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If What is going to happen will happen, Why to chant?
Bhavi
In the past, I have chanted, prayed a lot, with full faith in universal divine force. But, I was always told you can’t change anything. What is going to happen will happen? Nobody can change anything.
I still have faith and trust. However, I always had a question in mind then why do we pray and chant the mantras if they are not going to bring positivity to the concerned situation?
Is it fear of something negative happening to us and our family, which brings us, back again to chanting and praying?
Naran
You cannot always get what you want. Sometimes, you can get what you don’t want. These are two life rules, which we have to accept.
It is the mind which plays the game. If something does not happen, we wallow; if something happens, we elate. How long is this elation?
After some time, we need something else and again mental emotional drama begins. It is because we attach importance to the result only and not to the action.
If the action is done, and the result is surrendered, you will remain peaceful always.
Ultimately, what we want in life is either peace or happiness. To get happiness or peace is the aim of all.
Surrendering the result to the hands of Divine only can give you peace or happiness. Chanting or healing aims at changing the mind to accept what is happening.
Best of luck!!
Not ready to go for a divorce
Anita
I am really tired of waiting to get initiation/news, words from my husband as he is not at all in contact with me or my family for last 2 months. We all tried very much but failed.
I am doing forgiving exercise for husband and my MIL more than 25 days now, but still no result or reply from his end.
Everybody in my family is asking me to take decision and to divorce him and start new life. But I am really not ready to do so.
Sometimes, I wonder why this person marries me, if he really doesn’t have any regards or interest in family life.
Naran
Chant “BEECH, WILLOW, PINE, WALNUT” for a month
Explanation
See events from different angle: BEECH
Stop blaming anybody for what happened: WILLOW
Come out of the thought of “One’s bad karma”: PINE
Purpose of Tapping
(From Multi-Dimensional Healing June 27 Workshop)
Naran
Simple way of tapping/EFT
Pull the entire 10 fingers one at a time as well as the gamut point (it’s the hollow place between the front little and ring fingers).
For any type of problem, pull each finger and tap on gamut, and affirm “I accept myself totally”.
What does the affirmation means?
It means that I accept my life situation, the event, as well as my feelings and my thoughts.
How to make sure we are not influenced by a situation?
Situation is one percent, our reaction is 99%. It becomes bothersome or problematic because of our own mind.
You are watching an accident on the road. A person riding a motor cycle had met with an accident.
The mother of the person, who was watching it happen, will react more strongly than others. Same event but reactions are different.
Our habit is to react emotionally. If we don’t have connection to the situation, I am not affected. Who gives this link? Isn’t it the mind?
If you do tapping then you will come out of the panic situation.
Why should you come out of the panic situation?
Then you can help, as you have a calm and tranquil mind. You will react calmly and do the necessary. Instead we overreact and spoil the whole thing.
Solving mathematical problems
AA
What should a student do who gets disturbed if he is not able to solve one sum out of 10 sums in practical papers? He also gets one step wrong in each sum.
Do you have some solutions to deal with practical exam papers?
Naran
What for you want remedies? Not to get disturbed? Or for putting sums rightly?
AA
In practical exams like Maths, if 10 sums are asked, the student solves 9 sums but at least one step he does wrong in each sum and then one sum he lefts totally.
Finally, he gets depressed or disturbed by that thinking he has not given 100% in paper.
Naran
If one does not understand the basics of Maths MUSTARD flower remedy will help him understand the subject well.
Unable to learn from the mistakes is CHESTNUTBUD.
The combination of Mustard and Chestnut bud will make any one understand and learn the subject well.
Any student will regret the mistakes he committed in the exam. Not to regret, is HONEY SUCKLE.
Be in a place of financial abundance
JEENA
My financial situation is getting worse by the day.
I have too many loans and liabilities and not enough income to match the same. And every month some new expense comes up.
I am feeling numb now with stress and worry. Not able to find a new job which will pay me more. Now, I am feeling so low and helpless.
Don’t know what to do to get out of this situation and be at a place of financial abundance or at least where I don’t have to worry about how to pay my rents, meet my parents’ medical expenses, food etc.
Naran
Chant “BLUE SAPPHIRE, GREEN TOURMALINE”
Explanation
Reduce your debts: BLUE SAPPHIRE
Solution finder: GREEN TOURMALINE
Related Posts
Resolve your financial issues: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2011/11/14/resolve-your-financial-issues/
Kill Your Debts: http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2013/01/14/kill-your-debts/
Debts, many thanks to you: http://abundancein.wordpress.com/2013/09/14/debts-many-thanks-for-leaving-me-alone/
Harmony with neighbor
M
Our neighbour is angry due to misunderstanding.
In a day, we have to face each other in a day many times and she keeps turning her face. Even her other family members are behaving in the same way.
What can I chant to create harmony?
Naran
Chant “AGRIMONY, HEATHER”
M
I was chanting “AGRIMONY, HEATHER” many times a day. My relationship with my neighbour has improved now.
Related Posts
The Peacemaker: http://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/07/04/the-peacemaker/
No words to describe my joy: http://divineshakthi.wordpress.com/2013/09/08/no-words-to-describe-my-joy/
Convince others easily: http://reachnaran.com/convince-others-easily/
Roles People Play
Reddy
Quite often, we are required to play different roles with respect to the same person. In the process lot of misunderstandings occur due to perception at both ends.
At work, we have a subordinate who is also a friend. This friend does not play his role in the office as required.
In the role of a friend, you try to protect him in various ways besides telling him / her about the problems in a friendly manner.
However, if it is not adhered to, it may go the extreme end that you may even need to terminate him/her. It is a very difficult choice. You are torn between both the roles.
In the earlier days, we could take a very dharmic stand and take decisions.
However, now we are required to play a role negotiating happiness for various people in the name of Professionalism / Management etc and suffer.
At home, we have to act as a Parent, Friend, Teacher, friend to your kids.
Often a role is over played by each of the participant resulting in clashes and misunderstanding. Each forgets that they are over stepping on the other role due to inherent flair for one.
Thus, a parent who is generally has a strong Vasanas of a Teacher in making, preaches more and is not able to know when to cut off and act as a friend.
Please give your recommendation to solve the above by way of flower remedy.
Naran
Whatever the role we play, let us ask a simple question.
What is that we lack in any role?
Basically, every relationship is based on communication. How do we communicate? What do we communicate? What do we want to communicate?
The objective of any communication is to reach out to the other person.
BEECH is the remedy for improving our communication.
What are the negative mental states of Beech?
- Unable to understand other man’s point of view
- Unable to appreciate other man’s priorities
- Intolerance
- Fault-finding
- Desire to control or change the other person
If one is in one of the above mental states, right communication will not take place. Here, how Beech can help us?
BEECH can bridge the gap between two persons and makes one understand other man’s point of view.
WALNUT should be taken along with Beech. Walnut can bring in change in the mind. A changed outlook and a changed view will give a different communication tool.
For you Mr. Reddy, in addition to taking BEECH and WALNUT, you take CENTAURY also, while communicating in the office.
“What would my friend think? Will he be hurt, if I say this?” These expressions belong to negative mental state of Centaury.
Rushrush
Wonderfully explained….your site is a healthy addiction.
I feel the need to read it like a holy book everyday…sorting out life’s many questions and seeking the right answer….
I follow so many remedies you advice, go through the topics so many times, sometimes apply my 2 cents worth as well….analyse life’s situation from a different angle….
I have changed so much in my mind and heart…..all because of being a part of this wonderful site and your guidance!!!!
Thank you ever so much…….Naran….THERE’s still so much to absorb from you……..regards……
Doing Well in the Examination Hall
Naran
During the examination, a student makes silly and careless mistakes. Probably due to lack of time, he is writing answers without any thinking.
While going through the question paper, he may find a question, for which he doesn’t know the answer.
He will become restless suddenly and will start writing the exam hastily. So his answers will tend to be wrong.
He may also go into a negative HORNBEAM state. Starting problem leads to mental weariness.
Immediately a crisis of confidence may occur – ELM.
A sudden regression may lead to sudden loss of memory – state of GENTIAN, and nothing seems to be remembered.
To avoid all these possible negative states in the examination hall, one can take the following flower remedies:
- Impatiens: not to do anything in a hurry
- Hornbeam: overcome mental weariness
- Elm: overcome any sudden crisis of confidence
- Gentian: prevents any regression and
- Wild Rose: when you try to speed up doing something, your mind has to be calm. Wild rose gives that to you and will liven up your enthusiasm throughout the examination. Also, you will have plenty of time to complete the exam!
Related Posts
Impatiens Discussion with Naran: http://reachnaran.com/impatiens-discussion-with-naran/
Deserve A Better Life Through Reiki: http://healbyreiki.wordpress.com/2009/08/09/deserve-a-better-life-through-reiki/
Exam Mantra: https://studyforsuccess.wordpress.com/2013/11/05/exam-mantra/