Posts tagged husband

One drop of love will change him

10 years ago
by admin in

A patient of Naran remarked about her spouse. He gave the following reply to her. These exercises however can be done anybody who wants to live harmoniously and be happy with them.

Naran

Look at oneself first

This is Drama of Life and if one understands, we will come to know, realize and understand that we have to bring in change in ourselves only.

We have to direct the mind towards oneself and then towards others. This is the basis of all healing modalities.

The nature always expects us to move towards perfection.

In this process, one understands not only the DIVINE ORDER, but also realizes that one has to rise above the mind and its tantrums, and become spiritual.

All healing methods help a person to understand his/her own potentials.

Others are mirrors of yourself

Before trying to change the other person do this exercise on you first.

Take a piece of paper and write about him first. Whatever you wanted to say about him write it.

  • Insert the word ‘I’ wherever you have put ‘He’.

For example, “He never takes the treatment properly and he escapes”, should be rewritten as “I never take the treatment properly. I escape.”

Change what all you have written about him Into I.

  • Now affirm, “I never take the treatment properly. I escape. In spite of this, I accept myself totally”.

Do three rounds of tapping for each sentence.

  • Do the forgiving exercise for them. “I forgive you …. (Name) you please forgive me and release me”.
  • Send Reiki to him daily.

Problem is the source of solution

Whoever is causing problem to you, can only give you solution.

Whoever irritates or angers you, can only give you peace. 

You cannot change your husband. You want him for your status and security. Then you have to heal yourself. Forgive.

  • You only have to make your life peaceful. For getting peace with such a person, you have to shed your ego and heal yourself.

Heal your controlling tendencies

Heal your anger and controlling tendency.

We always like people who comply or who just listen to us or obey us implicitly. That is why we want all the people to do this and that as well as agree with us, whatever we say.

When there is slight disagreement, dissent or difference of opinion, we may not like the person.

This dislike of the person who disagrees and the like of the person who agrees create conflicts in life.

  • Both are born from our controlling tendency – desire to control or change.  Release your desire to control and change others.

You have the power to heal him

What your husband needs attention, love and tolerance. Understand that he is mentally deranged, unlike we who are sane. The sane people are supposed to protect and understand such people.

When you ignore, chide, or send your husband away, who will take care of him?

The God has sent him to you, because you know Reiki.

God has sent him to you, because you know forgiving exercise and you know how to release your karma.

God has sent him to you because you know how to change yourself through flower remedies.

Heal him. This is how god has made him. One drop of love will change him. One iota of kindness can change.

Heal him from the heart. Sympathize with him. If he is the cause of your mental agony, how much he is suffering within mentally. Just help a man who needs help. Pray for him.

He is not a curse to you. He has not become your husband because of your bad karma.

He has come to you for healing. He is a grace for you.

Through him you spiritual journey starts! I hope you will start the Journey!!

Affair with another man

10 years ago
by admin in

S

My husband is having an affair with another man.

We live in same house but separate room since 7 yrs. He’s not interested in me.

We have two children. I want him to leave the house and go far from us as I’m only 33 yrs old and I want to start a fresh life.

Pls help me as I’m so lonely and feel rejected. Help me brother! I want a way out!!

Naran

  1. Chant “RUBY, HOLLY, VINE”.
  2. Write these names also in a notebook daily 51 times.

Explanation

To break the relationship with the husband: (Gem) Ruby.it gives the needed courage to start life independently.

To heal the rejected feeling and to re-align with the energy of love, HOLY and VINE will help, because the new life is to start with love in the heart.

Magic can happen!!!

10 years ago
by admin in

Varsha P

I came across SWITCH WORD concept in August 2013. I was very much amused and fascinated by this.

And specially after reading knowledgeable and useful blogs of Naran, I believed though there are miseries, unwanted situations, fear in our life, we can definitely CHANGE them with such wonderful gifts of nature – BACH FLOWERS and ANIMAL SPIRITS.

There are many day-to–day life situations and events, where I and my family members are using and applying Switch words, mantra and Bach flower remedy.

In my case, success was not 100%, but still I very much believe in this knowledge.

Magical Experience

In February’2014, I was travelling to Bangalore with my friend. Our flight was in morning and got delayed for 3 times.

We were having breakfast at Coffee shop (CCD) that is at another extreme end, very far from our terminal gate. As flight got delayed again, we were relaxed.

I was feeling very drowsy as I had got up very early to reach the airport. And other friend was busy on her phone. Somehow, we totally forgot to check time.

And when we checked our watch, we just ran!! We saw, our boarding gate was closed.

We requested them, to open it but they were not authorized to do so. We could see our flight in front of us, but couldn’t get in.

In that panic moment, I called up WOLF and FOX (I recalled this suddenly, while dealing with officials and airport staff call Fox). Then next thing was rescheduling of our flight and taking our luggage back.

All the time I was talking to WOLF. We knew that there will be a great price hike for current Ticket and we were upset about that.

I was in complete hopeless stage, as for this trip my Husband was in a denial mood. Since morning he kept talking, “You are going to miss your flight.”

My friends said that she can bear hike up to Rs. 5000 or so. I didn’t think about any amount. Somehow there was faith that some magic is going to happen.

Even I asked my friend, not to produce any intentions/ vibrations regarding money.

While waiting to claim baggage and cancellation of tickets, I called up Shobana Madam.

She told me to chant, and write these flower names on paper, and to keep it in hand while dealing with authorities, “WATER VIOLET, ROCK WATER, GENTIAN, WILD ROSE”

Immediately, I prepared 2 chits of paper for both of us. I told my friend, not to talk any money part at all. But she keeps on saying that she can bear 5000 Rs. and I kept chanting.

1st magic moment – we got our luggage very soon. Girl at counter exclaimed with wonder that how we got our luggage so early n fast!

2nd magical moment – at ticket counter, we went to reissue next ticket for afternoon flight. We gave our old tickets, to subtract that much amount from current fare.

And to my wonder, I couldn’t believe this, when they said, “You need not to pay anything!”  I got ZERO hikes for next flight, and my friend paid 5600 Rs hike. There was a sigh of relief!!

I thanked everything – Bach flowers, Animal guide, Shobanaji, airport staff, Cell phone – thru which I made calls, and many more things and thanked that SITUATION, which taught me many lessons.

Last but not least, after arrival at Bangalore, we got few co-passengers till our destination, which again saved our excess expenditure on Taxi.

I don’t know what MAGIC was behind this. But YES, Magic does happen! Only you need to trust it, deep within your heart.

Reduce Your Pain

10 years ago
by admin in

V

My husband is having severe pain in left leg (thigh), since last 3 days and its increasing day by day.

Naran

Chant “CALM BEAR DIVINE GLORY” over a glass of water and give him.

Explanation

The switch words will help one to CALMLY BEAR the pain, thanks to the DIVINE and heal the attention, you needed (GLORY).

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In-laws are separating us

10 years ago
by admin in

MALS

I have been chanting “BE TINY BOW CONCEDE TOGETHER PRAISE DIVINE”, but no response yet.

Please help as everybody from my in-laws side are doing everything to separate us and are also not allowing me to come back home.

My husband has also not communicated to me since past 5 months.

They had sent us notice 5 months back and are also not ready to talk to any of my family members to sort things.

I love him lot and want to save our marriage.

Naran

Do the forgiving exercise for your in-laws.

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Working long hours

10 years ago
by admin in

Sree

My husband is in a software company and he wants to move out of it. He leaves home by 7:30AM and comes back only midnight after 12 daily!!!

As he is having more than 20 years of software experience, he is finding it difficult to get a job elsewhere.

Naran

Ask him to chant “ADJUST TOGETHER CHANGE DIVINE ORDER NOW”.

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Children are intelligent than their parents

10 years ago
by admin in

Sree

Whenever I sit to do mudras before sleeping, my daughter too sits with me but does only Thumb with little and ring fingers (Safe and Secure Mudra).

If I request her to do chin mudra she says no and leaves me. So, I stopped interfering in her meditation techniques. Why is she not doing chin mudra?

She sings with me Namashivayam for 5 times, rhythm with or without CD. Durgama also she sings along with the CD if she is awake by then as I play it by 5.30 am.

I can see the changes in her (touch wood). She listens to me, and obeys me when I request her.

She is completing her homework soon. I allow her to watch cartoon only for 45 minutes and she is okay with it. I am happy with her. I did the accepting exercise for her.

Whenever I try to heal her Solar Plexus and Hara chakras she pulls my hand tightly to her body strongly. Do I need to give more time to heal these chakras?

I am also using harmony pack. I can see the difference.

My husband who used to get irritated for helping me in my daughter’s dressing for school, is now helping me, without me asking or requesting.

The left out harmony water I am pouring to Tulasi plant as we don’t have any other plant. And I can see the plant is healthy and growing tall and fresh.

Thank you, it’s all because of your remedies and your blessing.

Explanation

Chin Mudra will keep us awake, while Safe and Secure Mudra will make us have a deep sleep.

Children are intuitive enough to know where they need energy. So she is forcing the mother to give Reiki to those areas.

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Husband is angry, while I am smiling

10 years ago
by admin in

Sreelu 

I am chanting “OM HREEM TAHA” and also giving it to my family members. I feel good.

I am even chanting it holding my husband’s photo and my daughters too, as ours is a short-tempered family. I am feeling a difference in the way we are handling things.

When my husband is angry I am smiling and answering. Sometimes, he is ignoring my comments.

However, I see good results. How many days shall I continue doing this?

Naran

Continue.

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Trying hard to build our house

10 years ago
by admin in

AVI

I and my husband have been trying hard to build our house since last year. Because of insufficient money we are unable to complete the house till now.

My husband works very hard and has to work many night and days consecutively.

Naran

  1. Take the flower remedies MUSTARD, OAK and HORNBEAM – 3 doses of 2 pills each.
  2. Have a picture of CORAL in the pocket.

Explanation

No solution in sight to find source of funds: MUSTARD

Working hard but with no favorable results: OAK and HORNBEAM

Gem remedy CORAL belongs to earth element. Anything concerned with land and building can be healed by Coral.

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Don’t be overly concerned

10 years ago
by admin in

Jaya

My husband is having low thyroid problem (taking Allopathy medicine for last 4 years). Recently, he was diagnosed with osteoarthritis of wrist and back (initial changes started).

Naran

You can chant “RED CHESTNUT” to come out of your worry about your husband. This will help him also.

Explanation

When you are overly concerned about your near and dear ones, the Bach Flower Remedy RED CHESTNUT will help you to come out of it.

This will help in turn help the recovery of the concerned people – that’s the quantum rule.

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