and I am living. My very living is the proof that some Divine is protecting me, nurturing me, nourishing me, and guarding me.

Healing has come to us and it’s a great boon

Everybody cannot come into the healing profession.

How ignorant people are? Who has brought me in this line? Which has made me learn so many healing techniques?

So then, I am not an ordinary human being. The Divine wants to me to learn more and move spiritually at the same time.

In this profession, we cannot find out concrete profit. But lot of changes will take place in our mind, in our life and the way we look at life.  

If a problem comes for a common man then he will start worrying, go to temple and pray. But, what we will do?

We will do the necessary healing and that too with a mentality of non-attachment to the result.

Why do we need to have a fear of future?

When the Divine is doing so much for me, why not divine will protect me in future also? Why should I fear about my future?

Whenever the fear or worry comes, repeat the words, “I TRUST LIFE”.

When you say these words, you feel confident, thinking, “So far the Divine has protected me. Even here afterwards the Divine will protect me. Therefore, why should I worry?”

How to solve your problems?

If there is any problem means we are not submitting ourselves to the Divine Order and we fail to see the Divine Order in operation.

When we fail to see the Divine Order in operation, we lack in love.

When you chant the switch words, “CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE ORDER”, it completes the love, and problem is solved.

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Lift me from my limitations

Hakesh

I have son who’s 4 years now. I am a worried lot about him. He started talking very late and he’s very slow in studying. I teach him and he forgets next minute.

Every time we go to school they tell he’s very slow. I want my son to study well grasp quicker and be good human and disciplined child. I want him to get A+ in all his exams.

Naran

Chant “SLOW CARE 398” over a glass of water and give that water to him.

In addition, chant “LIFT KIND DIVINE LIGHT” 100 times over a glass of water and give to the child separately.

Explanation

To lift him from his limitations: LIFT KIND DIVINE LIGHT (from SAVITRI)

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Speak with confidence

SK

Please guide me on Bach flower to gain confidence and self-esteem.

I am very afraid to talk on the phone & cannot order at fast food places. I cannot say anything no words come out of mouth.

Even kids make fun of me and laugh at me as I speak with no confidence.

Naran

Take the flower remedies MIMULUS, LARCH, and PINE each two pills three times a day.

Explanation

Afraid to talk/fearful: MIMULUS

Lack of confidence, especially for mid-life crisis: LARCH

Low self-esteem: PINE

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Ravi Kiran Ruchi Karan Paripooranan

Like Sun, Shine, and Stay at the Top

Ravi means Sun in Sanskrit.

This mantra heals Tamo Guna (type of characteristic or personality), which stands for laziness, lethargy, and procrastination.

For stability (of life) also, this mantra will work.

When you are not sure of the position in the office, or when you are afraid you will be transferred, this mantra will help.

To open one’s eyes of those who is going on wrong path, this mantra can be used.

This mantra is also for abundance. That is, it will stop the loss. Any loss making business if we keep chanting this mantra will help us to handle it.

I would not say loss would be wiped out completely but first loss will be stopped; then profitability would start coming. Business will also become stable soon after.

Question – When someone is going on wrong path, can we chant for the person – to open their eyes? Can we just say their name and chant this mantra for them?

Answer – Yes, that is right. That is all we can do. Or you can also chant over a glass of water and give it to that person. Any mantra can be chanted over a tumbler of water and given daily.

This mantra is based on Bhagavat Geeta, 16th chapter, 23rd Sloka. Though, in that, these words would not be there. To make one person to go on right path this is the mantra.

No Words to Express Kindness of Divine

Sandhya Varma

My grandson    who will soon be 3 years old was not speaking clearly.  My daughter took him to a therapist, who indicated that the child may be mildly Autistic.

Extremely worried I came and asked Naran for help.  He asked me to chant “LIFT KIND DIVINE”.

Hardly four days after, I started chanting. Soon after, the therapist changed her view and said he may be just a late talker. 

Amazingly, not only he started talking, but also compiling sentences, e.g., “Bye, see you, drive there”.

I am amazed and thankful to Naran for this turn of events.

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